₦airaland Forum

Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

tonytony208:
If you have to wait on the person you are dating for transport fare, then you are a broke wretched bitch.

If the only thing men think about when they invite you is sex, then it means that's all you are good for.

It isn't my fault that sex is the only thing that makes you relevant.

DevilishMan:
Stay in your house and starve to death.

tonytony208:
If you don't have transport to visit someone you are dating, what you need is a job and not a relationship.

A full grown adult expecting another adult to pay her transport fare. Rubbish

zangaozanga:
broke girls are the problem of nigeria

wirinet:
Most Nigerian men who marry old white women do so for Green Card and not gold digging. You will find out that they abandon the old white women for younger black women once they obtain the green card. Meanwhile, the reverse is the case for Nigerian women marrying old white (or black) men. Its all about the gold.

Demayour:
Does relationship have nothing to do with the will and agreement between a couple again? Is transport fare the determinant of a relationship?


If she can't provide for her own transportation fare and she has to ask, what does that make her? A dignified individual?

Let men give that kind of money from their own will. That gives a woman self-respect and dignity in the relationship too.

Osashalom:
When the men visit you, do you also give them transportation fare?

Nefort:
You can also invite your man to your place if you can't afford transport fare. Oh sorry... I actually forgot a broke person still can't afford a personal apartment.

haybee2018:
lazy a33 b**tches!....they're EVERYWHERE....they see everything as man's responsibility. Guess heaven will fall if u transport yourself down to his place bah?
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Entitlement mentality nor go kill una....na my fellow guys i blame sha as konji na bastard @times...even if the guy in question won't demand for sex at your arrival, what's the BIG DEAL in spending your own money? na una type go eventually enta man house dey wait for husband to arrive from work before una go fit buy ORDINARY matches. Mtcheeewww!

In a recent statement that has ignited a wave of controversy, Pastor Mrs. Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo, the esteemed wife of Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, founder and lead pastor of David Christian Centre (DCC) in Lagos State, has urged men to refrain from sending transportation money to women when inviting them for visits. Her bold assertion has stirred debates on social media and within the religious community.

During a sermon at the DCC church premises last Sunday, Pastor Mrs. Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo expressed her concerns over the practice of men offering transportation funds to women to come visit them, terming any woman who requests such financial assistance as “useless.” She further emphasized the need for both men and women to uphold their dignity and self-respect.


The statement has generated mixed reactions from different quarters. While some individuals laud the pastor’s stance, believing it promotes self-reliance and discourages exploitative behavior, others criticize it as being judgmental and failing to consider individual circumstances.

Supporters of Pastor Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo argue that her message aligns with the principles of personal responsibility and independence, promoting equal footing in relationships. They contend that both men and women should be capable of taking care of their own transportation needs without relying on the opposite gender.

However, opponents of the pastor’s advice express concerns about its potential to perpetuate gender stereotypes and overlook financial disparities that may exist between men and women. They argue that not all women who seek transportation assistance are “useless,” but may face genuine challenges that make self-transportation difficult.

The pastor’s call has also opened discussions on societal norms and expectations regarding gender roles and responsibilities in relationships. Many netizens have taken to social media platforms to voice their opinions, with hashtags like #TransportFareDebate and #EqualResponsibilities trending on Twitter.

As the discussions continue to gain momentum, some experts suggest that fostering open communication and understanding between genders is crucial to promote healthy relationships based on mutual respect and support. They emphasize that discussions surrounding financial matters should be approached with empathy, recognizing the complexities of individual circumstances.

Despite the controversy, Pastor Mrs. Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo remains resolute in her stance, urging her congregation and followers to embrace a mindset of self-sufficiency and mutual respect in relationships.

In conclusion, this contentious statement by the pastor’s wife has sparked a significant debate, highlighting the importance of addressing gender dynamics and financial expectations within modern relationships. As the discussions continue, the call for empathy and open communication is likely to remain at the forefront of the ongoing discourse.

hazinibones:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have this decision bothering me. I know it is a personal problem, but I believe everyone need some guidance at every point in life.

Straight to it, I have been considering Japa for over two years now and I think the opportunity might be here but I am having a cold feet.

I recently started working for a foreign company as a software engineer and the pay is decent when converted to Naira. Enough to live an averagely comfortable life. But my challenge now is that, I have been talking to some friends that are outside the country and they keep telling me how life is not easy there and cost of living is super expensive out there.

I currently earn $3000, which I plan to either save and travel or startup a business here in Nigeria. Please, Nairalanders with experience, is it worth japa to live an almost average life for almost the rest of your life or investing here in Nigeria and growing wealth?

The healthcare and quality education benefit is there as an advantage for japa though.

Thanks in advance for your responses!

Dickcap:
Good morning Nairalanders
I would like to seek your advice. I'm presently working at a farm company where I hold the post of Assistant Manager. Forget the position I hold oo cause the salary is less than 60k.
Due to the harsh economy, we are currently facing, the CEO said he does not have the power to pay our salary again and that we should find a way to generate income to pay our salary.
It won't be hard for my team to generate income to pay salary but we would have problems with the CEO cause he's the kind of person that loves taking over any money we make from the farm

Onoredia:
Please if anybody can help me with any little amount to eat I will be very happy. Feeding is a big problem for me and my family please no matter how small. I havent eaten anything since yesterday in the morning pls. My dad is a retired teacher and my mom is late. Am a single mother with my own son mouth to feed, the little money i make have use it to cater for my dad illness and pay house rent but his health is getting worst. Now we can't even eat or buy water to drink. Please if you're reading this message pls come to our aid, no matter how small it will go a long way pls. May God meet you at the point of your need as you have show us mercy amen

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Hotwest:
home area girl

U no dey Waka far na

See some of us spend almost 3k within Abuja a day to and fro and still then ur babe wanting money for this and that

Why don't u girls help us to protest topless make govt see d situation is really serious since na only body most of u gat to offer

Wizpa:
You mean the likes of Stella oduah that used billions to by armoured vehicles Or the likes of Alison Maduekwe that stole billions In crude oil from our refinery or Dame patience that can't speak correct English.

But na thesame evil gender pour semen into your mama to born slowpoke like you... Abi no be so

Before you open your mouth to talk next time again... think!

Nelson7474:
Kiddwaya offers Cee-C N120million to leave the Big Brother Naija #BBNaijaAllStars House.

Big Brother Naija All Stars housemate, Terseer Kiddwaya popularly known as Kiddwaya has offered to give his fellow housemate, Cee-C, the sum of N120 million if she leaves the house. Cee-C is the first housemate to be introduced in the All-Star edition of the reality show followed by Kiddwaya.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e7FWcCYguGg

DominusPrime:
It’s made front page now. You can calm your tits down my lady 😊

Metrix147:
A magistrate court in Umuahia Abia State has slammed life imprisonment on a 37-year-old HIV-Positive man, Mr. Chiemela Victor Ekeke for raping a 4-year-old girl in Umuahia, ABN TV reports.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cg_oUAZeyck
Magistrate N. Lekwa had in the last sitting found the accused person guilty of infant defilement.

The court however discharged the accused person on count 1, which is bordering on conspiracy.

The second defendant was however discharged and acquitted, saying he had no common intention or anything linking him to the crime

The prosecuting counsel, Okezuonu Obioma applauded the decision of the court, saying it is the position of the law in defilement of a minor.

Mr. Chiemela Victor Ekeke had confessed to having carnal knowledge of the minor but pleaded for leniency.

Source: https://abntv.com.ng/news/37-yr-old-hiv-positive-man-who-raped-4-yr-old-girl-in-abia-sentenced-to-life-in-prison/

Cc; lalasticlala, Mynd44, Seun, OAM4J

Cutezt:
She should stop wearing all these mummy G.O cloth. That's why I tell every woman I date that I don't even want to see anything that looks like wrapper in the house.

iLoveYouToo:
Is that the most demeaning thing you could muster? Fraud

OBTOREPA:
Which area in Ph?

iLoveYouToo:
The only way he’d be lucky is if you’ve been lying to us on NL all these years. No lady hates men more than you.


You should be #1 persona non grata to men

OBTOREPA:
Seriously, i really needs to meet you in person.