Hello please where are you located , can I have your number

Hello please where are you located

Still available ?

Brownpeanut:
I thought I was the only one finding hard to fall in love. But how can you marry someone you don't love? There's this guy that has been pestering me. He has everything a woman can ever hope for, but I don't just feel anything for him; or love him. I can't date someone I don't love not to talk of marrying them.

It doesn't always work that way, if you read through this tread I believe you would have observed that already. Especially is this conspicuous social media age where the mind is corrupt. I see so many young ladies in your shoes they are either looking for fun or looking for that fairy spark that usually gets them falling into wrong hands time over, if you find a man that adores you, respects you responsible all you need is to give it a chance , I believe love grows. In this era I discovered your type isn't usually good for you(corruption of the mind). You are a lady make a hay when the sun still shines

durentdbiitch:
u sound insecured in ur sexuality

Nah,more of a man than you for sure,going by your moniker you are definitely(not sound)confused about your sexuality.

Adaure4ever:
how? Abeg kowaciate.

Yeah and honestly I don't mind,infact it's really cool

Simple we re so straight ....that's why I say every young lady is a potential homo or re unconsciously...

FTBoi:
but it's only when the compressor is on you feel the sudden jerk of power drain in the engine. but with just the blower on, you wouldn't notice anything. i've experienced that many times......it's funny how people come here to tell otherwise..

Check owners manufacturers manual, for more details.The funny thing people who has never used or driven a large number of cars would argue with someone that rebuild and reconstruct cars.
Note blower has no connection whatsoever with the engine it's only fuse box and the compressor hoist that's connected. The jerk is either your compressor is having problems with the control switch or your minds playing tricks on you

To the doubting Thomas,stop that argument it is silly.Now op when you get into your car switch your Ac on high ,then press the Ac button off ,you will realise the blower is still blowing high whereas the compressor is idle, so that means it's electrical not mechanical

No Ac on high doesn't increase fuel consumption .It's that simple.when you switch on your Ac the belt and compressor pulley adjust so as to make the compressors roller active.So what makes it consume more fuel is simply more load the compressor generates while active irrespective of what you do on your dash it's still the same ,everyother thing is electrical and it's the evaporator (located behind your dashoard at the very center )that now conditions the temperature.Besides when Ac is on high is just the blowers rotating speed you increase pushing out the moist the compressors generates through the hoist faster.To buttress this, check car owner's manual it's stated that your car will consume more when Ac is on and not mentioned if you change the fan speed. That notion is really absurd and silly.

KingCheezyPuff:
it's clear you have a problem with my nationality so this discussion with be no good.Uhm goodbye.

Nah,i don't, believe you me....just believe it's not a good idea to borrow their marriage culture or take note from any of their marriage processes.Bye

KingCheezyPuff:
Its not how a couples marry but what couples do after the wedding that leads to divorce.
So I yes,It's the better.
Are you feeling a bit national
Because before you found out I was Afro American you sounded like you where for no bride price.
In fact you posed the idea.

Well everything is connected ,do you know some marriages break up days after the wedding due to events that happened on the day.So whatever you guys are doing from the day of wedding can not be advice,because you re the worst of the worst when it comes to divorce. So whatever mean, isn't better because it turns out worst. It could be the mindset of entering the union that starts from the wedding ...

akike:


She mentioned to show that she loves him

Ask yourself why would a woman who could afford the best washing machine to wash anything...there are million ways to show humility

She chose one that she could afford to do.

Is it no the same topic a married man claimed that she was lying? That is logic for you.

It is like telling me that Hilary Clinton stayed in her marriage because she cared for her husband. It does not make sense to wash it, but she did because of what.....

But as for me, i can't. I will rather cook efo riro everyday to show love.



All these humility, respect etc do not work for me because it works both ways. you respect one another, you are humble to one another, you love one another, you treat your partner the way you want to be treated.

So the act in isolation of the public wasn't a show of love and respect, so had to wait so many years after to come to the public to show her love to her husband by telling us all.Damn it's worse than I thought. Just listen to yourself.I am not doing this with you ever again

akike:


In Yoruba land, you do not pay enormous bride price and you only bring the stuff on the D-day. that means if you do not meet up to the list, you are still going to get married.

Bride price=resources for hosting the ceremony. I think that is as equal as it can get.

Speaking of hosting a lot of groom still contributes to that and most time even pay for the venue, except in few cases the brides family is buoyant, even wedding gown who pays for it..besides hosting isn't a form of payment. You host guest irrespective

akike:


Actually culture is dynamic. people can insult the whites from morning till night. The ere are something you can or still can't do

Culture/Tradition is not set in stone. if i decide that my family eats just oats in the morning...it is a form of tradition

There is no reason whatsoever why they can't eat a proper sandwich

That is exactly why I have issues with you.

You want to apply logic when it comes to bride price, but washing your underwear, mbanu

So this is daretodiffer , if I had known wouldn't ve responded because you re....
as for the underwear i applied logic to that topic too,which you obviously didn't and still don't understand. She mentioned it for a reason. ...but like I said she was wasting her precious time because those who needed to learn from her humility are so lost. Adios

akike:


@seaga, even if they didn't exchange gifts

Traditionally, the wife's family provide the food, venue etc . This means that things are changing!

Yes that's norm for the bride''s family to host their guest who is paying enormous bride price.What is changing if to be noted is the groom to provide funds also to the bride''s family to assist with their responsibility of hosting.

Fanirandele:


I really understand don't how someone can tell me he knows better about my own experience than me They were handed to each other , that's how it works in my family and that's it will be for my daughters .no man will ever have mouth to say he paid for my daughter or owns her

Since you want to play coy,let's take it to the religious point of view. You believe in God and his words ?without arguing on his will ,even if unfavourably to your ideology ?if yes what does the bible say about union of a man and woman.

Fanirandele:


Gifts were exchanged by both families so no one can say they bought anyone. Both family gave equal gifts . Marriage is about 2 adults deciding to spend their lives together and not exchanging your child for material goods

Well you re not been quite honest ,because traditional marriage in this part of the world depicts a woman is handed over to the man.

Fanirandele:


Yoruba and Christian. Many Yorubas no longer collect bride price and the ones that do so collect like N5 so that it's just symbolic and they will tell you right there no one can buy their daughter

I am also yoruba,so tell me is money the only form of payment?Now tell me were any form of items received for whatever reason if yes,that means trade by barter was the order. Unless you want to tell me there wasn't any form of exchange but given out on a platter of Gold

Bookiemart01:
Please tell us how you came into conclusion that men were not created to mate only 1 woman till they die.

I think the problem with most Nigerian men is that you all have been raised with this wrong notion. It's only in Africa a man cheats on his wife and flaunts it in her face. As bad as the whites are, they respect thier partners. They don't cheat and show off with it.

What makes you think a woman can't decide to cheat on her husband? Why do you think nature created women to mate only 1 man till they die?

So you think women don't sometimes look at men who are more handsome, hard working, richer, eloquent. ....than thier spouses? We only just decide not to cheat. We have self control.

You men throw caution to the wind in the name of "it's our nature to cheat".

If una push woman, woman go check and guess what, God created women to be crafty, a woman can cheat on you and you'll never know unless she wants to rub it on your face

Do you know you unconsciously backing up his theories.

akike:


You are always about tradition and culture

When did you become so rational?

On this issue I am quite on the fence,I am just applying common logic.
But if you say tradition and culture. ...well will take that as a compliment because without it we would just be individuals roaming the earth without a form of identity.So yes I would gladly embrace it

Fanirandele:


Already in my tribe most people do not collect bride price for this reason. We didn't for my Sister's so no man can ever think he owns them the era of slavery is over. No human being owns another person

OK may I know what tribe that is?please also the religion?

KingCheezyPuff:
I guess.You should quote me if you want answers. I just happened ta see this.

Well then how come the United States has the highest divorce cases,correct me if am wrong .So whatever the modalities it isn't suggestive. So I guess not

So that's the best arrangement for a marriage

KingCheezyPuff:
If it where me,yeah.
But dude I'm not Nigerian.
....But African American

I see, so how is it done in your climate

KingCheezyPuff:
There should be no bride price for that very reason

So that means women should clamour for the end of bride price

Joy1706:

Give me one reason why a wife is owned by the husband. And don't mention bride price cos bride price is an inconsequential sum in most places. And don't say cos the bible said that men are the head. That would be tantamount to saying that buhari owns each and every one of us cos he's the head/president. See how stupid that logic is? So um waiting for one reason

but then why put a price on a bride/woman,please I am just looking at things from a neutral perspective.It's norm when you pay for anything it becomes yours

KingCheezyPuff:
She a human being an try as many have you can't own a human

Their partners,equals an belong ta each other.
How can you not know this.

In as much as I don't want to support. ..let's look at it from this angle,why put a price on a bride ,a property has a price tag once you purchase it,becomes yours.So what do you ve to say ...

Mercyhosas:
See wetin Buhari dey cause

Any small thing,it's buhari.....if one can't conceive it's buhari .Come off it

pinkpebbles:
Hmmm. Could it b u?

well I don't believe in one hyping himself. ....but don't underestimate either.So how is the virtuous you doing today?

pinkpebbles:
Vampire sex. Very explosive . Some guys wil nevr understand it

Believe you me,there re guys that can fulfil your wildest fantas, just ve to look in the right places

Why are most ladies condemning her,like they won't do the same if they had the chance