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Bush men. Too much testosterone. Too little sense

Yam and plantain porridge with baked salmon.
I didn’t use oil in the porridge. Just tomatoes

Moronn

Princedapace:
I always tell my woman, "add weight and watch me bring a slim girl home.. After all, I paid all the items on ur list"

The responses in this thread show why feminism is needed in Nigeria

So then marriage favors men more than women.
everyone but the young girls who are being pushed into marriage knows this.
The trick is to bully and shame those girls who want otherwise into wanting marriage.

He thinks he’s in Nigeria where it’s a normal thing.

Anyone that calls foolishness out here is bitter. I get it

rOsy247:
Remain in your bitterness.

The only truth here is that a woman was killed and stuffed in a box.

You’re blaming the behavior of women as leading to this. But you have not one clue what happened. You decided to blame anyway. Because you can’t stand not blaming a woman for whatever a monster does to her.

You’re the one who’s mentally sick. Mongrel

It doesn’t matter what the beginning of your statement said if you end up nullify it with stupid excuses and victim blaming. Just as you’ve just done.

tamethem:
You are mentally sick. I think you didn't use your drug this morning.

The beginning of my comment says it is even wrong to raise your hand at a woman. go back and read.

Beating a woman is a wrong thing.

Bu the story being so pathetic should not stop one from blaming the behavior of some women that leads to cases like this. or should we keep quiet because someone just died and not say the truth.

Did I support beating a woman? No not to talk of injuring or killing someone.

But to avoid ugly cases of this Nature, let all women learn to avoid problems in the matrimonial homes because they are the weaker sex.

I know you have not married when you do, you will understand.

It is sad. Violence against women is wrong.

Yea blame her

Originalsly:
Hmmm.... I wonder.....didn't the woman see these tendencies in the man before marriage?...quick to anger?...quick to hit?...some women seee signs of violence, disregard them...and go into marriage hoping they will go away when infact it gets worse...and often ends up as this. Men are no different...too many see a woman...great body/colour/whatever...will go for that ...never mind she sleeps around....will go ahead and marry her hoping she will stop. Something had to seriously go wrong in this marriage for a man to go to this extent....looks pregnant....did she confess to him that the baby is not his? Happens all the time...some men can deal with it...some can't. Is it she was abused all along and this was the final straw? Whatever the case...it's not an excuse for murder. We should really look into the mindset of a person before marrying instead of looking into the savings account/how sexy the person be.

I actually do.

If I don’t know that man (well as much as anyone can know someone really) , I tend to stay my distance.
I walk to my car with my pepper spray ready and 911 typed on my phone ready to dial out if any dude as much as walks towards me suspiciously. It wasn’t always like this but it has gotten to that.

Everyday horrible news.

Granted that it’s people who are close to you that end up hurting you most like this was probably done to this lady by someone she’s close to. Ladies need to be observant. Listen to what your close pals/partners say. The kinds of things they try to justify. If they make excuses for violence etc. that gives you a clue to who your friends/partners are.

dominique:
Fear men

Just like it’s obvious you will side with the person who killed that woman in the box.

Birds of a feather. People around you should be careful.

ajibolabd:
I knew you would side with her, you will even be on her side against your mother just for her to open it up. I don't worship pussy like you, unscrupulous.

They all know. They would rather come to nairaland and fight feminists than face the actual evils in the world. The men they all know in real life who rape and kill women and children.

Slikbae:
Shut up your filthy mouth. Even a mad man on the street knows that the number of men who are killed by their wives is nothing compared to that of the wives who are killed by their husbands.

Everyday is it's not a man raping his own daughter, it is a cousin, neighbor, friend etc. Just this past week alone, how many of such cases have we seen? If you don't know that men are much prone to violence than women then you are really braindead.

Shut the fvck up.

Starting to crawl out of your holes with justifications and excuses for any gruesome acts perpetrated by men.

So she hit first and then? He proceeded to kill her and stuff her in a box? How does that translate as something that makes sense to you?

tamethem:
No matter what, a man should not raise his hands on a woman. Walking away is the best solution and that doesn't say the man is weak. That said.

You women too are agents of the Devil ! Good number of you can Nag for a world record. You insult, curse and be the one to start pushing the man "Oya beat, I say beat me now , if na your papa born you beat me" While you don't have a bit of strength in you. The man takes his shirt and wanna go out the next thing is you hold his shirt, "You are going no where today, you will have to explain why you did it"

Life without a woman a times feels so good. You are agents of the Devil.

Who knows if this dead woman was the one who beat the man first.


Smh

This is horrible

ajibolabd:
that smelly thing between your legs must eat pen,iz, you can't help it whor. E.

It’s your type that does things like this

If you need me to explain that simple post to you, no wonder you think the rosy poster is making sense.

sexy74:
kindly explain better

By making the best you mean fixing the bed for Oga to go and lay on with his side chick? Feeding her well before leaves and making sure there’s some money set aside for her in the family budget? While showering him love and all what not to see if one day his conscience will ask him to stop?

Making the best of a marriage involves effort from both sides. It will NEVER work If one person is putting in their best and the other is just shitting on their efforts.

rOsy247:
Too many bitter feminist hates my post. The truth is no one is pressuring you to do whatever. Follow whatever works for you. It changes nothing for those of us making the best of our marriages.

Hehe. I can see you obviously live with me.
Low self esteem nut.

In case you didn’t know (or maybe you do but you’re looking for company in your misery) nothing breeds bitterness like when you keep being the one who gives and gets nothing nothing but disrespect in return. That’s what you’re asking her to do. To cultivate the bitterness you’re accusing others of. How do you not know that?

rOsy247:
U are the toxic person here o. If telling someone to keep fulfilling their role in marriage is toxic to you it shows you are obviously a bitter person. Everyone's marriage can't be like yours sorry.

Because most women know better than to fall over themselves to keep someone who has not one iota of care in the world about them. Stinking hypocrisy

sexy74:
May God increase you in wisdom.
Most women don't have these qualities .

Stop spreading your toxicity on this thread. That you’re commenting a million times to try and convince yourself that you’re making sense should tell you something

rOsy247:
Marriage is not a load for just one party to carry alone but married mates are meant to help each other. When one is weak the other will help out. Which is whats happening in op's case and it's best at this point to fulfill her wifely roles more than before. It's been working and will continue to work when applied.

Besides, cos one marriage partner is not doing what he/she should, does it mean the other partner should ignore their own responsibilities as well? Such marriage can never survive cos two wrongs can never make a right. Many married mates have come back to their senses cos the other mate still does their part in their marriages.

Don’t you have a male colleague to fall in love with?

Yea right

rOsy247:
She should show him more love, respect and care. She should Take good care of herself, her body and home . Look very attractive and sweet. Be good on bed. Call him while he's at work just to tell him you love him(not stalking him tho) Be romantic. There must be some special things thats attracting him to this woman that the wife is not doing . If he's getting more of these from home the outside woman na jara to him. Note: no amount of threat on the other woman or her husband will change anything. Twill even draw them closer. Don't even be confrontational even when you must ask him about it else you'll push him away from home and give him a free pass to the open arms of the other woman.

If you do all of these, it's his conscience and his God that will be fighting for you not even you.

Thank you

armyofone:
I love smoked turkey stew and smoked turkey melon soup.
Nice one there

You have all the advice you need here. Don’t play light with domestic violence.

Neither do they have the right to slut shame her

movetoca:
I never said she is not talented. She is the best in what she does in Nigeria. But I think she doesn't have any right to body shame other people because she doesn't look perfect herself.

You can date a broke guy, but don’t marry him unless you people first discuss and agree on reversing the traditional roles of financial provider and home maker/keeper. Otherwise, You will be be stuck with fulfilling two people’s roles for the rest of your life. All while being expected to be thankful and reverent/submissive for being chosen.

Mistakes young people make

There is nothing like men scarcity

1StopRudeness:
There's no how this babe will not clock 35 with this her indecision problem, only u, 3guys for this men-scracity period...babe..na time oooo, e get time wey dem dey rush, small time now, u go dey look mirror say wetin dey happen naa
. There's no perfect guy anywhere...anytime u see a perfect guy don't deceive urself....someone molded him to that state..he's either married or likely to have woman behind him....
and throw away this ur I cannot date a broke guy mentality...broke is not a genetic trait or family name...it's a state that will pass....one can be broke now and the next minute he's not....so far he's not a layabout and aimless fellow with no ambitions or effort.
Take your own man and mold him..to what you want with paitience, good character and love....
No say I no tell u oooo...Shiloh no dey end for Otta oooo

Well I have dirty pants for sale. Anyone interested in purchasing?

Dumbass calling people retard.

Ranchhoddas:
You should know by now that a vast majority of folks on Nairaland are reta.rds so responses like these should not surprise you.

On a lighter note, I doubt any woman will be able to make me responsible for a pregnancy that is not mine.

One look at the child and I will be able to tell whether it's mine or not.
I seem to possess an uncanny ability to detect resemblances.

The pregnancy belongs to
You

Thanks

Yes it’s a little bit different. More fragrant but very mildly so

Mariangeles:
Everything looks lovely...is the taste of that long grain rice different from the we have here in Nigeria ??

Smoked turkey with rice/beans/stew

I let my stew dry too much
But it was yummy.

Family breakfast time