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Family › Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 7:24pm On Aug 13, 2015
Some men will just find any excuse to slot their tail inside any available hole at sight even if it is the hole in a bottle of coke. This thread is a perfect example courtesy of toks grin

the deacon sorry diakoni ijo wa grin
Family › Re: How Third Parties Involvement Ruin My Parents Marriage by SAMBARRY: 4:39pm On Aug 13, 2015
Hmnn

Family › Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 4:05pm On Aug 13, 2015
This one is to that he female sexy whatever cheesy grin cheesy cheesy grin

Family › Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 4:03pm On Aug 13, 2015
Toks toks grin cheesy grin

Family › Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 3:57pm On Aug 13, 2015
grin cheesy grin cheesy grin
zeb04:
this is the most senseless thread I have ever had the misfortune to come across in years.

I guess those women in the office should be sacked because the work with men with no self control.

how did your brain get so fvcked up
Family › Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 3:57pm On Aug 13, 2015
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damiso:
If you don't employ a mature maid so as not to tempt your husband, are you also going to sack all the female colleagues your husband will most likely have a one to one contact with everyday in the course of working ? Most people spend far more active hours at work than in the house so what is one going to go about that one? Those ones will even look hawt,with Brazilian hair grin and smelling on point. And if you want to add the food part some don't mind cooking or getting lunch with him?abi is it not on NL that a lady was 'feeling sorry ' for her boss as his wife was not 'taking care of him'?

All these excuses for under age labour.if you want to go the 'helping pay the child's school fees' route there is no law that says they have to serve you as well leave them with their parents while you carry out your 'charitable ' work .If you also want to go down the 'paying for a service ' route just pay an adult a living wage.

OP is right on one thing though ,a maid is a human being too and I don't get why they should be seen as sub human just because you employ them?

We need to change our mindset on how we treat maids,nannies,drivers,security men and most domestic workers.
Family › Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 3:52pm On Aug 13, 2015
Toks2008:
All these sermons does not change the fact that a wife who allows a maid take over her kitchen should not cry foul if she takes over her bedroom.
yet you say that your little member down there doesn't work as your brain grin cheesy grin cheesy
Family › Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 3:49pm On Aug 13, 2015
LaRoyalHighness:
Exactly.... Imagine the nonsense.
cheesy grin grin grin cheesy grin cheesy

the he females are already on the loose o grin cheesy grin
Family › Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 3:29pm On Aug 13, 2015
cococandy:
Let's agree to disagree kulyie.


But pls if you know anyone whose done anything like what you typed there, pls call the cops on them immediately. That one pass exploitation.
It's downright evil beyond words.
there were people who used to do that as a thriving business till naptip got wind of it and arrested All those involved and in any case that's what nigerian child traffickers do.deceive the parents of the child


carry the child to lagos and force them into prostitution and then give their parents fake non existent address so they can't easily trace them and then the kids are forever lost in lagos with no one to help or anyone to run to because everyone around them are strangers

however reporting them to police will not make any difference because if you call the police and they get this child traffickers arrested, some of their people will still come and settle the police officers with money and then release these criminals and before you know it they've swept the matter under the carpet. That's why people don't report

even when you are trying to probe they will say which one be ya own. Your pikin dey among
Family › Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 3:20pm On Aug 13, 2015
The only thing he'll do is just sweep, and wash the dishes, run little little errands like collecting clothes from the dry cleaners and emptying the bin

if I cook all the soups down his own is to warm it before I come now that is not too much for a 12 year old to do.haba
cococandy:
But that's the thing.

Can a minor legally give consent?

You think if their parents want to send them and they don't want to go, they have a will to say no to the parents and they will do as they say. They will mostly agree to whatever their parents say regardless of how they feel about it. That's why a child's consent is void. They mostly give consent even if they don't want to because an influential adult in their life is asking something of them.


And what kind of chores will a minor do that's supposed to relieve the household of stress anyway?
Cook? Na thirteen yr old wan cook the delicious meals to feed the whole family? I wonder how it will taste. Or do all the laundry? I couldn't even do that myself I won't lie. Much less a child.
Or send them to fetch water with heavy jerry cans on their head straining their fragile necks. (My mommy calls it reducing children's height grin)

a 14-15 yr old can babysit properly but that's just about it. Or sweep the house and do dishes.

Minors are still on their formative yrs. taking one under your roof is like adding a child to the number you already have. It's not supposed to relieve the family of work stress. If it does, that means the child is being given more that his fair share of chores.
Politics › Re: See The State Of EFCC Detention Cells Where They Hold People [photos] by SAMBARRY: 3:02pm On Aug 13, 2015
Them even put mattress and bathroom for them sef.them suppose allow them sleep for the bare floor. Can you imagine standing fan too dey.

This place looks more like a typical room of a students in the hostel especially that awo and fajuyi hall in oau
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 2:54pm On Aug 13, 2015
halfrica:
Dis was way bck davido came into existences as a celeb joor
My mentors were bill gate and erry muthafuckin soul controllin d world bank tru forbes list was aimin at trillions in dollars cheesy

Almost half of people on forbes list grew up poor u kno?
majority of the people you mentioned were raised at home under the watchful eyes of their parents. Google it
Family › Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 2:51pm On Aug 13, 2015
cococandy:
Omo that peculiar society needs to do something about itself. Exploiting kids won't solve their problems.
it is exploitation when you exchange kids to use to settle their parents debts and then turn the child into a slave
it is when you don't treat the child well and pay for his services. My mom had a house help who agreed to stay with us when we were young but she didn't dehumanise her . The parents often come to check on her to see whether ory not my mom was treating her well

another form of child exploitation is deceiving children with the knowledge of the parents and then you carry them into lagos and force them into prostitution. You put them in a small room, lock the door and be collecting money from men before you allow them sleep with 10year olds and then use the money to raise your own kids. Those are what I know as child exploitation IN MY OWN DICTIONARY.

Why should a child that is not yours come and live with you? For what. If he comes he will wash pots taya and his parents might not be aware. His hosts are likely to abuse him.
Family › Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 2:39pm On Aug 13, 2015
Nor be say they force the child or say you must work here whether you like it or not. Them no drag the child by force. The parents and the person will ask him or her. Do you want to work for me. They will break it down the way the child will understand. Eg if you work for me I'll pay your mummy and daddy and they will be able to help you pay your school fees immediately you leave my house. You will basically let the child know the terms and conditions

so if she says yes I will follow you fine but if she says no and you still drag her and bundle her into the car because you see she's small and helpless then that's wickedness

if you take care of her the way you should I don't see anything wrong however WITH HER CONSCENT not with coercion or threats
cococandy:
If you pay the mother or father for the child to work for you, it is still child labor. Regardless of whether you hit them or not.

Child labor is using kids to make money.

It is different from just taking a ward that you want to look after not because you want the child to work for you. There must be no agreement that the child will work for you in any way.
The child should be like yours. No money should exchange hands. And no chores beyond her age as you would give your own child should be given to the child.

The primary aim in that is to take the child under your care. Whereas in child labor the primary aim is for the child to come and work for you. Even if you treat them well, it is still child labor as he or she is there to work for you.
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 2:21pm On Aug 13, 2015
halfrica:
cheesy to gain wisdom wen erry successful people on earth were all sayin dey started poor wanted to av a story too cheesy omo i kno stay up to a week o
so davido was brought up in the streets before he became successful? Omotola jolade, dakore, naeto c etc were brought up in the streets ab grin


so you have to live on the streets before you can become successful cheesy
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 2:15pm On Aug 13, 2015
halfrica:
cheesy ranaway from home to live on d street
why did you run away from home to live on the streets cheesy


hunn.youre one of this rebellious teenagers abi cheesy
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 2:13pm On Aug 13, 2015
You are the one digressing from the topic when you were criticizing someone saying it's because your parents gave you a better life bla bla bla
chigoizie7:
U re very funny, please stop deviating from the topic here.



The topic says, "dangers of firewood" and not "family planning"
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 2:10pm On Aug 13, 2015
prettydpri:
O YA knock de head na (bends) They can afford it. You will see the latest phones in the city and ghetto in naija. There is a Tv in 90% of homes in naija. There is mobile phone in over 90% of the hands in naija im not even adding amputees wey no get hand. They can buy it
they do everything that impoverishes them now blame government

1.they will not save or invest.a janitor in my office bought lace of 25,000 meanwhile she earns 10,000 per month. She was able to pay 3000 and whenever she sees the woman coming she will dodge. The people collecting her salary times 10 will save o

2.you know your mother was a poor tailor struggling to survive, your father is a bricklayer na them go do third wife for a bus driver who can barely live up to his responsibilities
3.na them go born full ground and be distributing children about

you go and do house help for chief tayos family
you go and do labourer in so so factory
you go and do sales girl in alabas saloon
you go and sell clothes

then when society abuses them and takes advantage of their poverty they will blame the government


God gave us a brain to be used
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY:
That's the point parents should provide a good life for their kids and if they cannot afford to buy gold circle. I heard it is 40 naira or cheaper ways of child prevention stop bringing kids you can't take care of and be multiplying poverty

our roads are littered with agberos. That's the consequences of unplanned parenthood. We all have the responsibility of curtailing poverty to make our society a better place to live
chigoizie7:
of course God protects all of us but we also have the responsibility of protecting our health and the sanitary conditions of our environment. He can't do that for us



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One of the benefits is that once u are registered to icloud anyone that stole ur phone and uses it to either snap pictures or videos, d phone will send it to icloud and u can trace the thief easily, please buy it na, u can afford it, its just a little above 200k. But it is superb.




























See ur head, u re. Advertising gas for the poor,but u can not create enabling environment for them to make a living and buy ur gas, hypocrites.

U sit @ d comfort of ur home, because ur parents were able to give u a better life to type all these things, come to the real world and see real life.
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 1:52pm On Aug 13, 2015
princeemmac:
Halfrica i must say you are very STREET WISE
when you talk about hygiene they will say it's God that protects
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 1:51pm On Aug 13, 2015
You will see okada man who can barely feed himself marrying two wives and packing all of them with 11 children inside one room apartment. That one too will say it's God that takes care of children. They will now grow up to be prostitutes pick pockets and 419.we see all this things everyday.


Solution . Our value system needs to change then our lives as Nigerians will change. Take responsibility for your actions. God didn't have sex and impregnate them so God cannot train them and put food on their table
chigoizie7:
Lolz, all the vices u stated are already in place, yes, family planing Is good.


But all the people now living(the large families, I mean) should they kill some parts of their family so a to reduce the number of people that will be consuming the food?


We are addressing the issue that is already on ground,



We can now talk of educating them on family planing, but until den, the already living ones that didn't plane well must survive, and that is what they are doing.
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 1:36pm On Aug 13, 2015
halfrica:
angry do u patronize dem?
How do u kno if they sell well?
Just cos sumome is into business doesnt mean the person is successful
u stil av a lot to learn bou life on d street dere is more to life out there dan d four corners of ur house angry
like I told you I have observed them well and many of them are dirty as fk.they don't clean the things they use in cooking for example the plastic used in fetching water from the well some have green algae around it still they won't clean it . they will use that same plastic to cook. Even the environment were food is cooked is terrible. Try and put health into consideration. Every thing is not all about money money money or profit. Try and give cleanliness a thought too . That's all I'm saying cheesy
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 1:30pm On Aug 13, 2015
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its because of the level of obesity which wasn't there before. Before civilization people were not obese but now it is encouraged to stay fit and healthy. Calm down cheesy
halfrica:
They take care of wat they eat bah?
And they stil die of food poison and food contamination be lickin d oyinbo's ass dat are confused
They allow u africans loose interest in your values and language bt still conserved their own values and language angry angry angry angry angry angry
They left china to keep their traditions and language d whole of asia the arabs the native americans d native british wen it comes to africa they want us to loose ours angry angry angry angry
Stewpid people
Before they came to africa we were on foot movement they cam brrought cars bicycles and all we got addicted to them
The same confused fufu color lookalikes are now sayin errybody shd walk atleast an hr erry day
Wah da Bleep were we doin before dey came? angry
Flyin or crawling huh??
Alot like dat and u are following white wolves dat are confuses themselves angry there is more to d color white dan u fink
Even d devil was formerly white aka an angel huh
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 1:27pm On Aug 13, 2015
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prettydpri:
cheesy cheesy cheesy Please dont die ohh.
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 1:26pm On Aug 13, 2015
halfrica:
Is it d chemicals from oyinbos production dats now condusiive?
Firewood smoke is d least harmful compared to d chemical products d oyinbos introduced to u
angry u fuckkin tink u talkin to a kid ryt?
I aint no kid nigga ?
angry
lol calm down na.we are not fighting grin

the chemicals that the oyinbos produce that pollutes the air is not around residential areas or were people are concentrated cheesy
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 10:07am On Aug 13, 2015
chigoizie7:
Smallest camp gas u say, now, how many cups of rice will it cook for a family of 8 or 10, 3times a day, and how long will it last? That is the question u should answer.
I have answered you already. Check my post to your question
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 10:05am On Aug 13, 2015
chigoizie7:
Smallest camp gas u say, now, how many cups of rice will it cook for a family of 8 or 10, 3times a day, and how long will it last? That is the question u should answer.
then they should reduce their eating patterns and shut down their vaginas and stop bringing children they cannot take care of into the world and then blame the West. Till today the nigerians who can afford to take care of 10children at a go without feeling anything are the ones who have 2or 3 kids. The ones who can barely eat are the ones giving birth 8 children when they know the nigerian economy is not friendly and there's no one to help.give birth to the kids you can take care of so that resources and food can go round and everyone will be happy

the Street urchins we have today are a product of unplanned parenthood and parents who cannot afford to take care of them . leaving them on the streets to survive with the mentality that God takes care of children. Wth!
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 9:59am On Aug 13, 2015
Halafrica you should open your mind more and show willingness to change. Hmmn? smiley


and please show a cheerful countenance when you are talking to me. Me and you are not fighting, we're friends cheesy


oya let me see that smile cheesy
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 9:51am On Aug 13, 2015
chigoizie7:
And since the govt has not been providing all these, so, the masses should fold their arms and wait until te cost of gas and electricity is reduced so that they can cook? If they can't afford it, they with away with what they can afford simple and short.
fine you win but does that mean they shouldn't care about cleanliness? embarassed
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 9:49am On Aug 13, 2015
halfrica:
whr is d money to get all dat wen dey live below one dollar
angry u are d one who needs to outgrow slavery cos u can afford bt cant share or give or even help angry
so buying omo 5naira to wash the plastics you use in fetching water from the well is mental slavery? Smh

wonders
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 9:41am On Aug 13, 2015
halfrica:
The change shd start wiv u wereva u see sumone tryin to survive create a livin for dat person and wait and watch ow ur transformation goes aheadof u angry
Easy to say hard to do huh
we need realists in dis life nt idealists
it is the work of government to provide a conducive environment were businesses can thrive and the health of people are not jeopardized in trying to survive.

It's rather unfortunate that the ministry of health is doing nothing about issues like this. This is where the ministry of health, nafdac and other food agencies should step in to help this people as well as enlighten them. That's their work and that's why they're paid with tax payers money and not individuals . Look at oyinbos.they care about what they consume
Health › Re: EDUCATIVE: Dangers of Cooking with Fire wood by SAMBARRY: 9:35am On Aug 13, 2015
halfrica:
We talkin of affordable rate not d stress if one is poor or helpless or in danger d stress is nuffin
Humans can go tru pains just to survive
If they steal to survive u cast them
The whites will never allow d blacks teach dem ow to live their lives no muthafucker shd cum over and teach me ow to live my life if they can eradicate death away from nature i will start followin their rules angry
I see you are still holding on to your beliefs so obstinately with the excuse of affordability. Kerosene to is affordable mind you


we really need to protect our environment. The smoke emanating from firewood puts others at risk too health wise.

I might not eat your food but I'm passing by.inhaling the smell of the smoke puts me at risk. If you have no consideration for your health what of the public and people passing by on the streets inhaling all that including asthmatic patients

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