Minjim: I know we all have the fairy tale dream of meeting the love of our life, falling madly in love, getting married and having kids. Some have even visualised the number of kids - two boys and two girls.
However, we must all face the hash reality that not everyone will get married or even have kids. As such everyone of us must have a backup plan.
My plan has always been to adopt a child even if I get married , because obviously I'll be marrying in my 40's. So whether I have a child later or not I planned to adopt an older child like 8-10 years old.
So what about you, any plan B?
I don't have plan B. I know the God I am serving. My plan A must work for me. He promised me through His words (Bible) that he will grant all my heart desires. I desire to have a decent home and raise wonderful kids to His glory.
Once you think of plan B, you have limited your God.
Bobloco: What if Gods plan is that you won't get married, what if God wants you to become a Reverend Sister. You know there is a sayings that man proposes, God disposes. So what if your plan A is not God's plan...........What if
How many people in the Bible did God make a Rev Sister?
My God is not like Nigerian men who have double mouth. My God will never say a thing and then do the opposite. My God has already told me that I will leave my father's house and join with my soulmate and the two shall become one.
So tell me who God will plan for me not to get married when He has said that I will leave my father's house to my husband's house.
Evangelist Funmilayo Adebayo popularly known as Mummy G.O who is popular for her controversial preaching has been called out by an unidentified man after she failed to perform miracles.
According to information gathered by WonderTV Media, the man put on a challenge of healing the sick on Facebook and Mummy G.O accepted the challenge and promised to heal the sick. Trouble set in when Mummy G.O failed the challenge.
In a video making rounds on the internet, Mummy G.O was seen pacing in a church as she was being accused of being fake and not having an explanation for the sick people that have not received healing since the beginning of her programme in the church.
The man speaking in the video further said that she was the one that accepted his challenge on Facebook to hold the church programme and promised to heal sick people.
He also mentioned that he has spent over three hundred thousand naira (N300,000.00) during the programme and everyone that came with an ailment is still suffering from it with no change.
Mummy G.O however could not give an explanation on why the sick people did not get their healings instead, she asked that she should not be videoed by the man.
The man then instructed security personnel to lock the church doors to stop her from leaving until she explained why the sick were not healed.
obembet: There is no bad one among children when it come to gender because we are in the generation where some women are doing far better than men even though some men don't really see anything good about female child while some men preferred female children than male. Some preferred combination.
But as for you, Which of this gender combination you prefer to have when it come to having children?
Tomek09: A Chief Magistrate Court II sitting in Mubi, Adamawa, has ordered that one Abdullahi Adamu, be remanded in prison for allegedly raping a five-year-old nursery 3 schoolgirl (name withheld).
The 28-year-old suspect was said to have allegedly lured the minor into an uncompleted building in Mubi in the Mubi North Local Government Area of the State, where he defiled her.
Adamu, who allegedly took time to pry on the little kid, took advantage of her while she was returning home from her school at Anguwan Madina, which is located near Adamu’s residence in Mubi town. He reportedly lured her into the hideout with a N20 biscuit and then raped her.
“I asked her to come with me to a nearby shop to pick a biscuit and she obliged me, after which I took her into the uncompleted building,” Adamu said.
A curious neighbour, who sighted him while exiting the building with such a minor, suspected and alerted other neighbors, leading to his arrest. The victim was then taken to the General Hospital Mubi where she was examined and then established that Adamu had penetrated her.
Adamu has been arraigned before the Chief Magistrate Court II where the judge, Magistrate Hamidu Aminu, ordered that he be remanded in prison custody.
donleo92: na you dey look for handsome, rich, churchy boy nau.
Take away 'rich' from your list. If she wanted a rich guy, she would have gone for Anthony Joshua, Kidyawa or Davido. These three men have been giving her green light but she turned all of them down.
She is looking for an intelligent responsible young man. But unfortunately no Nigerian man possesses such attributes.
DAVIDO: A very irresponsible fellow. Imagine impregnating someone's child, went to see her parents then later dumped her.
KIDWAYA: A kid indeed. Very unwise kid I must say. He had sex with someone's daughter on national TV. Promising the girl heaven and earth only for him to leave the BBA house and acted as Erica does not exist.
ANTHONY JOSHUA: A bona fide misogynist. Check out how he treats his niece then compare it to how he treats his nephew.
Jubilations all over Ekpoma Edo State as Davido finally splashes over N5Million to Buy His Personal Logistics Manager Isreal DMW A Brand New Toyota Venza!!! Big Congrats To The Latest Car owner in Town!!!
Israel watch o. You are next in line on Davido death row.
nwekeugochukwu: Billionaire daughter and disk jockey, Florence Otedola aka DJ Cuppy has said that having access to wealth does not guarantee happiness or peace of mind, IGBERETV reports.
The 29-year-old artiste who is currently studying at the Oxford University stated this via Twitter while responding to a fan after an Instagram live session with BBNaija's Kiddwaya on Thursday.
Dainy1: Pls mature mind in the house. What would you advise a young lady whose husband is into betting, any salary, loan, contributions that enters his account, he wouldn't tell her, until he finished it.
They have no accommodation right now, they are squatting with a family friend. Because the husband can not save and he is into loan.
Last night, she said she took her husband's ATM card because his salary has entered few days ago and he has started withdrawing little by little on betting as usual. He was looking for it this morning, but she denied. Would you advise her to go and withdraw his money without his permission? What would you advise such person?
She's my colleague and I don't want to give wrong advise.
Amb1045: This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.
He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.
He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.
What do you advise him?
Can't you all do without sex? The use sex swear for una?
Pastor arrested for allegedly having unlawful sex with woman and her two daughters in Ogun
A pastor-in-charge of the spirit-filled International Christian Church Olumore Abeokuta, Timothy Oluwatimilehin, has been arrested by men of the Ogun State Police Command for allegedly luring a housewife and her two daughters away from their home, keeping them in his own house, and having carnal knowledge of the women.
A statement released by DSP Abimbola Oyeyemi, spokesperson of the state police command, says the pastor was arrested following a complaint lodged at Adatan police station by the husband of the victim, who was accompanied by an official of the Ministry of Women Affairs and reported that his wife and two daughters were lured by the pastor of their church who took them into his custody and has since been having sex with both the mother and her two daughters.
''Upon the report, the DPO Adatan division, SP Abiodun Salau detailed his detectives to effect the arrest of the randy pastor.
On interogation, the pastor, confessed to the commission of the crime but pleaded for forgiveness. In his confession, he explained that he took advantage of little misunderstanding between the woman and her husband to carry out the devilish act.''Oyeyemi said
Meanwhile, the commissioner of police, CP Lanre Bankole has directed the anti-human trafficking and child labor unit of the state criminal investigation and intelligence department to take over the case and diligently investigate it with the view to charge the suspect to court as soon as possible.
A 38-year-old father, Baridap Needman, has been arrested by the police for allegedly impregnating his 14-year-old biological daughter in Yenagoa, the Bayelsa state capital.
The State Gender Advocacy group, Gender Response Initiative Team (GRIT) led by Dise Ogbise Esq, made a formal to the police, which led to the arrest of the suspect, who hails from Ogani Wily Kaira Community in Ogoni in Rivers State.
Ogbise stated that the GRIT was tipped off by a concerned neighbour who noticed that the victim was five months pregnant and that the father was responsible for the pregnancy.
The arrested father was said to have been violating his daughter since the age of 7, by fingering the girl, but things got worse when the victim’s mother died a few years ago.
According to Nigerian Tribune, the accused father went on to replace his deceased wife with his daughter on his matrimonial bed. While the 14-year-old girl who was in Junior Secondary School 3, was sleeping with the father on the bed, her two younger brothers were made to sleep on the floor.
However, policemen at the Ekeki Police Station, where the case was reported, were shocked when the pregnant 14-year-old declared that she was in love with her accused father.
The Chairperson of the GRIT, however, told newsmen that the advocacy group in collaboration with the Ministry of Women Affairs would offer psycho-social support to the victim and ensure that she is well taken care of until delivery.
“Abortion is not an option and the two brothers have been handed to their family member for proper care. The Girl will be in government custody and she needs to go back to school. Her dream is to be a musician and we will encourage her” she explained.
A Family has declared an 11-year-old girl, Anabel Sedoo Akaasar, missing in Makurdi, Benue State, Reports.
According to her cousin, Nuela Bem, Who Quickly Notified On Facebook, Said the girl left home on Saturday afternoon, January 22 and has not returned since then.
She Wrote On Facebook As Obtained By Below;
"MISSING CHILD:This girl is my cousin, her name is Anabel sedoo Akaasar,she is living with the Aunt behind NUJ,close to methodist high school,makurdi.she is 11years, schools in Twincle Star Nur school, behind government college makurdi,"
"She left home at about 1300hrs on the 22/01/22,up till date she is no where to be found. Please help me be on a watch out, in case you see her contact me on phone number 08036576376 or the nearest police station or civil defence office, friends help me share too.thank you all"
flokii: There is no evidence that the guy killed her except you have one to put forward.. anything flying around now is just speculations until autopsy is conducted to ascertain the real cause of her death. it's just like every other case of women dying in their boyfriend's place.
flokii: He lodged her somewhere else so the wife at home won't find out.. he was cheating with the deceased woman who travelled all the way from Lagos to knack a married man.
Crime › Re: Wife Kills Husband’s Nephew Over Broken Mirror by saphiere(f): 7:11pm On Feb 06, 2022
