Sanmel's Posts

Nairaland Forum › Sanmel's Profile › Sanmel's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 (of 28 pages)

Food › Re: Why Do I Feel So Much Guilt??? by Sanmel(op): 12:40am On Nov 28, 2022

Annahh:
Wow this is serious, that means you can't kill a chicken, I kill live chicken without feeling any guilt, they are our food, simple.

Chicken loun loun. If I dey kill mosquitoes & cockroaches sef, I dey feel somehow but I have to do it anyways..
Crazy right.. Honestly, I'm trying to fight such feeling sha. My mind always like, "so you want to end the life of this creature just like that"

1 Like

Family › Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Sanmel(op): 12:23am On Nov 28, 2022

ghettochild:
A common government funded thing in clinics all over South Africa....
Nigeria is way behind

Government funds FP here too. Services are free in PPFN & public facilities.

Romance › Re: How Does It Feel When Guys Ejaculate? Why Are They Always Shaking? by Sanmel(f): 5:37pm On Nov 27, 2022

Lol.. So many funny comments..

Romance › Re: Ladies, Do You Think He Is Cute by Sanmel(f): 5:36pm On Nov 27, 2022

Of course, he is

Food › Re: Why Do I Feel So Much Guilt??? by Sanmel(op): 2:41pm On Nov 27, 2022

harmargedon:
you see too much meat chop nah em cos am.

No be so jare

Christianity Etc › Re: Who's Your Favourite Bible Character? by Sanmel(f): 10:13am On Nov 27, 2022

Moses..

Family › Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Sanmel(op): 10:11am On Nov 27, 2022

culf:
I remember my volunteering days with PPFN, it was fun.

Yeah.. Even the facilitators are amazing..

Family › Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Sanmel(op): 7:35am On Nov 26, 2022

GboyegaD:
She did the right thing. You can advise a child however, you can't be there at all times thus, it is better safe than sorry.

This topic is food for the holier than thou category. Those who at 16 did worse things now acting like saints.

That's it.. You can't be with the child at all times..
I've seen countless cases of teenagers brought in to the hospital from their respective schools on account of improperly done abortion leading to sepsis meanwhile the parents are thinking their daughters are still virgins..
I remember how one was pleading with a doctor not to tell her parents and the doctor also a pastor insisted that the father needs to sign the consent form since she's under aged..
It was an emotional scene that day after the man signed, came out of the doctor's room teary, went to her daughter and gave her 2 resounding slaps and then told the doctor to go ahead with the evacuation of the retained product of conception.

3 Likes

Family › Re: Send Your Siblings Away From Your House If Your Marriage Is Not Up To Five Years by Sanmel(f): 5:13pm On Nov 25, 2022*

Hmmmm...
Makes sense sha but then...

I used to live with my brother before until he got married.
I remember how I use to feel bad and even sometimes cry when my brother's wife would be insulting him, when I say insult, I mean deep and hurtful words. I always feel like I should be fighting for him but I've always known not to interfere in any couples affair and all these started less than 3months after their wedding..
As I quiet reach, the woman later started looking for my trouble and as soon as I sensed the extension, I started packing my things small small without even my brother knowing..
My brother later noticed how she was acting towards me and said I should be challenging her back, I just said okay.
In my mind, I just said "no be me and you, person wey you no fit talk to, na me wan con dey face am for you"

Today, the wife and I are now like sisters and no one would believe so many terrible things happened between us and I rarely discussed with any other relative..

10 Likes

Family › Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Sanmel(op): 9:52am On Nov 25, 2022

efficiencie:
Madness.

Not really.. Things have changed.
Most children get exposed too early these days, gone are the days when we go out to play with other children. Now, the trend is to stay indoor or alone with their phones and tablets where they get both informations they need and the ones they don't..
It takes the Grace of God to raise a responsible child in this day and age.

God help us.

47 Likes 6 Shares

Food › Re: Why Do I Feel So Much Guilt??? by Sanmel(op): 8:34am On Nov 25, 2022

zexy2030:
Let me show u how to overcome it. Just unlearn and re orientate yourself. You are acting on meditations. Animals are created to be eaten. I was like you before but after a while. God said it's ur food, Peter arise kill n eat, christ disciples were fisher men.

Well, ur type sha will be too romantic in bed. Your soul will be in bed with ur man. I like you spirit mode. But rwmwber it's part of food that God crated for us to eat.

Animals don't have souls.

Hmmmm..

Family › A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Sanmel(op): 8:32am On Nov 25, 2022

This happened in a well known family planning facility. We thought the young lady was lying until we asked for her mother's number and put a call through.
According to her, her daughter has a boyfriend and the boyfriend's father will soon celebrate his 70th birthday, she's not going to be there and she doesn't know how far the daughter has gone or will go with the boyfriend. She also said, she had all her children out of wedlock and she doesn't want same for her daughter, so she requested for her daughter to be counseled and a method chosen if necessary.

Just in case you're not aware, the Planned Parenthood Federation of Nigeria (PPFN) has extended it services to both singles and underage so far they're sexually active..

What are your thoughts on this topic?

59 Likes 6 Shares

Food › Re: Why Do I Feel So Much Guilt??? by Sanmel(op): 8:08am On Nov 25, 2022

zexy2030:
It's actually the spirit of fear and u r very emotional. Soft minded.

Fear, no.. Emotional, yes..
Not to worry, I'm working towards becoming a vegetarian wink

God help me.

Family › Re: I Feel Like Letting Out My Emotions by Sanmel(op): 7:55am On Nov 25, 2022

zexy2030:
haaa! O ti lo.

Family › Re: I Feel Like Letting Out My Emotions by Sanmel(op): 6:32am On Nov 25, 2022

zexy2030:
Pirates the revenge of stagnetti part 1-2 call my number on my txt... Lol
Watch it this morning.

Ok zexy..
Hmmmm... We've communicated off NL before but with a different moniker, so no worry yourself..
I'll call or text when there's need.
Thank you Sasmon..

Family › Re: I Feel Like Letting Out My Emotions by Sanmel(op): 12:06am On Nov 25, 2022

Gloriagee:
Gone with the wind and message in a bottle usually do it for me.

Gloria, thanks.
I'll check them out

Family › Re: I Feel Like Letting Out My Emotions by Sanmel(op): 12:00am On Nov 25, 2022

zexy2030:
Should I get u more? Or u r satisfied now? Do u still wanna cry? You didn't call for my shoulders, what happened?

There was no need for the shoulders because my eyes no even red..
I still wanna cry though, tears of Joy to be specific as too many good news has been around me lately and I expect more..
Recommend more movies, lemme keep watching in my free time.
Thanks for your concern.

Family › Re: I Feel Like Letting Out My Emotions by Sanmel(op): 6:22am On Nov 24, 2022

zexy2030:
Blood diamond. I can hire you my shoulders to cry on... Only if u r in Lagos.

Thanks for the recommendation, I just finished watching the movie and I enjoyed it even though I didn't cry at all..
I can't even believe I compared such a masterpiece to "beast of no nation"
Good morning and have a blessed day..

Family › Re: Martha, The Pregnant Lady Commits Suicide After Husband Caught Her With A Pastor by Sanmel(f): 11:10am On Nov 22, 2022*

Oh my..

Family › Re: I Feel Like Letting Out My Emotions by Sanmel(op): 6:25pm On Nov 21, 2022

tamcamp253:
If want a movie that will make you cry, go watch MIRACLE IN CELL 7 it’s on Netflix

I watched it a long time ago and truly, it made me cry..
I remember watching ALLEGATION when I was much younger with some members of my family, everyone in the room cried like we were mourning..

Thanks anyway

2 Likes

Family › Re: I Feel Like Letting Out My Emotions by Sanmel(op): 7:53am On Nov 21, 2022

Princessdainty:
something that could make an adult cry isn't serious really?

Lol.. It is what it is

Family › Re: I Feel Like Letting Out My Emotions by Sanmel(op): 12:06am On Nov 21, 2022

zexy2030:
It's not far, from my abode. Waiting for ur reply, my Whatsapp is on my txt(090)

Similar to "beast of no nation" I presume..
I watched for about 10mins, will continue tomorrow.. E no sweet me like that.

For now, lemme just continue with the series "from scratch". It's interesting..

Romance › Re: What Should Good Girls Learn From "Bad Girls"? by Sanmel(op): 9:32pm On Nov 20, 2022*

SPAMBOX7:
To suck dick like a tick

Ayama!
Maybe with tme, I'd become a pro but for now thoughts of it makes me nauseous..

I've had guys beg me to do it or even push my head towards there but mba o.. Nobody can overpower me when it comes to this

Romance › Re: What Should Good Girls Learn From "Bad Girls"? by Sanmel(op): 7:57pm On Nov 20, 2022

jerryforgood:
What are trying to learn from dirty ashawo girls who are not wife material?

Lol..
I'm not claiming to be a good girl o but I've seen and heard a lot..
You see those so called "bad girls" abi "ashawo girls" as you call them do well in relationships more..
Just imagine Samson and Delilah without the betrayal

Romance › Re: What Should Good Girls Learn From "Bad Girls"? by Sanmel(op): 7:50pm On Nov 20, 2022

DonroxyII:
welcome!

This guy! I hope you know I know you..

Family › Re: I Feel Like Letting Out My Emotions by Sanmel(op): 7:43pm On Nov 20, 2022

zexy2030:
Blood diamond. I can hire you my shoulders to cry on... Only if u r in Lagos.

Lol.. I'll watch it tonight and I'd give you feedback.. Kindly send your shoulders to Lawanson park, I'll pick it from there..
Thank you

Romance › Re: What Should Good Girls Learn From "Bad Girls"? by Sanmel(op): 8:37pm On Nov 19, 2022

DonroxyII:
Simple:

Life is not Based on Emotions Only But Sciences:

God is not Based on Emotions Only But Sciences:

Move Your Ass to Do Stuffs Don't Rely on Prayers, Good and God Only Be Ready to Put Actions to Words and Ask God to Bless Your Moves!

Yeah.. Thanks for your input..

1 Like

Romance › Re: What Should Good Girls Learn From "Bad Girls"? by Sanmel(op): 8:35pm On Nov 19, 2022

culf:
But then, I think sex is another thing some of those ladies use. Who know, it probably mark the territory for them faster.

Hmmmmm..

Romance › Re: What Should Good Girls Learn From "Bad Girls"? by Sanmel(op): 11:23pm On Nov 17, 2022

Lucrativress:
You welcome
And for the Doctor, next time tell him artificial insemination for fertility check
Shey he think say he wise ni

Lol.. Yes ma

Romance › Re: “No Man Approaches A Lady With Coloured Hair With Serious Intentions” – Doctor by Sanmel(f): 11:20pm On Nov 17, 2022*

Hmmm.... Lemme goan dye my hair back to black o

2 Likes 1 Share

Romance › Re: What Should Good Girls Learn From "Bad Girls"? by Sanmel(op): 11:12pm On Nov 17, 2022

Lucrativress:
Ehn I know but even though
We'll be doing kandan kadan ni, Surulere
Next time ehn as the reaction is coming like that, just pause and count 1 - 5
Or type and erase everything, now try writing again, the anger would have dissipated a bit.

Noted with thanks..

Romance › Re: What Should Good Girls Learn From "Bad Girls"? by Sanmel(op): 11:05pm On Nov 17, 2022

jeromestarks:
She's not right at all.
How can you be good and learn something bad?
Where do you keep your faith?

The Op wants to be smart but all I see is shared stupidity.

What is GOOD is good and in it there is no bad.

What is BAD is bad and in it there nothing good.

Is either good girl gone bad or bad girl gone good. There's no middle ground.

Light has no relationship with darkness.

You're really ill-mannered and not just that, you're also dense.. Shame on you.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 (of 28 pages)