PrayWills: Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.
I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.
As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?
PS: she was raised by a single mom
First of all are the two kids yours, if yes let her go with the kids but be monitoring them. A Lise woman is a lawyer a lose woman. She was not properly brought up she must have grown up seeing and hearing all sorts of lies about independence from her mum and she feels she can be independent by being unfaithful.
My brother thank God for revealing and helping you out in time.
Valoromega: I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave. she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.
She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.
I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues
My brother it is too early for you to be going through this. If what you are saying is truth any time she packs her bag that she is going, give her transport fare and tell her never to come back.
She is young make she enter street, she go know say the street are not smiling.
EreluRoz: I will never understand how this rape thing works because how can a man be having erection inside violence?
How will the penis gain erection during struggle and force needed to carry out rape.
Lastly I don't think I can be raped kos there'll never be that moment I'll open my legs, I will just be shouting, fighting, biting, rolling and turning everywhere so how will he now enter?
Hmm pray it does not get to you, it is very terrible experience no one should have. no matter how strong you are, when you are out numbered and over powered, the story is never the same again.
If they are serious why not go to the local markets to enforce prices. They can increase prices but people doing genuine business cannot. Policies affect a lot of things in an economy. The policies they make should be human friendly and not too Draconian.
DarkCaesar: I want to be as brief as I can with this, so there would be enough contributions on what’s bothering me. My Father in law wants me have my marriage ceremony in his compound but I prefer a hall or an event center. The road to his compound is not very good which would deter a lot of people from coming to grace the occasion. It’s their right to choose the venue according to tradition but I just feel an event center would really have been more gracious than an open settings in his compound, I just felt like he’s trying to show off his new Mansion to the world as he’s a big man in his town and he told me that has been his tradition with his previous daughter. I’m really confused because this development would not allow a lot of the invitees to be there as it’s a bit far from my state and the road is really bad. What can I do about this?
Brother sincerely the man is right, even if his house is in a pit, anyone that want to honour your invitation will grace it there.
You might not understand now until it gets to your turn to give your daughter our in marriage
It is always a thing of honour for a daughters wedding to be done in the father's house.
Please kindly oblige the man and tell your guest about the venue.
I just violated one of my biggest rules in life and I have been sober ever since.
I got into Abuja on an official assignment, A bit bored, I asked my ex to come over just to have a harmless talk. The first day she came to the officer with her daughter and it was purely just reminiscing and having a harmless laugh. We had lunch and she left.
Two days later, I invited her to my hotel and she came and the unimaginable happened.
I have been filled with guilt, my head is so full with regrets. Another man's wife.
I need help to get over this, who can I talk to please. It appears I am depressed. Can someone please make me feel better. Please!
My guy you are.not depressed you are just a bad person,why do you have to invite her to your hotel room at first, you wanted to try you luck and as usual she being an unfaithful and greedy woman fell for it.
[quote author=beejay18 post=128961595][/quote] Things have changed and a lot of things have evolved. How will you feel when teachers send you kids to their farm to farm for them, after all according to you they do it befores.
NairaOcean: In the midst of an intense heatwave, a group of apprentices at a local sewing workshop have found themselves a task to keep their madam cool. She has instructed her apprentices to take up the unconventional task of fanning her with hand fans while she sews.
Does the seamstress have the right to order her apprentices to fan her in the workshop?
Ade49: There’s a certain man(Alfa) in our street that keep convincing me that Teacher or farmer is the only work that I can succeed in in my life. I’m really tired of the matter and it’s draining me mentally day by day.
Imagine graduating from university in this hard economy and chose to become a teacher, just imagine, and also I don’t even like any work among those two I swear. I keep wondering how can God give you what you don’t like.
Please do you also believe in this statement? I really need your advice…. Thanks in advance
Further your education and become a lecturer. He might not be wrong.
ObamaMessi: Recently I'm drawn to one of my mom's friend. The woman is fair in complexion, chubby, get back and front. Her name is Titi and we have engaged in a serious romance several times and have ridden her twice this year. She's a widow with two kids... with the first being older than me. I want to stop because it's causing problem between my mom and I. How do I do?
I'm 35 and right now I'm a little bit lost on choosing a potential life partner.. I went through a slight delay career-wise, but God came through and things picked up within the past 1 year. I met a lady also during this time and we've been dating. We both love each other with the mindset of getting married soon.. I was looking forward to tell my mom who I hadn't seen in almost a year about her.
The twist now is my aunt (a very close confidant) whom I told before anyone is trying to pitch me to another lady abroad. (I don't know how she looks or who she is as I write)...
My mum is also tilting in that direction and urging me to consider the other lady abroad, based on my aunt's positive recommendation.
My family absolutely mean well for me. Right now I'm a bit lost on the whole situation as my main goal for the new year is to get married and relocate abroad.
I'm concerned if I'll be able to get on well with this 'other' lady in question or should I just insist on settling with the current person I'm seeing.. this is the real dilemma.
if you get heart follow your heart, but if you no get follow them.
Akinomoakin021: I tried calling a female Crush on new year eve without telling her beforehand. She picked the video call and I saw her sitting at the corner of a bed. Lights of different colours were shining and rotating on her face. There were also lots of background noise.
She frowned at me and angrily asked why should I call her on a video call. She then hissed and cut the call. What does this mean please?
It means as at that time you are not needed. You dey disturb groove.
Abujafish: I met this girl when i was in my final year i loved her so dearly, i even hav this thought of saying i have arrived that will be my final bus stop, but unknowly 2 me that girl was something else i never knew i was dating olosho who claim 2 be a saint, quite okay she told me she doesn't like and that she was still a virgin which i agreed not 2 touch her in the name of i've seen my life partner. So one she started giving me attitude she no longer come 2 my place, no call, no chat she kept on givhng me excuss not until the day i caught her red at one guy's house and she has been sleep there for a very long time which i can't tell. So since then i cutted tires with i told her not 2 ever come close 2 me in her entire life, which she didn't even bother.Highest we meet in school nothing more.Now it's been 2yrs now since we graduated this same girl has be disturbing my peace dat she just realise her and she is sorry i should give her chance to mak amend but i have been ignoring her till today. Am confuse now pls hlp
Brother tell her that you have realised since and if she is doing that now, it is quite late.
Good day all Please who can help me have an idea how much does a Mercedes Benz M112 BIG PISTON TYPE 1) COMPLETE ENGINE COST 2) COMPLETE ENGINE AND GEAR BOX
The better person to raise up a child is normally the one that is more responsible between the parents. It the father is stable naturally want to raise the children to turn out well not wanting them to make mistakes he did.
Most single mothers always rais3 their children with hatred for the man been built into the kids.
When you see kids raised up by a single mother no matter how responsible she is tends to bring the kids up 2ith hatred for their father.
wasiubello: Take it or leave it, a president from northern Nigeria may take a long time to happen again. After Jagaban, Wike will take over and the circle continues in the south.
I'm not Jagaban fan but i give him thumb up for this achievement, there is hope for Nigeria again
If na so hope dey dey, 3 better the hope no dey ooh.
mokwechineme: 3 In the third position is Abiodun - governor of Ogun state. I have been hearing so much about his ineptitude. Even though Ogun state is the home state of some of the most prominent Nigerians, the state seem to be lacking in good governance and Abiodun happens to be a typical example of this phenomenon.
2 Sitting in the second position is Uzodimma - the one fondly called Ozodimgba is the governor of Imo state. He has literally supervised the carnage in his state encouraging the federal government to create theatre of war in the state he governs. There has been incidence of massacre of innocent civilians, displacement of communities and burning of villages by the Nigerian soldiers and he feels that will guarrantee his hold on Imo state.
1 Sitting in the first position of the worst governors is Chukwuma Soludo - Governor of Anambra state. In one of his numerous promises is making Anambra the Dubai/Taiwan of Africa. He also promised Anambra would be one huge construction site during his tenure. As we speak, we never see Awolowo's head, talkless of Azikiwe's. He has been in Ekwulobia with the out of priority project for more than a year constructing one flyover while Willie Obiano adjudged one of the most incapable governors did three flovers in a space of three months. In the Omanbala region where i reside, he has closed all refuse dumpsites leaving people with nowhere to dispose their refuse. The hungry boy that is paid to defend him here on nairaland, should help tell me where in Omabala region comprising of 5 local governments does Soludo have one single project going on other than hanging banners of solution is here in every nook and crany of the state especially where the previous administrations sited projects.
Soludo remains a total tragedy to Ndi Anambra
Which are ur worst??
You mention all this people and the white lion has no place here, my brother who dey fund you?
Rtk4: I give my wife #500 everyday to cook for the house and yet she complains, it's really annoying. Do you know that the #500 is even too much because there's everything a woman need to cook in bulk in the house. Meat, crayfish, Maggi, salt, seasonings..... I mean everything. All she buys is things we can't buy in bulk which is tomatoes and pepper. Please guys what's your take? Here in the north all thses perishables are too cheap, she just steps out of the house and buy them from women selling just in front of our house. Before some people start saying I'm stingy, you nmust also know that she doesn't lack anything. I give her pocket money and also buys her anything she needs as far as i can afford.
If you give her 500 to buy things when everything is at home is not good enough. Firstly transportation is not at home, the small small things you talk about that you can buy with 500 and have change is salt. Kindly give her about 2k 8f you can afford it but not always sha. Except the days you are actually buying much things
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