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He’s a hoe. Wonder why people are giving this randy idiot attention. When he needs more attention, he will divorce this one and marry a new one so that he can trend again.
Useless figurehead leader that knows he’s irrelevant, hence all the theatrics to stay in the news.

Give your explanation to the OP. I’m certain he would love to learn how he can set his siblings up. Thanks

Ioannes:
No need to be annoyed Mr.

I only adopted the tone you addressed me with.

A little more civility from you and I might have actually explained what I meant and how I hoped the op would accomplish that which I advised him.

Maybe you wanna try again? This time without the insults, huh?

Oh shut the fvck up with your irritating stupid “facts”.

Law of creation
Like how some of you type BS and call it law amazes and confounds me. You’re that cognitively dissonant?
No clue that the femal animal is polygamous as well? Ignorant

GidiWoodsMan:
The male animal is testosterone-driven, territorial and polygamous by nature. He breaks new grounds, spreads his seed everywhere he can and then does his best to fend for them. It's the law of creation.

On the other hand, a woman who jumps from one dīck to the other hand is guaranteed to raise eyebrows because how does she establish the provenance of her offspring? How would she cater for them in a world biased in favour of male-privilege? By turning professional and humping thousands of dīcks? Ashawo work adds zero economic value to the society but these whöres will never learn. . . .

He fell prey to desperate girls multiple times huh?

Or maybe he’s the desperate one

Deepfreezer:
I stay far away from desperate girls, as far as possible.
Cos a single mistake with one will ruin ur life..

What did Tiwa even see in this guy?

Hoe ass nigga with multiple kids from different women. If it was one or two kids I’d say ‘mmm okay’, but five kids? Mahn this guy is a hoe.
Proper second hand (more like 5th hand now).

She fall her hand sha. Mingling with a guy beneath her. It almost never ends well for successful women. The inferiority complex of those kinds of men will always cause them ruin things.

Mtchew

Ioannes:
You and only you are responsible for your inability to read and understand.

Wouldn't it be nice if you read and refrained from quoting me, or is it that you can't restrain yourself?

I have made my opinion known to the op. It's his prerogative to consider it or discard it. I don't have to explain myself to you, a faceless internet user.

Now please, don't make my mentions your abode ok?

Pray tell how he can set up his siblings

Do you know how much is required to set someone (much less a lot of siblings) up financially so that they don’t depend on anyone for money anymore? Where are those many hundreds of thousands if not millions of naira going to come from? From his 200k salary?

You talk like your head is in the cloud. From guilt tripping the OP, to making it about your own perfect family, You’re not being helpful. At all

Ioannes:
Sorry that you're going through all that. I guess I was thinking of my own family when I typed that. I'd kill for my parents and siblings. We love each other that much.

I can't advice you to abandon your family though.

If you can set up your siblings, that will take the burden off you a bit and they can in the nearest future also chip in to assist your parents.

Maybe destiny has set you on a pedestal to be the shining light that will lead your family out of the bondage of poverty.

Still, you need to learn the fine art of saving o. Pay yourself 10% first and foremost. Money you must never touch under any circumstance.

You’re hating on a kid. Get well soon

FrenchWay:
Son ugly as fuckkk

He’s doing fashionista things

It’s probably over 90 degrees there right now.

I just took my daughter there 2 months ago and it was in the 100s. Lol

ifyalways:
Why is he wearing a sweatshirt when everywhere looks bright and sunny ?

Dummy

Adakintroy:
Why are you so angry brother. Am not generalizing on women. It's just their nature majority of the time. Few exceptions exist. But only few. That is why they were not use in the bible I said. You can't break them and piece them back together. They may not hold.

Why don’t you greet them first ?

Oh please shut the Bleep up.

You people can’t wait to see one woman do something weird and you use it to classify all women.

The ooni that’s behaving this way, did he tell you that’s what he wants or he’s only doing to because he has to do it to remain the ooni? Nonsense

Adakintroy:
Women spirit are not strong enough for god to use.

Thats why they hardly feature in the bible. Give them death or pesecution. They will break.


This one is even among other wifes. Sin on top sin.

otipoju:
This is what one lady once told me. That women have no religion.

Really

God will use her to change the heart of a polygamist. Pray tell how that will happen. He will chase his other wives away?

That will be God at work then?

Amakavula:
David had to marry Saul's daughter , even eat from the priests' unleavened breads.

Moses was raised and trained in the house of pharaoh to be useful.

Samson had to marry a phillistine for God to work.

A harlot saved the two spies from Joshua in Jericho,offer them bed, and food even though it was unclean.

The holy spirit told Peter he should eat from the unclean beasts as God has made it clean when he was asked to go to the house of the centurion.

Daneil was more useful in the court of Darius and Nebuchadnezzar , worked with magicians and Maggi.

Even Esther in the Bible had to perform the ritual to become Queen, don't be quick to judge.

God's ways are different from Man. God 's ways are different from Man !


We don't know her convenant with God. She might have prayed and God told her to go, do everything they ask of you, but I will use you in their mist.

God might want to use her to change the life of the King and the Monarch. How would she get there without passing through this traditional rites?

We sit at home and Judge people with second thoughts.. I don't know her , but I pray God use her mightly in the mist of charms, and blood rites.

All these jobless 19 year old boys looking to start women bashing at any opportunity they get.

Your dry ass has 250k to give your wife without raising an eyebrow and she’s cheating on you with Dele. You better go and ask Dele what he has that you lack.

It looks nice

Mariangeles:
I'd been craving for this for a while so I thought to prepare it today and I'm glad I did 'cause it was VEEEEEEERY TASTY

Pepper/crayfish rice aka concoction rice

I thought it looked nice.

That was the first thing I thought when I saw the picture, before I even read your post.

tuns10:
It may not look so nice but it was sure delicious

“Custody of the one-and-a-half year-old child of the union is awarded to Barakat, while Abdulrazak shall pay a monthly allowance of N5,000 for the child’s upkeep

What’s that going to solve? Diapers or formula?

Anyone with sense can already see it.

Daeylar:
Every single one of you hiding behind this lady to bash feminism, feminists and women in general are nothing but disgusting misogynists. Where did this lady say she is a feminist in this tweet? Why bring feminism into this matter?

Everyone knows this lady is saying trash, but instead of you all to condemn this lady and her foolish actions alone. You cowards hide behind it to display your irrational hatred of feminism and women in general, using this as an excuse to bash feminism, feminists and women for no reason.
Disgusting misogynists. Mtchewwwww

Yet homosexual is the generic term
While heterosexual is the generic term for the other group
It’s that simple

CanadianNaija:
Gay is a noun that can be used to describe lesbians, and homosexuals,(mostly homosexuals now) but that does not mean that if I say I’m gay it automatically means I’m a man. A synonym for gay can be lesbian, homosexual. So no, I won’t say the absolute meaning of someone who is gay, is an homosexual.

Listen to yourselves

Sounding like a bunch of low IQ cave men and women

Gkemz:
A nagging wife is what no man prays for because no matter how much you try to please her she'll always feel unsatisfied until you kill yourself for her to live to enjoy your wealth.

Komu1048:
What kinda stupid title is this? A wife nagged and the husband beat her. Anyway it should be husband and wife fought but the husband won.
Afterall men are in no way superior to women. This is what I call Equality. Stupid police people release the gentleman, in a fight it's normal for someone to win

Komu1048:
Haba two wrongs can't make a right. They should help them to make peace and not arrest. Who is now going to provide for the family now, she was complaining of small now nothing Cox her husband is arrested.
Ladies should learn from our mothers how to respect husband and stop confronting men esp the broke ones Cox the brokenness brings depression on its own ladies should not come n add their extravagant demand to it, men should stop hitting woman too. Now her beauty don turn worwor

Prettyclever:
The woman runs her mouth that's why and the man could not stand the insult

Pentools:
Hmmmm, I don't in anyway support violence not to talk of domestic violence, but most women can really be a demon(with running mouth like an a*shole dispensing a consumed rotten food), dem go carry nagging put confusion untop ur focus. If u no do marriage again kuku divorce rather than getting stuck in it just because u wanna escape hustling. That is what most ladies do, they see that "Mrs" title as a great escape, just to escape accountability, hardworking and being responsible for something. "The Manipulated Man" is a must read for any right thinking man, women inclusive.

BTW....the woman n the panel-beater man needs to be #Atikulated

President Atiku from 2019!!!

Homosexual is generic

Gay is male

Lesbian is female

People use gay generically for both because somehow any group that contains male and female parties end up being referred to by the male pronoun/adjective

CanadianNaija:
“Gay” is the general term for people that are attracted to same sex, be it lesbians or homosexuals. A man can be gay, a woman can be gay.

This is a public forum, you shouldn’t vehemently claim what you don’t know.

A simple google search will have told you this.

Smh!

Nigerian fathers

Thank God it’s his son saying this. If it was his daughter, they would say she’s a bitter feminist who was turned against the father by her mother.

That’s such a bare faced lie. Or maybe you’re not lying. You’re only saying what you choose to see.

And you only choose see what endorses your personal bias against Cococandy. No surprise there.

Acidosis:
Lol, no wahala. I used to think you're different though. Cococandy will never ever condemn a wrong action as far as the offender is a woman and the victim, a man.

That’s your job, go and do it

Acidosis:
Was expecting to see a similar content (bold) on the other thread but I didn't see any. What about Nigerian wives?

https://www.nairaland.com/4780536/pregnant-lady-angry-afta-hubby#71955878


Are they the same? This husband in this other story and the wife in this story should meet up and marry

Pregnant woman cheats on her husband.
Man cheats on his pregnant wife.
Anyway in other news, that baby isn’t really his.

Nigerian husbands...

I have a house in America. Is he going to tax me too? Mumu

But it’s not harmless

It’s only harmless to you

Acidosis:
Lmao Top Nairaland feminists don gather over a harmless phrase.

I'm sure it is also demeaning for a father to escort the bride (his daughter) down the aisle. Father and mother should do that to show "equality".


You ladies need to set your priorities rightly.

Her kind heart made her a victim. Don’t insult her or make fun of her or call her desperate

Yea woman also have great leadership skills. Some women more than some men. Some men more than some women. It’s not a gender thing. the person in actual authority (not the figurehead) might be the woman for all we know. The person carrying the home along and holding everything from collapsing might be the woman. Should we call it the wife’s house then?

You’re probably cringing at the sound of that. How a wife can put claims to your effort and make it sound like you don’t belong there?

Mmm

Acidosis:
My father's house belongs to everyone, mom and children inclusive.

Father's house is a symbol of authority, and it shows the home has a head. See, where I come from, men are accorded the HEAD status, and we do not give room for frustrated and controlling bitter women to play ping-pong with their husband's head.

Like I said earlier, my father's house has a deeper meaning than paying yearly rent or bricks.

I'm not responsible for what you and your likes have become, and my phrase stands, regardless of how you view it.

Acidosis:
I don't even understand the point of this argument. Where do brides go to when they get married in your village? Brothel?

Ideally, They go to their new home. The home that becomes theirs as much as it is the man’s who is now their partner in life. That’s where they go (should go).

My village people call it “the husband’s house”. That phrase right away sets a tone which says the man owns the home. so, no matter what the woman brings to the table, it will never matter since she is not an equal owner in the home. It means she is never secure in her own home. We the see evidence in how people who think like you nonchalantly use phrases such as “throw a woman out” of her home. sometimes after many years of building their lives in that home.

That foundation faulty. It is the root of many of the unfair things that women have to endure in marriages. They believe that the home they have been building belongs to the man. They don’t have a stake in it, so at any time, they can be kicked out and made to forfeit their lives works.

You still don’t understand why marriage doesn’t benefit women as much as it benefits men?
You still don’t understand the point of this argument?

Can’t help ya then. I don’t know how else to say it.