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SportsRe: Birmingham 2022: Favour Ofili Wins Silver In Women's 200m Event by Sapeleomi: 10:30pm On Aug 06, 2022
Congratulation to Favour for winning silver.. olatoye....well done. Came fourth in the hammer.. Season best... Nathaniel and onwuzurike both came 6th in their races...Best of luck next time.. Wish both men success in future...
Tomorrow's. Amusan in women final going for gold..
Men and women relay... Hope ofili and Amusan win will inspire the ladies.
Relay for men will be tough competition.. Trinidad, Ghana and England will be strengthen by their respective medalist....
Best of luck team Nigeria....
SportsRe: Birmingham 2022: Mercy Genesis Wins Gold In Women's Wrestling Event by Sapeleomi: 8:14pm On Aug 06, 2022
lordm:
take your negativity elsewhere, they have made their families and Nigeria proud. They have represented Nigeria in a positive note. What have you done to make Nigeria better. Unpatriotic human being
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Please support those ladies...
Mind you, women who engage in physical activities are more discipline, emotional stable, and respectable of others..particularly men.. Plus, you know your diet and general health will be positively impacted because they look after themselves, which pays you as well. ..
These women are professional sport people.. They have husband, boyfriend and children...
Let's support our sisters and daughters in whatever brings them success and growth...
SportsRe: Birmingham 2022: Mercy Genesis Wins Gold In Women's Wrestling Event by Sapeleomi: 8:13pm On Aug 06, 2022
lordm:
take your negativity elsewhere, they have made their families and Nigeria proud. They have represented Nigeria in a positive note. What have you done to make Nigeria better. Unpatriotic human being
Please support those ladies...
Mind you, women who engage in physical activities are more discipline, emotional stable, and respectable of others..particularly men.. Plus, you know your diet and general health will be positively impacted because they look after themselves, which pays you as well. ..
These women are professional sport people.. They have husband, boyfriend and children...
Let's support our sisters and daughters in whatever brings them success and growth...
SportsRe: Athletes Representing Nigeria At Commonwealth Games, Birmingham 2022 (Full List) by Sapeleomi: 3:01pm On Aug 06, 2022
fergie001:
We will be in the final of the men's 4*100m relay.... Nigeria won Heat 2.
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................... A fine morning here in Birmingham..
Yes oo... Live reporting.. Have just seen our men and female do well in relay right here in the stadium.... I think our women have a good chance for a medal... All the athletes did great��... Ofili for that second leg helped with closing the gap... Jamaica is the biggest threat for gold..
The men will face strong competition from England, Trinidad and Kenya.. I hope we can strengthen our team with the young guy in the 200 metres final...
Overall impressive... Young team��
Kudos to the girls in the high jump Isa and temitope adeshina we are proud of you.. To the medalist more grace to you our sisters... My nieces and nephew were proud of their naija root@����... Nigeria is rising in sport.. Let`s invest in each other...
CelebritiesRe: Adekunle Gold: I Was Born With Sickle Cell Disease by Sapeleomi: 4:38pm On Jul 16, 2022
peacettw:
So sorry about that. Please take him to a tertiary center. There are drugs now that are life saving for people living with sickle cell.
Sorry to hear about your condition.

Please look after yourself, take your folic acid, stay hydrated.. The bottom line we need one of S gene to fight or reduce the severity of malaria infection.

We must, including you as a survivor promote research into sickle cell disease, therapy to ensure the sickle does not reduce the haemoglobin and lead into a crisis..
Geneotype awareness is good before having children but the bottom line is that many people are unaware and would rather have kids with people they love or care about..
We need the S gene to fight malaria. We just need our Nigeria or African scientist to ensure 2 SS genotype do not lead to a crisis...
Keep welll. The African American sickle cell society has carried our extensive research on it.. Stay in tune..
CelebritiesRe: Adekunle Gold: I Was Born With Sickle Cell Disease by Sapeleomi: 4:17pm On Jul 16, 2022
Desusi:
Jesus is above every circumstances of life. Just as Head aches are in the hand of God so is SS,you're healed permanently in Jesus name. Get hook unto HIM.He is life HIMSELF.
I see your religions angle.
I am not sure if you have experienced or seen someone in a crisis? It is very traumatising.. So keep Jesus and religion out of health issues..
As Africans living in the tropicals we need the S geneotype to naturally reduce the severity of malaria infection, hence why white people died of malaria in the early century before the invention of Quinn. AA suffer from malaria severely compared to AS.. Sickle is nature's way of protecting us from the fatality of malaria infection...
The problem is that 2 SS geneotype means the haemoglobin, red blood cell, breaks down easily and leads to a crisis. As the blood does not flow through the joints smoothly.. . Avoid the crisis and you can live a healthy life...
These the problem as Africans we must solve. The answer lies in scientific research of the body and its organs.. The white people have invented stem cell to alter the SS geneotype..
Please my person, put your church offering into research to find cure and prevention for diseases thats the only way we can live a healthy life.. I hear people not marrying AS or SS because of fear of SS. Then after marriage and having children they are miserable and end up having illicit affairs with old flames.. ..
We must let learn to solve problems that confront us rather than leave it to Jesus, mohammed or the Koran and God...
Put your money into research, help the University of Benin with funding for sickle cell diseases. Afe Babalola University with kidney disease.. University of Ibadan with fibroid and diabetes.. Put your money into health research and in 30 years you get the result..
Sickle cell, high blood pressure, diabetes, fibroid, erectice dysfunction, prostate and breast cancer and infertility are prevalent in our people because of our diet, gene and environment factors... Scientific research, finance by us individually contributing to it and we shall all live a healthy lifestyle..
I bless the air I inhale..
Christianity EtcRe: Fr. Evaristus Bassey: ''Virgin Mary Appeared To Church Members In Calabar" by Sapeleomi: 11:42pm On Jul 01, 2022
MrCover:
A Catholic Priest, Fr. Evaristus Bassey, has shared photos of ''Virgin Mary'' that appeared at the St. Charles Lwanga in Calabar, Cross Rivers state.

Fr Evaristus Shared Photos of The ''Virgin Mary'' As Sighted By And He Said many people including non-Catholics 'saw her image.'

''On Wednesday 22-6-2022 the Blessed Virgin Mary appeared in one of our parishes in Calabar, St. Charles Lwanga. It was something more than 100 people witnessed,even a Protestant pastor who came to visit his cousin, the assistant priest.

He took these pictures. The rays around her were too bright for a clear picture. She moved up to the Shrine dedicated to her and then was taken up. It was amazing, the entire aura around the parish, that evening. She didn’t say anything to anyone. But I think she came to assure of God’s presence with us.

Even the rays of light on the premises showed there was something happening. May the prayers of our Blessed Mother help our country Nigeria. Amen.''

https://twitter.com/FrEvaristus/status/1542591213991350272?t=O_Vck8qm5wjorCnGDxFFMA&s=19[/quote]0
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Africans don start again. People are inventing new product to sort problems.. see what our people are talking about...
I was raised a christian and Catholic boy.. One thing l promised would never happen to my children and next generation is to forsake they traditional African name and replace it with biblical Jewish name because of baptism, holy communion and confirmation..
I thank my parents and family for the Catholic teaching, perhaps it added some value to my life? Debatable!!?
This whole delusion of virgin Mary and Jesus doing miraclrle naa big delusion African must stop��. Me l Don waka pass all that.. Is painful when see family members totally deluded by things that the oyinbo and state of Israel don't believe in..
Imagine virginmary appear in calabar.
No talking, no solution to problems.
Did she hear about the Catholic priest kidnapped in kaduna or the chibok girls in captivity? She could help rescue people kidnap everyday, owo church blast.. Poor Deborah!!
Africans with African made superstition and oyinbo made superstition packaged in religions miracle are delusional and live in mindless fantasy......
I focus on philosophy either from the Greek, Buddha, Persian or my yoruba tradition in finding meaning to life..
Christian faith or any religion should shape your character but death people whether jesus, Mary, mohammmed, obatala, sango and my beloved grandparents are deceased. . Rip to them.
The ancestors, the memory and wisdom they left behind should guide us.. The dead cannot guide the living.. Mary and the apostles are dead.. The faithful should leave them in peace and connect with fellow humans to solve today's problems..

I tire for all this religions people..
I bless the oxygen I inhale:::
PoliticsRe: "Sit Down And Shut Up" David Hundeyin To Pastor Poju Oyemade by Sapeleomi: 8:51am On Jul 01, 2022
JBriel:
I take an exception to that. I won't be silent while an uncircumcised thing throw a curse word at one of our own. Hundeyin, your secrets will be exposed and you will be disgraced. From your lofty heights you will fall and dash to the ground and never recover.
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Briel..
Please learn to listen, agree or disagree on any issue objectively. Never defend or abuse others because of your pastors or religious beliefs.. All beliefs, ideas or persuasions were invented by men some argue inspired by their God, experiences, ideas, philosophy or just feelings.. The bottom line is that those perspectives will be seen or perceive by another person as invalid or not good enough in solving problems..
At this stage in our lifes we need problem solvers or inventors or scientist or leaders with solution created vision..
Not religions moulders rely on devine intervention... Jesus and St Paul and plus the prophet Mohammed died over 1 thousand years ago.. Is it realistic to rely on those teachings to solve our modern challenges?
Even Christiandom underwent fundamental examination of its beliefs and doctrines.. Please read about the great schism and council of Nicea.
We must constantly using respect and courtesy challenge our thinking, perspective and actions regardless of your position in society, your age, gender or your perceive religions or cultural connection.. .
If you cannot take scrutiny and critical evaluation of your position then don't give a public opinion to influence others..
All pastors are leaders by their words..
If it is right we praise them, if it is misleading, a concoction, or factually incorrect.. Then gate keepers bring them out for correction or cricitisms..
Let's be a society that evolves based on ideas not fear of men...!!!!
I bless the oxygen I inhale..
CrimeRe: Zimbabwean Makeup Artist Killed Her Husband And Hung His Body On A Tree by Sapeleomi: 10:27am On Jun 26, 2022
Aonkuuse:
Source: https://salemgists.com/make-up-artist-deliwe-bobo-allegedly-killed-her-husband-and-hung-his-body-on-a-tree-to-make-it-look-it-suicide/
This is a lesson to both gender, most
especially married men with kids. If you are constantly quarelling with your spouse and find it difficult to compromise on anything... One person or both are disagreeable and are unable to resolve your conflict amicably..
It may be best to seek help, professional counselling.. For guys especially, who think she must listen and be controlled.. Marriage is not by force... Dont let the thought of I have children, if I leave I would be seen as an irresponsible father or husband or religion or culture would say l abandoned her and my kids..
Let's learn to stay alive and live in peace alone and away from people and situation that trigger us.. You live separate from one another and Co. Parent the children.. If one party is difficult you go court or seek access to your children through family mediation
Men and women are dying everywhere and daily from spousal violence..
Life goes on and is good with the other person that cares about your interest and concerns...
Bless the air I inhale..
CelebritiesRe: Yul Edochie's First Wife, May, Reacts To His Second Marriage & New Baby by Sapeleomi: 7:08pm On Apr 27, 2022
WoundedLamb:
When did he get married and when did she get pregnant to have given birth? I don't think he did this simply cause he's pro polygamy or because he has always wanted to have two wives. This is probably an extramarital affair gone wrong and he's now hiding behind the misogynistic culture to cover up his ass. Whichever way, here is what I posted on the other thread:
... I see your point.. However, Issues of the heart that evolves emotion is difficult to judge. This may sound as an excuse but a man having an affair with another woman or seeking a second wife may be for several reasons, some of which are complex.
Especially when he feels the first wife with children has done nothing wrong and respect her...
I think women should endeavour to understand men who choose that lifestyle and refuse to divorce their wife but respectfully leave the option to her to decide whether to stay or leave the union..
It is a complex and painful process and sometimes people grow out of each other and seek different stimulation..
The bottom line is that as a couple put your religious, modern expectation, view that relationship is monogamous aside. seriously and constantly assess your connection, emotional, spiritual, sexuality and most importantly your level of attention and affirmation..
I think many Christians think religious beliefs guarantee loyalty and monogamous discipline. Connection and self discipline by choice is the yardstick that keeps people discipline.. Mind you, women have affairs too...particularly married women who have completed having kids. What do you with kind of betrayal!! Life goes on and focus on a better outcome.
Men are not holy!! But they should be encouraged to look after the children, even when the first wife or who ever feels victim of the breach of trust....
Christianity EtcRe: Papaya Ex: Controversial Photoshoot Using The Crucifix Got People Raging by Sapeleomi: 10:18pm On Jan 09, 2022
Amos1423:
Sadly, Israel with which Christians in Nigeria took their beleive from still doesn't accept Jesus as the messiah yet for the economic benefits of those who choose to be foolish, they engage in a senseless fight with Palestine so as to continue using my country people as cash cow.

The most disgusting & sensely show of these public show of disgust is those ones they call pentecostal church goers, these guys doesn't even know Adam had another son away from Cain and Abel, they have no Idea of the Book of Enoch which was removed from their Bible. Sadly Most Nigerian Christians considers themselves holier than the Israelites, I mean guys who occupied parts of Palestines, over their archeological sites, turning it into an heritage site to milk the poor and peripheral countries
Bros, l tire for our African people... The oyinbo that brought the religion to the African people realised a long time ago it was not necessary to human existence.
The most dynamic and developing countries and individuals are critical thinkers, problem solvers and understande the importance of human connection and relations..
Knowledge is superior than superstition or faith any day...... I hope learn to think and stop being sentimental with borrowed religious beliefs based on historical fairy tales...
I am spiritual and find strength in trying to be a better human being rather than dogmas of old.... May we see the light and grow in knowledge....
FamilyRe: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Sapeleomi: 12:36am On Nov 19, 2021
Icouldhave:
The headline topic was just to gain traffic.


The true message is in my first post.


Go back and read it again.

Hey my guy,
Am not sure what your motive is in generating traffic or you truly seek change and healing..
People have advice you fom their heart but the choice is yours..
I do not want to jump to conclusion that you're deflecting or minimise, orusing peoples opinion as part of any research project or seeking attention..
Too bad if that happens to be the case..
If the issue you mentioned is u thought process then you need help.... Therapy/counselling.. To be ashame to admit help!! ..
Try and twist the scenario back to yourself as the target or victim of hate from others who only want u below themhuh ... You cannot decide another person's destiny.. Such thinking is unhealthy and pathologically dangerous..
Read up on personality disorder and emotional unstable behavior..
You do not want to be rich, miserable and paranoid!! Na waste.. ..
That's what awaits you if you continue with that competitive mindself that is self centred on your ego. Me, myself and what I want others to be... Too much power and control naa madness.... .
Please read, have a rest and go get therapy..
You could use your experience to help others that feel like yourself... You solve a problem and add value and knowledge to the complexity of human psyche!!! Your opportunity to redeem yourself and get the right attention and adoration... Doing good.
Take care of your mind and, thought... It makes or Mar you.. You become what you think about!!!
Best wishes...



I don't say I don't want you to succeed.


But I don't want you to suceed more than I.


I want to be the number one



Always at the top
FamilyRe: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Sapeleomi: 10:32pm On Nov 17, 2021
Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always
Hey, Chairman
If you need to change and heal, then you need therapy.. Invest in your emotional, thinking and cognitive processes... It is a good sign that you are aware of this dysfunctional thinking before it goes toxic..
I am not an expert but you seemed to what to be in control of all situation. Get all the attention and adoration..
Life is not a competition.. Learn to open your and understand your emotions and the triggers... Do not try to dominate,impress, control or exert power over anything...
You need to find yourself!

Perhaps your ego or self worth is linked to what you perceive you have done to others..

Ask yourself if l am poor or die today? What would be the qualities or attributes people will say about me?

Learn to cooperate and grow with others not compete or try and outwit them.. Enjoy life and always remember the way you make others feel leaves a memory in their mind...
Make sure your present is positive and constructive..
Self awareness is the journey to inner peace..
Best wishes....
Christianity EtcRe: How Do I Explain To My Parents That I Don't Want To Belong To Any Religion by Sapeleomi: 2:03pm On Aug 09, 2021
I think you don't own them an explanation for now.. Cos they may misconstrued your intention rather let your action and behavior speak for you... . As parents, with the best of intention, they have been conditioned to see things from a different perspectives, which unfortunately is the legacy of our colonial legacy..
I think your reasoning shows your maturity to critical assess and problem solve issues rather than rely on superstition or dem say... ... Continue to follow your conscience, ensure your decision is based on evidence, knowledge and consideration for others.. You will be fine... The bottom line is that it is a generational shift.. Ours generation are more exposed and adaptable and curious than our parents... Stay positive and remember knowledge is superior than faith... Focus on self development.... quote author=indadi post=104581482]My Dad called me this evening to tell me the essence of praying. The thing is that I don't believe praying solves anything Atleast to me. the day I stopped believing and started working more on myself, I found out that things started getting better for me than those who goes to the Church and Mosques.

When I think about a lot of things I have read and what I have experienced I feel like I have always been deceived all my life.

The Pastors and Prophets with their fake miracles or the Boko Haram and their suicide with the reasons of going to heaven to get virgins.

I currently live with them though I plan on moving to my own place by the end of this year or early next year.

I really want to tell them in a polite way so they can accept my way.

My Dad won't accept this, as he believes that it is God or nothing.[/quote]

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