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RomanceRe: Sisters, Kindly Give Three Reasons Why A Man Will Be Lucky To Marry You. by saphiere(f): 1:57pm On Jul 21, 2023
Any man who marries me would be the luckiest person on earth.
PhonesRe: WhatsApp Is Back And Working Perfectly Now by saphiere(f): 10:58pm On Jul 19, 2023
DanielsParker:
Rest. You suck at the attention seeking stuff
But I've got your attention. EWu!
PhonesRe: WhatsApp Is Back And Working Perfectly Now by saphiere(f): 9:59pm On Jul 19, 2023
Rubbish.
If a woman was in charge of the App I don't think all these nonsense would have happened. I just detest men for real.
RomanceRe: Pick One Defect You Can Accept In A Partner by saphiere(f): 8:24pm On Jul 15, 2023
labake1:
Pick one default you can accept in a partner


1. Snoring
2. Sex addiction
3. laziness
4. Bad cook
5. Nonchalant attitude
6. Mouth odour
7. Body odour
8. Drug and alcohol addict


As for me, I can only accept no. 4
If he is not a rapist or a misogynist then I'm good.
PoliticsRe: Sit At Home: Why Has Nigerian Government Failed To Arrest Simon Ekpa? by saphiere(f): 1:51pm On Jul 15, 2023
Penguin2:
It’s easy for some characters who wish to see southeast burn, to sit on Nairaland and gloat about what is going on in Southeast.

But what these guys have failed to acknowledge is the fact that Igbos are not in support of Simon Ekpa and his rogue activities.

The parent group, IPOB, has severally denied association with this character. But haters will always paint the picture as if Igbos are in support of these criminals.

The question now, why has the Nigerian government that haunted Nnamdi Kanu all over the world until they arrested him in Kenya, failed to lift a finger towards the arrest of Simon Ekpa?

Could Ekpa be working for some anti-Southeast agents?

Can any of those gloating about sit at homes in the East point to a single Igbo supporter of Simon Ekpa?



https://twitter.com/General_Oluchi/status/1679820380830154752
EducationRe: Where Is The Ball Placed? by saphiere(f): 10:49pm On Jul 14, 2023
Samueli007:
Which future precisely?
Yours, mine and everybody's future
FoodRe: How Do You Prefer Your Corn? (picture) by saphiere(f): 7:50pm On Jul 14, 2023
Roasted
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija Season 8 ‘All Stars' Starts 23 July 2023, ₦120M Up For Grabs by saphiere(f): 7:50pm On Jul 14, 2023
Buddha3:
Thought you just got a job? You want to leave it and go show breasts on national television?
Hmm
EducationRe: Where Is The Ball Placed? by saphiere(f): 7:46pm On Jul 14, 2023
The Future Is Female
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija Season 8 ‘All Stars' Starts 23 July 2023, ₦120M Up For Grabs by saphiere(f): 3:13pm On Jul 14, 2023
Please how can I join this show? I have all the qualification.
BusinessRe: Fuel Subsidy: 9 Money-Making Opportunities In Nigeria’s Auto Gas Value Chain by saphiere(f): 8:43pm On Jul 13, 2023
dmgr:
Have you gotten a job?
Yes. At printing press.
BusinessRe: Fuel Subsidy: 9 Money-Making Opportunities In Nigeria’s Auto Gas Value Chain by saphiere(f): 6:04pm On Jul 13, 2023
Buddha3:
Did you eventually land a decent job?
Yes sir. No interview or whatsoever. I'm a child of grace.
BusinessRe: Fuel Subsidy: 9 Money-Making Opportunities In Nigeria’s Auto Gas Value Chain by saphiere(f):
Nice ideas. But this is not the solution.
The law of demand and supply will set in thus making auto-gas to go up.
Dumb leaders we have.

Give chance to women to try they refused. They keep taking us in cycles.
tunjilee003:
we should allow women to rulehuhso you people can make decisions based on emotions...
u don see how una own decisions were no base on emotion dey carry us go hell.
HealthRe: Facts About Laughing Gas And Why NDLEA Banned It by saphiere(f): 7:57pm On Jul 11, 2023
Hmm
SportsRe: Ogun To Host NSF 2024, Bukola Olapade, Adebajo, Others To Lead 16-man Committee by saphiere(f): 3:57pm On Jul 11, 2023
post=124355822:
@topic,
Sport is a unifies all and sundry.
Thank Ogun State.





Hello Sapphire.
Stay blessed.





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To start with, what kind of job is it?
(If you won't mind.)
That will give us more details in order to advice you..
Printing press
SportsRe: Ogun To Host NSF 2024, Bukola Olapade, Adebajo, Others To Lead 16-man Committee by saphiere(f): 3:16pm On Jul 11, 2023
post=124355822:
Hello Sapphire.
Stay blessed.

Congratulations to Ogun State and Nigeria as a whole.
Please check my post and give your input
SportsRe: Ogun To Host NSF 2024, Bukola Olapade, Adebajo, Others To Lead 16-man Committee by saphiere(f): 3:13pm On Jul 11, 2023
Hi all.
I've finally gotten a job but I'm confused.
The employer asked me how much I want to be paid. I gave a figure and he told me he will pay me twice that figure I gave.
I am suspecting a red flag.
He didn't interview me
CrimeRe: Opuofoni Freeborn Ebimotimi Beaten To Death For Stealing Bread In Bayelsa by saphiere(f): 12:53pm On Jul 11, 2023
Lazy lots.
PoliticsRe: Babangida Sarki: Kebbi Governor Sacks Aide For Posting Gay Content On WhatsApp by saphiere(f): 10:03pm On Jul 10, 2023
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MS247:
cool



Jail him

We have laws against western homosexuality

HIV started from United States homosexuals


.
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RomanceRe: This Is What All Men Want At The End by saphiere(f): 8:19pm On Jul 10, 2023
PrinceMajestic:
this gender should change their poor thinking. If I have a wife it doesn't take away my natural right as a man to fhuck whoever I want. There can't be cheating incident if a man fhucks whoever, the pussy is paid for just like the wife's pussy is also paid for. Change your messed up mentality
seun lalasticlala nlfpmod rule 2
RomanceRe: This Is What All Men Want At The End by saphiere(f): 7:31pm On Jul 10, 2023
Xenry:
Dear women, at the end, what men want is peace of mind. Your nyash or breast won't matter eventually.
Logan Paul proposed to his best friend today, and as you can see, he does not care about boobs or breasts.
All that matter at the end is peace of mind.
Probably because the lady made him. But would this stop him from cheating on her? Absolutely no.
PoliticsRe: Oyebanji Congratulates President Tinubu On Election As ECOWAS Chairman by saphiere(f): 7:28pm On Jul 10, 2023
Why is it that every Nigerian president always emerged as the chairman of ECOWAS?
PoliticsRe: President Tinubu Delivers First Speech As ECOWAS Chairman by saphiere(f): 9:14am On Jul 10, 2023
I need a job.
I'm humble, a visionary, dedicated person.
RomanceRe: How I Used Civil Defence To Collect Back The Phone My Brother Bought For A Girl by saphiere(f): 7:48pm On Jul 09, 2023
Thegoodone13:
. I don't think civil defense officer has fault if you read the write up. She accused the lady for thief and she can't provide the receipt and if the complainant can provide genuine receipt and the respondent didn't show up, it mean complainant is the owner of the phone. If anybody buy things for you, always collect receipt but as true is now come out, the complainant can be rearrested for falsefull information and misleading the officer
Was civil defense trained to do the work of police?
RomanceRe: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by saphiere(f): 6:24pm On Jul 09, 2023
[s]
Cloudflare:
Madam Shut up and answer the damn question!!!! What exactly are you bringing to the table? Apart your over used damaged kpekpus, what else do you have to offer the man in that relationship let alone marriage?

Are you rich? If no, what's stopping you from making your own money and be rich? Why waiting and depending on a man to come bail you out of your poverty stricken life? What is wrong with you Nigerian girls? Why can't you advise your gender to hustle and make money for themselves so they can become millionaires before even thinking of entering a relationship let alone marriage.

Madam, stop being a leech and a parasite. Go and make your own money nobody owes you a dime!!
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RomanceRe: How I Used Civil Defence To Collect Back The Phone My Brother Bought For A Girl by saphiere(f): 6:07pm On Jul 09, 2023
The civil defense and officers should be arrested. That is not what they were enlisted to do.
RomanceRe: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by saphiere(f): 6:04pm On Jul 09, 2023
Anfieldboss:
If the only thing you bring to your husband's life is bearing him children, then you're of no value to him. Besides, you cannot impregnate yourself, the baby was made by the both of you.

Agreed, there are other intrinsic values a woman adds to a man's life but child bearing is certainly not one of them.
So a child is not a value? No wonder you are valueless.
BusinessRe: If You Earn 2.5m Everymonth How Do You Invest? by saphiere(f): 3:25pm On Jul 09, 2023
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post=124311540:
Use The 2.5million Naira And Start Blogging Business And Thank Much Later.
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FamilyRe: How To Cope When Your Spouse Doesn't Listen: Seeking Advice by saphiere(f): 12:44pm On Jul 09, 2023
naice:
I find myself facing a difficult situation in my marriage and would greatly appreciate your insights and advice. The issue at hand revolves around my wife's unwillingness to listen to me. I'm at a loss as to why she behaves this way, and it's starting to take a toll on our relationship.

To provide some context, my wife has a strong-headed personality, which often leads to conflicts between us. No matter how gently I communicate my concerns or requests, she seems to disregard them and even does the opposite. This behavior frustrates me and leaves me questioning our compatibility.

One possible explanation I've considered is her background as an orphan. She lost her parents at a young age and had to take on the responsibility of caring for herself and her siblings. While I understand the challenges she faced, it seems like her self-reliance has translated into a resistance to accepting input or guidance from others, including me.

At this point, I have contemplated divorce, but there's a significant factor holding me back: our children. I love them deeply and cannot bear the thought of being separated from them. As much as her strong-headedness affects me, I firmly believe that domestic violence is never an option.

I'm reaching out to this community for reasonable opinions and advice on how to navigate this situation. Have any of you experienced a similar dynamic in your relationships? How did you cope with a spouse who doesn't listen? Are there effective strategies to foster better communication and understanding in such circumstances?

Thank you in advance for your support and guidance. Your insights will be invaluable in helping me make an informed decision about the future of my marriage."
1. You are a dictator. Unfortunately you got married to a stubborn person whom you can't control or dictate for. Since you cannot told her into your pocket has you men do, you become frustrated.

2. Of course she will do the opposite because what you want her to do is not to her benefits or the benefit of the children. Man is selfish by nature. So whatever you want her to do is not to her benefit. Just your selfish interest. Because I see no reason she will do the opposite.

3. Why do I feel you've been carrying out the domestic violence on her before now? Or you just want to do it and you're here to seek for validation?




Guys I need a job. Not easy to keep up with the life as a girl child. So many bills to pay.
Hair
Pads
Creame
Dresses
Food
Etc
RomanceRe: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by saphiere(f):
The appropriate time is when you can foot her bills.
When you are earning at least half a million Naira.
Get a good paying job with stable income before you think of proposing.

Dear young ladies, please don't accept a proposal from any man who is not financially buoyant.
You can't suffer as a single lady and still suffer as a married woman. Be wise. Don't let them sweet talk you into suffering.
Refuse to suffer.
Dshocker:
From your write up, i can guess your age.
Mr guesser I need a job. I base in PH.
IamAtAnger:
You're so pathetic with ur entitlement mentality... wretched, what then are u bringing to the table?.. the 40k job that you're begging on nairaland?
Can men just stop with the nonsense "what can you bring to the table?"
What women bring to the table outweighs what men bring.
Some of the things women bring to marriage are things money can't buy. Example; children.
Christianity EtcRe: Nigerian Man Embarks On 200hrs Singing Marathon To Break Guinness World Record by saphiere(op): 10:05pm On Jul 08, 2023
VinnyBaba:
This Yeye, Misandrist OP. undecided

Shouting Davido MUST marry Chioma or Else, that year. 😕😒

He has Married her.

U don Rest, Abi?😏
Chioma must sue him. Collect 70% of his assets for all the mess he put her through.
CelebritiesRe: U.S City Houston Declares July 7 Davido Day by saphiere(f): 9:20pm On Jul 08, 2023
Nonsense boy. Chef should act fast and sue your ass then gets 70% of your assets so next time you never toil with a good woman

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