Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

My brother let’s thank God and have a thanks giving service that she left at her own will.
Your problem is half solved, as per your child when it’s time pickin go find him papa.
Go to her people and tell them what transpired.
Be very blunt and tell th you are not taking her back.
The essence is for them not to insinuate that you used their daughter for anything . When Gm going go with some elders in your family.

Start a new life and make yourself happy.

That’s true , married men keep more platonic relationship that’s single guys.

Whiteball:
It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

Abeg finish the story what is the reason she gave ?

Report his details to EFCC (The details you paid the money to)

PUSSYHOE:
Every guy feels this exciting, joy and enthusiasm before sex but immediately after, it is the opposite of all the feelings before it.

I ain't concluding, it may not be so for other guys. Even so Can someone explain why some of us few like that? Even with the girls I love wholeheartedly I still feel like that with them. is it a biological, psychological or emotional problem? and what is the remedy?

My brother after you accomplish a mission there is Ning else.
That’s the feeling .

PrinceOfEast:
My girl has 3 close friends, but, they is this friend of her's (Chichi) this gal likes me and do give me green light any time she visits me.

Last week i fvck shege commot for her body but i don't like her pussy, eversince that sex this bitch still want another taste of my Dick.

I don't want her to expose our act to my gal...i love my gal and i don't wanna hurt her.

Should i Bleep her for the last time and pursue her?

She do send me noods but i delete them immediately.

Help a nigga to decide please.

How I go help you decide watin you don do?

chiddyok:

You didn’t answer any question you ran to insults. Don’t worry, there’s divorce so I won’t have to kill anyone.

When it comes to age am older than you are,
I am talking based on wisdom and experience am not a social media bully, troll or warrior.
Am married and if you are, am older than you in marriage.
He staying with the mother or the mother staying with him is not an issue.
If you had said he does not have a trade or does not earn an income that would have been different but staying with the mum not an issue at all.
You don’t know what they might have gone through together .
I rest my case.

luxx24:


U r nt crious

I am serious and mean it even if it’s the other way round .

luxx24:


U r nt crious

For saying the truths or what ?

Your sister never ready marry.
She should try and know the reason why the guy wants it that way and try to reach a compromise.
The guy has known his mother all his life and there might be a strong bond between both of them., she cannot just come and destroy it because he wants to marry her.
That your sister will chase the guys family from him.

Your sister has pride let her keep it to herself .

dammywapes:
You can watch it on super sport 3 or on startimes world football

Not showing on SS3 just like yesterday own Arsenal Vs Man City

IrepChrist:
And many times it is concealed and done in secrecy.... Is it Godly without the Pastor's approval.... I need sincere responses...

Secrets are better kept within than without .

Nemere2020:


https://www.independent.ng/ize-iyamu-acid-oshiomhole-must-have-mistaken-me-for-another-dean-sagay/


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G0wraFMeObM

Why did he not say this some years back when they where campaigning , ok it I was padi padi when it was APC against PDP

Slurity:
Hello Nairalanders, please I need your help concerning understanding the true deduction that was supposed to be deducted from my salary. I work with a private company in Lagos and I was happy when I received my letter of appointment over a month ago because it is more than double of my take home where I resigned from before joining the new company, But i was shocked when I receive alert of 30th last month noticing that a whopping 11.5% of the gross salary is deducted as tax and others that I will soon find out. Please I need your help to understand what is actually expected from a standard deductions before I face the HR and the accountant next week.

Ask for your payslip, it will explain a lot of things to you.
Get the Nigeria personal tax calculator out in the perimeters you will able to get the exact thing .

Openbusiness3:
What's the correct answer?

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Openbusiness3:
What's the correct answer?

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Obinoscopy:
Who can solve this? It's not as easy as you think.

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PS:

It's interesting how people are getting varying answers. I will post a summary of all the different answers posted by nairalander here:

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Ephemeralbeing:
Good morning, please I really do appreciate this platform and it's inspired me alot during this tough and trying period.

Please I need the advise and opinions of other members in that platform. Keep my name.

Okay so i've been depressed, battling with anxiety.

I got married at 26.

Before our marriage, things we going pretty fine and okay.

6 years later with two female kids. I secured this awesome paying job for my wife. But eversince then they go for conferences in other states representing her company which I'm aware of.

But after the third conference in Calabar. she's LOCKED her phone with a new password and times without number I've requested for it but she would say that there's nothing to check on her phone. (Meanwhile before this job, we knew each other password and are entitled boths phones)

Long story cut short, she now communicate with men and Stay up late texting and if I ask her who she's texting with she said her female colleagues at work.

Until last weekend when a whatsapp text came in on the notification from JOHN saying I miss you and I want to be with hold you again.

I inquired about who John was and holding her means, she said I shouldn't mind him.

Then I asked for her password she said don't you trust me.

Please I want to know does this matter cos I've been worried?

Why would she change her passwords?

Why can't i know who she's texting up late?
Do partners hide phone passwords from eachother after years of knowing one another password?

Am I just feeling insecure or something?

Please I need the opinions of other matured minds in the platform so I don't ACT WRONGLY PLEASE.

starting gettin a life for your self, you have lost her as long as she still keeps her schedule if the office

oluwadabira111:
Though they have been trying at least in Ibadan north east to be precise, we have light like 15-17 hours but since last week we have been in total darkness!

You people are suffering the light you enjoyed earlier .

rentAcock:
I currently have a chihuahua and she can kill any pitbull or German Sheppard that comes her way.

i dont know between you and bubu who lie pass.

sacajawea:
We met at Yaba and we connected very well on the very First day we met.
She is Black, A bit short and cool. She is Benue and Kogi mix. She lives at Egebda with her married elder sister and her name is Florence.
If you know her pls connect me or message me. Thanks

Where is her pishure?

MajesticKris:
Na Normal thing....

cus I've slept with over 2000 women , just to survive...

‘Tis your survival Na series ooh !

babakb:


The Niigga is broke now.

my brother no be your level of brokerage him dey.

Davash222:
Marriage never start you don dey get Christan Mothers arm.

My brother you Dey see future ?

JOBgame:
I thank god self i don de love this girl like say i go die,but she no de see am she come de tell me say if i no buy her iphone6 she go start bluefilm,i love her but i no concern me if she like may she go de act yellow film

My brother retell her I will pay for the clip.

BranddesignerH:
Are they not supposed to talk about resumption first before feeding Program? Or is there something they are not telling us?

Abeg joor I will Design a Professional Logo for your Product or Services for 2500 Only. Please see my signature.

Must they tell you everything , the one they told you is enough.
Na money dem wan chop.

You did not mention me.

kingxsamz:
There's no difference between him and other pastors we know... It's just that Odumeje's scam method is more obvious.

To you abi, is it because he is using a different format .

imustmakeit:
He's a comedian obviously. What I don't understand is how a normal person will bath on a Sunday morning and attend church in such an atmosphere, except for those that want to get entertained

You said he is a comedian, so people actually bath to see his comedy on Sunday morning .

Ancientbeing:
Good day Nairalanders, am sorry for any disturbances i may be giving individuals on this forum but this my baggage have pass containment in my room so aff decided to pour part of it here .
I am able to share this issue here, (thanks to Seun for creating a faceless forum) due to my anonimity.
For somewhile now (abt 3yrs) i have been staying @ my elder brother's place. Sometime last yr, he informed me that he's fiancee was to spend sometime in his place, i was cool with it.
As a junior bro to him, i took it upon myself to do majority of the petty house hold chores which i dont see as anything but since his fiancee landed in the house, hell let loose!
I don't know if she does it on purpose, whatever i arrange , within minutes, its misplaced.
I still do all the cooking in my bro's place not minding that she's a girl but after cooking and cleaning up, she enters the kitchen and sprays heavy amounts of water all over(talk more of if she should cook).
Her room is a dump of clothes, she wears rumpled clothes to go out.
I'm tired of her.
So presently, i am confused .should i leave my bro's house or should i advice my bro against marrying her.
I have endured several annoying personalities in the past but a kind like hers , i have never seen. Help!!!

Pray you have your own accommodation, tell your brother what you notice and let him bear his cross.