i rather not say for now, beacuse i know people will jump down my throat whatever i say, However i will say one thing: all will be revealed in blog, so if u wana kno the full story, il get u the link as soon as i start. (if i ever do, lol, laziness!!)

well said, really i dnt have anything to add to that! u got it in one, im really starting to wonder,

well first of all thanks for the responses, really appreciate them, some even made laugh, anyway im still comtemplating u see. but i guess since this topic has caused such outrage im not about to jump into anything. and just to clear things up, we have not slept together, it's not even on my mind but that's another story, infact im thinking about bloggin on it, anyway keep your responses coming,

regards

Well im not sure what we're gonna do, one thing i do know is if we were going to be together we couldn't be in Nigeria, they'll probably try to stone us or something lol

so we are just trying to work things out, 1) how are our parents gonna react, 2) where are gonna live 3) what's gonna happen if our family disown us, there are so many things to consider so its not a decision i can make right now, as frustrating as that is

glad to have someone who feels the same as i do, i was starting to think i was some kind of freak lol, im feeling a little better now!!

madamkoko:

SASHA4U, hope u've learned that Nigerians are very bitter, cynical, and angry people, lol

Thier country is in need of DIRE HElp with their useless politicians.

You know i was just thinking that! In london no one would give a shit, but Nigeria, ah, that is another story altogether, just look at all the backlash ive received on this post, imagine if it was face to face,

Some Nigerians use their religion as a cloak to just discriminate, which silly because christianity teaches love and acceptance!

As for the politicians Nigeria is still developing, come back in 20 years and i know things will have improved,

loffers:

i understand what u mean, but my dear its totally WRONG. just keep your feelings to urselves[ i mean d 2 of u]. people must not hear about it, not to even mention your family members, its an abominable thing to do.
i pray that the lord will help you.
but wait a minute, does your step brother think its a right thing to do

lets leave him out of this, i instigated it, Lol, i dont think he had a chance to say no, not many men can resist me when i set my sights on them, (well ive only had two b/f, so thats another story, )

Abuja1:

he is your brother, call it what's so ever,quit from that relationship, God no go 4give you, oo

please do you even read the bible, it is a known fact that abraham and sarah were half siblings, which means they were blood related; so befpre you open your trap you need to get your facts right!! Everyone knows God found favour in Abraham despite this, so i don't understand the problem from a christian point of view.

If u want the chapter and verse i go give am to u.

Thank you guys for giving me advice. Im grateful for those who were supportive as for the others I try to ignore the hurtful things that have been said, i can't help how i feel, People won't understand until they've been in my position, how it feels to have such strong feelings for someone society will never allow you to be with, i think to myself one day ill have to watch him get married, watch some other woman have his kids, I feel like i'll never get over him, no other man will care for me as much as he does. Im just stuck on him. i just cant explain how it feels,

We are both hurting from this and weve taked about this issue over and over , we both understand how difficult our situation is and what implications it may have, but we are yet to find a solution that doesnt involve immense pain and heartache, so for now we are just leaving it up to fate.

he's quite sexy

ive read all your replies, and thank you to all those who are a little supportive or at least polite, and for those who werent i say i should be delivered from all evil, i have heard you. I am not sure exactly if the latter individuals are giving me advice or insulting me, isnt it funny how christians are always the first people to judge, even though they profess to be so holy, anyway that is another matter entirely,


Ive thought and thought about it, (my situation) and ive decided to let fate decide.

And to the guy who called me a goat, GROW UP!!

Rebirth:

really don't think about it. banish the thot, i won't walk. imagine having your step siblings being your in-laws as well. drop it now

your opinions are duly noted. thank you

debosky:

I apologise if I was condescending.

the controversy is the main thing, people don't take those kinds of issues mildly at all. 

I doubt it would be worth the trouble, except you are willing to extricate yourself from family ties and live by yourselves somewhere far away.

I imagine it must be tough , hang in there ok?

tough is an understatement, ive been crying  for 2 days straight,  there is no way we could ever turn away from our family, too many ppl would be hurt, it would break my dad's heart. its kind off ironic i guess, i always wanted to fall in love and here comes the most perfect most amazing guy,,, and i cant be with him.

please dont be condescending.

debosky:

well it will be difficult for you to have any relationship given the married state of your parents.

technically you both are not related, but think about the kids your parents may have. . .it will be very messy.

unfortunately you will have to leave those feelings behind and move on. I suggest you spend as little time together as possible.

my parents are beyond their childbearing age, so there is no chance of that, but irregardless, i now understand all the controversy, it would cause, Nigerians are pretty conservative, ppl just wouldnt understand.

justkunmi:

tryin to reconstruct the truth to make it less damaging

u know what is rite and u know the rite thing to do. . .

please do the rite thing and end watever it is you have with your non-related brother

i know and i do know the right thing to do.

Rebirth:

go to MFM, u need deliverance

thank you.

debosky:

if you did not sleep with him, how did you 'took our friendship step further'?

we agreed we both had feelings for eachother, the rest is history. But no we didnt sleep together

im not sleeping with him, and we are not blood relatives anyway. his mom had him before she met my dad. so this is not a case of incest

I recently met my stepbrother (his mom and my dad are married) and we hit it off (not like that o) we became really good friends. Then i started developing all these weird feelings for him, and one night, we took our friendship step further.

Ever since its been going round and round in my mind, because im not sure, if what i did was right or wrong. Im falling in love with him regardless and he feels the same way too, what should i do. Is it wrong to feel the way i do about him?

i didnt go to the show either, i dropped out of the competition, and on the day i was very busy. but i heard it was good and ill try and get some pics from some of the girls.

i wasnt in the pics, because they were taken b4 i entered da competition as was the winner (if you look closely she not in it either). and she's not short she's 5.9

the winner. she deserved it, and shes such a lovely girl. im glad she won!

sisimose:

actually this very evening at around 9pm why?

nah no reason, i just wasnt told when it would be airing. it was BEN TV right?

sisimose:

pulezseeee

back to topic
not referring to you Lady T

and they are really stunning ,.

when did you see it on t.v

@ seun love your picture!!

LadyT:

Red lips don't bother.


Its obvious we are just jealous fat bitches 

"these girls are nothing to write home about" tell me is that not pure jealousy. and tell your friend red lips not to talk abut people like they're invalids. as for trying to point out a fool, how is thinking everyone has their own unique beauty, regardless of how their facial features are arranged, foolish? yes im in a competition where i will be judged by my appearance, it doesnt mean i will die if i dont win.

@ omo eko
thanks for helping me out. im not quite sure how the show will be broadcast, because unlike its american counterpart it is not an on going reality tv programme. its an event taking place in london and that will be it. almost like a pageant, but a model search.

Omo Eko:

@Red Lips aka ThieftOfHeart(TOH)
3 people just told me that Red_lips is thiefofhearts.Roflmao,  Wonders shall never end
Afterall, you were so quick to judge me Lmao


Why don't you leave this girl alone for heaven sake

What is your business between LadyT and her

You like attention sha abi don't you have something better to do with your time.

I feel like your are Jealous of her since she part of the Nigerian Top Model

Wetin concern you if she spends most of her time on Nairaland, Nigerians with their wahala. Shame shame on you

@sasha4u
Just curious oh, Why is it called Nigeria Top Model if it's going on and will be taped in London.

And are all this girls Nigerian ?

However goodluck to you and others competing.

thanks . the show is about finding nigeria's top model but since its being held in london, obviously only nigerian girls in london can enter, next yr however the organisers are planning to move it to nigeria or import some nigerian models to take part. and yes very single one of the girls are nigerian and they're all beautiful

Red_Lips:

Lol. still going at it.

You're amusing, really. Kinda like a freak show in the circus.

oh good one, ill add it to the list. kiss kiss