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That's a big lie... @Op lier

Redoil:
What about nairaland gurls

Abeg help me ask am!

TheInkheart:
Reasons Why You Should Not Get Married To A Nigerian Man

It is no doubt that Nigerian men make wonderful lovers; they are sweet, kind, thoughtful, maybe not very romantic but romantic still and good in bed too. It is also no doubt that these men are very rare to come by in Nigeria. Maybe by default or societal conditioning, most Nigerian men are so not it; they are egoistic, chauvinistic and make terrible husband materials. You wonder why I think Nigerian men; at least most of them, won't make good husbands, read the reasons listed below:

-They Are Chauvinists: pardon the strong word "chauvinists" but Nigerian men prefer to stick to their bias opinion about women and their responsibilities in the home. The take the "head" duty way too serious and often push the women aside expecting them to follow their will and do as they say. If you marry a Nigerian man, you will probably end up as the less important voice in the home or wherever the man rather than as a partner you are to him.

- They Are Polygamous In Nature: In Nigeria, some men believe men are entitled to as many women as they can handle and so, they are free to marry more than one wife or have affairs with other women. With a Nigerian man, it is never certain that you will be the only woman in his life. To save yourself the heartbreaks of discovering condoms and hotel receipts in his pocket or worse, finding out he has secret children, please do not marry a Nigerian man.

- They Are Not Romantic: you want flowers, a guy to follow you to the salon, exotic lunches, dinners, vacations, chocolates and breakfast in bed? Then, a Nigerian man is not the man you should marry. They often consider these things as cheesy and unneccesary. Maybe they will try on your birthdays and valentine's day (that's if they don't come up with excuses to forget). The most romantic thing some Nigerian men will ever get for you is packs of food from an eatery or drinks and few back/foot rubs just right before sex.

- You Will Be A Nanny To A Grown Man: if God blesses you with a Nigerian man and a somehow scattered one, you are in soup. You've just graduated to being a nanny to a full grown man. You will pick his socks, shirts and what not after him when he gets back from work, even flush the toilet when he's done. Be ready to face a sulking man if the food is not ready on time or you try to get him to do something for you when his favourite game or tv show is on. You will have to pet and stroke his ego almost all the time to make him happy.

- They Have The Wife Beating Syndrome: either by societal conditioning or home training, some Nigerian men believe it is very normal to hit a woman; that is the only way to put them back on track when they are wrong. It is no secret that some Nigerian men will beat their wives and feel no regret about it; it is somehow the woman's fault the man is so angry to the extent he has to hit her. If you're not ready to lose your fine skin to the itchy palms of a man, please steer clear of Nigerian men.

Nigerian men are also good liars. They smoke and drink heavily and blame it on the society's deteriorating condition; they have to "keep body and soul together". Many Nigerian men have money problem; it is either they are misers or heavy spenders. Some prefer to show off the wealth they do not possess by living way beyond their standards. And the most annoying part is that many Nigerian men are Mr nice guy in public and Mr stingy in their homes which you will agree is not a very attractive trait especially in someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.

I know by now, some guys are already hissing and cursing me probably but it is undeniable that many Nigerian guys have terrible attitudes that make them really undesirable husband materials. I mean, it is tough enough we have to cope with the many issues in the country, men problems should not be added to our weighty wahala. We deserve men who understand us (at least to a reasonable extent), shower us with the affection we need, pamper us and make us feel very special and loved but how many Nigerian men can beat their chests that they can be the man of our dreams or at least, part of the dreams?!!


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Dear OP, the thunder when go fire you still dey gym oh

Raiders:

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Is this how your father treat your mother? Just because your father treats your mom like a slave and badly, doesn't mean all Nigerian men will treat their wives badly

No doubt!



This most be exactly how his father treats his mother!

midolian:
Diezani's sister again?

With all the billions this family have gathered, do they need appointments again? Wey me sit down for house dey find job since ...





[size=4pt]Consoles myself with "don't worry, be happy" by bobby McFerrin[/size]

The rich get richer & d pooR get poorer?

Instead of engaging her, you are telling her no sex... Do u think she is a fool?







Bro she feels u are breaking up with her in style... You don't want to come out straight and u are very selfish wit ur di*k! Abi u think say na only u dey f**k her?




If u think u still want her go on & put a ring to it.

Am strongly recommending Niger Delta University (NDU) Wilberforce Island Bayelsa State to you...








Just incase you've not heard about the school...

This is so on Point!








Very dangerous & stupid spirits!
God purnish them!

Spaxon:
its lyk Buhari's adminstration would be full of sport fans

That will be so #Lame!

xp17:
apart from helping her cheat in an exam, I don't see others as a big deal.
1,2,5, re the ones I like most.
6, can be tolerated at minimal.
4, that, I'm not interested. She can choose her friends regardless of genders

This is d only comment that make sense... Others are so #Lame!

PhockPhockMan:
Op, your mumu no be here o o.

This broz mumu don mature oh! Abi he think say we be abokiiii?

davdandam:
as godwin don give mumsi belle....GODWIN

Yes oh Godwin.

malipberry:
Jonathan has released another fresh air into this nation, he has made a rare sacrifice,he has given us a new face both within and outside the shores of this country.i say well done to our president.God bless Jonathan, God bless general Buhari, God bless Nigeria

Last fresh air I guess!

I will just sit here and see the change that they say they want!

Waiting for the email

Mba e no go work! GEJ till 2019 or eh

That's kul...

Fatalveli:
People now worship girls more than God these days. SMH!

Na wa oh

Those of u who are saying its a sin.




Who do u want to rule over u? Boko haram? Native Doctors?



Abeg its not a sin jor.

safarigirl:
of course the prostitution rate is high, is there any Government uni that the prostitution rate is low?

Of course! Niger Delta University is my amamata... They have but not as you are talking it.

safarigirl:
you never know anything.
Go to any tertiary school in the country and ask the girls in 200 level to 300/400/600 level when last their parents sent them money and how much, you'll find a majority barely get anything and have become used to that

Give d name of d school and you will see that the prostitution rate in that school is high!

safarigirl:
I'm writing this article strictly out of necessity. Not only is this based on the experiences of others, but also on personal experience

I want to start by posting a known fact. It's not by force to have a child, neither is it necessary to send your child to a higher institution, ESPECIALLY a girl child

See ehn, make una forget anything, the truth and the koko of the matter, forgetting all these yeye posts on NL is that most girls go into the University WITH ONLY their PARENTS as their source of finances. There is no money bag somewhere that provides money for us. Na only us waka come

There is a popular saying that when you're in 100 level, money comes in steady, as you progress it becomes less frequent and reduces in amount, by the time you're in your final year, if you even see 1k alert from your family, na to shoki reach ATM.

Many students especially those in government institutions can testify to this fact.....but I digress. It has come to my knowledge that most parents do not pay as much attention to their daughters in higher institution as they do their sons, because the female child is perceived as the 'understanding' one, who is supposed to 'persevere' because she's a 'nurturer'....that is by far the biggest load of BS ever peddled by the male folk (yes, na boys cause am )

All those bad belle brothers wey dey like shorten their sisters' monthly allowance on top tales of one (imaginary) boyfriend that is sending her regular money, just know that your village people have already pounded the yam that they'll use and lick soup ontop your head .

If not for the fear of God that some girls have, obatala knows that the amount of runs girls that would've been in this country for don reach to rival the entire Cape Verde's population. Not every girl has a business she's doing in school and we all can't combine business with schooling. Why then should parents transfer their burden to one small boy that made the error of toasting their daughter? Boy wey still dey collect money from house go come dey feed your daughter for school on your behalf, unto wetin?

Even if there is a boyfriend, is it his job to provide food, clothes and hair product from your daughter? If he provides all of that, what is her consideration in such a contract? And by consideration, I mean, her sacrifice. You want your daughter to leave school and immediately marry, but you allow her look unkempt while in school and starve thinking she has a guy that does it all, like say the guy follow una conceive.

Please, if you have a daughter in school, do well as a parent to see to her needs, even the petty ones, don't wait for memos from your child before you know your job. The tertiary instituion is hard enough, but peer pressure is a b*tch and not every child is understanding and persevering. Shame on a child is shame on his/her parents too, so nothing like 'shebi na she get herself?'...na una get her

I'm sorry I wasn't able to pass across my message in what some may term a 'civil' manner, but some things gats come in pidgin for the message to make sense .

I'm not hitting at parents who try their best, I'm hitting at those who don't try at all and expect 'understanding'. Thanks for reading

Well this is rubbish because female get more cash from there parent as compared with there male counterpart!!!

In short no parent will send her female child to school without sending her enough cash, except they want her to become otherwise!

highlygbaski:
Pls what about examination officer in WAEC? Anyone with current idea of their pay? Cos I'm about leaving a bank Job for it! I Just hope I'm doing the right thing.

I think is a nice move... Cause this evry day story of banks retrenching workers here & there is not good at all...

And Exam Officer job is like seasonal (i.e you're only busy during exam period)... That means you are reflax.

Go for it!!!

owk