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Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.

You are already starting your marriage on lies what do you think will follow.
You can't eat your cake and have it, that's greed.

dopedan:
Just saw my cgpa and I landed in 2.2 and my dad already told me not to bring bad result home I guess 2,2 is not so good and my dad is not someone that is understanding so how do i tell him?

Please tell him as you are telling us now.
To me grade depends on the situation you were during school period .

funkmrflexx:
I was dating this girl for a while actually wanted to marry her . She has some characters I couldn't live with. I gave her time to change but she didn't so I broke up with her.
So she started raining curses on Me telling me dat I'll suffer and beg for food. (this is a girl I trained in school)
Why are nigerian girls with this mentality that a relationship is a do or die

My brother lay your own curse too, no be only one person sabi ccurse

Leebellow96:
A bike thief met his Waterloo today ����. BOYS disfigure the werey face .. IBADAN

If we beat our politicians like this do you thing their would still be mis-rule

LiegeMan:
hello Nairalanders, sorry for the long write-up, it's LiegeMan again.
my name is Mr Omale liegeman and I'm from Kogi State, I thank you all for your kind advice on the other thread regarding my wife's past life and I can assure you all that I decided to put to use some of the advice from here ( yes, I read all the 590+ comments from A-Z) and it's yielding positive result as I've been experiencing happiness as never before in my life, though majority of Nairalanders who contributed in the previous post failed to understand my point of view because I was trying to make the post as snappy as possible. Thank you all once more.

Now, while I was planning ways to work things out with my wife with some of the advice that I gathered here, my Aunty who's married to an Igbo man from Imo state called me that her daughter, who's a student of Imo State University (Imsu) came home during weekend, Saturday precisely, locked herself up in a room and has been crying ever since without food nor water, and has refused to see nor talk to anyone.
I advice them to keep an eye on her so as to prevent her from attempting something stupid, she assured me that they broke into her apartment where she locked up Herself and brought her out.

So on Sunday, being 31 day of October, 2021, I left everything that I was doing in Makurdi and rushed to their village in Imo State, on getting there, I observed that both her hands and legs were tied and when I inquired why, she told me that it was an attempt to prevent her from escaping. I asked them to untie her, she was still crying when I asked her to go dress up that I'll be taking her out, she quickly went inside and dressed up we left the village for Orlu.

When we reached Orlu, we entered into a restaurant, and I started asking her what the problem was, I inquired if it was her boyfriend that broke her heart, she said no, I later succeeded in making her to tell me what the problem was because she's my closest ally.

when she opened up, she told me that she decided to do a little gbaje gbaje, ie do a little runs, she booked an appointment with a man and when she reached the said hotel, she and the Man started romancing and kissing and after awhile, the man started hissing uncontrollably, she inquired from the man what the problem was, he told her that what he wanted to take from her has been taken by someone else, in her confused state, she asked the man what he meant by that, the man looked her into her eyeballs and told her that she's empty, that what he intended taking from her has been taken by another person, he counted the said amount they bargain and handed it over to her and ordered her to get out of the hotel premises. I tried to console her by telling her that the man didn't mean what he said, that maybe his manhood disappointed him, he said those to cover his shame and I also advice her to be very careful because Xmas it at hand, immediately I told her those, she became relieved and stopped crying but I know right inside of me, that what the man said wasn't a joke at all.

when we got home, the news didn't go down well with her mother as tears started rolling down her cheek, she is planning a way to take her daughter to different prayer houses.

Now what exactly is this man talking about, what exactly did he take from her, is it her womb, destiny or what?
please house, any advice for this kid cousin of mine?
or way to find out what has been taken from her and get her liberated.

The .am needed a birhing which she is not and he got oissed off I guess.

qloreal:
Hey guys, I just found out that my girlfriend of a year plus has been sleeping with her pastor for the past 10 years and counting. He was the one who dis-flowered her.

We planned on getting married next year. This is a shocker of my life.

Funny thing is this same pastor is sleeping with at least 3 other church members she is aware of. She has also abort for him twice.

The pastor has a fiancé whom he is planning to marry very soon.


I won’t lie, I am deeply hurt
This lady appears to be very decent I could have sworn for her that she ain’t seeing someone else

You know all this and still want to marry her.
Change church and change girlfriend

tyup:
To the best of my knowledge and understanding, you helped Buhari attain that position and tore ur PDP card cuz of the hatred toward Jonathan. tbh the people that are not supposed to suffer under Buhari's regime are the igbos and we in the NE that voted Jonathan again.

Medicine after death , they were all involved .

Newsmic:
Nigerian rapper, Shina Adeleke popularly known as Sina Rambo on Friday, wedded his longtime girlfriend, IgbereTV reports.

The artiste, who is the first son of popular former senator, Ademola Adeleke and a cousin to Nigerian star singer, Davido, wedded his bride in a simple ceremony in Lagos, on Friday.

Sina took his Insta-stories to share videos from his wedding ceremony.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CVVbigKrxyH/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Na who old pass for the two of dem

Money at work .

tycoon3:
Good morning house, I started noticing something on my fore head like eczema I have used creams funbact A and likes still the same, I also used some drugs to flush the system maybe it was dirt in the blood still the same, then I visited the hospital and was told it's a fungi infection that I don't need drugs or injection for it, I was given a tube cream to rub on it morning and night I even bought another one after that got finished still the same, though the doctor said if it's still the same after rubbing the cream that I should visit a dermatologist, I visited a general hospital it was a full day with out result, please doctor in the house help. What do I need to do to get my normal skill back this is irritating.

Doctors in the house help. It's inching and scratching when there is heat

Look for alovera plant and use the liquid rub it in the affected area and let it remain for about 30 minutes before taking your bath morning and night .

Adeesther56:
A photo taken when I was still a virgin

Na borehole now?
Just joking

FreedomfromtheT:
You are wrong in both assumptions. First, they are not a doctrine that affects peoples' eternal wellbeing. They are church administrative mechanisms. Secondly, since I fully joined the church and even as a visitor, I never heard him tell anyone to throw away their televisions. Thirdly, he did not say that poverty is a way to heaven. Never. He only teaches against ill-gotten wealth that will damn the immortal soul at death or rapture in accordance with the Bible that says "What shall it profit a man if he should gain the whole world and lose his own sou?" There are lots of rich members and he teaches others to work hard and he for us to be legitimately rich, healthy and happy. Thanks.

Naturally everyone defends his own

Am not telling what I don't know neither am I telling you as someone that did not attend the church at all.
Time will continue to tell as it is telling now .

FreedomfromtheT:
Please what exactly were the members misled into doing?

First of all, he agreed that he would be changing the doctrines , that alone is is enough to tell you he misled th with the doctrines.
Telling them to sell off their Television sets saying that it is devilish, making them believe that poverty is a way to heaven.

CrystalSpark:
This question has always been on my mind and just now I’m reading, again, that Hauwa the daughter of President Buhari went to the UK to study Photography.

Not just her! There’s a noticeable trend even in Naija; a kid from a very wealthy home may go to a university to study music, or catering, or something that isn’t “popular and mainstream”.

The rest of us from not so rich homes will kill ourselves with mechanical, chemical, petro-chemical, electromagnetic engineering

cc: Fynestboi

My brother all they need is paper , they don't need the qualification to survive .

FreedomfromtheT:
He has not misled us. He is not talking about changing the Bible doctrines that the church stands on. He is talking about church traditions, procedures and administration that some might be mishandling. Thanks.

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My brother with all this you mentioned you where mislead. He is changing because he found out that they are not more biblical or what?
A lot of members where misled because of ignorance.
I know what am talking about am not just saying it.

After misleading them abi.
Do you now agree most of their doctrines are man made and self edification

Stanweezy:
My sister sent the attached picture below for me, according to her she said the chemist she went said its bkus of the water she bath with.

Please I need answers on what could be the cause of this boils.

Thank you

Tell her to use alovera, the plant alovera ooh.
she should apply the slimy part to her face thirty minutes to One hour before she takes her bath morning and evening.
She should wash her face with worm water before application.

Ahmback:
must u quote everything

My brother na me dey quote no be you na.

duro4chang:
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swimming with the manatees
three sisters springs manatees
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These creatures are very solitary and spend about half of their day sleeping submerged. When resting, they only come up for air about every 20 minutes. When active, they will surface for air every three to five minutes. A manatee’s single breath can replace up to 90 percent of the air in its lungs. By comparison, one breath will only replace about 10 percent of the air in a human’s lungs.

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There are fewer than 6,000 manatees in the world. In 2016, due to improvements in their population health, manatees were updated from “endangered” to “threatened.” Manatees are protected from being hunted or captured by U.S. law.

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Manatees communicate using clicks, chirps, squeaks, squeals, and screams that are audible to humans. Even though they are known as “sea cows,” they do not moo.

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A good write up , but it would have been better if you used pictures

aminulive:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM



https://politicsnigeria.com/just-in-why-i-dumped-pdp-for-apc-femi-fani-kayode-speaks-on-defection/

Mr MAN no call God hére na hunger so abeg keep quiet

OhMyGodWtf:
All those things dont mean shit, my girl uses them and shes loyal to the core .

My brother e go shoucl you, ask Tega husband

LOGICALKEN:
So I met this lady in 2019 through a mutual friend, after few weeks of getting to meet her we started dating. She is 29 and I’m 31. She’s based in Benin where she works and I am in Lagos.

The agreement was that after our wedding she will join me in Lagos which she agreed. Our relationship has been going on smoothly which made me do the introduction January this year and I’ve told her the wedding will be by January next year, which she knows I am making adequate preparation to that effect. I even had to get involved in a monthly contribution of 30k which is done in her workplace, I told her she should collect 2 slots so we can save enough for the wedding. She has never made any financial request that i did not grant.

Just two months ago she started acting all weird, I have asked her what the problem was and she would say nothing. She stopped picking my calls and told her parents I offended her, I called her to know what my offense was and she said I should forget. God knows I have never deliberately done anything to upset her. Just yesterday morning she called to tell me she is done with the relationship which left me so confused and devastated. I have already paid for cow and all the wines we will use for the wedding and now she has called it off.

Please nairalanders what could possibly be my offense? I have thoroughly searched my heart and I can’t seem to remember when I offended her.

My brother thank your God you might not understand the good thing that has happened to you now until later.
Move on my brother.

Smartdepotng:
It's really sad! This app has potential to be the Netflix of Africa but I am already afraid it won't. Main reason is - poor customer service. How can there be no single reply on Google play store of all the hundreds of reviews there? How is that even possible?

My brother why are you complaining you have shown you it can happen.

Kosiso12:
BREAKING!!! Nigeria To Start Production of Airplanes Before 2023 - FG



https://igberetvnews.com/1398869/breaking-nigeria-start-production-airplanes-2023-fg/

Common to manage flights Una never fit manage na production Una wan start.
After spending thousands of dollars for logo and nothing to write home about.

richidinho:
You are opportuned to visit HoS you didnt table the issue, but you brought it here

Is your head turning you?

I see you are using free mode that why you dey ask questions like untrained person.

sgtponzihater1:
He can't deny it. E no dey Naija. If he deny court waka fit enter, and twill be worse for the guy. The side babe is ready to take things easy cos she claim she is in love. She doesn't mind the guy coming to Naija to do small thing on her head and make her second wife, though that won't be recognised in their present country. Or if not she can be payed to take care of their children and be a mistress, as long as he keeps taking care of her the way he does

The guy dey Naija, if you rea you would see he put his phone numbe and address.

Babaflenjor:
Good morning house, I'm 42 years old, My wife and I have been living together for 7years now, we didn't have any child, which wasn't from my side cos we av undergo several tests from different hospital, I was trying my best to work things out and get out of the problem cos I love her so much, though we use to have issues, and we settle our differences within ourselves just few months ago I discovered that some of her loads were missing in the house particularly her clothes was drastically reduced, I asked her she told me she dashed them out to people cos she doesn't like them any more. Two weeks ago tragedy strucked me, I went to work all to come back to see she has parked all her loads and left , for over a week all effort to get her failed all her phone was off no way to know her whereabout, I feel very devastated and heartbroken I got sick and was admitted from Saturday till Monday. After a week her phone was on and I was able to call her i begged her and tried to let her know how much I love her, I was crying on phone like a baby and want her to come back all my efforts didn't change anything, presently my chest is seriously paining me with serious headache, I went to my doctor and he said the only solution is to take the whole thing off my head, but how can I do that, when staying lonely in the house. Family and friends can't stay with me forever they av all left for their works and their families. From her talking it show she is not coming back to me, my family have called her my friends call her even my boss at work called her but she wasn't ready to change her mind. Rite now I can't continue to live like this cos I'm depressed already. Pls I need a soul mate who can make me to forget this problem and move on. Pls anyone who is interested in this can contact me 08097852136. I live around at Ikola Command area ipaja Lagos thanks God bless

Brother I know it is not easy but for you to move on you have to take a drastic action.
First of all block everything about her from you, delete her number pictures chats and all memory from your life.
Relate more with reasonable neighbours .
The next step is to create a routine for your self, learn to hangout, if you are the religious type focus more on your religion truthfully .
Next stage look for a lady that loves you more than you do.

The lady has seen the weakness of the guy and is banking on that.
Tell the guy to deny it outright , heaven no go fall.

chatinent:
Alcohol should be banned in Nigeria.

Maaaaaaaad reply

It is with great dismay I write this message, I had an opportunity to visit the head of service today 16/08/21 and to my greatest surprise there was no working lift there.
I was going to the 10th Floor and inhad to climb all the way to the 10th floor. It was not funny while climbing .
My question is what are we portraying to the world that nothing seems to work properly in government establishments, I also imagine what pains and suffering the workers go through there daily.

Head of service to the federation kindly look into this.

deolurexy1:
I still don't understand why people do this

They are not doing it for anyone to understand but for the nostalgic feeling.

richeeyo:
When you look around the world
With the level of technology today
This complete Nonsense

Which one wey you don do? Do not condemn the young man.

egorov:
People have been lining up for his services.

He's starting another round next week, and another the week after.

No kill the dog ooh.
Harder harder don kill many people ooh.