The man should listen to his wife... Instead of complaining he should get a house help for her, if they cannot... Atleast they have an extended family member who they can take care of and at d same time the person will do d cleaning!
ikechukwu354: cheiii this country, I will say it again, if the liles of dokpesi and dasuki don't go to prison, then THIS ADMINISTRATION IS MOUTH, just wasting peoples time and finance.
Won't be surprised if EFCC has taking there own share of the looted funds. so sorry for this pessimistic country even when we still give dem our trust and loyalty.
If they go to prison... Oga Buhari will join them too cos him too join share d looted fund!
[size=28pt]Obasanjom is the correct spelling.. It is not a Yoruba name.. It is Ekpe people from Cross river state or akwa ibom, cameroon.. that why No yoruba person bear the name. some igbo can interpret the meaning of the word. And obasanjo illegal collected the taxes of the country of western nigeria... which is an international crime.
And 16 years now Nigeria have illegally collected the country if western Nigeria taxes and oil revenues which is illegal. Obasanjo was involve in illegally collecting the country of western Nigeria money.
You need to see the state the military barracks is. They had no human compassion on the people of western Nigeria. It is sad. That African are mean to other African Ask your igbo friend. what does Obasanjom mean in igbo. [/size]
Obasinjom is Ekpe people, cross rivers, igbo will say Obasanjom.
Obasanjo is not from the country of western nigeria. He is from Nigeria..
Not a Yoruba name..
Famous Obasinjom cult and Obasinjom Warrior of the people of cross river and cameroon
Read the life and work of bate besong. It is a book..
fbtowner: I can see some ppl blaming the man. Well they might be right. In the other book childless for 8 years is no beans.
He even tried kudos to him. I guess the wife didn't take the childlessness serious enough.
Now some ppl taking about STI or STD or whatever. U are childless for 8 years and u are talking STI
from my own view I have never seen a man who will be childless for 8 year and will not be trying other women.
The woman is not faulty. Neither the man. I blame the landlady for been wicked.
But critically looking at it the man has a little fault. But I still give kudos to him for waiting that long its not easy. I don't think I can myself. It will take God's grace for me to wait that long
Now psychologically the man loves his wife. He didn't go far. I guess the relationship started by d Hetty woman initiating. The man couldn't resist. Who could do that should cast d 1st stone. For d man to do it within same compound I bliv he still loves his wife it was only a temptation he couldn't resist He who can resist that should cast the first stone Note : so many are cheating only those who get caught are named
Now to top it he is going to be a father after 8 years meeehn its no joke. (probably the best feeling he ever had in his life)
The best thing to do here for the wife is to accept fate and move on with him or otherwise. If she tries anything funny the man won't hesitate replacing her for Hetty
So I bliv if she confines In God and pray. God will grant her wishes and make her get pregnant.
The moment she becomes pregnant. Things will start balancing.
A man made for 2 wives will never marry one
I hope u choose your advice wisely
*inks Empty*
You have said it all bro!
Let me add mine!
The wife should try & take it as part of life & remove all d grudges she have against d landlady from her heart stay with her husband... She should try and be more tolerant now than never before (This is not the end of life yet).
And I think she is over stressing her self that's why her babies are still yet to come!
If u want to argue this? Let me tell u that d weather condition of a place changes over a period of time, the continents also move!
Now to ur arguement, its being over 2000years (from rock dating its over 4.5million years)... You can imagine how d weather condition of that place have changed over this period od years!
Wit this I think u have found an answer to ur arguement!
talktonase: I guess many will believe that christ was born during winter...wondering how the three wise will journey in such a harsh wheather.This does not make sense at all
Don't mind all these fake and apostles of doom prophets everywhere!
I don't even understand Nigerians and their impatience. How does any sane person expect Buhari to clean up the mess that started since 1985 in just six months?
Someone should help me pass this message to president Buhari that this is the "CHANGE" we wanted! The change being experienced in Tanzania. God bless us!
paramedic: [b]THIS IS THE CHANGE WE CLAMOUR FOR!!!!
CHANGE, THE TANZANIAN WAY "UPDATES FROM TANZANIA POST ELECTION ACTIVITIES Last weekend they were opening parliament and there was a state dinner planned for all guests that was going to cost about 300m. President Magulufi cut the budget to 25m and ordered that the rest be taken to buy hospital beds for Muhimbili. They got 300 beds and mattresses and 600 bedsheets from that money.
On 23rd Nov 2015 he announced that there will be no official ceremonies for Independence Day on 9th December, the money is to be used for more pressing issues and the day should instead be spent cleaning up our environment.
On Saturday 21st Nov 2015 a group of 50 people were about to set off for a tour of commonwealth countries (don’t know for what) but President Magulufi cut that list down to 4 people, saving government 600m in tickets, accommodation and per diems.
No more foreign travel, embassies will take care; if it’s necessary to go, special permission must be sought from him or Chief Secretary.
No more 1st class and business class travel for all officials except President, Vice, and Prime Minister.No more workshops and seminars in expensive hotels when there are so many ministry board rooms available.
President Magulufi asked how come engineers are given V8s when a pick-up is more suitable for their jobs. No more sitting allowances. How the hell are you paid allowance for a job which you have a monthly salary? That also applies to MP’s.
President Magulufi has literally pressed the reset button; returning Tanzania to default factory settings, because that was the TZ Nyerere left us with.
On the day after he was brought to power, in the morning as State House officials were showing him round he decided to take a walk to ministry of finance, told them to get their act together, asked why some employees weren’t in office (ever since then the traffic jam in mornings has become worse) and ordered TRA to scrap all tax exemptions, everyone must pay taxes especially the big guys.
President Magulufi went to Muhimbili Hospital unannounced and walked through the worst parts that they keep hiding from important visitors. He fired the director, fired the hospital board and ordered that all machines that weren’t working (so that people go to private hospitals owned by some doctors) to be repaired within 2 weeks otherwise he fires even the new director; the machines were repaired in 3 days.
Finally, last week when going to officially open parliament President Magulufi didn’t go by plane, drove the whole 600km from Dar to Dodoma.
President Magulufi has reduced the size of the presidential convoy, even reduced the size of presidential delegation that travels with him President Magulufi chose a Prime Minister we haven’t heard of before, a guy with reputation for hard work and no corruption. All the big guys we expected could be PM have been let wondering what hit them. His motto is: Hapa Kazi Tu. After President Magulufi visited ministry of finance and Muhimbii Hospital without announcing, it is said the ports, (most corrupt, delaying, thieving officials) were all of a sudden the most efficient place. No loads are missing, things are done quickly and that habit of forcing for a bribe so that your container is released is no more. Oh, they say when he was confirmed as winner people started congratulating him and wanting to bring gifts to his place he turned them back, saying he will receive all congrats over the phone, nobody should visit him.
All individuals/firms that bought state companies that were privatized but haven’t done anything (20yrs later) are to either revive the industries immediately or hand them back to the government.”[/b]
Miggs: its so annoying.they don't know wat d creature is yet they want 2 eat it.i remember when a dead whale washed ashore d bar beach yrs ago.boys were just cutting bits of it 2 fry and eat without knowing what killed it.are we starving in nigeria or is it just plain old awoof?awoof dey run belle o
Come on... That's a monitor lizard na (you can still call it Iguana) and they eat it. I have also eating it.
FriedPlantain: Whoever told you guys trousers were made for men alone? There is a big difference between the male trouser and the female one and I don't think any sane man would put on a female trouser or a sane lady would put on a male trouser.
If you folks can interpret that particular Verse of the Bible as God condemning the act of wearing trousers because it is for men only , then you should also condemn the wearing of suits by women because suits, facecap, t-shirts were initially created for men use only but nowadays they can be worn by anybody. The same applies to trousers as well.