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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Work With A Crypto Currency Company Today - Read Full Details by Samolasoj(m): 5:54pm On Nov 30, 2020
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Post Abuja Jobs Here by Samolasoj(m): 9:30am On Aug 26, 2020
majestique:
Hi everyone. I've not been able to post job vacancies recently because I've been very busy. I would like to give two links to job vacancy groups which I believe will go a long way for someone here. Dm me to get the links.

Also if you're interested in dropshipping I could add you to my dropshipping group where you could make cool cash where looking for job.

Am interested
Olaoluwasamagbeyi@gmail.com
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Post Abuja Jobs Here by Samolasoj(m): 7:46pm On Aug 22, 2020
Hi, my name is Olaoluwa
I am a graduate of business administration who is ready to do anything as long as it can put food on my table and most importantly legit.
I reside around karu Abuja.
Am really tired of staying at home with no job and it's beginning to affect me in a negative way.

Someone should please help a soul and God will reward you..

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Romance / Re: How I Kept A Secret From My Sister To Protect Her Marriage by Samolasoj(m): 1:43am On Jul 15, 2020
This cousin was given the room downstairs to stay while I stayed with my sister and her husband in the rooms upstairs. I never had a reason to suspect anything but a few days after I got the house, I was praying around mid night. After praying, I felt like drinking some hot tea, so I went down stairs to make my tea.


As I waited for the water to boil, I noticed faint sounds coming from this cousin’s room. My curiosity was raised so I hid behind the door and watched …about 25 minutes later,the door opened and out came out my sister’s husband.

I was devastated. When he left, I went into this stupid girl’s room and confronted her. She went on her knees to beg me, not to say anything to her cousin not to send her away. She swore never to do it anymore.

I was torn and didn’t know what to do. So I called my husband and my husband asked me to let it go because it might cause a serious problem. My sister didn’t get married in time, should not be the one to break their home. And my sister appears very happy now. I did not want her to be heart broken like our mother.

Much as I hated the advice,I let it go but I warned my sister to be careful,I told her I saw this cousin flirting with some man who looked like a married man. My sister laughed it off saying,young girls of nowadays.

But I could not hold it back,I called my sister’s husband and told her that I know what he is doing. He begged me not to say anything …that he will never do it again. He even said it only happened once …and its because his wife just gave birth….he will never do it again. I told him I would send an anonymous message to my sister if he did not stop it.

I returned to PH with very heavy concern for my sister. I just kept praying for her even though I was furious with the husband. All these happened last year. I have not been to Lagos ever since. I call in to check in with my sister,that is all.


Until last month,my sister called me crying. That the cousin is pregnant for her husband and is refusing to abort it. That the girl is claiming her husband promised to marry her. That she had had 2 abortions for her husband before now. My sister is beyond devastated. I am beyond devastated.

I blame myself for not telling her about this evil cousin last year. And I cannot even bring myself to tell my sister that I knew about them. Her husband is denying the pregnancy, that he knows he is not the only one that slept with this girl. That he only did it once with her. It turns out that this girl even has a boy friend but she was sleeping with both men. Young girls of nowadays…I fear them o.

We know that is a lie but my sister wants to save her marriage and believe her husband that it was only once ….I am wondering,maybe its time I tell my sister what I saw when I came to their house. My husband says its not a good idea but I think he is just being a man and trying to protect a fellow male.

I am torn. My sister is torn. In the midst of this mess,she is trying to mend her marriage but she does not know the person she is married to,that he is a LovePeddler. Should I continue to keep quiet or tell my sister?

Its possible the pregnancy is for her boyfriend,its also possible its for her husband. But whatever the case,this girl has refused to abort it and my sister is almost believing her husband is not the father…

I myself,I am ridden with guilt of my silence…if you were in my shoes,what will you do?

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Romance / Re: No Romancelander Can Score 6marks In This Exam by Samolasoj(m): 4:49pm On Jul 11, 2020
Nmezor:
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Babe pls specify the one u failed
Romance / Re: No Romancelander Can Score 6marks In This Exam by Samolasoj(m): 11:56am On Jul 11, 2020
Chai can't believe I scored just 5
Just 5
What a shame
Romance / Re: Be Careful What You Sacrifice:my Support For Husband Destroyed Our Marriage by Samolasoj(m): 6:54pm On Jul 10, 2020
The deal he had was: he would sleep with me and help my husband win the election. I told him I have to ask my husband that because it was unbelievable. He said: who do you think opened the door for me to come inside. I was still in disbelief. He assured me that my husband was ok and that if I was not ok,he would leave but then,the deal to win the election was off.

I was scared. I did not want to cause problems for my husband but I also wanted to be a dutiful wife as always so I agreed. The GF made love to me and I cried all through the ordeal. He left saying: you are a very beautiful woman,your husband is very lucky to have you.

My husband came in like 5 minutes after the Godfather left. He came and comforted me and told me he was so sorry but it was the only way. I felt disgusted and betrayed by my husband but he begged me to forgive him. We left in the morning.

My husband won the elections because the God father was made sure of it. What I did not tell anyone was that after that night in the GF’s house,the GF started to send me messages of love and how he was attracted to me. He told me not to tell my husband in order not to jeopardize his career.

He explained that wives of politicians have to make certain sacrifices to keep their husbands in powerful political positions. The GF sent me huge sums of money. That was how my secret affair with the GF started. I told myself,I was doing it to support my husband. The affair continued for years. My husband never knew.

With an affair,you begin to fall in love with the person unknowingly. I found myself wishing I was actually married to the GF. He treated me with plenty money and gifts. He gave me a house and lots of money which I hid from my husband. I knew it was wrong but I had gone neck deep and did not know how to find my way back.

Several years passed and my husband has gone from being local government chairman to Permanent Secretary,to commissioner and house of reps member. The GF made sure my husband had his backing all the way. He was happy with me and my husband was getting his ambitions come to pass.

Our life is crazy,busy but everything was fine until my husband,heard too many rumors of my affair with the GF. He had to investigate and found out it was true. He was very upset and threatened to divorce me for betraying him. All my explanations that I did everything for his successful political career fell on deaf ears.

He was so upset that he left home for more than 3 months. He told me it was over. I begged and begged for forgiveness. I told him it was his fault but he said he never agreed for me to have a long affair with the GF. Agreed,yes but I did everything for him to have the GF’s backing.

He ordered me to end the affair or risk divorce. Of course,I ended the affair even though GF did not take it lightly. This made the GF stop supporting my husband’s career. He was supposed to be picked as deputy governor in the last elections but another person was picked instead. My husband knew he would never be able to advance much in the political party if the GF was not backing him and backing him meant sleeping with me.

My husband has been very bitter since then. He blames me for his misfortune. He never sleeps with me anymore. We practically live like strangers but we are still together for our children and to maintain his status in the society as a well respected politician.

I am writing this to warn ladies. Be careful what you do to support your husbands. You may think you are supporting them but they will abandon you when things change. I know my husband has his affairs too but he keeps them well hidden.

My life has been unhappy one and sometimes I really feel like leaving this marriage. But then,I would loose everything I sacrificed myself for. So, I am stuck here in a loveless marriage and I do not know how long I can take it anymore. Our families know that we are having issues but they do not know the cause of the problems.

They keep praying for our marriage but I have prayed and prayed and it does not look like we will ever be a couple anymore. The last time my husband made love to me was December last year,just before he found out that I was having an affair. I feel sad and lonely, I have s*xual needs yet I cannot get pleasure from my husband.

Is this marriage even worth fighting for anymore. Why cant Tony forgive me when all I did was for his own good? Fine, I hid the affair from him but without it,he would not have enjoyed all his political success….he even started it by making me sleep with the GF.

Now,he has abandoned me. I have needs, I am Hot and sometime I feel like running back to GF but that would mean our marriage is over…If you were in my shoes,what will you do,have I not suffered enough for trying to support my husband?
Romance / Re: .... by Samolasoj(m): 7:00pm On Jul 06, 2020
The year had already come to an end and my over-excited boss had a lot of interesting events lined up. We had a company photoshoot with professional photographers, the atmosphere was booming with celebration because Christmas was just around the corner and the company did really well that year and everyone was happy.

After the photoshoot, my boss ordered everyone to stop working so we could gather for a small office party or happy hour.

So, we all came together, there was pizza and other nice things to eat and drink. Now I don't drink alcohol, I just take soft drinks, since I joined the company anytime there is a social event, I always stir away from alcoholic beverages.

My colleagues including my IT manager will always encourage me to drink a little, that it was ok and I would bluntly refuse. But at this office party, this was when I let my guards down. I succumbed maybe as a result of the excitement in the air.

Like I earlier stated, I've been taking non-alcoholic beverages all my life and I love sweet or sugary drinks. My boss ordered 10 bottles of expensive champagne, I had never tasted champagne before.

My boss, colleagues, and my manager kept persuading me to have a drink or try it. My manager poured the wine in a tall glass, I took a sip and it kind of tasted sweet just like the non-alcoholic beverage I was used to but only a bit stronger.

I started drinking much of it because it tasted sweet, but I failed to factor in or recognize the alcohol volume in the champagne and I started to get tipsy.

My boss started a game where each one of us answers questions in turns. If you fail to provide the right answer, you will be made to drink a large quantity of champagne.

I didn't mind failing in the game because the drink was too sweet so I kept drinking every time I failed, and the inevitable happened.

I became so drunk and I started laughing like a mad man, I laughed so hard till I fell to the floor. I tried to get up, but I fell each time hitting my head hard on the marble floor. I would stand up bashing my head into glasses and walls. It was a not so funny scene to witness.

One of my colleagues recorded the whole incident on her smartphone to save for laughs later.

I was later rushed to the hospital to get the alcohol out of my system. I never knew what was happening, I just woke up and found myself in a hospital with a needle stuck into my arm. I was discharged the next morning.

On resuming work, I felt ashamed that I let my guard down. My colleagues were laughing while replaying the video clip recorded during the incident.

The lesson I learned from the ordeal is whenever you are in a party or social gathering, no matter the excitement, never let your guard down. If you don't drink alcoholic beverages, stick to water, or something else.

If you are not into smoking, don't smoke because you see others doing so at a party. We all have different body reactions to certain substances, you never know if you will react for better or for worse and you may have your reputation at stake.

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Nairaland / General / Re: Giveaway Time by Samolasoj(m): 6:32pm On Jul 06, 2020
AlwaysConfused:
OP. Abeg no vex. I was searching for something else when I stumbled upon this thread so I decided to drop something before I move on.

So I'll be helping only two random people to quote this message with their account number with 5k each. Thanks.

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Thanks and God bless
Nairaland / General / Re: Giveaway Time by Samolasoj(m): 10:26am On Jul 06, 2020
Samolasoj:
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Nairaland / General / Re: Giveaway Time by Samolasoj(m): 10:23am On Jul 06, 2020
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Romance / Re: The Street Betting Of A Rude Rich Girl by Samolasoj(m): 8:37pm On Jul 05, 2020
We are definitely in episode 6
Can't wait to read that

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Romance / Re: Did You Know Something Crawls Out Of Your Face When You’re Asleep At Night? by Samolasoj(m): 12:37am On Jun 27, 2020
Ayomideayo:
OP, na your face kokoro wey get 8legs go dey

Lol I swear u are so funny

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Romance / Re: Has A Girl Ever Toasted You Before? Share Your Experience by Samolasoj(m): 6:39pm On Jun 16, 2020
It has happened to me more than twice but let me drop this latest one which happened when I was serving at national assembly last year.

So me and my friend were going to collect our PC for monthly clearance when we heard a girls voice from back saying excuse me, we turned and saw this two fine girls.
One just approached me in the present of my friend and said you are so cute, I just said thank you while my friend was just looking at her... The next thing she will ask was if I was single...I immediately said no am not and thank her for the compliment.

She left and my friend started getting angry at me for turning her down, that didn't I notice she has a car key on her hand bla bla bla...while we were still arguing, the girl and her friend were already going at our front. All of a sudden the friend of the girl turned and said bros my friend won die for u o, abeg give her chance na... I just smiled and she is welcome to be my friend doh

She just left hurriedly while her friend keep calling her to wait, I guess she felt embarrassed by what her friend said

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Romance / Need A Friend Here In Igbokoda Ondo State by Samolasoj(m): 9:06pm On Apr 25, 2020
I really don't know if here is the right place to post this but am still hoping I will meet someone that's in igbokoda ondo state here doh

Have been here for some days now, actually came to do a project for my dad and I think I will be staying longer than expected
Have actually not been to this town for over a decade now so I guess that's why I don't know anyone around.
Now the thing is, am so bored, need a friend both male and female. Pls if there is anyone here that is currently at igbokoda ondo state, pls signify and save me from the bordom
Thanks
Romance / Re: Mention The Lies Your Ex Told You by Samolasoj(m): 7:33am On Apr 14, 2020
argent412:
Baby, I will be going for a church program in anambra. My mom invited me. I don't know when I will be back. cry

Chai this one strong o.. sorry about that doh

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Romance / Re: . by Samolasoj(m): 7:29am On Apr 14, 2020
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May God reward u abundant
Romance / Re: Why Women Love Lies---true Story by Samolasoj(m): 1:28am On Apr 13, 2020
Pls come and finish the story o

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Romance / Re: Share Your Romantic Moment Experiences by Samolasoj(m): 9:12pm On Apr 12, 2020
Okay so mine was with my ex and soon to become present doh

I traveled to Lagos to see her, she picked me up and we headed to an hotel where I will be staying for some days bfr going back since she currently stays with her uncle den but she stayed with me all through my stay doh... We were like Romeo and Juliet in the hotel, we would go down to the bar and start playing and doing all sort of things regardless of who is watching, sometimes we will see the hotel workers staring at us smiling and gossiping but we don't give a Bleep, sometimes we will even join them in Smilling.

So the day she blew my mind was when we decided to go see a movie at Ikeja city mall, we started our usual stuff from the entrance, even when we were eating, we were just doing stuffs, feeding each other in public and co, people were just staring but we did not care. So time for the movie came, I was so happy bcus I was going to be the first set to watch Avengers End game (for those that love that movie, they will understand).
After getting the tickets and we were on cue to get our 3d glasses bfr entering the Cinema with many people around, she was standing at my front while I hold both my popcorn and hers, she just turned and said she feel like kissing me here, I was a bit shy so I decline but she insisted, before I could say anything else, I found myself kissing in public and everyone was just staring and lafing ( trust me it was fun and I enjoyed it)

So we got into the theater and instead of us watching the movie, she kept on distracting me with her kisses intentionally, after which she will laf(she said since she don't like the movie that much, that am the only one enjoying the move so her own movie is my lips)
I can say we kissed all through and the people at our back keep complaining that we are distracting them and we will all just laf it out..

Anyways doh there are other romantic moments with same girl but that has been my best romantic moment ever

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Pets / Re: Caucasian Shepherd Dog Thread: Post Your Dogs Pics by Samolasoj(m): 5:27pm On Apr 12, 2020
My boys ceaser @ 8 months and flocky @ 6 months
Flocky is a slow grower doh

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Romance / Re: EASTER Giveaway For The Less Privileged Nigerian Citizen by Samolasoj(m): 3:04pm On Apr 12, 2020
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My faith shall prevail
Family / Re: I Don’t Enjoy Sex With My Husband. His Joystick Is Too Big – Wife Tells Court by Samolasoj(m): 6:49pm On Mar 31, 2020
Every woman needs to be happy and if she is not happy in her marriage anymore, the judge should just dissolve the marriage

For those saying one man's food is another man's poison, I think you guys should go read the write-up again

She said her husband dick is too big and *he dies not know how to use it* also *he does not make her contribute during sex* making her enjoy it..

Check the first bold which says he does not know how to use it so before you people start talking learn to read very well

It's not all about having a big or small dick, the question is, do you know how to use it very well to satisfy your woman? Rather than hurting them during sex
Pets / Re: Murphy the Boerboel and Gustaf the German shepherd by Samolasoj(m): 5:40pm On Feb 20, 2020
Hello Vincent
Pls where can I get booster dry food here in Abuja
Have been to that big pet store at yanyan check point behind FCMB bank or so but they always complain of out of stock for that particular one.

Thanks
Romance / Re: How Do You Say This Without Offending Her? by Samolasoj(m): 4:08pm On Feb 14, 2020
Buy her Listerine mouth wash and thank me later
Pets / Re: Rate My Caucasian by Samolasoj(m): 1:01am On Feb 08, 2020
[quote author=Equado post=86464116][/quote]

U just quote me and did not reply
Romance / Re: How My Mother Ruined My Happy Marriage by Samolasoj(m): 10:15pm On Feb 07, 2020
Foodqueen:


Don't mind the op. It's not that the story is real anyways, just to while away time.

Exactly my dear
Doh it sound interesting

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Romance / Re: How My Mother Ruined My Happy Marriage by Samolasoj(m): 9:24pm On Feb 07, 2020
Foodqueen:
Op, pls whenever you are through with whatever is keeping you busy right now,pls come back and complete this shit angry

Lol am with u, even had to click the rubbish link but it's so unfortunate that it's not working

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