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Another one

How does his ass taste?
Obviously no need to sprinkle salt or pepper seeing as you’re kissing it all up delightfully.

IamD18:
You are too wise to be arguing back and forth with those emotional folks. I expected one of them to counter the emboldened, but what did they do? They highlighted the part of your comment that will suit them even without countering it logically.

Stress no more Buddy.

The first person you quoted is a married feminist wannabe who I can bet married either for provision or protection that's why she tagged that part of your comment out. Serious, you shouldn't take her, because her online persona reeks different from WHO I KNOW SHE IS IN REALITY.

The second person is obviously sick and confused which we both can attest to.

The third person hails from a certain region that detests Igbos, check his previous comments to confirm. He's not arguing with a free mind but with hatred for IGBOS.


Stress no more.

No woman exists who doesn’t need provision and protection? Many women don’t need provision because they can provide for themselves

But then Protection from what?

postmann:
You guys are acting traumatized by my submission while evading the truth therein -- which is NO WOMAN EXISTS OR EVER EXISTED WHO DOESNT NEED EITHER OF THOSE FROM A MAN.

And if your wife doesn't need them from you, she sure Would need them from another man, making you a glorified toy-husband who is worth less than a sack of rotten tomatoes.

You’re right except for the fending for themselves aspect. Many married Nigerian women are the financial backbones of their homes. They stay and endure stupidity from the men because Toks and people like him always make a determined effort to make them look bad. It’s their life’s mission

Carinaflo:
Please do not say "The world", rather say Africans especially Nigerians. It is because of the so much importance Nigerians attach to marriage that makes most Nigerian ladies behave as if their sole purpose of being on Earth is to get married.
You see a very young girl, in stead of her to be thinking of how to build a career and be productive like her male counterparts, all she thinks about is how to package herself to look like a wife material so she can get married. She ends up seeing marriage as a do or die affair, when she eventually gets married, she feels she has arrived, she stops relating with her single female friends, she starts seeing the other single ladies as irresponsible ladies not minding that some of the single ladies are very hard working and can pay their own bills without looking for the help of any guy.
Then few years into the marriage, the husband starts seeing the married lady as a"liability" because she has nothing to offer, all she knows how to do is to spend money and incur expenses, the husband out of frustration starts maltreating the wife, he starts beating her up, cheating on her and then the wife could not do anything because the only skills she had equipped herself with all her life are the skills that would help her get married. She can't even fend for herself and again how can she face her family and friends after she has been making mockery of single ladies?, So she is forced to stay back and endure, if she is lucky, she ends up so miserable and unhappy if she is unlucky, she ends up dead in the hands of the husband. Few years later, the husband marries a prettier, younger lady who had also been preparing herself to be a "married woman" and the cycle continues....

NB: The earlier our society stop making ladies believe that their sole purpose on Earth is marriage, the saner our society would be. Let us teach our girl child how to be a good person, how to be a productive adult, how to be a responsible adult, how to be a hard working adult, how to Carter for her needs as an adult.
Let us stop making our girl child believe that her greatest achievement in life would be to bear "Mrs" as a tittle.

Women don’t lose more after a divorce or break up.
Actual research shows that women get healthier, less stressed and more beautiful after removing themselves from a bad union.

The only thing that exists is propaganda by people like you to convince women that they should feel bad about leaving a bad marriage. Many women are beginning to see through it and that’s why it’s women now who are overwhelmingly initiating divorces despite baseless generalizations like yours.

Toks2008:
I totally agree but I also understand that it is the woman that loses more if there is any disollution.

Are you okay?

postmann:
No self-respecting man marries a woman who neither needs his provisions and protection..

Sounds like something a medieval control freak would say.

How do you keep men in check to prevent them being sexually loose and bla bla bla? Mtchew

Oluromantic:
The advantage is it keeps women in check. Without it, women will be at the extreme of sexual looseness, infidelity, insensitivity and mannerlessness. Laws have to be made and abided by to keep a woman in good value. Its just the extended family capitalizing on it beyond its normal level that is d problem.

Bride price is crap. Scrap it.

We can have many beautiful traditional marriage ceremonies without paying money for the woman

Just another day in the life of a Nigerian male

Just another day in the life of a Nigerian male

A very intelligent response

charliboy654:
Geezz u are a bigger fool please don't quote me again, u are such a big fool.

You have a lot of sense.
I’m sure you skipped the part where she said the lawyer charged her $350 per hour. You think that’s money that grows on trees.

Lots of fools on here today

charliboy654:
Maybe she can't afford a lawyer maybe?
Really maybe.
Abeg don't quote me again, I don't like people that don't have sense.

If he had sex with her when she didn’t want it, it was rape. Shut up

charliboy654:
Do a follow up on the story, she wasn't even raped.

And you have all the facts.

Mor0n

Elder0001:
Cococandy you're a disgrace to mankind.

You've proven that many women think with emotions rather than facts and sense.

Or maybe she can’t afford a lawyer right now. That makes her a liar right?

You folks are ridiculous

Always bending your joints beyond their range of motions to defend people who have done horrible things

charliboy654:
Even after the case has been dismissed, as long as she has proof now she can sue his ass. Lock him up for a long time. Abi u never hear of appeal, if she can't do that then she's lying.

Go and sit your rapist apologist ass down

Elder0001:
The fact that your father,brother and husband are rapists doesn't mean all other men are rapists.

The fact that you have molested little boys doesn't mean we are rapists.

That we don't agree with her doesn't make us rapists . From your point , only people who agree with her can't be rapists.

Cococandy ,I've always known that you're not normal.

Has it occurred to you that maybe he sent her those messages after the case was dismissed?

Smart ass.

charliboy654:
She said he sent her message bragging of how he raped her, why not show the message to the court and get him arrested, that's enough proof.

Yea. Mansplain to me what rape really is.

You know it will take a man to actually define what rape is. Not the person who was raped.

adabsmith:
where do they have the sex... regretted sex isn't rape, sit down and learn

The comments on this post are why women don’t report rape. You all concluded she must be lying. Because it’s impossible for a rapist to try to torment his victim by claiming the child?
Bunch of jokers.

Many of you are rapists who have actually raped people before while the rest of you will probably not hesitate to do so when the opportunity arises. That’s why I’m not surprised.

I love all your pictures. they look nice

Aliyahsrecipes:
Happy New Month to Y'all. Wishing Y'all a blessed month! go out there and conquer the world.

Cheers to the new month!

Don't forget to check my blog for food recipes and food timetables.

On your screen, you have Buka stew, Ofada rice, beans, plantains with Ayamase stew, and Fired chicken breast. #absolutelydelicious#

I can. It’s not bad. I’ve done it before when on low carbs. Tastes just as good

Alwaysking:
Well, better. I thought you ate the soup like that.

SenseGee:
shut d f*ck up aunty,bcoz u and ur mum were molested by ur dad does not make every man monster...we d good ones still exist...

I know. You the good ones would rather keep silent about the incessant assault and harassment committed by the terrible amongst you. Or try to deflect it with tribalism.
But your fangs are sharpened now that you’ve seen a woman on nairaland to insult

That’s all you the good ones are good for. To act as defenders and excuse makers for the so called bad ones. Malu

I ate it with rice

Alwaysking:
How do you guys eat soups without eba, pounded yam or white rice because me I can't try that. I don't know how y'all enjoy that.

Or maybe the moral of the story is how a good majority of men are monsters. Despite the tribal differences, what most of you have in common is that evil aspect that you refuse to address. Instead you make it about tribe and what not. You’re only united in oppressing and hating on women

Anasko:
is not about Nigerian Soldier. the moral of the story is An IPOB Christian defiled a Minor!!!

Oh shut up please

gr8tson:
I wish I can get across to Akosua, or better still she is reading this. Getting out of your marimony is not an option, stay and fight back, and pray fervently. Nothing is above God's power. These girls are all over looking for homes to break, never give anyone the chance, and don't give your husband total fault, he is human and temptation is bound.

He’s a Mor0n. Good for him

This soup makes me miss my grandma

AmJane:
Dinner
Oha soup

Come join. I ate mine with white rice

tayosmatts:
Why now? This is wickedness oh, and I am here still thinking of what to eat. Abeg I fit bring my EBA come collect soup?

Efo with beef.

Breakfast. Cold salad . Hot coffee.

He can talk like that because they are not taxing the church yet . Silly talk

She’s right. And the company took the right step.

You people finding issues with her post are the real problem.

Man size. What does that even mean?
What about women who are bigger than men?
Wil they have a special big-woman size for them?

There was no reason to specifically label ordinary tissue man or woman size. The use isn’t gender specific. Anyone can use it. They were the ones creating problems and gender division where there should have be none.