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Ehen so you lied to me that you are a twin abi? You Go hear am

RoyalRoy:
I will start first!!!

I am Roy, a yoruba boy with international sense

Born, bred & buttered in Naija, single & still mingling!!

I stay in U.S half year & half year in Naija, man must work & chop u know!!

Best colour is anything Red & White.....all things bright & pure I must say!

Roy is an old french word for King, hence the username Royal Roy......I am so Royal & Loyal........yes boss!!!


Am single, not for long I hope, having too much stuff to work on right now & combining family will slow me down....my opinion!

Am a rare specie(according to my friends), Am fun loving, love music like my life, I could be a party freak in a month, and a churchy dude in between!! Lemme just say I do what suits my spirit at the time!

I love football, watch the epl games religiously, I am a great formula 1 fan too, got so much passion for cars, fast & furious u can say that again!!

Special Talent.......ability to convince people (not always 100%)

Enough of me!!


Let's meet you

Vikthor:
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I doubt that....

why? Because she no wear Mary amaka gown abi?

honygold:
mumu,oloriburuku, omo ale, olosi, alaiye rada, omo eran, were jati jati ,pussy iya lo smelly,now jump to the lagoon and rot were you belong registered fool.

this are the times you wish some people understand yoruba

Obviously. It's almost like these men are trained unconsciously during their formative years to hate women. In fact I just got tired of arguing on that polygamy thread and left there



in fact in those kinds of threads is where you need people like jennykandry and kanwulia.awon loko nairaland guys.one post from them and all the noisemakers will evaporate

Sophyrocks:
You no go see them for here na. Anything wey no dey favour them them no go put mouth because they are guilty. When they beat their chests every day with MAN MUST CHEAT MANTRAS. Anything concerning women must reach 20 something pages. I'm sure you've gone through that 'What nigerian ladies do to get husbands' thread. You see how that thread is expanding. That tells you the horrible mentality they have about women.

CANTICLES:
.... Ok, but hope u know that hip-hop video that has no intimate content is not common nowadays bro

then it's a no no

Sophyrocks:
Exactly. On point jare. Men who dnt waste time before remarrying. I'm so waiting for a thread to treat a woman dying while cheating. You will see the amount of venom they would spew in that thread.

before nko?



why do you think the thread is scanty?

All of them don take off

by the way where is that pickabeau with his snide comments. Na this kain thread you no go find am

If it's a kiddies music video for people of herage range and no iota of sexual content, lewdness or unclothedness, why not

Sophyrocks:
No o. I am surprised that people are still expecting the woman to mourn the husband inspite of the circumstances surounding his death. I laff.

you dey mind them.i can bet my vajyn@ that if it was the other way round and it was the woman who died, the man will not shed a tear. In fact he will invite his friends and table the matter. It won't even take a year sef before he marries and this thread will have hit 50 pages for people calling the woman usual names, the popular names men refer to women they hate -b1@tch


while hailing the man

BlackStallion:
What I would like to know now, is if this is how big you ladies think the average dic'k is. If it is, then I'm afraid you're on a long thing (or rather NOT on a long thing)

irrespective of the size, if any uncontrollable dheek forcefully enters someone wearing that, e go hear am . meanwhile shebi condoms enter all sizes of dheeks so like this to, e don be for am



like rat wey pakute don trap

Sophyrocks:
He got served. Simple. Now can people see why some women do not mourn their husbands? The f00lish man died a shameful death. who wan mourn this one?

before nko. In fact in this kind of death she's not meant to wear black and if possible lash his mom for the kind of son she trained. Afterall no more mother in law isshhh.the person that brought them togetherhas died of adultery

Then let him go and be setting the rest where he is and if God wants to punish the other woman, let her be pregnant without any prior plans or preparations and doesn't have any stable job to keep her going, na poverty go kill mother and Child especially if she's yet to tell the man before his death.




As for the wife if she knows what's good for her she should just sell his house, use the money and start another life in another place of course have her own house with her kids and face them squarely before his family dreams of coming to chase her out and take over the house. Shiiooorrr

Tallesty1:
He is not silly my dear....

Two families were involved there.

His own family and his own other family

You don't know the situation of things in his other family.

Maybe he was trying to safe lives.

But as a generous man, he made sure that he settled his own family(in a way) first before going to the other family.

A generous man doesn't take care of his family alone, he extends it to his other family.

You won't understand sha.

Omg kanwulia baby



I have missed you and your educative posts



where have you been. Just like a prophet every thing you've been saying has been happening on nl

Kanwulia:
And the moral of the story?

Only a man's REAL FAMILY can die with him!!!! Closest to HIS BLOKOS!!!

Women! Stop dying for BLOKOSES that are not yours!

What your God or Allah has joined on Earth, no one can put AZZZZZUNDA!!!

Amen!!!

My "fellow widows". . . . Your "womanhoodSSSS" live on!

Wetin be my own. I don offer am easier alternative. When he's tired of suffering, he will let me know

egopersonified:
How are we sure the thing can stand sef? Situations like these kills a man's libido. Maybe he is hiding it from the wife. But this man it a good husband ohh, he didnt force the woman to submission, he didnt marry another wife, he is not cheating, he didnt beat her up, the wife is used to him providing so one year is like one decade,he doesnt drown his sorry in alcohol, he actually pays the woman when he can use strong head, he asks people not to put his wife in line but to help him beg. Op, abeg help me beg the wife to give him a little more time and help boost his ego, so he can find a reason to cherish her when things get better.
Btw, sambarry this your offer of 'payable when able' is equal to bad debt ooo.

cococandy:
Of course the man is never responsible for his actions.
It's the woman's fault.
Even as he left his family to run town service for his mistress and her own family,it's not his fault,it's the other woman's fault. She forced him to cheat on his wife.

you dey mind am

butanep:
abeg ooo... nor let me go eat 4 dream

wey the mr husband sef? Me I no dey for all this one. If he's not interested in the business deal. Make imccontinue to suffer in the claws of his wife.


my own is to make money

butanep:
this food nor be hear ooooo.... I can perceive the aroma

yes o.another sample.

Ok I have a business proposal for Mr husband.

He can be coming to eat in my house whenever he's hungry for as long as he gets a job but as soon as he gets a job, he's paying me back every penny I spent during his trying times. However he will sign a document to refund every single dime when he's ok.for instance

vegetables-600 naira
Assorted meat-1000 naira
Stew-400 naira for a week

but he has the liberty to dictate what he wants to eat but my money, it's certain that I am collecting every naira back and our business is over. Deal?




let me show you sample

Tunji tunji hawa you. Kujo meta.how is your business , family and mosque members? Hope you are taking care of them?

don't beat ya wife o.is not good

maclatunji:
Hello to all of you feeling down, I just want to let you know that if you leave your worries behind and stop caring so much about them, life might just start getting better.

Look at the birds, they go out in the morning on an empty stomach and come back in the evening with full stomachs.

Have faith in God, keep doing positive things and in time many of the problems that look so great at the moment would vanish in time.

Change your reality with a change of mindset, it would help you greatly.

Her life. Face yours

Use enough oil when it's hot add the fish and cover it so that the oil doesn't splash around. When it has fried enough, the oil will lift it up on its own to start floating, then you know it's due for turning but for this to fry properly without burning and for the oil to lift it up, let the fire in the burner be at the lowest heat . When you turn the burner to burn so much it burns the fish or any food at all without cooking it

naijaboiy:
10Million

To sing which song?

eminado

or dorobucci

Waiting for the noise makers/people eager to judge/bash her

Two of them fit themselves na




after all they are both flexing their muscles. The husband dey use im power, wife too dey use her power. That is gender equality. They both deserve each other. Make them continue to suffer each other. Shebi na for better for worse

cococandy:
Na wa.
Husband won't give sex. Locking up his p5nis
Wife won't give food. Locking up her pot.
Wife starts selling the food to husband.
E remain make husband demand money for sex from her.


_{end time couple}

Mondisweets:
everything comes with its advantages and disadvantages. Guns are meant to help people protect themselves and their interests, while others use them against people to deprive them of the property

abi o

Donxavier:
^^^
Pls ma isn't there forgiveness and second Chance with you?

yes there is but she has a mom to do that and or she knows the way to my house when she's ready to learn

Your own case is peculiar. You have invested in his life so you have a right to interfere but if you didn't do any of the above to make him what he is today and you are only related by blood and he tells you mind your business. My dear happily face front because when everything shele in eye go clear and he will understand what you have been saying since. For now he can't understand. Na experience go make him understand fast and perfectly too . I'll rather save all my shouting for wura when she becomes a teenager




why should I become hyper over another person's life when my daughter is there

RoyalRoy:
To Sambarry and all other advocates of "mind your business"

The moment someone you grew up with, who you share the same blood with and who by one way or the other you have invested in financially, mentally, emotionally and otherwise starts to misbehave and wants to "throw all my efforts into the bin" then it becomes my business.

I have a cousin who came to live with us at a very young age. He was a toddler when his dad passed away and the mum remarried. I personally made sure he never for once remembered he wasn't part of the family.

Bought him all he needed to be comfortable, taught him arithmetic and English in prymary school, watched him play soccer and became a pro in the game. He suddenly came home one day and said he wanted to travel out to Ukrain.

Thats not a problem, he too want to be in "Oyinbo man country". But when he still had 2yrs to finish his University degree which was funded not by his own sweat, and a lot of sacrifices made to keep him on top of his education only for him to suddenly want to "go to Ukrain" to play soccer during this war time just because he has a friend who seems to be doing well and had invited him.

So I should close my eyes, just because he is above 18 and literally watch him go and die? I should forfeit all the investment on him to be useful not to me but himself just because its none of my business? Hell to the capital NO!!!


The moment people realise their actions directly or indirectly affects the life of others the earlier they will know not everybody can keep quiet and watch them activate the "self-destruct" button.

The only way he can get into that Ukrain is if he ran away from home, got all the cash he needs from wherever and never ever looks back....then I know truly...its no more any of my business.

oyb:
I think this is easier said than done.

o have done what I am saying before



a cousin of mine wasn't ready to get married at least domestic wise. She doesn't know how to cook and when she came to my house when she was younger and had the opportunity to learn I told her to come to the kitchen and watch me she said she doesn't want hot water to pour on her body. Which one be my own, I left her in the sitting room to continue watching E!


Her mother too knew she couldn't cook yet she was distributing aso ebi and telling all her friends her daughter is getting married next month. I warned her mom she said i should mind my business it is what they call someone into that the person interferes. I said sarcastically emabinu o but I will still come and eat rice even if the marriage doesn't last. She said na me sabi.as I am typing that marriage lasted 4 months. She's back to her mom

her husband didn't allow the cook they attached to her into his house. He said it's his wife only that he wants cooking for him so that if anything happens to him domestically he will trace it


to cut the long story short. The man tried to teach her. She will complain that she's tired of standing. Sometimes in the kitchen when that one is teaching her how to cook she will be filing her nails asking him if it's sexy



sweep na the guy dey sweep the whole place while she's chatting with her friends. She will even raise her legs for the man to sweep the sitting room and tell him to be careful so that dust doesn't touch her



now the babe is at home. They are telling me to come and teach her how to cook.i said shebi shehas mom besides I hhave a baby to take care of. Work too is there. Moreover its none of my business. The time i was talking they said I should mind my business which i am doing and have been doing well

Even if I am called I will activate my ignoring button. If they call my phone I won't pick, if they come to my house i won't open the door, if they send someone to me I won't answer since I have forewarned and they said my mouth is smelling or I should keep quiet and face my front. I'll do just that very very well

Of course I won't be called to clean the mess because I have played the good big sister by giving advice so whatever the outcome of his actions are are his alone. I will face my front except he uses my name or our general surname for something fraudulent then I will meddle because I will be affected but if he wants to go on a self destructive journey then the road is free enough. After one warning and he refuses to listen, I will simply watch him go into destruction such that he won't have or see anybody to blame but himself

oyb:
Unless you won't be called in to clean the mess it is your business. There also the question of what the brother is getting into and the possible consequences and the future. It is easy to walk away, but would you regret this later?

Mondisweets:
God forgive you for that statement this is an anti-rape device not a profit-making scheme

well me I see opportunity to make money in every thing. My prerogative



And o yes, God has forgiven me long ago

Donxavier:
I don't subscribe to this view am sorry.

your prerogative

My advice to you is to mind your business. He's not responsible to you, you're not responsible to him..he's your relation that's all to your relationship.you have a lot of things to make you mind your business. E.g your work, your children or spouse (if you have any), your life as an individual, your happiness, comfort and peace. When you are busy focusing on all these you won't have time to be into any body's business.




Seriously nigerians need to face their lives and stop meddling into others affairs except they invite you even if you are related by blood. The highest is advice him and face your front. Whether or not he takes to your advice is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS