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Enenche1:
hi guyz what do you think about this??..My girlfriend is schooling while I just started serving.. I have told her about my passion to learn music production,how I even tried to get a piano earlier this year but i lost the money to pick pockets...so I decided to use my allowee to buy a piano. this December but she was angry that her phone has been faulty I didn't say anything about it, and I want to use everything to buy a piano...mind you I always send her small money anytime she is broke...she's not d demanding type, so I was surprised...please am I been selfish is it right for her to be angry

u are just a mugu...fish brain like u. use your allawee build up ur life

that girl is a criminal and deserves more beating haba. as them pack her down na so she remove d phone submit shapaly. Dem for disfigure her face olosho. Beat her wela but no kill her.

mulante:
Are you the killer?

sshhh I was also thinking same thing, does that make me a killer too. the guy u quoted is d kind of people we need in CIAs very intuitive and intelligent

SaintHilary:
OP..This is one of the people u said should stay far away

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ZionMyWorld:
Ok ooo

watch out for a change of character from today....in 3-7 days time. I know why.

chinwezdasilva:
you too bro for seeing reasoning with me whether introvert or extrovert do your circle of friends call you the way her old time colleague haba e no go well, the rate I dey use call my babe no b d rate I dey use call my bestman self people gats wise up oh, this ladies can no longer as simple our mom

. e get one proverb weh say..u can fool all of the people all of the time but u can't fool some of the people all of the time. how can a wife be receiving calls at odd hrs even after knowing that the man doesn't like it. That wife must be very sweet...let me just pause here, I don't want to split much. I don't want to go into conclusion, that's why I said Zion should investigate his wife. na u Chinwez make me talk too much.

chinwezdasilva:
You should also ask yourself these questions. You had colleagues both in school and in military both men and women do they call you as often as her said colleagues calls her. If no then the handwriting is on the wall.. Because I can call my fiancee often but I can't be calling me old school mates often even my bestfriend.. That doesn't mean we don't communicate

u get sense

ZionMyWorld:
Well if we get to that bridge, we shall see.

Divorce isn't the best option, but the situation is getting me frustrated, I understand nobody is perfect, but sometimes the best option may not be sustainable...

I have never caught her with someone, though i spend less time with her, I stay far away... But I hate the distractions she is entertaining, they serve no good purpose for me, the kids and the marriage.

from what I have read so far, ur wife is a very very smart woman. investigate your wife...u might find what u are looking for.

Adedokunworld:
Kindly assist brother I’m willing to learn

did I said I am teaching anything

I don't need your gift.

user283:
Yes she knows my earning power and she knows that I can pluck out my eyes for her to see except I don't have it

I believe it's her inborn traits and there's no way we can justify that level of stinginess. Imagine dating someone for two years and you haven't gotten something as little as a toothbrush or shaving stick as a gift.. I believe I have every reason to be worried and that was the reason why I had a rethink and put the introduction on hold

user283:
There's a Yoruba adage that says you have to pretend as if you're dead just to know those that will cry

I've applied this method yet the situation is still the same. I've been sick for a few times we've been dating and she's never moved by my condition. There are times she has seen my account balance reading negative yet she will be the last person that will ever assist me in a little way

does she know ur salary and do u know her salary? I am a psychologist I know what she thinks about u, and I will tell u. That's why I said ask her, let's know why she has that strong mindset concerning giving to guys. There is something in her that she needs to bring out, and when she has brought it out, u can mould it and everything will b fine.

There is something she has experienced in the past that made her to act that way. u need to go deeper and investigate and let her tell u that thing.

If this is the only bad reason u have about her then relax she is not bad bro...Except: So ask her, if she has revealed that reason that made her have that mindset, then convince her to trust in u and u guys relationship, if she affirms to that then good. Don't tell her just give the relationship 6 more months and within those six months, bring up good news or whatever and ask her for a gift later on again, ask for 1-5k promise to pay back promptly. make sure u pay back o.

if after ur 6 months experiment and she still refused to borrow u 1k to 5k or give u a gift or something (remember u must ask for it) then run for your life and let her go.

user283

user283:
There's a Yoruba adage that says you have to pretend as if you're dead just to know those that will cry

I've applied this method yet the situation is still the same. I've been sick for a few times we've been dating and she's never moved by my condition. There are times she has seen my account balance reading negative yet she will be the last person that will ever assist me in a little way

does she know ur salary and do u know her salary? I am a psychologist I know what she thinks about u, and I will tell u. That's why I said ask her, let's know why she has that strong mindset concerning giving to guys. There is something in her that she needs to bring out, and when she has brought it out, u can mould it and everything will b fine.

There is something she has experienced in the past that made her to act that way. u need to go deeper and investigate and let her tell u that thing.

If this is the only bad reason u have about her then relax she is not bad bro...Except: So ask her, if she has revealed that reason that made her have that mindset, then convince her to trust in ur and u guys relationship, if she affirms to that then good. Don't tell her just give the relationship 6 more months and within those six months, bring up good news or whatever and ask her for a gift later on again, ask for 1-5k promise to pay back promptly. make sure u pay back o.

if after ur 6 months experiment and she still refused to borrow u 1k to 5k or give u a gift or something (remember u must ask for it) then run for your life and let her go.

user283

its a red flag but let's go deeper before conclusion.

user283

have u tried to let her know that u love gift and since 2 yrs she has not given u anything?

have u tried to ask her what she thinks about Ladies giving gifts to a guy they love...ask her whats her view concerning such, let's know what she thinks.

u are just a contract staff and can be sacked at any moment so u need. what if u are sacked and ur wife is the only one that can offer help and she begins to misbehave. I am not saying u should leave her but ask her the above questions, let's know what's in her head, let's know what she thinks about giving to a guy.

it maybe that she is always broke, but no matter how broke she is, she can still borrow money from friends to assist u, if she really loves u. How old is she?

shoperite pays above 50k so no excuse should come from her. I believe its a mindset thing. ask her first let's know her mindset concerning giving. If she says she can't help someone thats not her husband then u are good. maybe she has encountered some issues involving giving to a guy, which has in turn destabilise her mindset or thought in that area. just ask her...go deeper like an investigator.

its a red flag but let's go deeper before conclusion.

user283

have u tried to let her know that u love gift and since 2 yrs she has not given u anything?

have u tried to ask her what she thinks about Ladies giving gifts to a guy they love...ask her whats her view concerning such, let's know what she thinks.

u are just a contract staff and can be sacked at any moment so u need. what if u are sacked and ur wife is the only one that can offer help and she begins to misbehave. I am not saying u should leave her but ask her the above questions, let's know what's in her head, let's know what she thinks about giving to a guy.

it maybe that she is always broke, but no matter how broke she is, she can still borrow money from friends to assist u, if she really loves u. How old is she?

shoperite pays above 50k so no excuse should come from her. I believe its a mindset thing. ask her first let's know her mindset concerning giving. If she says she can't help someone thats not her husband then u are good.

chenzen:
I 100% disagree with u man

u are just 21 years old...u have not seen anything. That was how we kept advising u against ur green pill rule that made u to lick female ass, u ignored our advise because the females were clapping for u. Now that u have realised ur mistakes, u have now been baptized into the redpill gang. U C UR LIFE. I was also doubting this IMO girls brouhaha even when I was told and also saw what was happening. It all downed on me when I got many first hand experience.

THE LAST THING I CAN DO ON EARTH IS TO MARRY AN IMO STATE GIRL, EVEN IF THEY GAVE ME FREE OF CHARGE

Chenzen

Donald95:
My dear, I am from Ngwa but I can't marry ngwa and Imo. No nah.

goldony:
It is Ur state girls that are olosho. Anambra ladies are business minded, super intelligent, homely, always beautiful with good height, that is why most Anambra men prefer marrying their women. When U want to intimidate them,they can dare you.
You are the one spewing trash here, I know 5 imo state guys in oil company that refused marrying their imo state girls before they were transferred to work abroad.

midnighter:
I have heard the ngwa, mbaise and imo state gist before. In fact the person that said it was from imo state herself

That ngwa stuff is more like old news, I don't think people really think they indulge in that stuff anymore.

I haven't heard that anambra women are promiscuous, only that they are stubborn/arrogant in marriage and divorce a lot

I think I have been warned not to marry from almost everywhere to the point that I can't even take my parents seriously again

Sirvingeo:
I am from Imo state and my mum is from Anambra . she always warned me never to marry Imo ladies because of their promiscuous lifestyle . I later discovered it was the uncouth truth.

Kingsdave:
True bro... I'm from Enugu , our parents keeps telling us not to marry any girl from IMO... My uncles and other kindred guys that married from IMO married problem... Their lifestyle is wack. If you were rich and married them... Any slight down fall... You are on your own... For better we stay... For worse i disappear

AwkaetitiBabe:
Ngwa and mbaise

Omar09:
My mama warned me against marrying an Mbaise babe. Tho I have one who truely loves me.
My uncle warned against Ngwa. Tho I don't like them cause their girls are short.

chukzyfcbb:
In awka, peeps are wary to marry from Awkuzu, it's said that thier girls are either very promiscuous and the guys into gang/illegal activities, lol

My pops was wary of Nnewi People, he said they were dubious in nature.

Personally I am wary of Imo State girls, done see enuff from there to leave me with doubts.

Las Las we all have stereotypes regardless of how we hide it

WENGERNOMICS:
But is there any tribe that does not have wicked people?

As for Mbaise, the gist is that if you see a snake and see an Mbaise person, kill the Mbaise person 1st and leave the snake. Unfortunately, I did not heed that proverb and I encounter one Mbaise person that explained it to me practically .

That said, I still don't believe every single person from there is worse than a snake.

In summary Sha, stereotypes are bad. Na tribalism and religion dey kill Naija!

Any guy that has read this, should advise himself. I don't need to say who they are or what they are before you will understand.

In summary, IMO girls are 95% olosho, liars, arrogant, dangerous to your life and heart in marriage, because u might continue to beat her till thy kingdom comes, manage your marriage with sadness till you die or even die of heart attack. They can pretend very well if you have money. intact they are dangerous. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.

Since I joined NL, that has been my signature cos I know them. I have heard, seen, and experienced it.

kingxsamz:
Na to sing gospel music from morning till night, sleep wake up, chop fruits for breakfast. After everybody don chop finish, na to begin gospel music till afternoon break.

chai laugh wan kill me here

chenzen u don get small sense now o...woman wrapper. Female ass licker.

dermmy:
Use Damatol it will dry in 5days you can thank me later

exactly what I would advise him to do. but bros buy good medicated soap bath at list twice a day...morning and night, then use the damatol on those affected areas. The truth be say u no de baff and u de skip bathing some days. make u try baf at list morning and evening, and use damatol on those parts. also visit any hospital or chemist/pharmacy close bye and get a drug that can kill those ones in ur blood. damatol will do the external job.
NavalBoy

Mr man...I will b there next yr for 6months vacation. make I finish flx naija this year. Hope u will intro me to girls with real big nyash, no fakes pls.

iLegendd:
Ok.

yeah na d koko I just yan u...no hard feelings u hearrr but make u no de over do.

na wa for u o. you are preaching about honesty and about to spend 7k change that was sent by an unknown person. u no try o, do u know whether this money was mistakenly sent to your account. na so person enter jail last month bcus him spend money weh another man mistakenly send for him account. U are honest my ass, u just fall my hand. this your marketing strategy ehn...no b here o. pls tell the person that sent u a thank u message on whatsapp that we are hailing him/her.

goodluck in ur biz my guy.

Pafoma:
And what will you do if you were me and you marry her, fast forward to the future... she gets into a secret relationship, rekindles an old flame especially from any of the guys or just throws all caution to the wind and becomes something else! Dont forget by then, you both will be married with children then...

Kindly share, what you will possibly do apart from divorce..

u de mind them!! them de support themselves with their coconut fish brain. Their major goal in life is just to get married so they want to infect u with their coconut fish brain advise so u can marry her and u in turn will infect other guys with the coconut fish brain advise, so that girls of their type would escape the evening news paper zone. na dem dem....u better run while there is time. U can find another girl that will give u want u want even though 80% of them now na olosho. just look well u will find another.

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Pafoma
your sixth sense is telling u to leave her but ur coconut brain is telling you not to fall her hands because of ur friends, who have been sexing her and gingering her to be good and melow down so u can marry her and then de continue with their nacking secretly. U better get small sense now before it's had I know time.

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