Last I checked Nigeria was still a backward hypocritical country
AreaFada2: Assuming he shags other women abroad, he will at least not bring another woman's kids and hang on the wife's neck.
Last time i checked virtually all tribes in Nigeria still practice polygamy. Many even more successful than monogamous homes.
Actually this is nothing new. Around 35% of first born kids do not belong to supposed dad. And around 20 to 25% of all kids belong to another man outside. I have written about it over many years here. Paternity test to facilitate family reunion abroad (embassy requirement) has revealed many shocking things.
We all know now that women are far more promiscuous than men nowadays. Reason is simple. Many women see their body as only means of making money, passing exam, getting promotion at work, buying latest phone, fine clothes, etc Whereas a man needs money to date women mostly. The consequence is the rich guys control many girlfriends at the same time. Whereas it is a luxury for those not so rich.
Yes there are working women out there but even some working ones still need several boyfriends or sugar daddies to afford the lifestyle they enjoy.
Your advice not to marry a guy living abroad is good. But with economically stable eligible men very few around now, resisting foreign based ones earning hard currency will not be so easy for many girls.
And one more thing......some men abroad are disciplined and there on a mission. When you are really busy (with education and work) you can stay for years without women. I know many who have done it.
To some extent she is right. If the guy is in that marriageable age,and he keeps moving the goal post forward,we can then consider that wicked.
But if somebody that is 19 yrs old,dates a lady for 2 yrs, i believe he still not ready in some instances to get married.
Lastly,why do women, especially Nigerian women view marriage as the crowning glory in their life?why do conversations with most women have to some how end up at the marriage corner?
Accept favors from Nigerian men at your own risk. It shouldn’t be so in a proper society but many of them once they beg to give you something, even when they insist there’s no strong attached, don’t take them at their word.
They almost always want something out of it. Only a few are different. Many are guilty of this. Be wise in accepting gift if you don’t want to spend all your time fighting off nasty sexual advances.
Misogynistic nairaland rises again, The useless guy is not there in the options why?
Mtchewww
How dare you tell a guest to wash plates? How dare you expect the mother to wash plates when she has 2 grown children there?
My answer, They should dump the plates for the guy to wash.
Misogynists. Guys don't wash plate abi? Nonsense.
The guy and his sister should wash the plates, if the fiance offers and they let her help she can but if they choose not to let her help, she can be gisting with them in the kitchen.
Bollinger: What. . . . .the. . . . .hell? I don't know if you can see that the mouth of my fingers are open in surprise and awe. OMG. I was starting to get pissed at you for not responding to my #'s and CCs. Oh thank the stars you are safe. I actually thought to myself, "did this person actually go to that lunatic of a country for xmas"? How have you been? It's awesome hearing from you i swear. Where you at though? Bro . There's something very manly about "Seahawk". Didn't know you rolled that way .
Bollinger: Which is why i hardly ever take leave. I'd rather rough it out at work. Don't wanna get complacent. Every year by holiday season, i would have 30 days of unused leave. Can you imagine taking 30 days leave? I'd be fat as phuck by the last day.
I like those 30 days plus leaves mehn. So much time to travel and do stuff We canceled our Canada trip last minute because we just couldn’t fit it into the short break.
But 30 days? You go and come back and still have weeks to relax. Lesson learned for this year’s summer holidays
Tocheagle: Jeez what's wrong with that grammar. Be a man and accept that you have lost. Stop wasting my time if you have nothing to do with your life. The job offer is still open though
I’m not a man. I’m enjoying my life thank you. I don’t want a job. Also Thank you
Tocheagle: Now you have completely lost it. With the money I make I do mini importation from time to time. Don't you see the bigger picture or has toilet washing dumbed down your mind beyond recovery. Get busy man. If you have nothing to do, go job hunting, the toilet offers is still on the table
Don’t insult toilet cleaners They make our society better. There is honor in honest labor.
We Nigerians are fond of making fun of people who clean bathrooms abroad meanwhile all through my stay in our homeland, there were no public restrooms worthy of humans use.
Tocheagle: Finally he has accepted who he is, alright, am a 6 figure earner with a network marketing company, bring your cv to our adeniyi Jones office Ikeja, we have some toilets waiting
Yea. I kinda tracked you guys’ conversation. Hilarious
Bollinger: There's this m.oron tocheagle i've been trying to re educate for a while now but for some reason, his upbringing prevents him from seeing what normal people see. My kids were shocked when i asked them those questions. After the video, my eldest asked me if i was joking about he witch thing. I haven't really told them much about Nigeria. They'll have nightmares for years if i tell them the horrors that emanates from there.
Bollinger: If i were president, i would invoke martial law and suspend the constitution. I would ensure all arms of the security agencies are put through psychological and mental rehabilitation and anyone not fit for service or duty is fired. Then i would look into the welfare of the ones that are fit and qualified and ensure that their working conditions are at par with what exists internationally. I will then let them know that any whiff of corruption from them will result in them being fired and jailed. You must be wondering why the focus on security agencies? Well, after all that is done, i am going to release them into the society and forcibly make Nigerians do the right thing. I will make sure every single citizen has access to what the laws of the land are so there is no confusion. Then i'm going to use them to round up all the old corrupt politicians and do exactly what Rawlings did in Ghana. I will then pay special attention to the new generation being born so that their parents don't corrupt them. I will spend trillions to ensure that they get the best education and very minimal contact with their parents. I will do it the way the US does it. Make sure that every child is in school everyday and any child seen roaming the streets and the parent would pay for it dearly. I Know it will take decades to change the social psychology of the society but we have to start somewhere.
AlanSugar: This one na question? Can only be asked by afrocandy ! Always leaving the substance to chase after the shadow! You would've been happy if he'd posted his wife's nude pictures with her lover here abi?
centboy123456: A cheating man is no excuse for a woman to cheat. Take it or leave it, a Man is polygamous by nature. A woman that attempts polygamy, either legally or otherwise is a prostitute and shameless.
I just finished mental health and many of my clients had symptoms that ‘normal’ nairalanders exist with as their baseline of cognitive function .
Bollinger: Ok. So, i wanted to go to the office today to hit up my battle buddy so we can do a video about you s.tupidity but then i thought, my friends stay with me. And what i mean by my best friends are my boys. Then i decided to do the video with them. They were kind of confused as to what i was saying because no normal person would understand why a set of people would still believe in voodoo in this day and age. It ended up being a fun and hilarious time with them. As usually is the case. You are dumb as phuck. You started this so i'm finishing it. I wanna thank you though. We had fun making this.
Bollinger: In 2018 you guys still believe in all this rubbish. Quick question; why is it that it is only in pre historic countries that things like this happen? Why are you people like this na. The mind of a Nigerian is one of the scariest things on the planet. To go moon una no fit do with una yeye belief. To make fuel plenty una no fit do but when it comes to abracadabra, una be pro. What a people. Smh.
Phew. Can’t deal with some of these people Mehn. Reading comments here make me depressed
I see this account getting banned again if you keep tagging him Honestly it's so annoying money over women,and there was a place that the owner said this was a feminist forum.
My other account was banned for calling out rapist apologists.
Seun knows his house is full of misogynistic assholes so he and his MODs (who are mostly idiots BTW) know he can make more money by moving this thread to front page because of the traffic it will pull.
Assholes breeding assholes
Daeylar: Say this again and again and again, especially the part in blue, Honestly I'm beyond disgusted,
The hate is too much, Misogyny is so high in this country.
What's the point do this thread now? This thread doesn't condemn Yahoo, furthermore all this rubbish isn't even real, so what's the point of this thread?
Now I see what was said about people being misogynistic. People are banned for speaking out against rape, but others are not banned for defending rape even when they have a rule saying don't defend rape, mtcheww. Now this.
How can a topic like this blatantly disrespecting women be moved to FP? Calling women living dead? Then all the ridiculous comments which follows insulting women.
Somebody will just tell tales by moonlight with the sole purpose being to insult women and it will be pushed to FP, mtcheww
Most Nigerian men don't deserve Nigerian women I swear, Wish women can just tell these misogynistic men to go fuçk themselves.
Its so annoying, their job is to be insulting women left and right, that's the only thing they can use their lives for.
DonBobes: I AM. I CAN NEVER & I REPEAT NEVA B CHEATED ON. it's not because of wat i am or who i am, its about marrying the right lady dat u both trust urselves wholeheartedly. I am d 1 dat always ask God to remove every distraction in my marriage from my side n not my wife.
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