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Nonso23:
Fortunately not everyone is loudmouthed and garrulous about their goals.

And again, i can't be bothered about your goals or lack of it because it's of no importance to my well-being. Tell them to those who care.

don't worry God will soon give you yes my Lord wife.sit down there and she sits like a robot stand up there and she stands like a brute without capability to think. Shebi na wetin you dey find be that

















Peace

Rxpetite:
you mean what if kris jenner buys a car for her daughter?

I didn't say so.re read a reply to that post

Nonso23:
A man whose opinions and decisions are superceded by his sicko FIL is a slave.
When he begins to look up to the man for handouts like you are very much in support of he goes down a notch lower.
He becomes a beggarly slave.

I'm not saying he should depend on his father in law for everything but he should see support from his filas a way of helping him to get his feet firmly on the ground financially. COMPREHEND.be quick to read and slow to type

Of course that's my goal. You think I'll give you the satisfaction of asking you for anything





ehen kontinu loitering na.na me get nl or seun

Nonso23:
I'm back from church and intend to loiter around this thread for as long as i desire.
I don't need to be a billionaire to impress any sicko FIL that thinks we can both share my wife.
There is something called values. It doesn't change whether or not a person is a billionaire. I wouldn't expect your shallow mind to understand that anyway.
Dangote is a 3 time divorcee. Now that's a role model. No time to keep babies around as wives.

What is stopping you from aiming to be a billionaire too aren't you a feminist

Elantracey:
Except they have issues there's nothing wrong with a father buying a car for his daughter , he was first her father before he became her husband , he should go and treat his self esteem issues .

abi o.he should sort out his head jare. Insecurity and fear or threat of his father in law taking his respect from him dey worry am

Rxpetite:
if the man had a good relationship with the father-in-law, i don't think he would have reacted that way (assuming the man in question is reasonable.)

Problems like this don't pop out of nowhere. There's probably some bad history here. its possible the father did not approve of the man from the beginning or has a history of meddling in their family affairs

hmnnnn so what of matriachs in a family like kris kardashian

Mondisweets:
How did he become his father in-law's slave when the car was given to his wife not him? let her be her own father's slave, by accepting her father's hand-outs. why take panado for her headache that she is not complaining about?

I just taya.ahaaannn

Honestly some posts here have been nauseating me to say the least. Why do they like suffer head like that. Tufiiiiiaaaa

KanwuliaJara:
The story was tooooooooooooo RIDICULOUS.
Till I realized it was all about a NIGERIAN HUSBAND.
Then I went back to sleep.

I was curious to know why the thread kept getting longer. . . .THEN FELL ASLEEP AGAIN!

DefiNATly an IGBO or YORUBA man. . . . .FROM[size=20pt]IJEBUSH-OHAFIA[/size]!!!!!

Nonso23:
You actually are incapable of a little mental work.
Take your time and go through the first 4 pages of this thread. It will not kill you maybe the strain will fry a hemisphere of your brain but at least you'll have you answer in the end.

abeg you don't have any point jare. It's either you go to church or go and lie down and strategize how to be a billionaire instead of planning to do competition with your father in law




abi when last did you hear of dangote complaining that his in laws are meddling into his family issue .dig?





n symptoms of poor man whining be that

KanwuliaJara:
[size=20pt]FROM NL!!!![/size]

I'm surprised and happy to see you. Oya come and chook mouth since you're here. I have been wondering where you are all along





so good to see you

Mondisweets:
If you are not ready to put your ego aside to make life more convenient for your wife, then you are not mature enough to handle marriage.

END OF DISCUSSION!

Please stop calling omo mummies aka mummies boys men . They are not men. They are wimps who their mom have to determine every thing for them. Omo mommies have a brain ofa 6 year old and the body of an adult.

Matthewbriggs:
Context is every thing ... the mistake majority of people are making on this thread is that they not trying to seek out more information from the OP as to why he acted the way he did.

No sane man ... I know would feel slighted if his father inlaw decides to shower his daughter with gifts. Buy her a car, build her a house or buys her a freaking island. No sane man in his right mind would feel bad. Infact I would be very grateful to my father inlaw for his kind gesture and proceed to enjoy it with my wife... because what ever belongs to my wife belongs to me and vice versa.

A sane man would only freak out if this action is carried out with an ulterior motive,

1. As a ploy to undermine his role as the head of the family.
2. As a ploy to clandestinely remind him of his in ability to carry out his responsibility.
3. If he feel his father in-law has a habit or history of interfering in the way he runs his family.

It's not about given someone a gift, what matters the most which we are neglecting is the role the motive behind a gift, and the way it is given, go a long way in deciding how a gift is accepted.

Now Ladies shouting blue murder. should ponder on this.

How would you feel when you have spent your hard earned time preparing a really nice dish for your husband to eat and your mother inlaw arrives from the village one night complaining of the fact that you are feeding his son rubbish, she says look at how lean my son has become since he married you. She now tells you that the dish you just prepared is not good enough for him that you should shove your dish in the dustbin.

She steps in to the kitchen and prepares a dish for your husband and presents it to him as a gift in your presence, and your husband is like mummy thank you very much for this gift. This meal means a lot to me.

Tell me honestly how you would feel as a woman.

Context is every thing people. Before crying blue murder and accusing the man of been egotistic, and crucify him on the alter of Men vs Women. Our focus should have been on seeking to understand the context of his action and probing the Op to further get more details on why he acted the way he did. On getting more details can we go on to come to a conclusion.

#Mathewbriggs

Nonso23:
Did you not read where i wrote God forbid i ended up with an overgrown baby suckling mummy's breast and jumping around superman daddy
Worse still adding incest into the already horrifying mix.
Tufia! I reject it for my worst enemy.

I hope you can say the same for ndi mummy. Aka mummies boy or omo mummy. My mummy said I shouldn't travel. My mummy said I shouldn't eat your food my mummy said this my mummy said that. Their mothers have put their brain and phenese under their arm pit






Hypocrisy

Online Bokoharams should even come and bomb this place round 2 sef so that it will sweep out numerous irritants and teenagers of nl.chillisauce is right. The childishness is getting out of hand

MarvellousGod:
ahhh? Seun must hear this oo, you want to destroy Nl??


But seriously I expect the family to be more mature than any other section because parents should behave better...It's well anyway

Face the issue and stop clowning. Your jokes are very dry

Nonso23:
I know you cannot handle intellectual workout. Please take your time to go through the posts on here before assuming your hypocritical stance as usual.

If you cannot do that, kindly go back to posting your gifs and cheering on the sidelines.
That obviously is you maxed out intellectual thresh-hold.

Mondisweets:
Lack of comprehension don suffer you, i said if you do, expect to have your little ego to be bruised when you fail to deliver i.e. When you make that decision be ready for the consequences. Where did i say don't marry those out of your league?

expect your post to be taken out of context to score cheap points

Na 504 them go dey drive. Wife will push it from behind before it starts while children crying inside the car of heat choking them. Na that kain loff them dey find

Mondisweets:
When their arrangement fails, and moving around becomes inconvinient for both of them because they only have one car, he will be the first to go around badmouthing his father in-law... He has a lot of cars and he can see that we are struggling but he will not even care to help out!

so long its not his daughter it doesn't matter ooo

That's nice. Equation balance



reliefs the wife of wifely stress while she drives the car around town to attend parties and visit friends while maiden and husband and maiden can be humping okada if they have to go out.




you remind me of that block buster nollywood movie Mr and Mrs. Na your type them do the film for. That movie is very similar to this thread

coogar:
exactly!
2 become one after marriage. calling your daughter aside to present her a car regardless of the hubby's feelings or consent is a miskick! anything i receive as a married man is for me & my family.

in his shoes, i wouldn't have reacted badly or start a shouting match. i would just ring my grandma in the village to bring me a young beautiful maiden that would be making my food & taking care of my general welfare.

it will also amount to a grandma's gift for a maritally-stressed grandson.

Mondisweets:
Gbam!

on top say e no get money e still dey whine cry baby whine say she for marry her father as if i will see my daughter humping bike and he expects me to look the other way simply because she's married. GOD forbid. If he wan feseshayo he's free but my daughter no go foshishayo



how will it even look for parent to be driving jeep and daughter trekking and humping bike

does it even sound reasonable. Thank God his a man too and tomorrow he will be a father in law to another man I just love the way life turns around to give you what you give others

Mondisweets:
all i can see is the spirit of poverty troubling you. All you can bring to the table is ego, nothing more!

Whats the point of having a big ego when you have nothing to back it up with?

na ego them go use do marriage. If it's from his mother. It's just a gift. O she remembered me . If it's from her father he's intruding into his marriage. Just look how stinking their hypocrisy is










2fiya

Chimooooo




from the beginning to the end of the post all I was reading was ego empty pride EGO Poor man pride ego pride ego pride. I can bet if it was your own mother THAT bought THE CAR YOU WON'T SAY SHE'S MEDDLING IN YOUR BUSINESS poor man pride na when man no get shingbayin and on top still dey form stubbornness

Nonso23:
I'm quite sure you do not even read your post before clicking submit.
WHO CHOSE HER HUSBAND FOR HER?
If she knew she could have a better life married to her father why did she accept his proposal?
Thank God the man isn't a weakling that thinks a father interfering in his home affairs is a great gesture. If that is called Ego then any man who doesn't have such in immeasurable quantities is an slowpoke.



Is this what it means to have short term memory
How many times are we going to hammer on the importance of context in gifting items?
A silly woman would be all smiles because Daddy undermines her husband while a reasonable one will tell her Dad that she is more interested in building her homes without troublesome handouts.

It is only a wimp that will accept handouts from his FIL to take care of his family. A reasonable man will build his empire with pride from scratch to finish. Pity the number of reasonable women are dwindling.

And while he's at it, he should build a house for your family, enroll your kids in school, pay their fees, sponsor your vacations etc. Why doesn't he just marry her already. You clearly have no idea what marriage entails.

He asked her hand in marriage. She accepted. No one forced her. If she wanted she should have married her father.
Marriage is not a silly game of parents jumping in uninvited. It is a union built on loyalty, trust and fidelity. I doubt most women know what those entail. Shallow materialism is their mantra.



Those are the kind of men you and your ilk praise. The wimps and irresponsible seekers of short cuts. Very agreeable and stu.pid too.
A sensible man will take pride in hardwork not handouts.
God forbid i end up with a woman who is still suckling her mother's breast and jumpin all over daddy the superman.

Mondisweets:
Imagine, a father now has to ask for permission to do something for the daughter he laboured to raise in fact this guy has no respect for his father in-law!

in coogars voice *who do you think you are? I am the head of my home and I make the rules

carefreewannabe:
Exactly and I am sure that the same men would be glad to accept a car if it was given to them by their mums. That wouldn't be an issue.

why should ot be an issue when mummy knows best and she was there before you arrived




mummy cares o.dont destroy the relationship between mother and son

Mondisweets:
Lolz, tell me all about it. This is to all those average guys who go around seeking for partners from families above their level. Expect to have your ego bruised a couple of times where u fail to deliver

Abi o.what where they thinking before

moca:
See entertainment!
I've missed this type of entertainment in family section,walai
I don laugh tire

I will soon start awarding prices for d best entertainers.
Very funny.

please do o.and please I want very soft moca foam and pillow for xmas gift

Industrial attachment na other posh name for office general messenger



them go send you tp dispatch letter taya and buy food with suit




I.T na work?

Chillisauce:
You should ask yourself all those Yahoo Yahoo emails and scams where the sender's are. Many of them plenty here. See them pack up in one room apartment in Lagos and other interior villages .


Ask their job descriptions, you will hear . IT.

10 million likes for you there

Mondisweets:
clearly she accepted the car because her need for one surpassed the need of constantly nursing his little ego deal with that.



Stop being illogic, its a gift hence there is no need to discuss it. You just give it to the receiver, its the receiver's decision alone that matters. If she didnt need the car she would have rejected it simple.

Its only a man who isn't man enough to deal with the fact that some things are beyond his reach, and let those who can meet the need meet it. My father will never watch his daughter being inconvenienced by another man, the reason why he laboured hard to raise her in the first placd is to that she can have a much more comfortable life than he provided for her growing up and he will not let another sken sken boy interfere with that because of his insecurities! If he thinks everyone else's world should revolve around him and his feelings, he has no business getting marriage, because he clearly isnt mature enough for it.



enemies of progress! Just because someone did what you could not do, you shout, "interfering with my family". Because you have become a husband does not mean you can sanction what a man can and cannot do for his daughter.

Why do you think millions of your agemates are marrying +70s year old women for papers, hiding in suitcases and cargo, all in the name of seeking for greener pastures in America or Europe if there nothing wrong with the way you think things should be done?

this is one of the reasons men will complain endlessly of women looking for the Lord has done it men . They no even wan near e go better men because poor men will want them to be languishing in poverty with them when no be them cause the poverty

LordReed:
LoL poor man too dey quick vex. No worry God go provide.

Abi o

jumbotron:
Hian! Everything must become war on this Nairaland. Haba, two minutes and someone will come and be name calling. Internet gangstas that like to bully people. It is a pity. Grown ups o! LordReed, keep your cool...none of the name callers can pay your salary or live your life.I will forever respect the likes of pickabeau, I hardly agree with him but he is a man who knows that noone's opinion can change the fact that he is a man! Brother can argue without insulting people.

Interesting topic has been run down once again.

Truckpusher:
Leave me alone, you fuccking ho - I ain't digging that smelly shiit you run with.

looser not everyone has a tiny little brain like you

Truckpusher:
This ho ain't giving up.

this wimp no sleep sha



gate man for nl.enle o.karo o

You're not making any logical sense as usual . enjoy your pain once again

Truckpusher:
Don't give me those fake laugh emoticons when you are so pained deep inside.

Go dive your poor and poorly made bed and stop drooling the whole damn place with your stinky saliva,you already exposed your brazen stupidity.


Oh! I see - You hos ain't loyal at all