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JoeCutie:
Oh, men cheat? Wow!

Just know this. It's a simple logic:
Whenever a man cheats, a woman (most probably) cheats too. If a man in a relationship/marriage cheats, he cheats with another woman who is most probably (not always the case, hence, "probably" ) in a relationship/marriage too.

It would be fair enough to say, "People cheat", and not this annoying and unnecessarily customary "Men cheat".

Dear ladies, the very moment you stop blaming the men over every damn thing that happens (to you - even your nature-given monthly menstrual periods), you'd start finding answers to your numerous problems. Enough of this stupid "blame the (other) man" mentality. It's stale already.

EfemenaXY:
Cheating isn't the exclusive preserve of men. Women do it too.

A more appropriate title for this thread would have been: Why do people cheat?

iphanyiuma:
Sorry what's your name again?

EfemenaXY:
I sure it does babes, but you've got a high-calorie content meal there. Those fries are most definitely deep fried in fat, and so is the chicken too...and the red sauce's probably got it's on oil too...

Good for princess Wura, but not good for mommy o!

manny4life:
I don't know her, this is the second time I'm hearing about her but I will do the same. Whether he owns the house or not, this woman bore children for you, in the place I come from, you don't do that. He can't ask the woman to leave and don't expect the children to lash out... No na. It's like my father asking my mom to leave his house let alone the family house in the village.... NEVER.

EfemenaXY:


The calories dear...way too much...

luckyman1010:
Kemi! Kemi!! Kemi !!! How many times I called? You are a bastards. Shikena.

armadeo:
isnt this one supposed to be a mother in her own house. abi na me dey misread the whole tori?

Emmahunk:
One of the dividends of motherhood. The poor woman would have been out in the cold by now if she had been childless.
Mr ex- governor, no matter her offense, the Bible says "despise not the wife of your youth"

lastpage:
While bashing did you read the part where she said he turned her brother to a physically challenged person . so you mean you can actually sit down and allow your own mother been thrown out like that


if that is so I pity your mother o.the elders say.a mother that gave birth to children who cannot protect and stand up for her is equivalent to a barren woman . whatever the mother did is irrelevant but even if you plan to throw her out make sure you plan where she will stay at least for the sake of her age and how long she has stayed in your house. Tufiaaaaaaaaa


Dont mind the "Omo-ale" of a silly girl!

@Kemi Olunloyo: At your age, your mates are housing their family, feeding and clothing them, ....some are even minding their own small-scale business!

...and here you are kidnapping your father for not providing Generator keys for you, in his own house?

It is Eediotic children like you that will turn their fathers house into a "war zone", if he should die today because YOU WILL BE FIGHTING OVER HIS PROPERTY!

Go get properly laid .....and stop constituting yourself into a PUBLIC NUISANCE! SPOILT BRAT

Lastpage!

pickabeau1:
strange

The kpomo is now more important than the beef

what a soup

scribespad:
U mean a dress in ur closet?? the last i checked, humans dnt dress but move. You shud pay ur Eng. teacher a visit...

Regards.

sisisioge:
Hehehehe...

She keeps bringing in the gigollllo against husband's warnings and beatings...hian! The husband too is not sparing the rod...hian! You, neighbour, are concerned about saving the marriage... Posh!

Abeg, sit down for your flat and re-issue the eviction notice. This time around make it look real with acceptable notice within the law so they won't call your bluff. If they come to you for redress, tell them to sort their issue between themselves and that you 'Forbid' physical tussle in your house hence. Your house, your rules! Nonnsence!

skylarr:
Oga landlord, i'll advice that you hear the lady's side too. She needs to state her reason of insisting on that particular teacher even after her husband fired him. If she doesn't have a valid reason, then you step in and tell the teacher he's no longer welcome on your property.

cococandy:
That's not his job my dear.
They should go sort their issues themselves.
His concern would be to make sure nobody dies in his house.

As for who will teach the kids when this one is gone, there are a million and one other teachers who will get the job done and won't mess with their oga's wife.

This one has no single respect at all. The man stopped him from coming but he came back when the woman asked him to.
If he can't respect the woman's marriage, why can't he at least respect his fellow man?

He should have respected their marriage since his presence is causing them disharmony. Even if they are not doing anything at all.
Yet he will come and stay until late at night.

Dem never kill am for there na im make he get liver dey come back.

KanwuliaJara:

Beyond wetin?
The best way to deal with these kinds of dudes is to deal with them in their own coin!

Never let any man OR WOMAN disrespect you in a relationship. . . .especially an ill brought-up NIGERIAN/AFRICAN/BLACK man conceived and bred with domestic violence and poverty in the amniotic fluid!
Tufiakswa!!!

craziebone:
NO WOMAN IN THIS WORLD CAN STAND UP TO MY MOTHER THE WAY WE SEE IN THAT PIC.

Islie:
When a woman is desperate..... She can go to whatever length to achieve her purpose.


Quite agree with that

Shollypopzz:
"She seduced my husband"..............

LMAO! Her poor innocent husband was seduced. Of course, he wasn't acting according to his own will, the junior colleague was controlling his actions with her "seduction".

cococandy:
Insist on no violence in your house regardless of how much you feel he's justifed or not.
It is your house. Tell him the next time he does it,he will have to move out his family instantly.

Like the other person suggested, bar the man (teacher) from coming to your house.
Give him a notice that explicitly warns him to never set foot on your property except he wants to get arrested on the spot.

If the man wants to continue beating his wife, he can move out and continue the beating over there.
Same as the woman. If she wants to continue Her affair, she can go meet the man wherever he is.

That way both of them take their issues out of your hair.


Or you can try mediating without sounding like you're intruding. Depends on his close to the couple you are.

KanwuliaJara:
I think the woman should die dia sha!
If man or woman beat you once, twice or thrice, and you still tanda dia, please feel free to die dia.

Good riddance!

whirlwind7:
Hmmm. Eleyi gidi gan....

Here are some extracts from your posts:

The closeness has now become too much. He comes around everyday and he stays with the woman till late night because the husband comes home late everyday. It was so bad that my neighbour had to sack him, but his wife reemployed him. The woman always claim there is nothing going on between her and the boy whereas I have been unfortunate to see more than I can relate on this forum.


He even claimed to have met his wife lying down in the living room in her underwear while the teacher was still in the house.

I have seen too much between this woman and the teacher that I can't even tell anyone about.

Although I have never seen this boy doing the you know with the woman but everything points in that direction. The husband respects me a lot and he listens whenever I talk to him but he won't stop beating his wife until she stops bringing this guy into their home.


From your point of view, it is obvious that an immoral affair exists between this teacher and your tenant's wife.
As the owner of the property where this couple resides, you have the legitimate right to bar this teacher from setting foot on your property. You need to get a legal order for this.
This, in my opinion, is the way to go, without interfering with your tenant's marital life, and avoid the move of evicting them. Just remove this divisive element (lover-teacher) and if the couple wishes to save their marriage afterwards, it's up to them. Avoid making any allegations. It would only backfire. In fact, you saw NOTHING. Your priority is to make peace reign there. Never take sides with the husband or the wife. Play neutral by coming down hard on the teacher.
The husband pays the rent, and I think he is also entitled to decide who visits his home. He has decided that the teacher shouldn't come there anymore, while his wife thinks otherwise. So, abide with this man's wish. It also tallies with your own wish, and will serve everyone's interest.
Once this teacher has been legally forbidden to visit your property, you have played your part. In the event that lonely wife makes a rendezvous with lover-teacher elsewhere, then let her prepare herself for the inevitable doom.