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This is despicable and disgusting.
One of the reasons why I detest some Christians. Stupid silly beliefs.
I hope they are all decisively dealt with.

Why is this news?

You're the one sleeping around but we shouldn't trust women?
Who raises these class act imbeciles?

If you talk their henchmen here in the form of MODs will ban you.
Useless things

The guys are pained.

pippimp:
Just like a typical Nigerian. Making excuses for your lapses. How is it that it is everyone's fault but the man's? Also typical of pastors. Nigerian pastors as a matter of fact. I wonder why people listen to them?

it's only people who don't have sense that listen to them.

cococandy:
I don't even know what I'm reading on this thread.
He tore your clothes and underwear and then forced you to give him a handjob? Although one can't really tell how a forced handjob goes but You mean he sexually assaulted you?

it may be hard to forget the good times you guys had but in summary what you described sounds like it was a toxic friendship. Nobody can really tell you how to move on. Only time will take care of that.

andromida:
It's not all your fault. What kind of guy forces you to give him a handjob because of a quarrel? Don't take responsibility for his bad behavior. He seems a user to me cause he knows you like him is why he moved into your house he took advantage of your obvious feelings for him even though you think you've hidden it well.
The person you need to forgive here is yourself for treating you so badly. Don't be his friends he is not a good friend. Forgive yourself, don't beat yourself up be kind and gentle with you and you'll move on quicker than you expect.

Macarena follow these.

So funny

That's beautiful. I wish her the best.

Those hating will never even get to where she is today. Jealousy will kill you people.

Is that even legal?

SuperBlack:
Get married and stop living a sinful life also avoid use of Condom, it's not a must to fvck. And if ya married, i dn't see the reason to use a condom with ya man. Gudnyt.

you don't see the need? How about to prevent having 6 children in 5years. Typical pretentious low IQ folks

This is actually a serious issue but not surprisingly, posters are being childish and stupid about it.

Airforce1:
someone please give her clothe to wear because even if she dress completely naked and sits on my leg, my dicck no go rise

And so?

Men are generally stupid when it comes to things like this. If you're sending, know who you send to. But then which of them can be trusted? When the relationship ends they begin to butt hurt all over the place and think they can hurt the girl with her nudes. Not knowing that they are revealing themselves for the assholes they really are. Breach of trust. Meaning the girl was right to have left them in the first place since they can't be trusted. If you must send nudes to a dude make sure your face is not in it. Many of them are disgusting assholes. Bear that in mind before sending.

Kaira333:
My sister this thing tire me ooo. My mil came since March and said she won't go back to her hubby again dat people in naija are suffering. She will just be telling u do this do that as if u are a child. But I know how to deal with that. I don't send her, I do everything I want to do in my house, if she don't like it let her go home and stay with her hubby

next time buy a return ticket as you're buying the flight ticket. That way her stay is already mapped and she knows when she will be leaving.
That's how my own was stylishly talking about someone telling her it's easy for us to get her permanent residency since we are citizens. I just jejely told her that I'm not comfortable with parents living permanently in their children's house. They can always visit. Even stay months at a time if they wish. I'm a very accommodating person. But to carry your whole life and come encroach my space is a no no. I would have wedded her instead of her son if I wanted to live with her forever. Even my mom. I won't want her living permanently with me. There's a reason why we got married and left their houses for them. They should learn to stay there. It's more fun when the visits are mapped and one knows how long they will be dealing with a third wheel in the marriage. Not when see-finish has entered the equation. The fun disappears.

I don't know what's pursuing them from their marital homes.

Oluwashegunnn:
...are you insuniating that if a man gets married 2 u he should 4get his mum and face u squarely

don't blame me for your lack of understanding. I never said that.

.dont 4get u will be a MIL one day..

the kind of MIL that will allow my son and his wife to enjoy their marriage. Not the type to carry myself and interject into their home trying to control how him and his wife run their affairs. People grow up to outgrow parental influence. Some mothers need to realize this when it comes to their sons. She doesn't call the shots anymore. She needs to retire and let them pilot their own affairs.

numericalguy:
Its not everyone's problem if you are from an incestuous home. You are a sick and miserable person. Abeg carry your frustrations comot for this thread.

says the maga that can't differentiate between mother and wife. All you mummy's boys should marry your mothers and stop frustrating young girls' lives.

Ishilove:
How old am I? Definitely older than you.

Who made them enemies? Abi you're the one who brought about the enmity? There's a faulty foundation like people have pointed out, but all you and your school of thought are screaming is "beg them!!".

I bet you even want the grieving widow to call them for a peace meeting.

you should know stupid comments when you see them and ignore such.

thorpido:
If all men are babies,why do women like you marry babies then?Don't you think it's poor choice to marry a baby?Talking about needing love,care and respect,don't women need that too(and even more)?
Funny how you women always make this,'men are babies' statement.

only stupid women make such statements. If I wanted to marry a baby, I'll give birth to one and then marry it right away.

The woman's mother didn't do all that for her daughter? Yet you will rarely see them coming to disturb the man that married their daughter. It's the men's mothers that don't know how to let go. If they really did all that for their sons with real love in their hearts, they will surely be happy to see him in love. Instead they keep doing their best to frustrate their daughters-in-law. I still wonder why they don't marry their sons so that peace will reign.

God punish your hand too. Marry your mother if she doesn't know her place in your life. Shameless women competing for wife position with their DILs. When her husband is at home and she should be there enjoying her old age with him. She's trotting up and down from one child's house to another.

numericalguy:
She was not a witch when she gave birth and was raising her son. She was not a witch when she Sold her cloths to see through his education. She was not a witch when she took her sick baby to the hospital and even stayed awake all through the night by his bedside praying to God for her son to recover. She was not a witch when she suffered so much to raise the money for his school fees in the university. She was not a witch when she prayed all night just so that her graduate son will get a good job. Now that he is a made young man she suddenly becomes an evil witch abi.

Na God go punish that hand wey you take type that rubbish wet you post.

She's such a pretender. She's secretly hoping your marriage won't work out. What kind of mother doesn't want her son happy with his wife except a certified witch. Dem plenty like that for Nigeria. Instead of them to marry their sons and spare some innocent girl the stress of the competition they feel they is happening when their sons marry other women.

Weird funny creatures.

BumbleBee2ice:
I dnt support aving MILs in ur home on a permanent stay.
My own MIL is really a funny case, weneva she's around i cnt communicate nd play freely wit my man anymore bcs wen i do i notice she doesnt seem too happy dat she will jst sit in a corner brooding nd she wil neva engage in our discuss bt wen we disagree u will see her chatting excitedly wit her son pretending she doesn't knw all isn't well btw us.

Not everyone was born by a ho. And not everyone rolls with only hos. Stop projecting your life woes on the happy dude.

searchiing4love:
[size=18pt]Mumu Guy[/size]


Toto wey go get minimum of 5 guys wey dey penetrate am na him this one buy car ontop. The day he reads her whatsapp chat will be the day he will know these hoes ain't loyal. I can never buy a Nigerian girl a wheelchair talkless of a car. The biitch probably said yes to him for been a perfect mugun. Too many woman wrappers these days.


#Teamforeigngirls

Broke hungry haters weeping all over the thread

Only temporarily

I don't think any loving father will want to stress his daughter unnecessarily. I sense your main concern is that you don't want to compromise on the naming ceremony for the wedding. Not really because of concern for your wife.

You have to consider that this wedding must have been planned for a long time now and your baby just got here. Which one is easier to postpone? That being said you don't have to postpone either one. If the distance is too much for her to travel, she should stay home and you go show yourself briefly earlier in the day then go home to your family for a quiet naming ceremony. If the distance is far, then of course you can't do this. So you guys have to reach a compromise in a non-inflammatory way.

This is enough reaosn for me to like this man even if I didn't like him before. If only stupid rochas will tow the same path.

Are you owing him 5 months salary or not? Bunch of ediots

EfemenaXY:
Don't bother trying to figure out senseless posts. Senseless posts deserve senseless responses. Garbage In, Garbage Out (GIGO).

GIGO

Good one.

EfemenaXY:
Perhaps if men like you were castrated, then society would be overflowing with virgins.

Or don't you know lots of virginal, untested men = lots of virginal, chaste females??

I don't even know how it makes sense to anyone that it's okay for men to have sex but not okay for women. Like the men have other socially acceptable options than to do it with women.

Venusman:
that's exactly what the Op is saying. why will you call a husband parasite because you were lucky to win bread for the family. I still remember the Bible refers to woman as helper. isn't?

oh but when the woman is the one depending on him she's a gold digger and married for material reasons?

Accept my sympathy bro. It must be a very hard experience for you.