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[quote author=mondi_cheeks]Yes its compulsory otherwise u might as well stay single [/quote]My sister not for all girls, i have seen a girl who does not care about spending for her, @ first she demanded as usual and when she noticed that d guy was not ready to give her, but he loved her and he was seriously serious about her, she stop demanding and they are both happy now.
***bottomline***
if you can stand your ground not to buy love with money but you can convey your love to the girl by other means, there are still few girls who will stick with love rather than money.

That guy can't be serious, why is he asking for Nigerian food now? Well he should go and teach her by himself instead of complaining.
My malawian inlaw too has to go and learn how to cook Nigerian dishes, it's ridiculous that she has be with a Nigerian guy for 2years with out knowing how to cook Nigerian food. Haaba did she learn anything from the guy @all, cos food is major thing u can't play with for Nigerian men especialy local dish.

ambrosini593: Almost every girl you come across will want or expect you to spend for her. Why is it compulsory? Is it a tradition?

Na so we see am O! I know say no be tradition cos my papa no do dat for my mama and i hear say my grand papa no do so for my grandmama. even though i get two grand papa, none of them talk am say them do so.

Wetin go come happen? Na only u dey kolobi d girl.
Can u say na only her dey ur life too, even if na only her sef, se u get agreement se na only u go dey kolobi her, even if you get agreement sef you don marry?

chikeorji123: Op
u have not stated the major thing to look into b/f choosing a partner which is charater l mean compartiblity...or are u just after body structure & outward appearance? then u are dum!!..

my tought also, but if all things being equall, i will go for the one that makes me happy i.e until am in that situation and i see them both. Can't just use my imagination to decide something like that.

When you are man enough EMOTIONALY, FINANCIALY, PHYSICALY, PSYCHOLOGICALY and MORALY.
Gudmorning!!!

I also notice that too, @ 20-25years old ladies don't seems to take marriage as important infact many don't even date marriagable guyz/men at dat age and when you try to talk about marriage with them, they won't take you seriously.
There is this close friend of mine that got married at age of 23years, she alway talk about hw she love the guy and can't meet some one like him again in her life, yet she still wish the guy should have show up later than sooner but she grabed the oppotunity anyway.
***bottomline***
most ladies always want to enjoy themself at younger age before been confined to one man in marriage, but not all will make it, but most go on that path.

No body should decide ur life for you, choose reasonably with ur heart and face the aftermanth alone.
Gudluck to u in ur endavour.

O boy i will give it to my friend in form of parable if he decode good for him.
To me what kind of best friend are you if he/she is walking into the pit and you know but for one silly excuse u don't wana tell him/her. What if you are in his/her shoe won't you appreciate it if your friend can tell you.

We have this slave mentality, we use our master as a standard even if the master does not know a bit of such thing.
We seems to take oders mentally from our mental master.

It's nothing other than selfishnes of human nature and lack of consideration for others.

davroca16: -Abuse
-Abortion
-Pregnancy
-Harassment
-Being walked on
WOMEN GO THROUGH A LOT, RESPECT THEM.

^^^^ I think they can manage, control and aviod this if they do the right thing.
I don't see any reason complaining about what you can control and determine.

My brother even if she is ur wife, will she be the one to determines ur future you?
Your life should be your decition, cos it must be what you like and will be satisfy with any outcome, not the one you will regret and be looking for who to blame. "Your life is in you hands"

I know we won't blame the rich for being robbed but the rich too should make extra provision/security for himself so as not to be robbed.
I hope you get my analogy.

Gbenga of Ait broght the police report to his programe, infact you be shock at how police wrote an unbelievable lies as if anybody that read the report does not have brain. It was copy and paste of diffrent reports without proper syncronising them. Them man ugolor challenged the ig and dig to come and prove him wrong, but non of them could say anything. I think everything is left to GEJ to do the right thing if truly he does not know anything about the muder.

2Legit2Qui: Una don see this this President finish. Make him apologise to una because una contravene the law, abi? f una no contravene the law, why dem go demolish una estate? Abi de go just wake up one day say dem wan demolish una estate without any reason?

It's like you don't know about the case and what is going on in Abuja. What the minister and the senator did to them is total wickedness, FCT will allocate land to developers in diffrent undeveloped locations, area without infrastructures and amenities. Imidiately government see the rapid infrastructral development in the area that is when the ministers, senators or other peaple in power will reallocate it for themselve. That is the case of airport road in Abuja. The question is why can't average citizen enjoy good infrastructure in Abuja, they alway reallocate it for themselves. GOD dey watch O!

This good for lagos and the resident in general, sometimes those shanties and under the bridge are the hid out for criminals and makes it easy to perpetrate their evil work in the name of homeless while building on road side, drainages and canals is a sign of indecipline and lack of regard for law of the land. Kudos to government for that.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]If you can fully understand why a Lizard nods its head intermittently, then you will fully understand the reasons for the actions that led to your questions. . . [/color]

You are right but

Davico: Ur cooocckk should be restrain even if u are moved to do so. Sex is gud but cud b destructive as we see it become a traded pure water

As human being we have to moderate everything we are doing and the is what diffrentciate us from other animals. But the rate at which we paticipate in sex now adays is going out of control and that is why we see diffrent sexualy tramited deseases, distruction of wombs, homosexualism, peadophil and r@pe.

greatgod2012: There are so many men with their ring on flirting around, and there also men without their ring on who are ever faithful with their wife, so, which one is better?

For both husband and wife, ring or no ring, should not be d determinant of love, trust, mutual respect and faithfulness in marriages. If one is comfortable with it, fine; if one is not, no cause for alarm.

you ve thrashed out everything, what else can i say.
Ok may be ring is western ways which we may or may not respect her in Nigeria what matter most is to respect our marital vows and spouse particularly we men.

They also get catigories, heavy, light and regulars.
HEAVY is the one you mentioned here.
LIGHT: are those girls who does not take it outside their school enviroment, but gives it to anyone that has what they wants, this class of girls are the one who always put their fellow beatuful undergraduate girls into trouble because they will open their legs cheaply for lecturers to pass exams and this will prompt the lecturers to demand s*e*x from serious innocent undergraduates who can pass exams on her own, this catigory of runz girl can open their legs for you because they don't want to pay money and participate in group assignment etc even if she want to eat indomine in ur house. Their legs will automaticaly open in as much as u have whatever they need at your disposal.
REGULARS: They are the most common of runz girls, they do indirect prostitution by dating only guys who will give money, in other words, no money no love. If you date them you will become their father and benefactor, this kind of girls are found every where in Nigeria both in secondary school, universities, office and on your street.

With what rev david ugolor revealed on AIT this morning about police and presidency, huuum! I hope we still hope in Nigeria because of the way it was handled and lies being covered up.

[quote author=Foxy_Rebirth]I would have commented, but I'm still smarting from the fact that I stood for a very long time before getting a car and paid twice the price.

Fvck the government [/quote]must you board bus by the road side? You should go into the motor park located @ wuse. It is behind that big shopping complex adjacent to access bank.

Do you think north care about those positions, poverty in their land, development in their land or any other things than the position of presidency which oga jonathan occupies right now. If it was about developments they had unchallenged ample opportunities in the past to achieve that goal but refuse to take it, likewise no political position can satisfy them in as much as they are not the one selecting it by them self and they are not commander in chief.

I guess oga Jonathan gave them all those position to compensate them for the presidency they believe he took from them, yet they really don't send him. All they want is to be number 1 citizen of our beloved Nation.

They should have done that since, i was afraid that if they did not take any step, wuse would turn to old notorious oshodi with traffic hold up and hawkers. They should try and extend that to some satalite towns especialy kubwa market.

The ultimate convincing power for Nigerian girls is
M. O. N. E. Y. Nothing can supercede that.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Again, not exclusive to Nigeria.[/quote]Wisdom! Wisdom!! Wisdom!!! Is everything.

My brother go to your village and find one, if can't find one where you live.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Spouce killing one another happens everywhere in the world and as a matter of fact Nigeria is even low as far as that in concerned.

What is wrong in the woman asking that you put your house in order?[/quote]my brother we are in a society that is cautious, insinuate, victitious and suspicious, even among brothers, families, spouse and society in general. with this put into consideration everything must done with wisdom.

I like that money part, any girl that love you does not put money first in your relationship + she will respect you, always want to help you out and care for you.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Some men have serious mental issues. This is an bad case of him not being able to see the bigger picture.

Did she ask him to will everything to her? Silly man[/quote]You are talking as if you don't live in Nigeria. If you want to do things you have to consider the cultural and social norms, we all know what has been happening in Nigeria where wife kills husband and hubby kills wife all because of inheritance. What she should have done is advice her hubby, she should have put it inform of advice everything in life requires wisdom.
It is her right but with wisdom you will get it. By the way happy sunday to you all.