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5minsmadness:
When I was in secondary school there was a game the guys and girls used to play in the hostel. A guy would deliberately go into a girl's room (there were up to 12girls in the room so it was more of a mini dorm actually) and wait for the girls to threaten him to leave. Of course he would refuse and next thing the girls would gather round, lift him off his feet(they were successful more often than not) and bodily throw him out of the room. Both parties benefited in that the girl conquerors exhibited their physical prowess and the boy victim 'tapped current' from all the girls grabbing him in different places. This was repeated at least three times a night for different boys every Friday and Saturday

I don't know where that memory popped up from

KanwuliaJara:
The husband was prolly hiding under the bed or screwing the housemaid somewhere in the kitchen!

kelvyn7:
hmmm

dat woman get mind ooo

wait wait... are women beginning to take stabbing lessons or wat cos they are just stabbing every where

KanwuliaJara:
Like on NL!
Na doz wey nor get go make noise pass ke!

#GodIsOurStrength#

What is a "working relationship"?

A relationship FULL OF WORK!

freecocoa:
I hope I can also tell him not go anywhere I don't want him to, and he must sit his a$$ home, too.

How about men, shouldn't they choose their friends wisely too as married men?

5minsmadness:
NO way!
I've always wondered what it is ladies gist about.
I'm staying put at least for the 17pages u guys lodged in our thread

cococandy:
It seems you don't really understand exactly what I'm talking about. There are cases where face your front doesn't work verbatim.
So this girl I've known before she even met the guy. I met the dude through her and my DH met him through me. They were even engaged to marry so it was that serious.

I do face my front about the intimate details of what's going on between them but on the social level it is still awkward to hang out around them since we all used to be together.
What I now do is if the girl wants to spend the weekend with us, I've to make the sure the dude doesn't want to spend the weekend with DH. You know trying to work around them so that they don't clash in my house. It's super awkward. And so many things one used to talk about that you can't do anymore because it will lead to discussions about the other person. And that other person might be around the next day. That kind of thing. So we skirt around issues, not feeling free anymore. Awkward.

I know the solution is the dissolution of one of those friendships. Mine with hers or DH with her fiancé's. It's not easy to be friends with two people who used to be intimate but don't talk anymore.

shaiba:
Young lady as long as you are under my roof I own everything you do.

We quickly forget the case of Cynthia, she is older than your friend and is dead, but the pain, emptiness and the fight to bring her murderers to book is carried on by the parents.

Social media has its advantage and disadvantage and parents have that duty to look out for u, it might seem hash but many years from now you will look back and thank them for guiding u.

Your friend should first obey and then talk with dad to know his reasons for asking her to stop FB chats and try to prevail on him.

Remember that honoring your father and mother is the first commandment that attracts a gift... LONG lIFE

DesChyko:
Are you asking after the blessings of something abnormal?

cococandy:
seriously

@tearoses, sambarry.
I'm trying.

donholy28:
so disciplining a child is now violence.... no wonder children of nowadays no get common sense

aflyingbird:
they can't sue him? you mean this man is going to scot-free? this is infuriating

maybe they can publish this story in a paper. if they can't get child support out of him, at least they can let everyone know what a monster he is.

KanwuliaJara:
Hmmmm!
Bringing a MAN, not even A BOY to my father's compound AT 16!

Thinking of the kind of family I come from. . . Reading stories like this!

. . . . . And thanking my H-Agnostic GAAAAWD!

aflyingbird:
well, if the thief happens to be a politician, someone already rich or who has contacts, of course he won't go to jail. but an ordinary person will. with the way they set pple on fire these days, they might even do that

idk what the fk her family was thinking. everything about this story pisses me off. the moment she told them.she wanted to marry, one hot slap would reset her brain back to factory settings. they should made the man himself realize there was no way in hell he was going to marry their child. 16-yr olds are just in the 11th grade, thinking about what college they want to attend. that's how i know this sonofagun didn't love her or have good intentions cuz he didn't even say "oh wait o, finish your secondary school and go to college na, you're still a kid". of all the pple his age he could've gotten ( he even lied about his age, he's older than 29 ) it had to be a child.

Ewuro4:
Da wha ??


Sambarry or Dytt abi Dyt does .. Where are thous ladies

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Buhahaha.. NL eh, even when you have a pact to log off for 48hrs, some mofo posts will draw you back Ni shaaa my belle oh

cococandy:
Ladies how do you handle a situation where your friend breaks up with her man who happens to be your man's friend?

This is all shades of awkward for me right now because I can't have him come over my place with his new girl (as he did once) while my babe may come around. I knew her before him so I'm girlcodes on her side.

But can't ask hubby to sacrifice his friendship with the dude just so I can preserve mine with my friend.
One selfish person would have to win here and I want it to be me.

bukatyne:
Hi ladies,

I know it's been a super long while.

Just think it is better we build our thread than keep gate crashing the guys' and getting thrown out

We can discuss topics and Stuff

Cococandy
Edwife
Chillisauce
Naijababe
Babygirlfl
EfemenaXY
Moca
Kimoni
Greatgod2012
Tearoses
Ewuro
Toonoisy
MarvellousGod
Phema
Freecocoa
Sambarry

Sorry If I missed out on your Username

aflyingbird:
he probably is a closet paedophile. he only went abt it by marrying her. now since he has gotten what he wanted and has used her, he dumped her n got someone else.

aflyingbird:
if the DNA results prove that he is the Father, they can sue him for child support

aflyingbird:
they can sue him for child support

aflyingbird:
what in the world was ur sister thinking getting married at 16? what the hell? where were your parents? she is still a child at 16, how did u allow this shiit? how come none of u were unable to talk sense into her or tell the guy to fk off? . now he got her pregnant, sent her back home and got another woman. he came to ruin her life and y'all just sat there and watched. u better do a DNA test when she has the baby and sue him for child support

donholy28:
Where I come from...we would flog senses into her head and beat brains into his head....u people's soft hand joined to ruin her future....first arrest the man and beat his brains in

youngsahito:
This only hapen when d man don dey tie wrapper n d woman don dey wear trouser...God, me I no want dis kind tn for my life ooooo

nerodenero:
Your response to my submission is subjective. Read again and you would discover that I analysed the matter from different angles.

kilokeys:
See gist o..

Whats abnormal about a man backing his child?


Stereotyping is why i hate nigerians

So a female backing a baby consolidates the fact that the baby is hers?

Females can't kidnap too?

Fourwinds:
so for a man to put a baby at is back is now abnormal rite.?? I wonder d kind of society we are. this is how some stu..pid men think for them to cook is abnormal

nerodenero:
Looks weird, unusual, unique and might be the man is mentally unstable. If in the event he is okay mentally, then, he is a loving father

fashoo2010:
Dats serious...u tink dis is normal