glad to have someone who feels the same as i do, i was starting to think i was some kind of freak lol, im feeling a little better now!!

Hey, no problem! Glad I could help!
How are things going for you two? Made any decisions yet? I don't want to pry, but I'm really curious. 

Well im not sure what we're gonna do, one thing i do know is if we were going to be together we couldn't be in Nigeria, they'll probably try to stone us or something lol

so we are just trying to work things out, 1) how are our parents gonna react, 2) where are gonna live 3) what's gonna happen if our family disown us, there are so many things to consider so its not a decision i can make right now, as frustrating as that is

I KNOW AM GOING TO CRUCIFIED FOR SAYING THIS BUT I UNDERSTAND!!! GIRL U IN A TOUGH ONE.

WELL, its not wrong but its not right, it's just that its going to be complicated. ask urself canu handle the heat.

if u can,then go ahead. it might just turn out to be purely physical n u might get over it. who knows.

he is ur bro(technically) so it might feel a lil bit akward.
atleast u shared it wit us so i wld nt want to make it worse 4 u but i wld only say see hw it goes

there is no blood relationship.
so whats wrong with it.

well do not tell your people yet. it may be over b4 it even starts. but to be on the safe side date other people.
i just hope you are not mistaking "brotherly" love with the other love.

well it kinda old stuff now but i must confess to you that when "emotions"come to bear irregardless of the underlining factor, or reason attributed for such things cropping up, its always hard admitting and acknowledging that a dog is way far differnt from a monkey(recall yoruba saying) n pe aja lobo funmi!, girl shut your mind and tell the lover boy to back-out! have a wonderful time +234-080-5473-2185
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pls stop watching all those home videos cos they are begining to mess you up

@poster
some says you need a pastor, some says it is disgusting. I think what most members should understand is to put dem self in ur shoes and know how it feels. I ve never gone though this b4, but its ur choice if u want to have a relationship wiv d guy or not and it depends on how ur mum and his dad takes this situation.
Some people are giving their views based on culture. But its ur choice to take control of your feelings.

This is wrong ho ha
It is dirty and wrong.
Can a man marry and deflower his adopted child afterall they are not blood.
what's the difference here?
an adopted brother,step brother half brother is a brother.

@ poster go out more and meet people who are not family before you open up a thread about sleeping with your uncles.
TUFIAKWA!!!

1st question:

Are y'all blood related?

If the answer is yes:

You disgust me

If the answer is no:

Then y r u asking us this yeye question? Y'all ain't blood related! Abeg comot 4 here!

i emphathise with your situation, it must be terribly difficult
uve got two uneasy choices, do what your heart says and damn the consequences
or follow your head and live with your loss
personally i don't see any thing wrong after all u are not related
was watching this documentary about people that fall in love with their blood sisters cousins etc having never meet before until they were adults twas very interesting
do what your heart says Bleep, the consequences but don't forget some over zeleous self righteous puritants will never hesitate to stick their filty fingers at you

Can a man marry and deflower his adopted child afterall they are not blood.
what's the difference here?

to this i will answer Woody Allen

@ POSTER, get dat out ur head,
yes u can hav hot , steamy, butt naked, nasty sex, bt face it,dats all it cud ever b btw u guys.its a sexual thing, r u gonna go abt tellin ur friends u datin ur step brother, even ur folks wud kill u if dey found out,

get over each oda mehn, der's blood btw u guys , plus dats just nasty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i gatta admit fallin 4 a couple of my cousins tho bt no biggies, der's still a lil history btw us, abi

go to church for delivrance oooo

SARLA, pls cum bak 2 earth

Honey,
"step-brother" is just another english word. . . . . . . Just go ahead & do whady'all feel lyk doing!

men sis get that feeling away,its not just an english word, uve got a bit of blood tying u guys.so just take it easy aight i knw it might be difficult cos i have once tripped for my cousin but d soonest u can get it out the better for u.wud put a word of prayer for u.cheers

Who b d wife 4 cain and even abel. I beg go ahead if u really love and he too really u

@ sasha,

u rily need to work on urself, wat i mean is, u ve to start telling yourself, i cant , its not worth it, truth is, no matter the perspective u look at it, morally,ethically,whichever, there re reservations, its still wrong and it will cause your parents heartache, simply try and "fall out of love" or redirect the feelings as a brother u value so much, the road to approval for u two is goin to be long and tortuous, u dont want to go thru it, i ve faced something similar, just avoid the rough path, all the best!!

There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. You are not related by blood.

Outstrip:

There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. You are not related by blood.

IT IS TRADITIONALLY WRONG.

whats traditionally wrong, traditionally when the step father dies and it comes to inheritance, the family will ask the step son to go and look for his father.

kola oloye:

IT IS TRADITIONALLY WRONG.

mamaput:

whats traditionally wrong, traditionally when the step father dies and it comes to inheritance, the family will ask the step son to go and look for his father.

so thats a reason for her to sleep with her step or u totally missed what the poster was saying?cos i cant see the correlation here

SENATOR JD:

so thats a reason for her to sleep with her step or u totally missed what the poster was saying?because i can't see the correlation here

I was asking her to stop loving her step brother in order to avoid future pains.
If they should sleep together and pregnancy occurs,how do they handle the traditional wedding?
I'm of the opinion that she should try and love someone else,let her leave him alone.

Ah Gees!!!! that's d junior bro of INCEST!!!

Disgustin'!!!

@Kola oloye i understood ur point jare it was mamaputs own that i didnt ,that was why i posted urs 1st since her post was a response to urs.

the same bible that says every unrighteousness is a sin equally says there is love in sharing. there is nothing wrong in having feelings for your step brothers cos you are not same father, hence it's forbidden for both of you to get married.

Ola8:

the same bible that says every unrighteousness is a sin equally says there is love in sharing. there is nothing
wrong in having feelings for your step brothers because you are not same father, hence it's forbidden for both of you to get married.

what is wrong is WRONG.
There is a way that seemeth right unto man but the end thereof is destruction- Bible

sebi he s not ur father son so dere is notin bad,atleast he is ur father girlfriend son .so ENJOY urself

@poster

douse urself in petrol and set urself alight!