₦airaland Forum

valdes00:
Scope la man fi je ko nisin... Pelu shibi ni so ko ni ra wa lowo.... Jes kiddin... Tanx

cococandy:
person go run for that WOMAN for this nairaland

valdes00:
I knw say u don dey vex... *smiles*... OYA no vex, m jes avin fun.... *prostrates*... Egbon, ema binu simi.... Omo de lon shey mi... 2 b sincere, am realy sorry.... Dnt b angry wif me

Chillisauce:
Now that's what I'm talking about.

Chillisauce:
Some people come to this life to jelouse others. No marriage is the same
Focus on yours and stop bothering about how happy others are .

As for 5 min madness, everyone has a way of displaying theirs. Some talk through things, others break tv, doors etc, while another set walk out.

Misery loves company, you just come here to ask if anyone misery looks like yours Abi ?

Atalaka

Work hard to better your marriage, throwing tantrums get you no where. But communicate and discuss like real being

valdes00:
Lolzzz... Bros is vexxing... No worry, I trust OLAMIDE... Him go stil do remix 4 u... Okponu

valdes00:
I dey sure say na becos of u OLAMIDE sing dat song ---- STORY 4 D gODS

valdes00:
Awww.... See as u carry anoda person matter for hand lik gala inside hold-up... B lik say u no read where d OP use d guy do shakara lik mad, mumu lik u.... First do no dey pain, na last do dey pain.... GO N DIE if he pain u

waternogetemeny:
Big boyz or Thieves?

aisha2:
Thank God you knew who he was before you married him and married despite objections its not as if he changed.
The same way you managed him to marry is the same way you will keep managing him. People don't marry and " change" their bad attitudes, they change only when they decide to.

Am sure you thought having kids will change him sadly you are just saddled with a lot more babies.
My sister, fast, pray and keep managing oh, na market wey you buy be that

ogawisdom:
This is wat u get wen u punish a man wen he is dating u bc u kw he loves u. Wen he marries u he ll maltreat u small to b even. op y r u nt shouting for him nw lol This man's love for u is gone he ll deal wit u n throw u out with ur child in d coming yrs.

Pray he changes sha

voodoo85:
Am jst wondering, why u were so proud? What do u have that made u so proud?! From your text i see that u had only virginity to offer nothing else. So now u have. Dont complain- your own fault

mutter:
What is she to report?
You have not mentioned anything about the man but only his sexual inclinations.
He wants it brutal and i can read behind the lines that you like it that way but you are just ashamed of admitting it.
He punishment is limited to the bedroom and so it is only the sexual aspect that you are talking about.
What is wrong with him asking for a B-job I guess it is actuallyquite the norm in the bedroom.
the bedrooms are no longer sunday mission school, the modern man has demands that are quite revolutionary!
You are a feminist and a proud woman that gets her way- So live up to the challange of modern day sex.

bugativeron:
this case is different from Titilayo. The op has not even come to terms with reality about sex in marriage. But op be truthful, has he ever beaten you before, if has done that then your case is pathetic and serious then you better run for your dear life. But if not then all he has done is fare in love and sex in marriage. He just needs some twicking here and there. For me I think communication and stereotype about how things should be is the prob with your marriage. You are better of resolving it now before it fester like infested sore and gangrene

bugativeron:
SAMBARRY! SAMBARRY! SAMBARRY! How many times did I call you. The way you are going about this ordinary f**king that you and some girls here are calling rape will make this girl lose her husband ooo. You OP self yiy better go home and talk witg your husband and stop calling ordinary s*x rape. Learn from oga jona.

Pyrrho:
I am a good judge of character. And you will be always wrong.
People like you don't change, you hold on to what others have said than what your senses can tell. You believe every bit of testimony. You think life would be perfect only if you believe and act on doctrines. Unfortunately, people are real, doctrines aren't alive. You decide to live your lies. Its your choice, and that is the only way you knw how to get by.

Story summarized. I pity you.

holluwai:
She should continue begging then. Leaving him isn't the best thing she can do, like someone said she should step up her game and give him however he wants it, she should watch more porn.o, learn more styles and fu.c.k the living day out of him, that way she can satisfy him because they're so many ladies out there that wants it exactly the way he's giving it to her. Period! she should live her whole life begging him and being treated like an animal in a marriage ok o


op they say you should sit down there and continue begging till they turn you to half normal half abnormal human being




even God that we offend bon a daily basis forgives our sin so I don't understand how a human being will eternally be begging a human being.

JoeCutie:
Looks to me like one of those fictions that Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie started with 80yrs ago.



But if it's true, I have these to tell you.

1.) To all those girls who would not like a guy but still wouldn't leave him alone just cos he has money, so that you & your friends could suck him dry & use him like a monthly pad, this "punishment" is befitting to you. Yes, I said it & I've no apologies for saying it.

2.) Op, I think you wanted some really pathetic "Awww", "Eeyah", "Chai", "Sorry" & what have you, other than advice & a way to make things work between you & your HUSBAND. Yeah, I put that emphasis on 'husband' so you don't forget he's your husband & not Nairaland girls husband. No matter what, you're suffering it alone. And you'r sure gonna get those comments that would make you wanna deactivate your account.

3.) You could have talked to your mum or your mother-in-law about this, & not to come here & open your husband's yansh & on the process, opening yours too. There's NO help on here. In such situation, Nairaland really does more harm than good.

4.) So if your husband's D is 100km long, you won't let him use it on you? Artificial insemination then? Babe, this place na Naija! No be Yankey. In your next life I'm sure you're gonna have a rethink when dishing out conditions in your relationship. "No sex"! Abi? At least you would have known that his D is longer than from Mile2 to Badagry before agreeing to walk down the aisle with him.

5.) Get serious! We no be pikin.

Angeldemivida:
Nobody deserves to be r-aped. Ra-pe is still r-ape even if it was done by one's darling husband.
Even when you are screaming and shouting, he has the heart to be doing that.
If all husbands treated their wives like he is doing to you, nobody will remain married. Do something about it before you choke on your screams or even be ra-ped to death. It is not a good way for a man to treat his wife abeg. Pastoral or even family intervention may change his behavior. If he wanted to punish you for all the time you did not agree to s-ex, he shouldn't forget that he married you to love you unless he married you to punish you and send you out of his life when he is done with his punishment lovemaking sessions.

Bridgetown:
Just pay a prostitute and introduce her to him to reduce the distraction and constant banging. Shikena