₦airaland Forum

HaneefahRN:
So the children are dummies and don't know what is going on?

Yes, the woman must always be blamed. Let's blame the victim.
From experience most mothers try as much possible to even shield their children especially while they are young from the reality of hell they are going through but the child will always grow to know there is something very wrong.

A child that sees his or her mother being beaten up often doesn't need anyone to manipulate or lie to him about the situation of things and most times these abusers abuse their children as well.


The man is the fool for wrecking his own home and thinking his children will love him for it.

Philpham:
Words of a broke a..ss niggur who can't afford a decent life despite all his years of acting and is rather wasting his life being a baby daddy to some random girl who probably sleeps with other rich men to sustain his fake lifestyle.
These girls have money and not sweating on spending it on their champagne. Broke ass niggur is busy hating.
Jim iyke, you will never date a rich woman your life is finished and you are worn out

searchiing4love:
The useless gold diggers are good at spending men's money but have nothing to offer in return than open their smelly pusssies. I pity the unfortunate men that will marry these ones as wife. I rather travel to the Arctic to search for a woman than marry a Nigerian girl. Nigerian girls are mostly hungry in nature. No brain, no sense. All they do is jump from dick to dick all for material gains. Useless never do wells



#Team foreign girls

missyadorable:
Pls don't say what you don't know
If not for the woman,those children wouldn't have completed primary school...Every thing the man ever did for his children, he complained and felt cheated.Up to buying food for them to eat...He would beat them like thieves,tell them the most hurtful words,"curse" them at the slightest provocation...The children are not babies.They also had their own personal experiences.Even when the mother was living with their father,they rarely visited home and avoided both of them,just to stay away from hell

Anabel:
The father. Let me go and modify that comment before people tie me to a transformer.

Anabel:
She should be tied to a transformer

coolviv:
No matter the progression of modernization, the nature of a woman remains the same. A wife whose ex-boyfriend or ex-boyfriends posts pictures of them grabbing her breast or putting their hands in her skirt has far worse humiliation than if the husband's ex shows him doing the same.

But like u said...This one no too bad. I'm talking generally. A naked man in public and a naked woman in public is not the same as you know.
Case in point: Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton..

soulfood:
The guy deserves what he got? 40 solid years? Well.... Gays in Nigeria deserve what they get too. 15 years. They should stop screaming and crying wolf when they get caught and served.

tartar9:
40 years .Just because he poured boiling water on gay people...I don't understand

linearity:
Perspective is important here.....being gay or not being gay is not a crime in the US...The Court simply saw this as an attempted double homicide charge.

He is even lucky that it was in Georgia, where crime against gays is not yet codified as 'hate crime', if it were in the other states; he would have gotten more time, plus the FBI declined to bring federal hate crime charges against him, so he did pretty well.

His recourse would have been to chase them out of his house and lock them out. Even Jesus advocated that, he said if they did not receive our message of the Gospel, we should leave their houses, shake their durst off our feet and that, the Lord will judge them on the last day. When Peter took the laws into his own hands and meted jungle justice to the soldiers who dared to come and arrest Jesus...Jesus rebuked him to put his sword away, that those that live by the sword will died by the sword and despite the fact that the soldiers were in the wrong, Jesus went ahead and remedied the situation by healing him.

One wish today's Christians will show a little Christlike-ness.

eyinjuege:
Pleading temporary insanity doesn't mean you will get a light sentence, because you will be evaluated by specialists to see if you truly suffer from any mental illness.
The man wanted to kill them because they were gay or because they were not his own children. They had his permission to be in his house, and didn't break into his home. He could Have simply asked them to leave.
Those who mob others they say commit blasphemy which they see as abomination of the highest order are also right to beat and stone them abi?

Jonwesley:
He has posted this picture for the reason that he wanted to prove something. And he has kept this picture ever since. Does he have more to post? Why keeping an old picture of a lady now married to another person. Highly preposterous and insulting to Elsie.

coolviv:

As a lady, you just have to be careful the kind of pictures you take when young and carefree.

missyadorable:
If a woman is not always blamed in a way for every wrong thing a man does,i will be surprised.
Children grew into teenagers and young adults watching you beat,abuse and maltreat their mother yet you still find a way to blame the woman for the reaction of the children...For your info,the woman has done her possible best to reconcile them with their father but they all refuse.They didn't grow up having a good relationship with him because he was also very abusive, too harsh and cold towards them.Thats story for another day.

Excuzeme:
Depending on the age of the children, they are usually very much under the influence of their mother (who carried them inside her for 9months, breast fed them for a year or more... so it is natural) and most women in such situation are known to brains-wash the children and sow hatred into them, just to punish the father.

In most cases, these children grow up to realize that they have been misled and their life ruined, psychologically, because they have been turned into abusers themselves, from all the hate sowed into them by their mother.

This realisation comes later when the children are matured and themselves go into their own 'relationship' with the opposite gender.
But the damage is already done.
Women! ehn!!

byvan03:
Respect isn't the same as submission.

Ayatullah:
People who do abnormal things deserve abnormal treatment.

If the Almighty God could send His wrath directly from heaven on gays as the Bible and Qur'an teache us, that shows they deserve no mercy from fellow humans (including Nairaland Moderators). They deserve to be sent out of the world by any means that is necessary.

America is reviving and supporting all the evils God has warned mankind of in the Bible and the Qur'an, yet they say: "In God we Trust" What an irony!

May God be kind to the man who treated them with the boiling water as he goes to jail.

soccerdrum:
And that's why the world would be better off without the U.S... Very disheartening

soulfood:
On one hand, American government says Nigeria is harsh and barbaric for serving gays who get married a punishment of 15 years imprisonment. On the other hand, a straight man who poured hot water on his gay step son and the partner out of anger and shock has been sentenced to 40 years imprisonment by the same Government. Who is HARSH? We know this is a grand design to put fear into the minds of people not to freely express their voice against gays or same sex marriage. But we won't be clamped down...#teamnohomo