₦airaland Forum

daretodiffer:
She is an idi.ot and a mo..ron

Been ironic

Lady, you see most of what you put here..., tell me a country that's better than Nigerian men.Lady please quote me on what am about to tell you . Nigeria men are one of the most sought after in the states.If you ve a sister residing there confirm it, Apart from sex, Nigerian male are the only ones i repeat only ones that pays for their lady's hair, also American females say we don't neglect our children even if divorced, unlike their own country men and other nationals. Also Nigerian men are the only ones that throws free parties. Try to marry others you will bite your finger last.We have been able to create an identity for ourselves, though we ve bad eggs too.
But op I ve few questions for you since you claim to be the perfect sex.
Why is that you women like to beg for everything, why are you always quick to consider a man's financial status. You are always having problems, even the ones working why do you still ve to ask and beg all of the time. You meet a girl once the next is I ve a problem with this that, and if a man doesn't he is hakagon or what do you guys call it & it's only women from this country alone. You can date an American for years and they won't request for anything that has to do with finance even the worst of them.Even fellow African women don't atleast not at the time, rate and manner.That act reduces you ladies alot in the eyes of men, even the ones that gives you

daretodiffer:
I think you are ignorant of the term 'feminism'. You do not know how it started and what it stood for therefore you are in no position to make any arguments for or against feminism


cc Mznelly

No she isn't.She is just been realistic and understand way of the world. Believe you me that lady is at peace with herself. Don't insult her.There are two ladies on this thread that has my respect, she and diva90

daretodiffer:
I am supposed to believe you based on what? Even if I believe you, don't you think it is gender bias to give her that job because the interviewer believes that since it is rare to come across women with first class, the ones that do must be treated like eggs. This same logic applies to female engineers in the western world, they are paid more than male engineers

Aside from that, the other reason they will give her a job is the same reason they offer minorities jobs in the western world. Regardless it is what it is, a bias!



Life is not easier for girl children. If female scholarships is what it would take to make more women embrace economic independence, so be it. How many women apply for these gender neutral scholarships anyways? Does it mean that we do not have women who are more intelligent than these men? That should have been a research topic instead of creating numerous female scholarships. They are not me!

My parents advised me to find a way to balance both lives (Thank God for them) but my society have told numerous times to be careful. You wouldn't see that because you have no idea what that does to you. So when I say, we still have a long way to go, I really mean it.

You mentioned God, so you believe in him, so pick up a bible or quran that would answer your questions about Man and woman.And if you don't like it direct your ..... to the creator

lezz:
Do not worry with her!! She has a disturbing compulsion to teach what she hasn't finished learning.


Who's to tell her black males are the benchmark for sex symbols and maleness in the West.

I could not ve agreed more...

daretodiffer:
We do not dominate all physical activities and sports . I used to watch olympics and I don't see blacks winning everything or most.

I will like to point out one thing, this is about African men (not African American) and Whites

I got an interesting one , some believe white men have more upper body strength.

Need I remind you that my environment tells me another story

Sports that needs strength and endurance.The point is black and white, so don't play coy here, trying to find a way around your baseless arguments . Blacks are not only in a continent,So why limit blacks to a continent and generalized white, not been straight.The whites you see as your overlords knows themselves, so drop it already

daretodiffer:
Labour does not put you at the top of the hierarchy. Africans are not stronger than whites, it is a stereotype.

The only physical attributes would be the phallus but that is only between people. It has no impact on your society or the world at large.

Basically, Whites control the world. They are the strongest in that regards.

We also have to talk about what you mean by being Alpha? If you are talking about physical attributes, unless you have a tall/huge stature to go with it, I don't think anyone's first impression would be 'That is an Alpha male'. And sincerely, Nigerian men are not that tall.



Personally, I cannot be bothered.

My dear, by all means get married to a tall white man.Look at what you are putting up, the game of basketball which has the tallest athletes has more Black than white, take NBA for example. One of tallest basketballers in the hall of fame has our very own Hakeem olajuwon.Lady if you feel a white man is above you, I don't ve much to say on that.You talk of Alpha the most excruciating sports is been monopolized by blacks, The fastest man always been black, long distance is still black, boxing dominated by blacks, NFL not those lazy ass games like golf etc. Lady I am done.Note Alpha has nothing to do with brains, wealth or even looks when it come to Animals.

daretodiffer:
In these world, most women of all races unconsciously think the white man is. As for me, I can't be bothered!

If that is true, that means it worst. Alpha has to do with physical attributes and gene.If you observe with animals in the jungle or a wolf pack, the strongest is always the alpha.Even in the states, American acknowledge the strength of Africans at labour.

daretodiffer:
The mor.onic was not for you. It is for whoever came up with that

Better, but I find it amusing. So who's the Alpha male from you point. ..

[quote author=theEYe21 post=43702055][/quote]& who the hell are you? But I do know you re juvenile that's for sure.Its obvious you can't comprehend.

daretodiffer:
1) That image is satirical
2) Don't you think it is embarrassing to make such moronic claim?

Well I was passing through, and decided to share what's in that lady's head that contradicts what the other lady said. Lady be careful with your choice of words with me

Adaure4ever:
mr seaga. Happy weekend o.

Same to you dear

DemiGoddess:
Both white and Nigerian feminists are still crazy...feminism is unnatural and satanic.As a woman,i want to be treated right with respect,not fighting and wanting to be a man.

Makes sense to me, a man has is place and role, so is a woman. None should try to deny each others attributes.Its divine. Lady I would like to know the lady behind this DemiGoddess, because your faculty is exemplifying and you definitely ve my respect

Adaure4ever:
your dp though!

Focus lady

If a lady doesn't drive a two door almera, who will?

sweetcocoa:
Run for your dear life, if you love yourself.

She loves the pocket more, but unfortunately he isn't going to give it...

diva90:
But he's saying the truth, most Nigerian ladies exhibit most of these behaviours listed above. Too many fake, badly behaved and extremely materialistic girls out there. Sadly, it's just a very few who have their heads together ...

Thank you for your honesty. Ladies like you are the ones that gives hope of some few good ones

Stupedinluv:
Nigger quit that line is not going to work… we all know how the dating game works.

Its starts like this

White men marry white women more
Black men marry black women more

White men being the alpha males of this world have the privilege of "picking" which most black men can only dream of. Now, the white man picks what is traditionally accepted according to their standards a white average woman who is FIT. What next he doesn't know what to do with fat ugly Jane. This is where the black man come in. His case is likened to the dog that sits at the foot of his master awaiting crumbs.

When he gets left over Jane he rejoices and sings like he found a treasure And Jane? the man she wants doesn't want her so she goes for the available slave man. Body no be wood afterall.

Black men have choices too but they do not alienate many black women. Hence black women see no reason to seek out men unlike their White counterparts. The few who are dating out are doing it wilfully in spite of their numerous options.

If i was not going to survive the competition with a Caucasian why this epistle anyway?

Sorry,learn from a white lady about 'Alpha male'

DemiGoddess:
No 7 got to me...I still think feminism is a bloody joke,a delusional idea concoted by some sick white women...why would a woman want to be treated like a man instead of with respect as a woman she is??Doesnt make sense and hearing some Nigerian girls rant about feminism(which they fail to grasp its concept) is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard PERIOD!

Need more women like you that can knock some sense. ..even the white women feminist dont go around fighting men or arguing, they prove their worth by been industrious, hardworking and making the bills, not depending on a man for call cards, meal tickets etc . Nigeria feminist will still be demanding money for every thing and still be claiming. ...i mean...

Adaure4ever:
RUBBISH.. TOTAL RUBBISH.
moderator pls delete this insultive thread.
Its anti-women. Thanx

Correction anti Nigerian young women

anonimi:
Legally, at least, a man cannot be raped.
Rape involves penetration.
A woman cannot penetrate a man.

That's what you think

HateU2:
Oloriburuku
Oloshi
Dey suppose castrate dem ni?
3boys? Habah!
Diaris God ooo

Yeah there is

akpevwe2:
My first child of course. In this end times you never can trust anyone even your spouse.

Even your child is anyone don't forget

Vyolet:
My first child is my next of kin.
Men can't be trusted.

Then don't get married

Joy1706:
I don't need to be hurt by a guy before I feel the pains of numerous women out there. I don't hate menfolk. It's jst that a majority of u naija men aka cave men irritate me. So cos she's a mother of 3 I should like her feet. Do u know if I'm a mother of 5 myself?

Well you don't sound like a wife, let alone a mother, No offense,because if you were, you would be more cautious in your approach . Besides your attack is similar to the recent and growing rebellion by some so called feminist, who re usually young and single.

Petrol is still the best cleaning liquid formula

Joy1706:
Did he say he caught a man on top of her? On no grounds should a husband cheat, but he did, didn't he?
Why does a woman have to lose cos she's divorced. Sounds like these small NL boys have brainwashed u. Madam abeg I don't have energy this night to deliver u from low self esteem. Carry am dey go like that

Tried to ignore all your abnoxious statement all along, why re you insulting this woman, she is a mother of 3...., you say you are a lady and fighting an unrealistic course for the womenfolk. She is matured enough to see the real world, not that bodacious fantasy running in your Head . You sound so bittered, your hatred for the menfolk, i sympathize with you, because it's obvious you had and still badly hurt by a guy.Let it go before it ruin the remains...

MrsKheiron:
Yeah sure, cos if it had been her that cheated he'd be needing advice, I'm sure he'd have divorced her a long time ago.
Stop the silly double standard.
I guess you've never been cheated on.

I hate when females like you try to act so diplomatic about another woman punishing her erring husband.

Mrs she is more of a woman with her statement than yours. She didn't say she doesn't ve the right to punish her erred husband, but there should be boundaries.like not starving your kids, bringing man to your house and calling husband your cousin.The man must obviously love his kids alot and she's using it,not knowing she is hurting herself by starving those kids.There are whole lots of ways to punish a man

bebe2:
No u have it all wrong.

Let me be clear.

Only two things will make me bring a man friend to my matrimonial home.

MENTAL ILLNESS OR WITCHCRAFT both of which I don't have.

All the other punishment the woman dished out excluding starving the kids, I will happily dish out too.

Mrs don't waste your precious time with these little girls that sleeps with 'aristos' when they start sleeping with men old enough to be their fathers or with their bosses, they naively think they're on top of the world, thereby loose their good sense of reasoning.They are damned really.

Sixix:
It could be a way to get back at him

I don't think she is cheating but she needs to stop. There are other subtle painful ways to make him pay

Now you're talking. Better woman than few I ve seen commenting rubbish and insulting every. .

Sixix:
I agree however I don't see why she can't bring a friend home. He could have been family and there are no evidence to suggest that they are involved.

The op should speak to her family about thisnthis. Nairaland is not a mediation centre

Why introduce your other half as your cousin?

AfroKnight:
Look, this woman is taking things too far. After your apology she's now behaving like she doesn't need the marriage. You married a very foolish woman who thinks like a teenager. Her game will backfire and nobody will console her. What stupidity!

She is lucky she has a man that wants her. If she knew she didn't want the marriage any longer why did she come back? Why couldn't she stay in her father's to play her childish games. Rubbish.

At some point, revenge becomes senseless. Some women don't have sense.

Seconded