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This one never sleep for cell for one week and made to sign a no violence pact with government /human rights agents



go and ask your fellow women beaters that just spent the weekend in cell and ask them how they enjoyed the cell with men thrice stronger than them


after then come back and rant

5minsmadness:
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See now you have thrown an insult. Simple question you can't answer and do you know why? Because you want to eat your cake and have it. You know you can't control your tongue and yet you want to be free to use it to hurt others without repercussions.


If you meet me physically and use such caustic words like 'madman' on me... I will warn you once, twice, three times. After which if you persist in being rude I will bend skinny li'l you over my knee and give you a good spanking after which I will fill your mouth with bitter leaf so that next time you will think twice before insulting those bigger and stronger than you cos you are a woman and you feel "nothing should make a man hit a woman".


Nansense.

snakebeat:
So ur own definition of an alpha male is a woman beater?

obviously

Lol.i knew that for every 10 irritant there will be one reasonable human being


op that's what you are asking for below me

Stillfire:
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It has been dhik whipped that's why

freecocoa:
In other words, it's okay to beat up a woman for supposedly insulting a man na. Don't you know what Pineapp wrote is also an insult? He called her a hypocrite so he started it.

You seem to love faulting women, weldone o.

Bae is an acronym for


b-b#$tard
a- ati
e-eranko

damiso:
My people I 'peeked' at Politics section the other day and I kept seeing 'tanoids' 'tanoids' please what is Tanoids.

Abeg help a sister out oya naijababe come and explain all this strange vocabulary to your sister

That's how I kept seeing 'bae' bae' everywhere and thought it was an actual abbreviation for 'best affection ever' my younger sister almost died of laughter when I told her what I thought it meant . she then told me what it meant and I still think its a foolish word.

taryour:
Goodevening house. Been a while. Edwife. EfemenaXY. Damiso. Nijababe. Moca. Samnbarry. Royalroy. Ewuro4 Tearoses. Bellong. Pickabeau. Coogar e.t.c.
And the rest of the fun house I trow salute o.

how are you madam chef



Abeg con prepare me pounded yam with efo riro con put bush meat, pomo and Cray fish shock am



with cold zobo and one pure water to step down.


How much is my bill

You can fix your nails and still wash plates na moreover this op is a bush meat. What happened to dish washers?


Though I don't entertain laziness in my house so I share ops sentiments and know where he's coming from because I've experienced it


There was a time my cousin asked me to allow her friends younger sister stay with me temporarily till she sorts her accommodation issues in the hostel because she just gained admission into an institution not too far from my house and this girl was terribly lazy. I will come back from work and see the kitchen zinc in disarray with different plates and spoons. When I asked her why she hasn't washed it she said the dirty plates are irritating her and so I said so if you met it in a dirty state or I served you with dirty plates will you eat the food i gave you. Before I go inside to change my clothes let me still meet the dishes. Then she said her nails hasn't dried I decided not to answer her. She eventually washed the plates but didn't wash it clean.


I brought everything out again and showed her everything she washed. She apologised and re washed everything again


if you see how she was doing her hands like indomie you will think I asked her to kill someone


Anyway she didn't even use long in my house because she was too lazy and fake

Is she my mil. Which one consain me for the matter. I fit call her by her 1st name sef. I follow them friend her pikin . See question o

Eesha:
As you rightly said "some women". Hypocrisy is not limited to one culture. I'm not a fan of the practice but its what I was born into. So if you have a MIL that is still faithful to the old culture, then the DIL needs to do same. If she doesn't, His mother might end up not liking her or faulting her every action. Especially if the MIL is a sucker for respect. She sees the suffix as a form of respect.

It is hypocrisy but can you tell the woman that??

snakebeat:
Lol.... The op is a man nau, moreover it's entirely coincidental & occasional. I really see nothing sinister about it, as long as the op doesn't capitalize on it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it...

There is everything wrong with it. It is called


ABOSI in yoruba parlance

snakebeat:
Sharrraap!!!!!!!!

How can u tag someone a woman beater, literally on d premise of comments alone.
Are u sure u're a man? U sound like a woman. he is saying d truth, d post is obviously bias. Too many females hiding behind male monikers in this section sef...

you to Sharap and tell me another story



are you that hungry for violence

On Sunday she will put gele on her head and say she's going to church

Joy1706:
Will you bring her back to life if he ends up killing her? Anuofia! The person that needs assessment and evaluation is her psycho husband

See the second to the last picture




who she dey do ntorr for ?

The girl is soooo cute.




the man wey go take am away from her papa in the name of marriage go fasten his seat belt well o because the father and daughter bond pass super glue

I've seen some women calling their husbands siblings who they're obviously older than aunty kemi brother Isaac and at their back gossip about them and say all manners of things they can't say in their presence or in the presence of their mother inlaw e.g omo oshi yen to pe ara e ni issaac omo yen stupid gan mo kan ponle ni kan ma somilenu




if thats not hypocrisy.tell me what it is

Eesha:
Abdulrazak, I come from a culture similar to yours and as far as I am concerned, It makes no sense BUT she has to do as your mum says. I call ALL my siblings-in-law bro... or sis... Ironically, I am older than ALL of them. It doesn't remove one strand of hair from my body but breeds peace, IMO

Speak with your girl. I'm sure she's of your language too, she should understand.

cococandy:
Mtchew

you too you hiss




shebi you see what I was talking about with the fake insincere respect yorubas encourage



the mama sef resembles all those wicked yoruba mother inlaws wey them dey show for African magic yoruba

Ahen another one don come o




Mr fists that cannot be kept to himself. He has to beat to show he's a man




E for kuku beat this one na

Pineapp:
Will you marry her??

Hypocrite!!!!!

Madam, assess yourself and find out what you do that pisses him off..
If he was like this before you married him, then you saw fire and jumped into it.

One sided stories touch the heart.

are you minding those noise makers


you should have known that they were only entertaining themselves and massaging their stoopeed little egos

FrancisTony:
I thought women love an ALPHA male according to some guys in this section?.

Isn't this one of their so-called traits? As in, women need tough hand/love....Why are you complaining?.

Still waiting for the day, a Nairaland female will come to complain that she wants to leave her marriage because her husband is too quiet and respects her.


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Anyway, OP, I'll advice you to tell his family first to see their reaction(s) - if they support him, just tell your parent and leave the marriage, biko.

snakebeat:
There is absolutely nothing wrong with it, she is just a good wife...
Ideally, that is how it ought to be, when a woman get married to a man, she also marries the man's family. Just be nice to her & always help her in anyway u can.
Ur brother is lucky to have such a good woman as a wife...

that is nonsense



op if she tried that stunt with me and I told her to stop it in a nice manner repeatedly and she refused.the next time she comes.i will gather all the used pants and boxers including menstruation pant and then soak it inside water for days. When I know she's coming



I'll bring out the bucket I soaked all the pants in and feign washing because I know she will say she wants to help me. When she says so I'll happily leave the bucket for her.


When she deep her hand inside pant water of 4days and the first thing she brings out is menstruation stained pants and toxic smell she will get the message immediately






next time if she sees me washing she will pass another place to enter so that our paths won't jam



next

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jjahdiel:
no I am not pls.Sambarry I tink I bought IPad one from you years ago.

how many years ago?






mistaken identity. Ask EfemenaXY she dey sell ipad for idumota.

iykedare:
I really feel sorry for her.
Sometimes I wonder how my sisters will feel if their husbañds cheat on them. It shatters me.

It's been on my mind for some hours today . Infact, I had to ask a man I met in the gym what would make him cheat on his wife?
His reply? ........men are adventurous.

lol.



Meaning even if you are th best cook s and the most pretty girl he will still cheat on you





Ok na

EfemenaXY:
So why're you hiding behind a new moniker?

Are you one of those posters who poses and insults others online, hence your hiding your true identity?

don't mind it. Now he needs something he can't ask with his usual Monica. Shioor. Your reward will catch up with you @op

It's still a fresh case na. She'll still be b weighing her options and getting advice from di

iykedare:
Op,why don't you answer the question first.
It's so easy to advice other people to do what you can't do.
What would you do if yo people find out that your hubby cheated on you?

Most people will advice other people to leave the marriage that very minute but these same people would stay pray and fast .

I've heard that very toke makinwa tell people to leave their cheat boyfriends. why is she not doing the same now?

Always give the kind of advice you sef can follow.

Gbam. In addition

EfemenaXY:
I, I, I...Me, me, me.

You sound downright selfish. You want to eat your cake and have it.

~ There is nothing wrong with your not wanting to marry her.

~ There is nothing wrong with your not feeling physically attracted to her.

~ There is nothing wrong with seeing her as nothing more than a friend to you.

However, it's extremely selfish of you to keep the poor lady on hold for two whole years, simply because you haven't got the guts as a man to come clean and tell her how you really feel, about the whole relationship.

Not only is it selfish, it's downright wicked for you to bring in her family background as a cause for concern now. You weren't too bothered about her mother being divorced / re-married several times over when you first got together with her. It wasn't a problem for you when you chose to eat her "apple".

Now all of a sudden you don get visa, wan ditch the babe, she's suddenly only rates 55% beautiful on your scale. What nonsense. Are you yourself that handsome? But you're still clinging on to her just in case something "better" turns up. Honestly, some women have really suffered.

Please free her and let her find someone more deserving of her love. She certainly doesn't deserve to be saddled with someone like you.

As in henn

lolaredvelvet:
@OP, Why waste 2yrs of that lady's life when you know that:

a. You don't love her
b. You don't find her attractive. Even got the nerve to rate her 55%

Lmao.. how old are you sef?.. I'm so disappointed at the level of immaturity displayed in your post. To be honest, someone like you shouldn't even be thinking of marriage.

Biko free the girl for someone who will appreciate her better and go find your missing rib elsewhere.

May God deliver all single ladies from time-wasters and destiny-derailers like OP. Amen!

Abi o . After all

Ngokafor:
...Poor op's soon-to -be dumped girlfriend.

...After being through 'thick and thin'with him..at the end of the day,the story is oh'she's not pretty enough for me bla bla even though she is a wife 'material'.*roll eyes*

...Nothing new there,same old shallow mentality.

..@op kindly let her go for a more deserving and mentally matured man and go get your miss universe to marry.cheers.

Op I don't have anything else to say to you since EfemenaXY don talk am finish. It's your fiancee I get talk with

OREMUSSANCTUS:
No homo

ok o.bet I'm watching you