₦airaland Forum

LikeAking:
Women have to earn it.

Nobody will give them a chance, they have to fight for it.

Although I doubt Nigerian women can do it right.

Ordinarily customer care work Nigerian women cant do it properly.

They are the worse when it comes to customer care. The women bring lots of pride and pomposity to the work. The men do it beta.

African women have lots to learn.

Can you please leave the thread if you have nothing positive to contribute.

jmoore:
It is called democracy not chancenocracy. Patricia Etteh na transgender?

Why is it that whenever I say give women opportunity to showcase what they have you lots always mention Patricia Etteh. Why not mention other women? Is it not a proof that it's only few women who corrupt?
But in the case of men, all Nigerian male politicians are looters.

Can you name ten popular Nigerian women who looted the National Treasury?

UnusualEmissary:
I get ur point. But It's not like it's all bliss over there.

But compare their bliss to our bliss and their flaws to our flaws

They always make it seem like there's no potholes in UK

jmoore:
You guys are funny.

Show us a road in UK that looks like this

https://saharareporters.com/sites/default/files/styles/focal_point_325x195/public/enugu-awka-onitsha-r-426e.jpeg

Give chance to women and see the magic. Men have tried. Unfortunately they have failed.

LikeAking:
This one no be problem na.

The worse is when it’s not even tared…

They will fix it soon…


Happens all over the world.

If most of our streets are like this we won’t complain.

You people should give chance to women to govern and see the difference.

successmatters:
Niger Republic hasn't been sending them resources any more

Hmm

Not all that glitters is gold.

The whites will only show you what they want you to see.




Nlfpmod

Verokeena:
Good afternoon Nl family
Please pardon my epistle

My husband lost his job two years ago and ever since he has been so reluctant on getting another.. not to brag but I can say I have been the one keeping the family going ever since the job incidence (not like I ever complained) .

What I noticed about him is he now drinks and smokes and he is always hissing (obviously he is not happy and I try to always console him just to elate his Spirit)

Fast forward to last two months.. I got back from work and I was very tired.. I had to go pick the kids from school , bathe them, feed them and to make matters worst I wasn't feeling too alright .. (when I got home he (my husband) wasn't at home)

When I was done with the kids and fixing the house I was so tired I thought to myself to take a lil nap that was how I slept off (and this was around 9pm) ..

He got back around 10pm obviously drunk and smelling like a skunk.. he went straight to the kitchen. That was how the whole problem started.. first was insult.. then my phone, smashed it on the ground later my clothes he started tearing them .. saying all those things he was destroying was why I was feeling untouchable that he knows I have male friends sleeping with me..

I tried securing my items so he doesn't destroy more things that was how he pounced on me..

The next day I got him arrested he spent two days there.. but now I feel so guilty... He doesn't talk to me anymore.. I have apologized times without number

I don't just know what to do...


Nb: even while he was there I was still taking food to him

Forget him. Focus on you and your kids.

May God help us in this country

Vv

Versitee:
Good evening all.

Please my husband wants to covert some of the rooms in our hose to self con and rent it out.

We have just 1 tank of 3k litres. Bringing in tenants means we have to buy another tank but we don't have enough money for the renovations and the extra tank.

We either renovate, and rent out without connecting water. Tenants will have to fetch using the backyard tap. In that case rent will be 120.

Or we get a loan and buy a tank and connect. Then rent will be 180k.


What do we do?

N/B. my husband wants to collect the rent monthly and not yearly.

Get a loan and do the right thing.

Our Future Is Female

Just imagine this rapist.

The highest scorer in 2023 JAMB = girl.
The best 2023 WAEC result = girl.
D'Tigress won the cup.

Hmmm.

Bb

A rapist saying they should fear women. SMH
Modified.
I just watched the video.
What he meant is that you should RESPECT women. The word 'fear' there means 'respect'.

Just like in the Bible we're commanded to fear God which is 'Respect God'.

He has finally realized that women are the pillars hence he said we should respect women.

Nigerian men have turned relationship to sex-satisfying scheme.
They go into relationship with the intend to have sex.
The most annoying part is the rape part.

Thislifesef:
I think the first picture was just a photo shoot, like he was not really a herdsman, check how neat, well ironed his cloth is coupled with his sandals.

Real herdsmen don't dress like that na.

Also, there's no herdman that would be raised to that rank just like that.

Allow the girl to breathe

Dear Nairalander moderators stop bringing rubbish to front page.
An ediot made a thread to ridicule women and tell them how worthless they are and you brought it to front page?
What a stupid advice he gave to women.

Lutherblaq:
i didn't say sound strange i only say, it is rare to see this days.

Know this that a man's responsibilities including washing his wife's clothes and cooking

Lutherblaq:
hey woman do not take out your frustration on me, don't try it.

Why should it sound strange to you that a man washes his wife's clothes a ND does not sound strange when the opposite is the case?

Lutherblaq:
My neighbour's wife is heavily pregnent, and i was shocked to see him doing things Like this:

>Washing her 'Clothes'
>Doing all manners of 'Chores'
>And even bathing her Sometimes
We all Know how, things like that are really Rare to see, And to tell you that they have been married for like 12yrs, with atleast 3 kids. so the marriege is not that new na.

now back to my question can you do that

You are dumb to ask these questions.. is it not his responsibility again?

Give power to women

naptu2:
Busola Kukoyi @KukoyiBusola



https://twitter.com/KukoyiBusola/status/1688606402669920256

The Future Is Female

Apology accepted