Truvelisback:
Nawa for u ooo! U want make i name my pikin Job join this Buhari govt? No be times two suffer be that?

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do Xtians rarely bear these names? Jonah, Job and others? Most especially, the name Job. I hope it's not what i am thinking?

Racoon:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/debts-incurred-under-buhari-justifiable-fashola/%3famp

DeepThroater:


Impeached governor

And may I remind you, governor of the most disorderly state in Nigeria .

Even Obi attested to the fact that Anambra is filled with stubborn high goats

DeepThroater:
Barely 7months into his tenure , he was impeached .

And tomorrow you will tell me structure doesn't matter.

If he by the longest shot, becomes president, can he in all honesty avoid the same calamity that befell him in his own state?

As Governor , he was even bullied off the road by other Anambra big wigs who used their own police escort to chance him off the road.

Can such a lame duck no structure , I can do it myself individual secure one night in Aso Rock?

etrouble:
Cursed Unfortunate Oloriburuku Ologogoro Omo Oloshi .


He no dey fucck one tenth of wetin I dey fucck, but the idiot does not have self discipline to regulate number of children.

Profperfect:


Men! Am broken right now . Like I know shits I have endured , covered , forgiven this lady , not to talk of once my lecturer visited our lodge(room) on going outside to get something in few minutes before I got back , they were already on it. She denied but later agreed cause I almost caught them red handed. The lecturer after like a year called me and confessed that his heart is troubling him that am a good person , that I should forgive him , which I did but each time I see him I remember, she has caused me pains , accusing me of not trusting her but she is actually the one doing things to break my trust fir her daily , tell me how do I trust this kind of a person ,

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.

Adebisi0070:
I married this Lady 2years back, we courted for 3 months and then we did our wedding. After our wedding we found out we will be expecting a baby, few months later my wife changed drastically in character, she became abusive & hostile towards me. She insults and hits me. I thought it was pregnancy hormones, i over looked and loved my wife. After delivery she grew worst, she does'nt lack anything from me, i reported to my in-laws, they called their daughter to order yet no change, i reported to my parent, infact she rained insult on me in present of my mum & granmom. Everytin to make peace no way, last month i called my wife inside & asked her why this character? She started cryin & she said "her dad abused & misused her mother, always her mom was going through pains, after all she saw, she vowed she wil not subject to any man'' i cried with her and assured her that am not her father & i wont act as him. My wife changed only 2 weeks & grew worse. Am fade up, i want a DIVORCE. What do i do my fellow N'Ls?

bottlewater1:
Good morning nairaladers and happy Trinity day

So I went to church with my family, at the entrance of the church members of protocol use their security gadgets to search us whether we carry any kind of weapon. Me that did not even carry Bible expect my phone and offering, yet they use their gadgets on me.
The security search was necessary, even in church today they announced changes in security procedures.
Seems churches and place of worship have been put on red alert.

My opinion:

I was just laughing because it seems they don't trust their members again for instance me a member of more than five years and listen to the pastor almost every week.
I think this acts in church will further discourage people from attending church services but to stick to electronic programmes

Ayanwukoma:
So annoying that people do take others for granted. This man has been patronising my businesses for sometime now. He paid the first and second time swiftly at ease because I sold it very cheap for him as my pastor consign.The third time he asked me to get him same stuff which I did at almost same price, going up to 5 months now, since January haven't heard anything about the payment. At first I used to call him on Monday as a reminder but he keeps posting me til I got tired.
Because of this I skip Church most Sundays but today I was so angry that I had to go, waited till church service was over...I still sat there praying, hoping that this man will approach me about his debt.. till now nothing from him.

Marcos90078:
I don't even know where to start this.
I feel really guilty about something I did 6 years ago and I don't know how to make restitution for it. I don't even know how to go about it.
Back in 2016, I was working at a school that is 40 minutes away from where I live. Those were the lowest point in my life. I was a fresh graduate with no income what so ever. The school was paying me 12,000 at the time but they have a policy of no lateness. Whenever a teacher is late, they take out 200 naira from your salary for every day you're late.
Considering where I use to come from, I was always late so sometimes I end up taking 9k at the end of the month, sometimes less.
Fast forward to a year plus since I've been there, the school organized an inter house sport and I was made the house master of yellow house.
The management instructed the students to contribute money for the after party of the event and they were to pay the money to their house masters.
I was getting this payment for a few weeks before the inter house sport and I was digging into it to meet my daily needs until I had spent so much that I couldn't pay back anymore. Out of 52k that was paid to me, I had spent 30k and was left with just 22k. The inter House sport was approaching and I was so worried and confused. I managed to buy the basic needs for the house (mostly first aid in case of emergency during the events). And I was left with 15k.
A day before the inter house sport, a friend that I confiled in with the hope that he can lend me the money adviced me to use the rest of the money to play bet and assured me that I would win. But we all know how that ended. I didn't win.
I lost the entire money.
The day of the inter house sport. My house performed so well that they came first in every event and won the overall trophy as best house. The students were so happy and they were expecting a big party the next day, even the management praised my dedication and hardwork during the presentation of trophy.
I got home, cried a little, went around to see if anyone could borrow me the money but no one did. Long story shut, I turned off my phone and never went back there again.

Ever since then, I have had regrets, I feel like I let everyone down. The kids, the teachers and the principal of that school.

6 years later, I'm doing great, I just checked my account balance and I think I can even afford to pay for all those kids school fees now. I have my own company, just got a good contract worth millions. I have lived a very honest life but deep down, I still feel like a common thief.
I don't know how to make this right. I don't know how to go about seeking for forgiveness. Those kids must have left for university and some of them may even be graduates already so they are all scattered everywhere now, I can't bring them together and seek forgiveness anymore. I don't care much about the school management cos they were not good people anyways but the students

Please guys, how can I make this right. How best can I seek restitution for this. I have been restless and I can't even look back at my life and not feel like that is a dent on my image. This is not about religion or anything but my guilty conscience will not let me have peace for the past 6 years.

Aonkuuse:
Ok this man that trend that other time

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politicoNG:
Previous Threads:
https://www.nairaland.com/6342071/abudu-balogun-attempted-rape-use-me

https://www.nairaland.com/6342624/attempted-rape-abiodun-abudu-balogun-denies#97657666 (Abudu-Balogun denied the allegation)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gxIWlMPERo



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Abiodun Abudu-Balogun on Facebook:



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=4997403423689832&id=100002606723094

miracle98:
Good afternoon to you all.
I'm worried about this illness that has refused to go for months now.
I've been coughing for 2 months plus,coupled with malaria and typhoid symptoms.
I got treatment but the cough proved stubborn.
I already used several cough syrups, antibiotics and other prescribed drugs by pharmacists and doctors.
I did several tests, covid inclusive. Tests results said it's chest congestion... Something about the chest being infected, I got treated after that but everything is still the same.
I even got injections 10 times on my poor butt !
I have used herbs too all to no avail.
My last stop is the General Hospital.

Help my life if you know what could be wrong with me and what I can do.
Thanks in anticipation

GreatAxeMan:


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Draslo:
I'm not here to seek anyone's validation or anything like that.

I recently got back in touch with an ex. We spoke for less than 3 minutes on the phone and it was pure bliss. We both laughed and it felt really good mostly cause I messed up something special we had way back in 2019. We met up in less than 24 hours. We're both single now. I hadn't seen her since 2020. She looks so much better and just as beautiful if not more. Don't get me wrong, she's a hottie body-wise and upstairs in her intracranial space. I was way too immature back then to be patient to try to build something with her. We met up and even though I did most of the talking, her body language was enough to satisfy me. I apologized for being a dick before I kissed her and she kissed me back. It felt so good cos since we broke up, I'd used her as a standard for my spec and no woman has been able to meet up. She's streetwise, business-oriented, drop dead sexy, super intelligent, beautiful (understatement) and to crown it, she never uses make up. She's as real as they come.

I know people tend to see getting back together with an old flame as a bad decision but I also know that the devil you know is better than an angel you don't know. Besides, in the breakup, na me f**k up. I never really got over her and I'm presented with an opportunity my guys will never, ever, ever get.

modified; this is the first time in my 16 years of sexual activeness since secondary school that i ever got back with an ex

emmanuellex:
Hi guys. Please I need your advice.
About 3 years ago I found out she was in my friends house while she told me she was going back to her family after visiting me in my school.

I hacked into her WhatsApp messages due to my suspicions with how she often keeps her phone from me and I saw the chat between she and my friend telling him that she missed her period.

I love her so much and I decided to let go due to her statement about what she did was because I also cheated on her with a friend of hers. There was no evidence that I ever did such.

Everything was going fine until this year 2022 when I discovered she’s doing thesame with another guy.

Please I need your advice.

FaAbokiWithSuit:
I have this girl that likes me and my girlfriend. Infact let me say she and my girlfriend are best of friends.
Most times she keeps stealing my girlfriend's things. For instance there was a time she came to our crib. After she left we discovered 2 pacs of menstrual pad was missing and my girlfriend's wig.
Before you ask how we got to know she took the wig. We later saw her wearing it at school.

Another time she came and left with my JBL Bluetooth speaker, OralB toothpaste, and perfumes. One thing is, she doesn't steal any money. If anything gets missing in the room when it should even had been money, everything will be intact. She doesn't take any money

When playing with this girl, I have the patience of a High-School teacher combined with a Yellow-Fever road Officer. I have turned out to really like this girl. And of recent, one thing led to each other and we had series of sex. This was because my girlfriend traveled for over 3 months.

I have never been so confused about the situation. She knows I like her and I have tried to reprimand her. Somehow she still get to smuggle out my girlfriend's shoes and shade and sometimes cap. Although she returned the shade, she came and smuggled garri and rice Out of our food stuff.


Shey this girl will not kill me like this ?

Virginnn:
When will Buhari resign?

Miratopaz:
Good evening NL
I want to just come out clean
I and my girlfriend have been together for a while August will make us two years we started dating during the lock down after which I went back to school in bayelsa our communication reduced a bit I wasn't cheating but was active in student unionism so I was always occupied last December we had issues coz she said I don't care about her I only care about my politics and that since I was not around she had gotten a console mate I was mad at her but after lots of talks we kept our cool January this year she broke up with me and started dating one boy like that we where still close talked as normal friends she came to me that we should get back together given that I still loved her we came back together now the problem is she have refused to break up with the other guy and I don't like sharing she insists she loves us both and can't choose among us who to be with the other boy is ignorant of this but personal am not ok with it

I don't know what to do coz I still love her like mad

bewov:
Please guys, I have something bothering me so much, I will really appreciate it if I can get a matured response.

These might be long, but please bare with me

There is this girl have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but because I was graduating and she has 1 more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I want to pause the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be back for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!

After working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some IT skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business.

My business have been doing well and I have about 2 other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, so I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want us to see urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her house, so she can return early.

We met at the hotel and I can see she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'm ready to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for about 2months, but I was very communicating with her, and when I got back around June, I discovered she had sex with another guy in May. Now, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I just pay her 30k! She is not a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a different girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it's not my problem anyway, because the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.

I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I do tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open up to me about it, but my girl kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't cheat on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk about it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, but she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you will be wondering why I give her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like nothing at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her money monthly just to stay strong.

So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I love her so much, so I decided to forgive her, but since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.

January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she can allow her daughter to come visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to marry her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her daughter is okay with me.

This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.

She has this mindset of "A woman should be equal to a man".

She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her not to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "It's either you clean the house and I will wash the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?

She did something that annoyed me this morning, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I eat early always, maybe 6am or 7am, I would have taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that time, I always do it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with tomato sauce, and she replied "Baby, please cook it yourself, you said I'm your queen, pamper me na" Really? What does that have to do with you cooking for your fiance?

Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't answer her!

Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not ready to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to propose her this year and do the marriage rights but with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will be hell for me.

When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this food or poison?" She never gave a good compliments about the meal, yet she finished the food and went for second round.

Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"

Also, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last night, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive it. Before I went to the kitchen to do it myself!

She only washed the plates, bath and went to church this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate last night. I'm sure of the message she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, you clean the house".

Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in November, but this behaviours are the things turning me off.

Will she changed and act normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She will never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you think she will change after we get married or she will continue?

Please guys, I'm very confused here

selfemployed:
Today I read on the front page of a guy who bumped into his parents making love. And the mom got angry and shouted at to get out.

I've been trying to understand it.

Why did the woman get angry when she's not committing a crime with her husband?

Why did the guy feel guilty when he didn't commit any crime

Why do porn actors not feel angry or embarrassed and angry like the woman.

I'm thinking that the human psychology has been messed up with a lot of traditions and beliefs that have no real value

WriterNig:
The Office Of The Prime Minister Of Poland has denied reports of Poland sending fighter jets to Ukraine or allowing it use its airports.






The Drive || NFP ||

Iamfedup:
To begin with I am 22 years old this year and this man has been dictating my life ever since I was born............. He is not worthy to be called a father, imagine this man sent me and my mum out of the house at 9pm in a very silent street just because "I didn't barb my hair" and said stated that until I barb it I will not enter his house................It is not as if he is giving me any money for anything, my mother literally does everything in the house from feeding down to buying ordinary battery for wall clock, he prefers to drink and fornicate with anything that wears skirt just to say the least........I am just fed up I don't have any control over my life and don't know what to do anymore.

brimdans:
Okay, here is the thing.
I was working with this woman in her organization. Shes high handed, toxic and domineering, but I was coping well with her, she insults me and talk down on me, all I say mostly is sorry Ma.

So this particular day, which was yesterday. There's this particular room in the lab which we were constructing, which she categorically told me not to open that room, because it contains equipment. And I don't handle the keys, but another person holds the keys.

Now water entered the room, from a faulty pipe, and did a little damage to one of the cabinets, and it touched some of the materials.

The woman, now began insulting me that it will be deducted from my salary, because it was my fault?

I asked how is it my fault Ma, you said that room shouldn't be opened by anybody. So I can't accept fault for what I didn't do. I'm sorry. She shouted and shouted to the point of almost slapping me, but God saved her she didn't. I kept my calm and told her sorry.

Again she asked for some remaining boards that were used in constructing some cabinets in the lab, I told her I don't know, but lemme check and ask the person who has custody to the keys. Another tirade began, she insulted the hell of out me. I remained calm, that it will be removed from my salary, and those things according to her is about one hundred thousand naira. I told her ma, I didn't take them, but lemme ask oga Patrick who is in charge of the lab, she refused, that I shouldn't l. That I must pay for all of these things. I kept my cool all through.

She now said I should remove her uniform and submit her company materials, actually some of the materials are at home, so I couldn't get them that night.

She texted and called me countless times to send the company materials, I then told her, I'll send them but I need my salary that I've worked for, for the last month. She now said, before she wanted to pay and forgive me, but that she's not paying me again.

It is Worthy to note that I came purposely to work for this woman from another state, I needed my salary to help me plan my life after my sack. Right now I'm confused, because I've no money, nor accommodation, I can't even travel back. Please nairalanders, I need your advice, legally and all.
Thank you for reading
PS, there might be errors, I didn't have time to edit. Currently in church.

WhizdomXX:
Russia to win, 2.10 odds.