₦airaland Forum

taryour:
you wicked o, how you go talk that kain thing na. If everybody Learns how to bake, how bakers like us go survive? na to pack our kaya go village na. lol

Idowuogbo:
E mi gan aje in makeup. I b undercover MUA. I'll do my own makeup, i just need help with gele. Please go n learn o...Jack of all trades is seriously trending. You are good with beads,you might as well complete the package so I can register you with Owambe National Congress. I'll be your P.A. I will soon start taking orders from aso rock for Sis Taryour,so hurry up o so I can market your own to the wives of awon polithieficians. We are fully loaded in the house.

Idowuogbo:
Hian! O ga ju. The bolded go easy if the person you are quoting is willing to learn na. I'm happy making my fairy cupcakes o..anything else na PLC.

edwife:
I failed to give you the cause of rape? did you even read my post? the article i put up there? Was the question about the cause of rape or indecent dressing?

Idowuogbo:
Learn? Learn le pe be yen? It's not my calling o...anything fashion n makeup, na me b that.

Id marcos like my egbon pickabeau1 dey tok am.

edwife:
Okay.
You know why I chose to have this conversation with you? Because you can be both,sarcastic and reasonable.Please leave the sarcasm at the door or for the likes; i need a mature conversation and too bad some of the ladies i would have love to discuss with are busy.I am off today.

As you can see in my opening,i said why i think indecent dressing is and isn't but i wanted to focus more on the title itself and went on to give some facts.That's how i learned to discuss in my assignments .You said you saw valid points in my post but fail to talk about them?Why won't you allow a male to bath wura?After all she is a child innit?Nothing provocative about her,her unclothedness will not mean anything to a man.

Thank God MarvellousGod opening was it's one of the cause,i guess they didn't see that.... let blame,condemn and play the victim card after all it is always someone's fault.Nigerian mentality.

Please MarvellousGod i want you to expatiate on why you think indecent dressing is one of the cause of rape.Let's focus on that alone.

There is this article i find very educative as we want to focus more on those countries where men where born seeing women wearing pudah yet still rape the women.Here is someone who actually had a sound EDUCATION .




PLEASE READ

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Disclaimer:This is to show why in those countries where women covered up from head to toe still get raped.But is this applicable to countries like Nigeria and the west?
cc:kimoni

Idowuogbo:
Morning dearest...weekend yi o baje at all...God is faithful walai. Mehn I wish you were here o, i dey find cake persin and the ones wey I see,the price o nice rara. Imagine one small 10 inch cake dem bill £180 and I need the 16inch version of the design I sent her. I just told her to have a nice day. Ko fa ja rara

tearoses:
I love that style but my skills never reach that one
If it’s a very important party and you want to look your best, maybe you need to hire a makeup and gele artist who offers home service for £50
On my next trip top Naija I am going on a gele tying course. I want to be able to tie those segun gele sky scraper designs

Sisi Sambarry please do you know of any gele schools in Lagos?

cococandy:
Hapu m aka= leave me jare.

cococandy:
Well maybe they looked at the rapist somehow and made them filled with lust.

Whatever. they must have done something to attract the lust of the rapist.

Abeg hapu m aka sambarry.

FrancisTony:
True!
They say some men are sexually-violent.
When a TRULY sexually-violent man sees a semi dressed woman in a public place, why not jump on her and devour instantly for us to believe he's surely sexually-violent?.
Why start monitering her and keep waiting for the day he will lure or catch her to/in a close place?

Armed robbers and rap1sts are in a league of their own.
When you flaunt your wealth, armed robbers either rob you instantly in an open place or track you to your house.
Rapists don't rape instantly and when they track their victims to house to rape her, it has passed indecent dressing.
It's funny how people think only flaunted cleavag.es, breas.ts, nippl.es, laps can arouse rapists.
What 'bout women with sexy lips and beautiful face? They should cover it also?

By the way, Going by the definition of INDECENT DRESSING according to dictionary which seems to mean dirty, obscene, crude et al, isn't that synonymous to a haggard mad woman(?) and why should a SANE man sleep with a mad woman?.
Anyone that does so, deserves to be kept in an assylum.
Check many rape cases, SLUTS that dress indecently don't get raped but ones who are moderate in their dress sense.
Most of our celebrities have been robbed but how many of our female celebrities that flaunt their body have screamed they were raped?.
OUR GRANDMOTHERS DRESSED WORSE THAN 21ST CENTURY WOMEN - SOME MEN BECAME WORSE.

cococandy:
No it is not and can never be.
Let's do a front page survey alone and how many raped people there were raped because they didn't wear Mary Amaka.

You know what? Scratch that.

It's the cause of rape.
Let's blame the wrong things and leave the real issue.

Ladies dress well o. That's your protection against rape.

edwife:
I want to have this conversation with you and please be very honest here.It is going to be long....
Is indecent dressing the cause of rape?NO and YES.
No because a sick mind,a rapist irrespective of your dress mode will still rape.

Yes:

Imagine dressing like this in a supermarket and a registered rapist who has just been released from jail happen to visit the store that day to buy milk.What do you think will likely happened to you?

***sorry for the inappropriate images***

https://i.ytimg.com/vi/3KCx6jOll9w/maxresdefault.jpg

https://www.anorak.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/201.jpg

Why do Americans despite the high rate of crime especially the recent gun shootings in schools and churches,still give license to individuals to own guns? Because the same gun protect them and also kill them.

Wearing a child a bum-short is not dangerous but in the evil world we live,it is.
Leaving a child with a neighbour or family member is not dangerous,but today it is.read mail below:



Do you think this girl will one day hand her daughter to her sister or a family member for keep so that she can go and make ends meet?Why?

Even Jesus was tempted by the devil and he had to rebuke satan not because he couldn't deal with him but he knew putting himself in that situation could be dangerous.Why do married woman/man avoid close friendship with the opposite sex?Why does the bible commend us to flee from temptation?In South Africa,in Bloemfontein you can't walk freely with your phone in your hands without someone taking it away from you,and if you resist you will get killed.killed. Isn't it your right to hold the phone you bought with your hard earn money?

Despite the security many politicians have,some of them still kidnap or assassinated,why do the rest not give up on the security?either you have them or not,you will still in danger but still it makes you feel safer having them.

How will we know if our naked great-grand mothers were raped because there were no record as of present.At the age of 11 most of them were getting married,why?as soon as you develop breast and some female features,you are ripe for marriage.Why isn't it the case today?isn't it child marriage and rape? and please how many of you were present to actually give the fact that they were none?you hear more about rape because you have the means to do so via social media and i tell you rape has always been there only that we get to read more of it.
And why will they be raped because being naked was actually their way of life? is being naked on the street today normal to you?So you will actually see a young lady on the street without bra and you will simply pass?

Will you leave your doors open just because it is criminal to steal and when you get caught you go to jail?If so why do you lock your gate?Why do we put an alarm system in the house,cars.Why cctv in a secure place like the white house,like your own home.

Why do you think we always advice people who masturbate or addictive to porn to stay away from porn?likewise smokers and alcoholic to stay away from people who smoke cigarettes and drink?So why give a rapist the opportunity to unleash his devils on you when you dress provocatively?

People wearing marie amaka(whatever) get raped because they just unfortunately happened to be around a rapist,sadist....did it help them?no but does it mean that i should not at least try to protect myself by dressing decently,just maybe I can be spared?

I remember a thread we had asking the females if they will be comfortable having a male teacher in nursery.Almost all the family section women said no,why is that?what was the reason?I was one of them too.My reason were that it a bit dangerous for a male stranger changing my 3 years old diaper and many gave the same reason.

Sambarry,will you allow a male neighbour give wura a bath?and why please?

We can condemn,curse,abuse rapists but the truth is they are around us,among us and will always be despite the protests and jail.The best way to feel safe is to protect ourselves.

And before i forget,can someone here post their debit card details?we all know that it is a crime to steal,so don't worry and while you are at it don't forget to post your home address because it will be selfish to whomever that will have your card details not to at least show appreciations by sending you flowers or a letter of acknowledgement.

KanwuliaJara:
Abeggggi! NL done quench.
No beta topic.
Shoot!

Back to my TV e jor!

EfemenaXY:
I hardly think the occasional comment here or there against child sex abuse makes me a "chairlady of paedo matters".

Either way you word it, I still find it extremely offensive but let's leave it at that. Good morning to you too, Sambarry. You totally misunderstood me. I never said what you are thinking but anyway sorry if that made you feel slighted.

oya tell me sorry to because you equally said something offensive " you must be sick" or something like that

EfemenaXY:
How d'you know she isn't using the newspaper to advertise her business?

Smart chick.

EfemenaXY:


Na this kind shape you dey support?

Look behind the fake smiles. The woman nor dey to happy. She can't even stand upright. Her bobo dey use style pull her up from the belle/waist.

Even the guy face...e just be like say, "warris this? Na manage I dey manage this one oh!"

Bitterleafsoup:
I was gonna say cause if they just do awilo it must be a boring one cause they look too dry and put together

tsdarkside:
better in secret...you dont need to rub this oyibo sickness rubbish in our face everytime.....a union between a black-person and oyibo,is not normal,fact.......

MusingsOfALady:
Again Sexualization is not all about clothes!

The boys are ok and well dressed but they are models so they fly their collars and strike different poses. The accessories like chains, sunshades etc are uncalled for except your child is modeling too.

However if your child walks around striking poses, pouting, stuffing his hands in his pockets etc then your child is showing a tendency to be vain and shallow.

Self acceptance and confidence is important but a good solid character is more important, lets deemphasize looks at this age.

bukatyne:
They are too fashion conscious for their age

But again, these are pictures and they magnify things....

I am sure in real life, these children would not look like this.

salaboiz:
the girl is enjoying it, that is why she kip going back to him

Singingbae:
Na so ooo.... We just dey watch the program na so one person talk say camera man no dey fall?

tearoses:
I have a daughter
It sickens me to hear all these stories


How are you babes? How is Wura too

cococandy:
Don't give the house girl belle.
That's all.

Kimoni:
@ selfie stick - see innovation oo

Rukkydelta:
Hmmm.... this is a online forum and the way people speaks describes their kind of personality most times, I saw those sorts of comment on that particular thread and i'm sure those posters are either accomplice of predators or predators themselves

tearoses:
Either this has been happening before and not being reported or something very alarming is happening these days
Rape and incestt everywhere
What dark force is invading people these days?
Your own daughter? . . .or any woman for that matter
For 3 minmutes madness?
This is very worrying
The most annoying thing is that when they are caught they start crying and become mellow
Why wasnt he mellow before point of rape
Bloody BASTARRD