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This guy is painfully clueless

Pidgin2:
He is not like you, seek employment instead, you should not be advising a person who is better of than you please, try to find out how he can help you improve your life

lol

lazygal:
Am a lady and I honestly feel the lawyer has a point ..it is clear that the increase in rape goes VIs a vis with the great decline in dress sense though of course there are exceptions ..the bare coverings of women had thrown men into high hormones mode ..it gets so uncontrollable that they decide to go off on innocent women

sell your phone and buy sense

You saw a transgender person. So?

Misplaced priorities.

FlyoruB:
Eh.. This freak below isn't Yoruba o.

that's your fellow human being. Fool

That girl you slapped should sue you for assault. I wish I knew her. Stupid mugu
Because of your phone that someone else stole, you think you can go harassing and assaulting others. Illiterate

men are scum

Awesome

esthy86:
after spending numerous night in ur house,u now look for pointless reason not to marry her,dat she sleeps too much is not enough reason to have double mind about her,i guess de love is not their

Na dia way. The sex had gotten boring for him, so he’s in search of any stupid excuses he can find.

All these entitled silly boys

If you marry someone like me and you try to wake me up before 7:00am, you will be in big trouble.

Something is obviously wrong with you

Nigeria is cursed with useless misogynistic cultures and people who tactfully condone them. That’s why things like this happen

pocohantas:
Now it's only welcome to Africa you can type
If it were reverse you would have been calling on feminist. Like say any normal human being will support murder.

Don’t mind the stupid fool

TimeMod3:
You started fuçking at 13, 14yrs hoe. I will expose you here bitch.

#CallABitchABitch

and do what if she did? Ode

Shut your mouth jare.

chidichuddo:
for the record, women get pregnant not the man


pregnancy affects a woman psychologically and physically

a man can decide to leave the woman he had a baby and move on but it's not the same for a lady


if a man and a woman decides to bring in kids from previous relationships, the man would treat all equally but a woman would give preference to their own ( same happens to single mothers)


a man might be a single dad and it doesn't affect the way he reasons, u won't even know if he has a child elsewhere but for a lady it's the exact opposite.


no matter how strong or mighty a man is, if you want to destroy him totally while he still breathes just sleep with his wife or tell him who is bunking his woman, it would forever hunt him. the man would always have a mental picture of him any time he is alone with her but it's not the same for a woman, she can get angry for a month or so but would forget about it as long as the man doesn't repeat the act.


that man is suffering in silence only men would understand.

Humans are polygamous in nature.
All humans.

Only the selfish half seek to suppress the sexuality of others while making excuses as to why they should be allowed to indulge.

So are you women.
But I don’t expect you to understand. (Insert condescending tone) you’re only a man after all.

Prognose:
Wow!

I was expecting your answer to be more caustic.

Nice response.

OK back to the matter. I do not expect you to accept it. You're a woman after all.

But those cases of guys who don't have side chics?

My money is on the fact that they haven't been caught yet.

Everyday you see one sobstory or the other of a woman who "suddenly" caught her previously faithful husband cheating.

Social media blows it up and it's becomes a sensational story. Sympathizing female folk advice her to be strong and quit her marriage. Emotions run high. The whole brouhaha runs for about a week.

And then another wife makes another heartbreaking discovery.

The cycle repeats itself again and again and again, over and over.

My dear even pastors cheat. It's in the nature of man to be frivolous. And the modern woman is making it even easier. Modern girls now prefer married men and even go out of their way to entice them and send unsolicited nudes. This ain't no fairytale, it is happening live.

You want a side chick go to Shoprite with your gold wedding ring blazing for all its worth. You will still have your pick.

It just takes the grace of God for men not fall to temptation nowadays. The few virtuous men will fall at least once or twice and repent. But the baaaaad men, the ones you call "cheats", will gorge themselves with women until they can't think straight and then they get careless and get caught.

Men are naturally polygamous. Even in the New Testament they had to caution the men to be responsible and have only one wife. And to be honest they were referring to the bishops. Look at your Bible and say it ain't so.

KardinalZik:
FEAR WOMEN

Men do it all the time.
Why don’t we fear them first?

Then don’t marry. And stop pressuring single women into marriage.

Marriage doesn’t benefit men yet you all won’t let single women rest easy. Always trying to sell them marriage ideas.

Who does he pay it to?

So your friend was also sleeping with some her friends. you think she’s olosho and somehow your friend is better than her? Aren’t all of you in that circle fools?

OnucheAdams:
She is just a cheap olosho who hides under the name "Actress" to prostitute herself among big Lagos men. In person, she's very local and can easily develop a complex when you take her to a decent restaurant. Aside the big hips and ok ass, she really has nothing tangible to offer. My homeboy who used to date her wondered how she became an actress. But after banging a couple of her friends, he now realized that in Nigeria the word actress is simply an avenue to showcase your goods to the preying public.

She will still marry a rich man.

All these hypocrite dudes complaining about her on this thread will still be the first set of people to leave their long time girlfriends who stood by them when they had nothing to marry someone like this the moment they land a big contract.

P3nis thinkers. She knows many of you only reason with your diicks. That’s why she feels she can say that.

castrol180:
Nigeria girls/women are more wicked compared to the male...they can torture to death gradually and can stab with knife or dagger to take away life once.

Because na women dey sell those boys to Libyan slave dealers abi?
Sexist mumu

Good for her. I hope they lock her up for a long time

Delusional

buragidi:
What are you saying? No matter how you twist it, the misbehaviour of a man does not give a woman any right to do the same. Here in Africa, if you (women) offend us, na you go leave; if we offend you, na you go still leave. That's just the way the story goes and you can't do a thing about it. Your husband is your head, even the Bible recognises that. Solomon had 300 wives and 700 concubines, yet he remains the wisest man that has ever lived. My position is very clear on the subject-matter. I have advised the OP based on my personal experience and I owe him no duty of care, but based on principle, I have told him the truth based on real-life experience, rather than the theory that most of you dish out here. Peace out

patani:
Chief, please stop arguing with all these small small girls on nairaland. Most of them are not married yet and if they are, they live in fools paradise.

You people are trying so hard. I almost feel sorry for you.
Save enough money and buy a time machine so you can go back to the time when women were dummies who would take anything you dished

Yea only a few men can resist a 14 year old. Because you think only a few men are not pedophiles.

And you’re blaming everyone including the wife because she made him do it.

Keep justifying evil with nonsense logic.

kizyalex10:
guess either u re dumb or u lack common sense of understanding.because if u do u will knw that I blamed every party involved including d man.we re commenting based on assumptions because we re nt there.morally it's wrong.but for the girl nt to condemn d act meted on her by her boss but instead seeking for out right control speaks volume of the girl's character that she did what she did intentionally maybe to get bck at her madam either for ill treating her. there is still a chance she seduced d man.of which few men would resist considering the situation at hand .most people re culpable of the offence.the man I repeat did sometin wrong.same with d girl.because she could have spoken out if she wasn't enjoying d whole escapade or she doesn't have a hidden agenda.like getting bck @ her madam as stated earlier.if the woman is nice to the girl,i don't think d girl in question will be able to repay her by sleeping with her husband nd even if she did either by force or out of her will,she won't then ask for outright possession of the man nd d wife to be kicked out

kizyalex10:
initially i tot u were a gentle man trying to reason together but i can see u have no single manners.trying to insult ur father because d social media platform gave u d opportunity.i wonder if u see me on d road if u can say that to me.not your fault

My father wouldn’t try to classify a 14 year old as an adult. He’s not a pedophile like you.

Shut up.
I don’t speak slowpoke

kizyalex10:
my dear sea hawk pray u dont find urself in such situation as d man who desperately needs a child.he bleeped up big time but his condition matched his desperation.well maybe u re nt in naija.maybe u see 14 yrs as a minor.but in lagos u will cry for d future of the youth.14 year old girl can take 5 men at a go.nt all but most girls in lagoa re exposed.bleeped up big time

This hustling don reach nairaland

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LesbianBoy:
Bet meek mill has fvcked her pvssy na

so?