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holluwai:
Leave pastor bimbo out of this one abegi!!! Let her apologize and I bet you things will change...

haven't you read where she apologised and he didn't accept it.i don't even see this marriage lasting sef.this is not marriage or life. They will soon enter the list of divorces.


Pathetic

valdes00:
Lolzz,.....I jus dnt knw y I lik wot d husband did to her... Mayb because dats hw we roll

I know the answer. It's because you are a macho sadist.you feel good in other people's pain.as in other people's pain makes you feel more of a man probably because your family didn't make you feel like one

Pyrrho:
So they told you.

so I know because I am also a living testimony of that. Communication solves many problems at work and with my friends

Pyrrho:
this are the kind of people I dislike. Who thinks talking would solve everything. You are wrong. And u ar living in fantasy land. Pastor Bimbo(smart woman) wouldn't tell you things she had to do. Learn to be real in your life. Stop believing everything you hear. It is never as easy as it sounds.
All this believers sef.

yes I believe everything she said because her life as a whole was a living testimony. Stop making the lives of women miserable because of a mistake . if that was the way God treated us, none of us will be alive

Pyrrho:
this are the kind of people I dislike. Who thinks talking would solve everything. You are wrong. And u ar living in fantasy land.

communication solves79.9% or more problems in any human relationship.the rest is mutual respect, love and regard for each other. The rest is prayer

akinsadeez:
If he enjoys it when you are shouting, then it is not a matter of him punishing you, he just enjoys domination sex. There are people who are twisted like that. They don't like conventional sex. You need to take him to a psychologist.

tjen that's a disgusting sadist





pickabeau where are you. I know say na this kain thread you go pretend say you no see




I hail una o.tufiaaaaaa

GOD bless late pastor bimbo odukoya.she said marriage is two forgivers living together.even if he didn't like her behaviour before marriage there's nothing stopping the man from telling the wife that he wasn't happy with her behaviour before marriage and if she's reasonable she will apologise and they move on but instead he turned her to a sub human being and the unfortunate thing is that other people will be looking at her as iyawo.in her home she is nothing more than an animal



tufiaaaaaaaaaa

holluwai:
She had used the guy all along, go to dates, eat lunch, dinner and movies even with her friends. Do you think the guy is a fool? His ego would not allow him forget those things easily and cap it all, she denied him sex all the while, how would the guy be sexually satisfied all the while they were dating? Like I said it would pass away if shows some sign of remorse because the guy really loves her, he wouldn't go through all that stress just to do all these to her.

cococandy:
IF true pls find your way out of that abusive union

ASAP




that is if your life and sanity is valuable to you o.and if you like you can take to the advice of fellow sociopaths like him

real man indeed




kanwulllliaaaaaaa where are you na

JAZES:
Am amaze at how folks think dis is fiction...... I know a very close friend whose husband refuse to have sex with for 8years just because the guy wants to get back at her for all she did during the time they were dating.
The guy refuse to change his decision even after everyone pleaded with him and he eventually divorce the lady.
You cannot fathom what an un-renewed human mind can do.

Dreyl:
Good for you.

may God not give me relations like you that have no atom of human compassion. Seriously I have never heard and seen men like this and till I diebi pray we don't even jam neither will my daughter



if that woman endure that dungeon she calls marriage for more than one year she will soon run mad.kilode even if she was unpleasant before marriage is there not anything called forgiveness. If God didn't forgive us we all don't deserve to see tomorrow but his forgiveness andlove has kept us how much mmore human beings

holluwai:
Live the moment, he will change one day. You brought this all on yourself!

how?

If being sociopathic and violent is what is your definition of being a man, boy I don't envy your wife or your marriage.

Tufiaaaaaa



so some women go through this and you say she shouldn't inform her people.


Chair cover where are you o.please wa dasi.na this kain marriage dey turn people to crazy jerks.hiaaannnn.

lbgr8t1993:
Yes that is a man,a real man I mean!!!

Pls for the sake of your marriage endour it for a while with time he will come his normal sense.

Pls don't let any body know about not even your parent ,his ,or your pastor,cus if u do, u are indirectly depriving him of his right.

I believe by now your shoulder must have come down.

Thank God no be person like me

As I read this your post fear too grip me . like seriously only you



in fact I don't even know what to say to you. Pele. The Lord is your strength




kanwulia please come o.this one don pass wetin I fit talk.e be like horror home video



op are you sure you are not married to a sociopath.

A polygamous home is likened to a den of mad people

Nawa o.this nl sef ehen

Nmeri17:
Yo dp is a garden of electronic gadgets. I was wondering if u repair them as a hobby or somn

o.ok.i don't repair gadgets for fun albeit I'm a fan of gadgets

cococandy:
OP are you high? If your mom wasn't kind to your sisters,mine was awesome to me.
I can die for my Mother.
So shut up

gbam

You're not making any sense to me

Nmeri17:
dyu repair electronic gadgets for fun

Onegai:
I hate you so much right now. I can practically imagine the taste of that turkey in my mouth (which is tasting like a combo of Chloroquine, Ampliclox, Flagyl and 3 other drugs right now )

Kai.

don't hate the cook

The yoruba elders say orisa jenpe meji kosi.meaning it is very IMPOSSIBLE for two or more women screwing the same dheek to love each other. They will forever be sworn enemies. No matter how many times they come to settle their fight. The highest they can do is pretend they love each other so that the people settling their fight can gp so that they will start another round of brawl and sadly they unconsciously force their children into their animosity. The animosity that was there before the kids were even born.they will perpetually be rivals and suspicious of each other. Even the man that pack them put inside the house sef is not safe in his own home because when they are throwing physical and spiritual missiles at each other, it can accidentally hit the head of the husband. And that's why yorubas call polygamous home a dungeon of mad people because every imaginable and unimaginable things full that house

jogego:
Its such a pity that we still have this kind of mentality in this age and time. Why on earth cant we all live and let live? Why on earth cant we just love each other? Why must it be such a problem existing beside each other?

Much as I feel your pain, If I were in your shoes, I would just find an excuse not to go. Who knows, if anything should go wrong that day, fingers would surely point at you. Its quite admirable that you guys are trying to bridge the gap. My belief is that life is too short for all this kind of rofo rofo (as Baba 70 calls it). I'm sure other members will come up with some suggestions as well.

andromida:
I mean look at the long list sef.

irritating to say the least

Shey Nigerian life get value talk less of the yeye currency. Na today una just know say everything is wrong with Nigeria. Mshewwww

tpiah2:
Even the bible says the sword will never depart from your house when you engage in certain lifestyles.

so, op, what exactly is your interest in the matter?


are you making money from it?

some people's mother have turned to igba ikole.anybody can insult them at anytime and they can't defend them


even the yoruba elders say the way you treat and defend your mother will set the record of how others should treat your mom so since you've given me the impression that anybody can talk to your mother anyhow under the guise of what is your gain, she can be treated with contempt

This man na sex machine o.at that age

andromida:
Ladies this, ladies that. Take it easy.

as in ehen.i just taya


e for even better if e make sense. Mind your damn business and live your life the best way it suits you because all fingers are not equal

Priceless24:
Did he have to fight? Why didn't he just leave if he wasn't comfortable with what happened. How does fighting make him better than the lady who insulted his mother?

my dear it is worth it o.it shows because fathers are still replaceable but mothers are irreplaceable. I will do the same thing my dear if not worse. I will insult them so bad that fear go dey grip the woman at the sight of my name

Yes ke.he is right. Good move till the dad starts thinking with his brain and not his pheenese


and nobody should start ranting rubbish that your father is still your father. Na so them tell the girl wey im papa nearly r@pe am to death in family section of nl

Abdgafarplenty:
when you go day wear some useless cloth in front of yah papa way him wife don run commot

are you sure you are ok?

[quote author=tonigreen post=28619987][/quote]too good

Onegai:
Sambarry, if you are pursuing Sophyrocks with these food pictures, I assure you other women are also interested in your love. As in, this must the most delicious one I've seen so far.

madam for the records I'm not a lesbian. I am rewarding her for an intelligent post with no strings attached of which intelligent posts have now become a scarce commodity on nairaland


have I made myself clear beyond all reasonable doubt

It is good especially if the man is a stingy fellow


nothing pains a stingy fellow than stealing. It forces them to give