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pinkpebbles:
Its a bad idea though

pinkpebbles:
I jst saw it and I also saw ur response. Good response

pinkpebbles:
Yea i do. Thanks for noticing

daretodiffer:
Who is bitter? I think you should watch your language!

You were the one that won't stop attacking women. Always playing the goddamn victim. Dishing out what you cannot take.

You have always lost it. That is why we are here in the first place, humanity would be doomed if women lost it the way men have

You have never been nothing but failure, even the world at large is suffering because of you.

You can do us a favour by getting it right with thinking. Men don't think anymore. They just support things because that is the way it has always been.







I quoted that from FB. I am sure you would disagree with the man because cooking is a woman's job. It is her responsibility to make sure her family comes first and shouldn't interfere with her responsibilities to the family. How do you even come up with the things you say sef?

daretodiffer:
Ask her out na

Same goes for men, lack of self-respect, rational thinking and wisdom are very hard to find in this 21st century.

pinkpebbles:
Lol. I never forget that. Thanks

anigbajumo:
They don't even bother to learn coz most of em have completely lost.

anigbajumo:
Not only Love but respect, remember she choose to it not her husband forced her to.

U mean u can't even wash his cloth or only undies??

daretodiffer:


I quoted someone and gave my opinion. You asked me not to and I gave you every reasons why I WOULD and COULD. Did I quote you and referred to you as an idio..t?

daretodiffer:
I have a right to call them idi.iot because that is what they are. When you try to twist something to suit your depraved ideology, I have every right to call you an idi.ot. Why should idiots expect me to do something because some people chose to. If it weren't a big deal, wash your cloth yourself na. I will even give you my own join

A lot of wives might love washing it, their choice, their business. They are welcome to consider it part of a wifely duties. Their choice gives no right to one moro.n to twist it to mean something else or to think that I am stupi.d for not giving a damn.

If someone expects me to prove anything by washing some pants, he must be delusional




Your argument is so out of the window. I have told you why yesterday. I am not getting into it again

pinkpebbles:
dnt need to ansa dat. Find him n ask. He wud tell u how gud I am to him

Philpham:
People like u repulse women so badly they turn gay , do you blame them

Philpham:
Men generally are very dirty and lack simple personal hygiene. Their breathe smell, their feet smells and so does their body. Most times I cnt breathe properly near some guys and I wonder what their wives will be enduring in the name of marriage.
If I discover he has torn boxers eh I will slap him.
She better leaves before he gives her syphillis. She may not know which disease he is carrying.

pinkpebbles:
I wont evn blame the girl at all. Some guys ar jst somehow. If she buys him new pants now, he mite start complainin. And ask her wahs rong wt d one dt he is wearing and next thing he wil say shes trying to change his life that he has so much responsibilites dan to b talkin about a torn pant. Finally, he mite conclude that she must av seen a guy wearin a good pant and she has come to compare. Guys are wonderful.

mikaael:
seems u are drunk..are they representing delta or nigeria?

daretodiffer:
Idio.ts have already made it a declaration of humility, submissiveness and a woman's duty.

Small thing now, WM would be considered a luxury. If Alakija can do it, all women must too


The woman is probably trying to illustrate her own little way of caring for husband

daretodiffer:
Why undies, why not all his clothes? Or al his meals? Does she iron all his clothes too? Don't forget that she has the money to buy lots of washing machines yet, she chose to wash his undies?. Basically, she is telling the world that she shows love by washing his undies. I don't have a problem with it. She also said she kisses him twice a day, does that mean every woman should also do the same?


I will show love the way I want to but it is definitely not by washing my husband's undies.

linearity:
I think we must be responding to different things; my post was not directed at the OP's original post, where Mrs. Alakija was quoted as listing; washing her husband's undies as part of her chores, until six year ago; as you might have erroneously concluded.

Rather, I was responding to a specific post that equates, the washing of undies to submissiveness on the part of the woman...and I argued that, if that activities equates to submissiveness on the part of a lady; it must be equally true to draw the same conclusion, if the man does it; and since the subject of male submissiveness to their wife is a contradiction in our traditional Nigerian setting, it then means such activities by the ladies can not be equal to submissiveness.

Was just trying to prove the poster wrong by contradiction. I will not even response to your insult about IQ; as that will drag this conversation into the gutter. However, if you insist we can both take some IQ tests and compare notes thereafter; there are some reputable online IQ testing centers.

daretodiffer:
Who is lost?

How she shows love to her husband is her business
How I intend to show love is my business
A man that expects that of me must be delusional
The lost ones are the ones who think it is a woman's duty and the ones who cannot comprehend what she is trying to convey
Alakija wouldn't dare ask her own daughter to watch her husband's undies to appear humble. She is not that stupid.

linearity:
A woman washing her husband's undies have nothing to do with submissiveness, unless the contrapositive is also true i.e. A man washing his wife's undies is also submissive...so both are not true.

IYADARA:
I am an architect ...he blames me for every little mistakes in all designs, even the one he commits, he will always ask me why I wud print designs with mistake, adesigns that someone else worked on, anytime he tells me to print and he sees mistake, the blame my brother still comes to me..... I am always the bad person,...... When client complains, even without asking who worked on the design, he assumes I am responsible,.......

He finds every little opportunity to insult me..... He makes me feel the salary he is paying me isn't worth my productivity.....

daretodiffer:
You are welcome

I am glad you are not trying to change my mind.

daretodiffer:
I cannot make a habit of handwashing my husband's undies

daretodiffer:
I cannot make a habit of handwashing my husband's undies

VickyRotex:
" I still wash his undies until six years ago that he insisted I should stop."

I'm not an English Teacher. But I think that's an Oxymoron. It's contradicting. You "still" wash it and yet you stopped washing it 6 years ago.

But we get the point though.

daretodiffer:
I don't see how this is a big deal sef, if she is using washing machine. No big deal

But handwash, you must be kidding