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Romance / Re: Don't Marry Guys Who Have This 10 Habits... by savodway(m): 5:11pm On May 19, 2018
Which num be ur own?
drezzyx:
Imagine if you married a guy…but then realised he had bad habits that couldn’t be cured? In this article, Beauty and Tips takes a look at why you need to avoid guys with these 10 habits.

Prince Charming might have flaws, but he doesn’t have bad habits that can ruin a relationship. While it’s impossible to find the absolute perfect man (we’ve looked, he doesn’t exist) that doesn’t mean you should drop your standards and marry a guy who has annoyingly bad habits. For a man to be marriage material, he has to be completely the right man for you. Sure, he will still have flaws (don’t we all?), but flaws are different from habits. Habits are things we’ve learned to do over the years; they’re ingrained in our behaviour and we do them automatically. Not only can they annoy you, but it’s also practically impossible to get a man to change his ways. If a guy has some of the following 10 habits? He isn’t marriage material.

He’s Full Of Excuses

He can’t just give you a straight answer for why he let you down, and instead resorts to his Big Book Of Boyfriend Excuses. Each time he makes an excuse, he’s displaying his immaturity to you. Moreover, there is a good chance he’s lying. Excuses are the resort of children – and you want to marry a man, not a child.

He’s Narrow Minded

Guys who are narrow minded really frustrate us, don’t they? We just wish they would be more open to doing something other than watching sports all weekend, and we wish they would stop making snap, judgemental comments about people. Some guys can seem to be the most open-minded people about certain topics, but become closed off when it comes to other topics. And it’s really annoying because it can contaminate your relationship. For example, imagine you want to hang out with a guy friend you haven’t seen for a while. You know what this guy is all about, and you know what his “intentions” are – to hang out and catch up! Meanwhile, your partner mistrusts him, tells you all guys just want sex from you and won’t let you see him. If your man is still stuck in the 19th century with his close-minded views, he’s hardly worth marrying.

He Shouts

Any guy who has a habit of exploding with anger is a no-go as far as Beauty and Tips is concerned. If you’ve met a man who shouts, screams and verbally abuses people, stay well away from him.

He Breaks Promises

If your man casually breaks promises with you all the time, it isn’t a good sign. What this should tell you is that this is a bad habit he’s picked up down the years and is unlikely to change anytime soon. Broken promises are frustrating. If he breaks a promise early on in the relationship, it’s not a huge deal. But if he keeps doing it, you need to take this as the huge red flag that it is. In simple English, he’s disrespecting you and the relationship, and taking you for a fool. It’s a sign that he doesn’t care enough about you (or anyone for that matter) and probably won’t be changing in the foreseeable future. After all, he doesn’t seem to see it as a problem. But as the movies teach us, those who break their promises suck (it’s usually dad’s breaking their promises to their kids, and yes, they suck. And can you imagine what would happen if you guys had kids and he broke his promises to them, too?!)

He Lies

Breaking a promise is one thing, but if he brazenly lies to your face and you know it’s a clear lie, it’s a major warning sign that this is a guy you can’t trust. Lying is a bad habit that’s easy to get into and hard to get out of. If you’ve caught your man lying red-handed on more than one occasion, you’ll need to consider the very real possibility that he isn’t worth marrying.

He Doesn’t Put You First

If a man doesn’t put you first, you have to ask yourself the question – when will he put me first? The answer is probably never. Guys who don’t prioritise their women are instead in the habit of prioritising their buddies, their work or their hobbies. Love comes last, and if it’s always been this way in your relationship, there is a good chance that it won’t change.

He’s Possessive

It’s okay for someone to be a tad possessive at first. It’s even kinda cute. But you two have been together a while and he’s still being extra clingy, it’s a habit he’s probably not going to break. In fact, it probably means he’s a control freak. And that kind of man isn’t worth walking down the altar with.

He Likes To Win Arguments

If he gets a smug sense of satisfaction whenever he wins an argument between you guys and literally hates the fact that even once he could be wrong, it’s a bad habit that you should take as a red flag. No one in a relationship should go into an argument wanting to win. Instead, the goal should be a resolution that suits both parties. If your partner always has to be right? He isn’t worth your time.

He Won’t Take Responsibility

When we refuse to acknowledge our mistakes and take for responsibility for something that was OUR fault, we’re behaving like children. Worse still, we’re passing the blame onto someone else. Even worse, we’re not giving ourselves the chance to learn from our mistakes. If this sounds a lot like your man, he isn’t marriage material at this point.

He Has An Unhealthy Lifestyle

If he drinks and smokes too much while you’re trying to lead a healthier life, it’s a strong sign that you guys aren’t meant to be. Sure, he could cut down on his drinking and quit smoking. But if he’s tried in the past to no avail, it might be best if you avoid this kind of guy.

Stay happy!

Career / Re: Amasa Firdaus: Why I Wore The Hijab Intentionally To Bar Ceremony by savodway(m): 3:01pm On Dec 17, 2017
Thunder fire ur mouth
Limitednow:
Just tell us you need an Islamic state.

There is no difference between you and boko haram!
Celebrities / Re: Nabila Fash Birthday Party Photos by savodway(m): 7:23pm On Oct 09, 2017
Benddownlow bobby
Foreign Affairs / Re: Picture Of Stephen Paddock, Las Vegas Mass Shooter by savodway(m): 8:49pm On Oct 02, 2017
Omo eran abi omo eran... Na u convert am quote author=Xbee007 post=61047912]
Omo eran, na you convert am?[/quote]

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Picture Of Stephen Paddock, Las Vegas Mass Shooter by savodway(m): 8:47pm On Oct 02, 2017
Which name would u call this one now coz is only Muslim u use to tag terrorist shocked
Religion / We Live In A World Where 2+2=5 by savodway(m): 9:27am On Sep 11, 2017
I just don't understand people calculation

Forum Games / Re: Whats Your Score ? by savodway(m): 9:10pm On Sep 05, 2017
What made u score 8?
Mariinee:
8 cry cry
Celebrities / Re: Small Doctor Donates School Bags, Boards And Other Study Materials To Schools by savodway(m): 9:26pm On Jun 15, 2017
Bbanj:
Penalty crooner, small doctor has joined the league of celebrities who perform charitable deeds in a bid to give back to the society.

Yesterday, 14th June 2017, Small doctor in company of Junior Boi, Soji Omo Banke, Tata Sly and other entertainers paid a charity visit to State Primary School, Akilo Primary School and Anwar’ul Islam Primary School with donations of educational materials like school bags, Boards, writing materials among others.

While speaking at the event, Small Doctor said, “this is just my own way of giving back to the society and to help other ghetto kids achieve their goals”, He said.
Meanwhile, parents and teachers of pupils who benefited from this philanthropic move by the Agege singer expressed their sincere gratitude and offered their prayers to him in return for the good gesture.


http://trendinghelm..com/2017/06/small-doctor-donates-school-bags-boards.html
omo iya tisha

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Celebrities / Re: Eniola Wright Graduates From US AirForce Academy by savodway(m): 12:20pm On Apr 23, 2016
yusaze:
Bukky Wright's son is now an American Air Force Officer. She shared photos of Eniola & wrote, 'I Love you Son' & 'Am so proud of my son as an American air force officer'.

His brother Ojayy also congratulated him on Instagram, saying, 'Congrats on your graduation Lil bro. We are all proud of ya!!! You're def gonna be that high ranked officer you always talked about. #Airforce #OmoBukky #TheyCantFuckWidUs'

Source: http://www.9janewsarena.com/2016/04/eniola-wright-graduates-from-us-air-force.html

am hapi for him, great achievement
Politics / Re: Buhari Says Hijab May Be Banned,Nigerians React On Twitter by savodway(m): 4:42pm On Dec 31, 2015
Do u think banning of hijab can stop bombing...wa in na judana Lao Lee monijuna quote author=Idrismusty97 post=41497554]I support the banning or at least reforming of the Hijab. It would really go a long way. Buhari said "If this continues the Hijab would be banned", But it is already continuing for a long time and is becoming unbearable. The Hijab has to go for now.[/quote]
Education / Re: Wrong Diction And Unnecessary Use Of Preposition In Our Daily Speech by savodway(m): 10:25am On Dec 24, 2015
Na ur mother language... speak it anyhow

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Agriculture / Re: Step-by-step Guide To Rearing Ostriches Profitably In Nigeria. by savodway(m): 6:15pm On Oct 08, 2015
Where can sum1 get it frm
Education / Re: My Lecturer's Daughter by savodway(m): 4:55am On Sep 08, 2015
Run for ur lyf

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Islam for Muslims / Re: 10 Hadiths About Hajj by savodway(m): 8:52pm On Sep 04, 2015
Allahu akbar

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Politics / Re: Electricity Usage Status For The Month Of August -share Your Experience by savodway(m): 5:27pm On Aug 31, 2015
The light isn't stable here in Akure
Phones / Re: How To See Who Viewed Your Facebook Profile The Most by savodway(m): 5:21pm On Aug 31, 2015
Good
Politics / Re: Reno Omokri: 24 Key Achievements Of Goodluck Jonathan In His First 100 Days by savodway(m): 4:06pm On Aug 31, 2015
Gush
Religion / Re: 22 Noisy Churches Shut Down In Lagos State by savodway(m): 12:30pm On Aug 28, 2015
honeric01:
Lagos (AFP) - Authorities in Nigeria's financial capital Lagos have shut down churches across the city after a glut of complaints over noisy worship.

The chaotic megacity's environmental protection department said it had sealed off 22 premises on Wednesday after receiving dozens of calls a day, according to local newspaper reports.
Come to ma area here in akure, d church in ma street na die their pastor no dey tire almost everyday crusade, their noise don make sum people commot for da area, abeg make ondo state government cum help us do sumthin on it
Neighbours of one church -- Jesus Our Lord Divine Catholic Prayer Ministry -- said they were constantly disturbed by a congregation of mainly pregnant women, young mothers and their children.

"On my phone alone, I get 20 SMS on a daily basis," said Adebola Shabi, head of the Lagos State Environmental Protection Agency, according to the national daily New Telegraph.

"In the next five years, if there is no stringent policy on the siting of religious houses, there will be problem."

Constant noise -- from the the thumping beats of loud music, the beep of car horns and the noise of generator engines -- is the soundtrack to Lagos life and is seen by many as part of its charm.

But residents are complaining in unprecedented numbers that they can barely hear themselves think among the churches and mosques where giant loudspeakers pump out religious messages and music.

Officials receive around 50 telephone calls and 20 text messages a day complaining about noise, mostly from churches, the New Telegraph said.

"With the enforcement today, we would have sealed about 55 premises because the last enforcement we carried out, we shut 33 premises," Shabi told reporters.

"I gave approval for closure of 22 premises today, making 55."

Religion is big business in Lagos, a city of around 20 million which has seen more than 6,000 traditional and alternative places of worship spring up in recent years, according to the authorities.

Shabi said the churches would be allowed to reopen after paying fines starting at 50,000 naira ($250, 225 euros).

http://news.yahoo.com/nigeria-shuts-down-churches-over-noisy-worship-142621276.html

Health / Re: Houseboy Injures Spinal Cord Peeping At Madam Bathing by savodway(m): 1:28pm On Aug 16, 2015
Good for him
Politics / Re: Nigerian States And What They Produce by savodway(m): 2:33pm On Aug 13, 2015
Wao
Religion / Re: Church General Overseer Converts To Muslim And Gives Reasons by savodway(m): 5:58pm On Aug 03, 2015
Congra to u
Politics / Re: Lady Spotted VP Yemi Osinbajo At An Eatery And This Happened... by savodway(m): 9:21am On Aug 02, 2015
Hope d man no collect ur num shall #atriskforurboyfriend
Education / Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by savodway(m): 10:25am On Jul 18, 2015
Rexology:
Most at times is not as a result of 'love' its as a result of 'benefit'. Intelligent female students hardly indulge in that, because they are independent academically. Most at times the guy is academically sound whereas the lady is below average,hence the cohabition.
During my school days, the best graduated student in my faculty lived with his girlfriend through out our programe and trust me the lady became very sound academically(the guy later got married to her).
In as much as I don't support cohabition in school, I would not completely condem it when academics is their priority.

@Op what is actually your headach on this issue? have you ever slept with your fellow student or did you ever sleep with any of the students in campus? are you still a virgin? If you are not a virgin, and you had ever slept with any student, then you are guilty as well,therefore you lack the moral right to condem others, its their life and never yours.
well done bro
Education / Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by savodway(m): 10:22am On Jul 18, 2015
I think u r telln us ur true life story
Crime / Re: PHOTO: APC Chieftain Shot Dead In Lagos by savodway(m): 3:10pm On Jul 17, 2015
Olokugbe Oni oun o ni ki lo wa leko
Religion / Re: Foluke Adeboye Celebrates 67th Birthday (Pictures) by savodway(m): 9:48am On Jul 14, 2015
This couple don dey luk alike oo
Culture / Re: Meet The 10 Most Powerful Kings In Nigeria. by savodway(m): 6:52pm On Jul 13, 2015
Where u put alake of egba land

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Literature / Re: Wole Soyinka Celebrates His 81st Birthday Today by savodway(m): 10:25am On Jul 13, 2015
Happy birthday my birthday mate
Politics / Re: More Graphic Photos From The Scene Of The Bomb Blast In Zaira,kaduna Today by savodway(m): 3:53pm On Jul 07, 2015
gmachine:
buari you know go do something before this
Muslim gangster kill every body for north
guy u beta watch ur words, they're not Muslim
Politics / Re: More Graphic Photos From The Scene Of The Bomb Blast In Zaira,kaduna Today by savodway(m): 3:50pm On Jul 07, 2015
Almighty ds getting too much oo
Crime / Re: Ikorodu Bank Robbers Arrested (Details Of The Arrest) by savodway(m): 11:06am On Jul 06, 2015
What of d woman that led them to the robbery operations?
Family / Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by savodway(m): 5:24pm On Jun 03, 2015
The story too long I can't read it finish : cool

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