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Sometimes, I think the US push too far in their interference with other countries ' political affairs.

I think your opinion as regards the above issue is quite sincere.

But at the same time, it only depicts how primitively minded such people are. I posted not too long ago, something similar to this topic too based on these same observations on ground.

Perhaps we have more of children on this forum than adults. Dont y'all think so?

remsonik:
Funnily enough most of the people who create such threads are kids and mostly undergraduates who because of bad encounters with kids like them rush to create those threads... Maybe the matured ones can start praising their ladies and let the bashing reduce

Actually, its the same with the ladies too....its just that the frequency with which the guys do it is alarming. The point is trying to believe the best in ourselves rather than making irrelevant conclusions.

alberto2k:
Op.. U try
Just order anything from the bar

U made pure and straight sense

thanks.
Unfortunately, i dont drink...so I'll just have some juice with a can of pringles

The senate president.
Im pretty sure

Kennywills7:
Nice one op

Thanks brobro

striktlymi:
I agree with you 100% but there is something we need to have constantly at the back of our minds: kids will be kids!!!

Romance section has so many kids too 'young' to tie their shoe laces.

maybe you are right... but still we all need to know whats good for ourselves... dont we?

This post hinges on series of observations of recent topics in the romance section of this forum.

First, It is worthy of note that these topics are mostly aimed at destructively criticizing female Nigerians...even for things they aren't guilty of.
Second, these topics are absurd generalization of a certain fault of which its factuality is questionable (in most cases)

Now, i do not seek to be the messiah of the female folk, I only intend to orientate that out females deserve more credit than we give them.

I am aware that as humans, we are very imperfect people owing to differences in tribe, tongue, society, code of ethics, parental upbringing and so on. As a result, no two people can be the same. Given a set of twins that are subjected to the same environment, they still won't end up exactly the same way...its called individual differences.
Nigeria as a nation faces a lot of problems both internally and externally and these ptoblems are affecting our belief system at least in one way or the other and as a result, all sorts of things are beginning to happen around us. It is (in my own humble opinions alone) folly to now make whats bad worse and whats worse worst.
It is appalling how these posts have subjected our ladies to worthless pieces of shit even when they are mostly assumptions or perhaps one in a thousand experiences. I do believe that most times...it is even men that are mostly the perpetrators of the many sins we crucify our females for.
I also do believe that no man has clean hands. However innocent you claim to be, there's something you always wished you had done better which in my opinion flaws you. In other words....we are all imperfect at least in one way or the others. So why should we try and justify some and condemn others? You see my friends, there's a very large parallel between condemnation and constructive critism.
I believe that if I see a fault in someone, there's nothing wrong in putting him/her to other.... but the situation on ground seems not to be the case.
These posts and topics always paints the Nigerian female folk as negative....ALWAYS!!! I think its unfair and inhumane.
Common guys....why not for once think positive about our women? It doesn't hurt to appreciate the Good that they have in them...just as you would love the same to be done to You. It doesnt hurt at all.




#YeswecanYeswecan

Kindly let yout comments be reasonable, sincere expressions of your views as regards the above topic.
Thank you.

It's obvious.... comments from teenagers!
Spits on thread

lg bello ko, lg musa ni. injoo i2 all the way

Success is the best revenge!
Move on and be successful.
The good Lord is your strength

It seems you've never been in a relationship. You need to be much more neutral when dealing with people! Or will you go on being emotionally attached to the opposite sex even When you are in a relationship? I think not. Just be neutral... Don't ask too much and don't give too much!

You have a good heart.
I hope your wife will have one too.









#amen

With all due respect, the so called cultural practises had its own shortcomings.
I'll list them for you.
1)It endorsed sacrificing of humanS to deities
2)Slaughtering of twins and banishment of the bearer(I wonder what they did to triplets if twins were slaughetereD)
3)Lawlessness and injustice
4)Slavery
5)Polygamy and poverty.
Just to menTion a few.
On the other hand, Religion has in its own unique way brought an end to this barbaric way of life, of course religion has its own shortcomings too. But that is not to say it has done more harm than good. I understand the poster's point of view, but I think you are being myopic. Our so called cultural values made us goddamn illiterates with little hope of a future. Religion however has brought education, enlightment, technology, organisation, and all sorts. Of a truth, religion(especially islam) supports the "holywar" (jihad). I wouldn't know why, but I do know that millions of moslems don't partake in this because they don't believe in shedding innocent blood. Africa has been known to be a wicked, crooked, corrupt,biased, continent mainly as a result of the pagan practices its indigenes indulged in before westernization.
I quite agree that religion has its flaws... But it has done africa a lot of good much more than harm. There's crisis in Egypt not because of religion, but because of the long existing thirst for blood in the average african man imbued by the engagement in barbaric cultural customs.
I believe in cultural values, but I do not accept its privileges.

Everyone is entitled to their opinions. But what does the scriptures say? I'll tell you.
The bible talks about hell, heaven, death, life, hades, satan, lake of fire and the likes. Its just a pity that there isn't a proper understanding of what the scriptures say!
"And death and hell were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. - Revelation 20:14"
When satan fEll along with demons (fallen angels), God created a place of eternal torment for them...this place is called the lake of fire, and not hell! Hell is a temporary residence for sinners just as paradise is a temporary resideence for saints(that thief on jesus' right hand went to paradise and not heaven). Heaven is a place of eternal rest after the judgement of the whole world, likewise the lake of fire a place of eternal judgement. Now, sinners won't go to the lake of fire because they are sinners, thEy'll go because they have refused to accept God's provision of eternal life. Its very simple. Choose between life and death;that's how God operates. From the above scripture, the lake of fire is the eternal reward for refusing to accept God's eternal life... Not hell!
" And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire. - Revelation 20:15" the bible doesn't mention hell in this case too.
"And the devil that deceived them was cast into the lake of fire and brimstone, where the beast and the false prophet are, and shall be tormented day and night for ever and ever. - Revelation 20:10"
"And the beast was taken, and with him the false prophet that wrought miracles before him, with which he deceived them that had received the mark of the beast, and them that worshipped his image. These both were cast alive into a lake of fire burning with brimstone. - Revelation 19:20"
The bible holds the answers to so many questions. We only need to be patient in finding such answers. Even hell itself will be thrown into the lake of fire...(See the first bible passage)
I hope this helps.

Adonbilivvit

Mondisweets: Why isn't there 'nice yansh' on that list. Me I like nice yansh for my guy to be perfect...nothing big, jus nice yansh

Lol. Rubbish geh!

Fallotti: Yes! MARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRIED SUGAR DADDIES ONLY BECAUSE I AM MARRIED TOO! Any problem?
I don't mess with 'widowed. . .divorced. . . or single' UNMARRIAGEABLES.

For me to look in your direction. . . YOU MUST BE MARRIED LIKE MYSELF. . . .WITH MONEY TOO!!!!

NO YORUBAS OR IGBOS PLEASE!
Northerners or SOUTH-SOUTHERNERS ONLY. . .NO EDO STATE MEN PLEASE. . . TUFIAKWA!

Abi JIM IYKE AND CHIDI MOKEME nor get sugar MOMMAS?
Why must my own be different?
It is not fight o. . . I ALWAYS MAKE MY MEN KNOW. . .IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT. . .GERRRRRRRRROUT OF MY LIFE!
Na dem dey chase moi. . .because I AM SWEEEEEEEEEET TO BE WITH. . . AND I KEEP THEM HAPPY ALWAYS!

And my husband too! A FEMINIST CAN LOVE MORE THAN ONE MAN! As long as she does not KILL any of them WITH OR WITHOUT REMOTE CONTROLS to answer 'OFEGE WIDOW'!
After all MEN have been getting away with NUMEROUS PARTNERS in the names of the BIBLE and TRADITION.
Guess what. . . FEMINISM MEANS. . . .EQUAL OPPORTUNITY PHOCKING. . . no cheating!
If you catch a disease from GOD OR SATAN. . . BY ALL MEANS DIE AND LET THE WORLD REST!

The show must go on! SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST. . .FIRST TO QUENCH. . . NO NEED TO FAST AND PRAY. . . WHAT IS YOURS IS YOURS TILL NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT!!!!

WHO DEY FEAR TO DIE. . . NA IM DEY FEAR TO LIVE . . .I ain't no DENSE CHRISTIAN HYPOCRITE!!!!

Here is your problem: you talk too much!

The. SheRRiff'S opinion. Don't matter here. AN orDEr is an Order! A nAtion As orgAniseD as the US ShoulD understand that! If such happens in Nigeria, I might As well be silent! For. Our GovernmEnt aren't orgAnised! Though everyone is licensed. To their opinions, somE things are just to be obeyed and noT. Questioned!

Crap!

Onila.
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lambvard: Sorry for contributing! Av never hooked up with 2 girls at a time in my life. Sure I will never!!!!.

Seconded

I think anal sex isn't proper! But MouthAction? I dont have a problem with that! But above all, everyone should do as his conscience wills him/her to do! And again I say; walk according to the spirit and you won't fulfill the lust of the flesh!

I'm presently going through the same thing. The thing is this: teenage age comes with alot of hormonal changes which obviously is affecting her! And I think you're doing a great job by not succumbing to her advances just yet. These girl probably doesnt have a father figure and probably sees u as one. Whenever she comes to ur house, dont chase her away. Rather, try and be more dissappointing. Pretend tobe asleep or busy or even if u can, come home very late. But dont avoid her. Just FRIENDZONE her. Do not tell her elder sister, that will only worsen the issue. I
belive you are mature, so be the man you ought to be! Say no peadophilia

One thing is needful for the guys... That is selfcontrol! It doesn't matter how decent, caring, and faithful a woman is. A man will always be a man. The creator has made man to be responsive to the female body, irrespective of who she is. That is why a man will still commit adultery, despite his woman's chastity. And to our ladies, know that rome wasnt build in a day! Being lazy is not the same thing as starting from the scratch. Of what use is your love if it is based on ready made wealth alone? Remember that the end of a thing is what matters, not its beginning. Let both sexes respect one another. Of a truth, the world is filled with perverts, whoremongers and sexslaves. But all people arent the same. There are still people with values, so kindly do not generalize. As for the op, she only voiced her concern, but sHe was bias! People do different things for different reasons and you just cannot conclude based on what you feel alone! I love ladies as much as I love guys... And due to that, I will speak ill of no man!
Be safe.

Country: democratic republic of congo. Reason; they are voted to have the hugest joysticks in the world.
Nigerian state: I'm not so sure...cos I'm a virgin! But I think it should be one of these eastern states.

Congratulations to her. But she isn't as beautiful as Elizabeth Banu! That woman(elizabeth) is damn beautiful, i drool when I see her.

I'm sorry to say this: Yemeni is a moslem country I think, I wonder why these ppl (moslems) won't just sit down and consider these pedophilic acts of theirs as inhumane! I know every religion has its own many controversies but when truth is to be said, it should be said! Its so very unfair on the feminine gender!