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daretodiffer:
Someone is very bitter. You are the mad one here

*ignore mode activated*

they've left the issues to attack personality

You must also have a hand in his aunt's death.buhahaha

daretodiffer:
LOLZ.

Who knew some men can be frustrated and bittered?

if it was the other way round you will have seen the loosers lamenting all over the thread that it's the wayward wife's ways that killed the husband prematurely

As for those I have no business with cooking It's the work of a woman. Name unavailable end be this.leaving what enters into your system at the mercy of a woman. Make unable no learn how to cook.sidon for no dey brag I'm a man.

If the man is a domestically lazy slob it serves him right

jhuzcoyle:
you didn't know she was dead? you self lie pas Ameachi wey neva collect bribe before.

I know u ain't blind, that means u didn't read the OP's story to learn something rather u just wanted to o attack the OP.

BTW all liars will go to hell

you deserve This. I was eating this while reading your comments.iya join me before it finishes

harsysky:
My summary ; coined from my heart. " if a man is not ready to marry, dnt marry. I've had enough of "men are polygamous in nature." Marriage is not by force! Enough of these cheatings in Marriages. I don't think I caN stand a cheating wife. I cud even die imagining it.

one of the few sensible men that can think with his brain not his penis

daretodiffer:
Beat me?

Joker!

haha I'm so with you on your point. No wonder they're filled with bile for exposing their hypocrisy

Glare247:
. With due respect,check the meaning of shy in ur dictionary,those couple are shy

of ?

Your opinion and you're entitled to it.i will buy phone for my daughter when i feel the need arises for her to use phone before paedophiles start luring her with phone. We live in a dangerous generation already

FlySly05:
I don't mean to insult you though but you are one of the things that is wrong with parenting even if you are not a parent yet. Just because you can afford the luxury doesnt mean the kids should have all the things all the time. There should be restriction, appropriate restrictions.

By the way I hope this makes front page given how enlightening this is, you can imagine the sort of crap that makes front page these days.

Kimoni:
...he drove a Range Rover...he lodged you in an expensive hotel...six months later you married him...you were desperate

...you sponsored your wedding...he told you to bypass traditional rites...he beats you...he is not who he says he is

This is a typical case of armed robber catch thief

KanwuliaJara:
Erm?
Please, wiarrris the "POSU"?

the Matter on ground na

As per this thread.your input

hotD:
@toonoisy-am not generalizing o,I know quite a number of men that don't think that way....and some wants a woman to give them the whole world while they have a ball without her demanding any form of accountability from them,demanding for that makes them feel ure controlling or a feminist...
In marriage I believe both parties should have expect ions,am faithful to u,u too be faithful,I endure ure excesses,u too endure mine,if it's one sided u would end up draining the love out of that person

what does the D stand for in your Monica?

Kimoni:
this your queshion cracked me up sooo bad. Na wa o Kulyie, you go fear comparison naa

it's true na.

The rules here everyday on top this marriage Matter pass the process of applying for a new atm card

freethinker01:
Hell to the noooo.
I can't just allow ma kids to be caned, it doesn't just make any sense tho ma parents used it on me countless times, i would say it doesn't have any effect on me.
Rods are meant for animals n criminals nah.

exactly my thought. Abi do they want to say that the criminals we have today weren't also canned

EfemenaXY:
It should never get to the point where one or the other resorts to blows just to get their point(s) across. Not everyone can hold back when hit. For some, retaliation is an instant, reflex action - and you don't need to be told how dangerous this could be for the woman at the receiving end. All it takes is just one punch landing on the wrong spot, at that could be it for her.

Don't get me wrong, disagreements are bound to crop up in any relationship, but how it's handled is what counts - the true test of maturity more like.

When such a situation arises, one or both partners should immediately diffuse the situation by walking out. Don't slug it out till it gets to the point where tempers are running so high that blows get lashed out. Additionally, whoever throws the punch should be reported. I know in the UK, once the police get involved, the man would be taken out of the house and forced to cool his heels for the night in a cell. Having the possibility of a criminal record will definitely "help" him have a re-think of ever laying a finger on his spouse again, no matter the provocation, and has proven to be a deterrent for many would-be-domestically-inclined-abusers.

For what it's worth, I think it should work both ways - why? Because strange as it may sound to many, some men are, and can be the vulnerable ones in a relationship.

there's a Yoruba addage that institutionalizes violence especially domestic violence. It says you don't sue a person to court,leave the court and expect to be friends in other words women are afraid that from court to divorce and the ones afraid are those that depend 100percenent on their husband for everything financially. And they feel they're old unattractive and so no one will employ them or marry them.where do theh want to start their lives after the husband sends them away soon after he's released from prison.hence divorce can only be a little convenient for a woman that has a source of income. How about those who don't. Is it the women Non governmental organisations
or court or friends that adviced her to report her husband to the police that will provide a roof over her head or give her a job

Why's the woman looking sad dejected and uninterested. The groom and the participants look happy while she looks like she was coerced to marry the man against her will
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LordOfTheWeed:
POC: She is an olosho, not an ashawo.. .. .. Olosho is different from ashawo!!!

what's the difference please

Let me dress back

Miami11:
If she is crazy znd deranged she gives out part of her cheque.

fart:
Ehen? He has spoken the truth. What is here to be offended about. I like this guy jare. He should even win presidenscy. The man is honest men. The truth is hard for many to swallow. Let's be real the guy did not lie

I have a feeling that assuming he wins he'll frustrate a lot of Africans and make them go back to their country. By the time Africans realise there's no other country to run and hide under the guise of education. They'll be forced to look inward and accept their mistakes and fix the problem

This man is 100percent right. We need to accept our mistakes so that We will make a head way.just take a look at the African nations around us ravaged with squalor hunger and upheaval. We just hate admitting the truth and jumping at the racism card

Iya o kanwuliajara over to you. I refuse to allow this videos spoil my day

cococandy:
I'll be back to continue posting.

please and please I beg you in the name of God stop posting more.I couldn't even finish watching every thing. It's disturbing my sensibilities


I know you have a good Intention but this time around the fault or blame of domestic violence is the victims involved. Yes I said so because when God created you he created you as a human being not a scapegoat. Hence if you are receiving that kind of violence everyday and you subject yourself to be stripped naked and beaten like a ram and you haven't left or reported to the appropriate authorities e.g the pastor or imams that joined you,parents and I laws then the police so that they will put animals where they Belong to but you're there for the sake of the children or love or money or I don't want them to laugh at me you deserve the beatings

Since you have two kidneys can you cut one boil it spice it up and eat it.if you can't eat it no matter how tasty it is knowing it's coming from your body then tell me how having attractions for your sister in law is sensible


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The way some people reason!

So househelps are lesser human beings? Would you have been this confused on what to do if you'd "caught" him doing the exact same thing to one of your sisters?

And what has his being married with four kids got to do with the matter at hand? Does it place him above reproach??[/quote]this woman sef

See as you said it Shaka like say it's that easy.don't you know the type of society we are.many thing's can happen to him if he reports
1.he might be accused of lying against his uncle especially if mummy and daddy trusts uncle or are very close
2.he might be accused of having sexual attractions for the house girl and moreover its his word against his uncle .in Nigeria adults are always right so they might likely pour everything on his head
3. He might be accused of being possessed by evil spirit and needs deliverance for saying such

KanwuliaJara:
Manipulative and energetically parastic soul connections ke?

Na juju?

Please we need human fumigation to fumigate all the useless human pest on nl constituting themselves as a nuisance. How much is human fumigation please

Some women's ears are likened to that of a goat.aka eran iya



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trapQ:
I hate hearing stuff like this. Why don't women have goals in nigeria, in africa?? Why?? This is what happens when you feel marriage is your highest achievement in life......

this one name 100million dollar question you ask

What's the TRUE BEAUTY of a woman or a woman's worth if not to be married or better put dey for osband haus

Cutehector:
restrictions? In a samsung galaxy phone? U must be joking! When all she does is to use it to play games and browse the internet... Yeah its the 21st century, why not get ur kids a data enabled phone at 5years of age.

then you buy the type of phone that's can browse at the same time put restriction applications for children. Your children cannot be wiser than you. As for the game you delete everything

Chaiii

In td Jake's voice. The devil's a liar

Kanwuliajara come and help us unravel this puzzle. This good news is becoming too much on no like kilode

Here we go again. Una no dey taya

@cutehector what's wrong With a 9year older using a phone. As long as the parents put restriction applications inside the phone to restrict the kid from entering certainly ungodly sites.looking at it this way what of if she has to visit educational sites to do assignments given to her in school or what if she has to communicate with her friends in school via bbm or whatsapp.ok that aside what if she gets to school and she sees her mates using phone but her own mummy didn't buy phone for her like other kids don't you think she'll feel bad or you think it's only adults that's have feelings.kids don't feel bad to

That you didn't use phone when you we're 9 because of one reason or the other doesn't mean your kids shouldn't. We should make life more easier for these children.this is 21st century for crying out loud.once it's a certain time you tell them to read their books at the same time monitor what they say and do on phone