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I get your point, but I've clearly spelt out my stand on the premise of him having clearer details that we, on the outside might not.
We will still be waiting for the truth to come to bare

laudate:
Please take it easy. How are you sure that Pst Poju did not have a private conversation with him, and he confessed to the act in secret?

Maybe that was what led Pst Poju to involve Fatoyinbo's mentors. And those mentors may have conducted their private Investigations and prayed for God to reveal the truth, before recommending that he should step down.

Don't forget that Pst Poju and PB were friends, before now. Many people would have asked him to take a stand on the matter. And that is what he has done.

The story has reached public domain courtesy of Busola's video. So any subsequent actions taken, must also be done publicly.

I understand you better now. I think the guy would also pick a thing or two

ericmor:
Got u bro, but the problem with the other guy quoting me is that he did not even know the age of the girl and didn’t even know my age as at then either, just jump to conclusion bcs he saw secondary school. Some people just wanna type sha and act like they know it all of which they know nothing. Thanks and one love

Wow. Seeing stuff like this gives me hope. But when will Naija be able to conduct emergency response in this manner!
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The step you took has been taken before and the world did not come to an end. What you need to do now is to show more tact in dealing with such issues in the near future, and even other ones that might pop up.
Firstly, you need to hold your guard and never leave room for 'counterpunches' at least for now. Do your job as assiduously as you can and leave their tongues to do the wagging.
Secondly, make amends with your uncle and explain to him how you couldn't cope anymore on a job without rest and the mental effects of working under your erstwhile boss.
Furthermore, you need to trust nobody cuz a lot of people would want to score cheap points off you. Concentrate on your job and don't engage in office gossips that will go back round to those who want you gone.
Lastly, if you cannot cope, try to garner some more experience, especially as it is supposedly a kind of blue chip company and boost your CV before thinking of resigning as this would place you in good stead in case of a job search. But me thinks you can overcome this if you hold your end and you let your output speak for you

I just want to know if those UK and American based housemates were part of the overcrowded auditions across the country.
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Hey bro, if I were you , I would edit this post re-present my thoughts differently. I reason you only being sincere and straightforward but out sincerity can at times be a misnomer.
If you have had it with a girl below the age of consent, it's still not right in the eyes of the law not minding the parameters as you spelt out. The internet never forgets and we never can tell what can be used against us in the sometimes of tomorrow.
One love

ericmor:
Who is the minor? The one that asked me for sex just to make some money and not even a virgin?

Find your rapist partner go another side

As much as I love Pastor Poju's submission and the efforts he said has made this far, something ticks me off with his use of some sort of undertones of an acceptance of guilt. This is premised on the fact that this is presently a subject of heated discourse across the various media, so any perception one holds can easily be misconstrued or manipulated especially as they are said to be close in the ministry and outside of it.
What we cannot dispute is if he has more knowledge of whatever had happened and he is just being diplomatic, but if that is not the case, then I'm totally uncomfortable with his positing , especially the last paragraph.
What some of us want is just for the truth to be established without bowing to the risks of sentimental alignment to either party.
May God bless his church. AMEN

And you are in sifia pains

handsomeyinka:
THEY WERE BEATED?

They were beated?

You mean they were beated?

Your blunder has BEATED me.

Bro, you need to calm down a bit. There are so many things that go on behind the scenes that we might never get to know in any case of this magnitude. We should be magnanimous enough to weigh the pros and cons from all available evidence. From a personal experience, which is the reason I'm posting after being a guest reader for several years; coming out is based on a variety of factors e.g background, mental status, maturity, proof of burden etc.
My ex girlfriend was raped by more or less, a big brother/family friend. The flip side is , she actually told me and sought my permission when the guy invited her to supposedly, 'his place' not knowing it was a disguised guest house. Long story short, her hymen was partially broken and it was a tough period for her and me too. She only called me the following day to break off the relationship but I was able to stay strong for her. What I realized eventually was that this event left her battered and traumatized. I did all I could but sex sessions with her were as dry, unemotive and unromantic as anything. Among other things, it was one of the reasons I called off the relationship after almost six years. Apart from her immediate family members and those who were present when his uncle vented his anger after having one too many at a hangout 2 days after the incident.
So if she completely heals and calls out the guy in the sometimes of tomorrow, people would still opine why she kept quiet for so long.
BTW, it's past 8 years already. RAPE is an emotionally damaging occurrence that should be avoided in its entirety. We should also offer as much support as possible to those it has happened to, if truly it did occur and mete out suitable punitives to offenders

utenwuson:
Time dakolo, his wife and all the yeye celebrities that condemning fatoyinbo are mad.
U stay in one corner for over 14 years u didn't say sh*t, how can someone without a gun r*pe busola home and away?
Just imagine, person come your house, u wear only night gown open door knowing fully well no one is home, why not simply tell him through the window the people he's looking for weren't around and go put up something?
U still went to his house, take u to car bumper and romp u in doggy and u call it rape?
Kwara state law says 16 years is the official year for consenting and u said u were 17 shey?
The lady still remain in the church for over 2 years and still lead in the choir haba.
If u are raped, the first thing to do is to tell your parents, your parents should take u to a doctor for examination and a medical report written, then to police or dss for arrest and possibly persecution....
What's paining me is the lie that just a tap to the mouth to keep quite and she fell on the couch to be disvirgin as if it's a small thing...



My problem with most youth is that they don't think critically, that's why they are swindled by God of men and politician. A 17year old is not a kid, most 17year old are in 100lvl in the university.

Someone said the reason He believed her is because she has no reason to lie...hehehe.

Protest over allegation? He should arrest most of them and make huge money from this case please.