₦airaland Forum

witworth:
ask ur ancestors

sammirano:
HOD no respect dean, thats new. Where i come from if dean is coming hod stands. Na wa for this people oo.

SillyeRabbit:
Why are you so pained? Carry laptop and start yahoo yourself if it's so easy to become wealthy doing it[s][/s]

betterpikinn:
BBC must be very stupid to have picked unilag (ONE OF THE VERY LEAST PLACE 'SEX FOR GRADE THING HAPPENS)
But at least, it's good this randy one is going down
Unilag is filled with AJEBOTAS and little children amongst many staff children and relatives so, such a thing is not very rampant but happens ON A CODED LEVEL....

When you talk of SEX FOR GRADE, go to headquarters like'
DELSU
UNICAL
OOU
FUTO
OSU
Ekpoma etc
In these places, they see it as a normal thing, THEY DONT HIDE IT.
They'll tell you to your face and even boast that if you like, report them to vc or whoever that nothing is going to happen.

AmazingELixir:
Don't go suggesting or making pronouncements on someone else's money, make your own money and do with it whatever you deem fit.

Miscreants like GT you would never release a dime to a dying neighbor's, but you come online to wail like he_goat in heat..
Nonsense and ingredients

AmazingELixir:
Don't go suggesting or making pronouncements on someone else's money, make your own money and do with it whatever you deem fit.

Miscreants like you would never release a dime to a dying neighbor's, but you come online to wail like he_goat in heat..
Nonsense and ingredients

AmazingELixir:
You will soon die of jealousy...bitter soul, gaan take sniper already. Awon oloshi

SOZINN:
I swear na so e be some of this niggas buying this thing can't afford it they just want o intimidate others and act like they can actually afford it

ESSOHEngineers:
Work Place Sexual Harassment is common and both ways, however women are statistically more on the receiving end than the giving end. Consequently, even as common as it is, it places a lot of emotional and psychological stress on the Victim. This is because it is just a step away from rape/sexual assault.

Do not assume you are overreacting. Report him immediately to your boss. Escalate it. He is already stalking you by coming to your door. Perhaps creeping and peeping and listening.

Tell him you will report him to your boss. Tell your boss that you are doing so because it is the right thing to do in such a circumstance. The reason for reporting to your boss is not only because you want him cautioned. It is also because from an Occupational Health,Safety and Well-being perspective, it is simply the procedure to follow and the thing to do. Tell your boss to call a chat with you both and complain further. I am assuming it is a small company,hence no strong HR Team. Also, where possible report him to other male folk within the apartment. This is so that you have witnesses to show you have complained. If you want, also write a formal report of complaints to your boss and keep a copy.

And if he doesn't stop, tell him you will file a complaint to the police. Where possible avoid all manner of mundane and trivial gist with him. Keep your conversations and association formal.

Keep evidence of all his behaviors. You might need it. Where possible send him warnings via text messages and keep those too. Next time he does that put your phone camera on video record and make a video. Don't worry about if it is clear or if you got a perfect shot. Just make a video/videos of you warning him sternly about his harrasament and how you don't fancy it.

Harassers usually feel victims are playing hard to get. Generally for women they are usually harrassed by their Seniors. For men they are harassed both by their bosses and juniors as a matter of fact.

Where it is not conducive you might need to leave the job. It is better than living with the horrors and trauma of rape. The Nigerian hypocritical and patriarchal society is unforgiving to women assaulted. If you follow the trend, it is common for Nigerian men to lie and say the lady agreed to have sex for a specified amount and that when they didn't pay the woman decided to claim rape. He will even claim he has been dating you. Finally it moves to cognitive dissonance where they blame "the Devil" or blame the "thing that came over them" and how "they usually don't act like this" and how they don't know what came over them and how it seems it is a spirit. Shameful cognitive dissonance where we commit a crime due to LUST, HATRED, GREED, ANGER, ENVY, JEALOUSY etc. and then we blame an evil spirit.

At the end people will say why didn't you speak up. Why didn't you leave. Etc. So, be careful and speak out. Don't ever assume you are overreacting. Put a stop to it otherwise he will get bolder. Eventually if it gets bad, you may have to decide if it is worth your continued stay of if you should leave. No one can make that decision for you.

One of Many Examples of Workplace Rape and Assault.

https://www.nairaland.com/5437096/man-rapes-co-worker-death-ogun

Justice434:
The more you try to pull this man down,The stronger he becomes.All the allegations that came out before now.Where are they now.Please and Please lets direct our energy to our govt to give us better life.

Nobodyperson:
If Liverpool doesn't trash new castle.
Lemme die by accident today

WorWorBoy2:
Na wa for igbo people ooo