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Kondomatic:
The "future" wants free food.

lexy2014:
whats d lesson in d story? is it to show that d men who impregnated her are irresponsible? what exactly was this ladys strategy for getting a better life in saudi arabia? was it to work or to get more pregnancies? i dont understand. pls explain

Woman Who Went to Saudi In Search For A Greener Pasture Returns With 2 Kids From Deadbeat Sudanese Dads

A Kenyan woman has narrated how she went to Saudi Arabia seven years ago with the hope of making money and giving her three children a better future but ended up returning home empty-handed and with two kids in tow.

Merab Wanjiku who hails from Gatundu, Kiambu came back to Kenya a fortnight ago, after seven years in the gulf but sadly, besides the two lovely kids that she came with, she had nothing to show for it.

Speaking on Baruthi Wa Thayu YouTube channel, the woman said she initially left Kenya due to the difficulties she was facing in her marriage with her abusive husband. The mother of five children recalled that she had to leave the home because her husband would assault her every now and then. She secretly worked with an agent with the hopes of flying to the middle east nation.

“A friend of mine who saw how I was suffering in the marriage gave me the idea to go to Saudi. She asked me to look for KSh 10,000 so that I could get started with the process,” she said.

One fine morning, she left the country for what she thought would be a life-changing opportunity but a year and four months into the country, things started going south.

Due to the fights from her husband, she was in constant pain and so handling the house chores in her boss’s house in Saudi became impossible. She thus told her employer that she wants to come back to Kenya but they were adamant.

“They took me to another Arab’s house to work for them but there, the workload was even worse,” she said.

What would follow were frantic efforts to try and get back to Kenya but she did not get the help she needed even from the Kenyan Embassy. She would meet a Kenyan man and his wife who sadly, conned her almost all the money she had earned, leaving her with nothing to survive on.

Wanjiku narrated that she started interacting with a group of ladies whom she would party with, in Saudi and it was in this process that she met her first Sudanese lover who impregnated her.

“When I became pregnant, he, however, left for his country, never to return. I did not even get to speak to him again”, she recalled.

A few months after giving birth to her fourth child and first one in Saudi, she would then meet another guy, a Sudanese, who impregnated her. This was her fifth child, and second in the Middle-East nation. Sadly, none of the men stuck around to help her support the two children. Life became so unbearable for her that she gave herself up to a deportation centre together with her two children. Wanjiku came back a few weeks ago, after seven years in Saudi but she can barely even feed herself and the little kids.

Worse, the three children that she left in Kenya are suffering as their dad remarried and left them all by themselves living in pitiable conditions.

Lattop:
U see this people I mean most of ur Gender won't agreed to this

But still we move

nzeobi:
I agree if the first wife and her children will accept you

elonmuskbaby:
abeg getat with your peer pressure.[b]hes grown enough to decide whether or not he will marry her.[/b]he has a son with her and he's fulfilling his fatherly responsibility.

Its obvious if they're married, they'll be toxic to each other

OMONGBALI:
I don't support rape in anyway. But I think it's dumb and toxic to say all men are potential rapists, which is what you imply by asking women keep their daughters away from their fathers. If your father raped you, it doesn't mean all fathers are the same. Evil has no gender. There are wicked women out there, it doesn't mean I'll say all women are evil.

As a parent, I understand the place of being careful about the welfare of one's child. But we shouldn't tagged men as rapists because of the crime of some people.

I will never embrace a tag that doesn't confirm with my character.

There are millions of awesome fathers who are working their asses off to provide for their family and to raise good kids. Only a dumb person will generalize all men as potential rapists.

I have been coming across your anti-men posts for so long. Whatever you have encountered in life that made you this way, I sincerely hope you find healing.

Trimjos:
Seun lalasticlala OAM4J mynd44 lalasticlala
Rule 2

“Success is sweet ! E sweet die ! But e no sweet when it’s not with the pple who knew you weren’t sh*t before!!”

OMONGBALI:
Did your mother keep you away from your father?

TMSMedia:
Noor Buhari, the last daughter of President Buhari took to her Instagram story to state that it is very testing to be a child of a president, IgbereTV reports.

She made this known while answering to the question:

"How Is Life Like Being The President's Child?"

See her post below.

https://igberetvnews.com/1400653/noor-buhari-presidents-child-testing-photo/

GariSugarSugar:
A canda meat is a canda meat, noting can be done about it.
Look down at the picx to see.

bepositive11:
First of all, not all men are the same but you have been attracting all the same men. This means that you have a problem

You need to dig deeper to understand why you only attract men who are abusive and distrustful

Being independent and strong is good, but don't use it as a way to avoid dealing with the underlying problem

My suggestion is that you should learn to love yourself and set boundaries to only accommodate men who will treat you right

Maybe it stems from your childhood. Some women have/had abusive parents so they associate abuse with love. They don't know what healthy love feels like

Learn to develop healthy love with yourself first

All the best to you. Based on your comments, I never imagined that you would be interested in marriage.

effort1:
So, only rapists have been coming your way since you started dating?

If that's the case, then you've got problems.

thatsleepboy1:
OMG..... Amen

Your sins are forgiven!!!!

koyyes:


You created a thread and you are praying on top of it.

Funny you.

effort1:
You are clearly not ready. It is so obvious. The absurdity of your mind and your unreadiness still reflect in your comment.

Only God knows how many good men you have turned away because of your absurd reasoning.

jaxxy:
Hustles have names if legit. And we can have an idea of how much such legit hustle pulls.

People hustle is sane climes and it’s well known to fans or public. There nothing like secret hustle unless secret or silent investments.

jaxxy:
In sane climes we have a good ideas of how much actors, actresses, musicians, business men, politicians etc.. pull yearly so we don’t get these kinds of surprises that leave us wondering how come?

micronut:
A serious disagreement was recorded here inside Max Airline flight going from Abuja to Bauchi when a woman complained over the 4 hours flight delay, and the pilot and the other crew, demanded that the woman should be taken down from the flight for insulting them even though they are trying to take necessary precautionary measures to ensure safety.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dz5FgnGN8sY

The Pilot was seen particularly exchanging words with the woman while other passengers supported her and social reaction from people have shown people calling for the pilot to be sanctioned for being rude.


For some people, it's a parody of "Customers are always right" while for some others "delays can be excused for passengers safety".

Who is wrong here, the passenger or the pilot? see People's reactions on Facebook as Shared on Wall of Hajia Aisha Alubankudi.



Source: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10225200401813086&id=1111933828

Aidejay:
Abeg which film she dey act?

Olunmercy56:
Congrats. I pray for my own soon.