Sonofgod1990: Could you imagine I placed a bet about 12 games and it happened that one of the game was cancelled due to some technical issue. The 12 games was #130,000. And it happened that the remaining 11 games letter entered and bet9ja people are giving me 86k. Not even up to 100k. I'm upset walahi. What nonsense
You wey won take 100 naira win one million na watin you be ?
Afodot0022: Top of the day to my nairalanders fam. Majority of people here have idea about my story and if you don't, you can go through my previous post to get a glimpse.
This month made it one year and seven months have been Separated and living apart from my ex wife due to infidelity and cheating from my ex wife part. Since then, my two daughter aged 8 and 7 had been living with her and I do take responsibility of them until this January 2024 when my wife took my kids to her father and step mom place because there was this course she was order to go for 6months officially outside lagos state. I was so angry because she never seek my permission or approval before taking them there and because of this, I stop sending money or paying their fees till now. I saw it as a act of disrespect if I the father can't be informed of where my kids are been taking to for a long period of time. She already took them there before informing me.
She was supposed to finish her course outside the state by June and since then, she never called me to inform me she is back until yesterday when I put a call to her and she told me she got back since June. I asked about the kids and to my shock, she told me the kids are still there with her father and step mom. How can you leave the kids at your parents place while the father and mother are available, I got so upset and the discussion resulted to insult and curse on phone. She told me she had a serious issue at work and she couldn't combine the kids stress to what she is going through presently. To be honest, I was even thinking to reconcile with her cos of the kids despite she cheated but the way she behave and talks on phone shows she is not remorse or even care if the family is back together or ready for any reconciliation despite the fact she was at fault. Now my kids are my focus but I don't know how to go about this.
The information I got from her dad was that he will not release the kids to either me or her on less the money he had spent on them is refunded back to him. This is already looking like a kidnap and abduction case which I told her that if she doesn't pick those kids before weekend, I will file a case of child kidnap and abduction against her and her father. Pls I need advice on how to go about this and those that have first class experience with such should assist with advice. Thank you all
My brother go see the kids where they are and explain what is happening to them
If possible have it properly documented and filmed.
Some decisions are hard to take but you have to take them.
1) Stop communicating with her if you continue she will always use it against you.
2) Just as you said that you have stopped sending money please never do again until the kids are with you ( In doing this you should make sure that you can take care of the kids if they come stay with you).
3) When you go to see your father talk senses into his head of he refuses to listen tell him to his face that his male children will suffer thesame thing in his life time .
4) Live your life as much as you can and focus on how to make more money as much as you can.
5) In respect of the funds don't give your father in-law shi-Shin at all if you do the trend will continue, if he cannot spend on his grand children let him go and die . You are not supposed to look weak in their presence. Tell him if he needs his money he should collect it from the daughter The man is busy asking for refund but does not want to know how the issue on ground will be settled
6) Filling a case win court will be the last result, but that will not come cheap.
7) in in all pray for guidance and guardiance from the almighty .
Richtaiwo: 2023 presidential election truly reflects the will of Nigerians. Tinubu is the most preferred and Atiku was next. Peter Obi was never the will of Nigerians but that of ipobs. So far, the post-election conduct of the 3 candidates is not disappointing. Atiku is cool and very calm. Personally, I'm beginning to like him. That angulu criminal will never be president.
People like you that cannot be a class monitor will be here discrediting someone
ScotHarvath: I have been noticing this things for the past couple of months. She even said recently in a fight that I disgust her and she hated me, I wanted to call for a separation after hearing such strong words but she pleaded and I acquiesced.
We have two kids.
Yesterday which was Father’s Day, she woke up at 10 o clock, before she did, I had slept the house and prepared breakfast because I felt she needed to rest.
I went out to with my friends around 6pm and came back around 10pm and asked her to help make toast for dinner and she boldly told me to go the kitchen and make it myself.
I really blame myself for this situation now, I made myself to accessible to all. I barely keep friends. So I made her my best friend, tell her everything about my finances and all. I treat her as an equal.
Is it wrong to treat a Nigerian woman well this days?
Everybody is advising me to get a side chick but I’m not that kind of man, I’m not sneaky or crafty enough to maintain two relationships.
I have been told to stop spending time with her at home but I’m an introvert, I don’t like frolicking with other people unless it’s absolutely necessary and besides I work from home.
I have also been advised to treat her like a stranger in her house and not talk to her for days but once again I don’t want that kind of life. I feel truly trapped.
You have been advised on what to do and you don't want to do any. E be like say you don't listen to advice.
One thing you should know is that you are losing your respect gradually and soon the bubble will burst, hope you are prepared for that
If I were you, I will ghost her, communication will only be done only when necessary and it concerns the kids.
Learn to hang out more and make it a point of duty not to come back early.
She should stop cooking for you and learn to eat out and make your food yourself if you have to eat at home.
Starts ABI g up for your old age and don't think she will be part of it.
If you have the finances have a side chick but you should be declined with her because they are all gold diggers.
Last of all check the kind of person her mother is closely if you have not.
Wakatumbit: My wife gave birth and her mom has been staying with us for the past 3 months, we have dedicated our baby already and my wife has even learnt to bath the baby and do things by herself when it comes to the baby.
I don't have an issue with the mom staying with us but ever since she came my wife's siblings has been coming to the house, her elder brother and sister and sometimes they stay up to a week.
With the two of them that makes us five in the house and feeding five people in this economy is not easy. I just looked at my bank statement this evening and in the last 2 weeks I've spent over 250k on expenses, from feeding to fuel, to baby food. If it's just me and my wife we won't be spending that much.
I'm thinking of telling my wife to tell her brother and sister to go leaving only they mom and they shouldn't be coming at all, they can visit but they shouldn't stay.
My family doesn't come around a lot and when they do visit, they don't even stay the night.
But I don't want to make it look like I'm a bad person, so how do I chase them away codedly
The earlier you become the bad person the better for you, but do with with wisdom
Frontlindigital: Ileya celebration is one Nigerians and Muslims at large always looking forward to. The Yorubas from Nigeria refer to this festival as “Ileya” in their local language.
Eid-el-Adha begins on the 10th day of Dhul-Hijjah, the last month of the Islamic calendar. The festival lasts for three days and occurs at the conclusion of the annual Hajj, or pilgrimage to Mecca.
Muslims all over the world celebrate Eid al-Adha, not simply those undertaking the hajj, which for most Muslims is a once-in-a-lifetime occurrence.
The significance of the Eid-el-Adha festival is to commemorate Prophet Abraham’s willingness to obey God when he was asked to sacrifice his only son.
To honour this great act of sacrifice, Muslims observe this day by slaughtering an animal (usually a sheep) and then offering much of its meat in charity to poor people.
The sacrifice symbolizes obedience to Allah, and its distribution to others is an expression of generosity, one of the five pillars of Islam.
Over the years, rams, goats, and sheep have always been in high demand in markets during the Ileya season for households and Islam faithfuls for charity.
Ileya As Usual? However, the Ileya celebration this year may not be business as usual as Nigeria’s economic woes are casting a shadow on the upcoming Eid al-Adha celebrations.
High inflation, weak currency, and rising living costs are making it tough for people to afford the animals traditionally sacrificed during this important Islamic holiday.
In addition, this economic strain affects not only purchasing power but also charitable activities associated with Eid al-Adha.
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Indomixx: Hello guys I have some kind of problem. I have a girlfriend that claims to love me so much, but I have always noticed something.
She seems not to want to let people know she's dating. She claims "single" on her what'sapp status Everytime. There was a time she posted me on her status, she used my name as against the normal "babe" she calls me. There's just this odd behavior she puts up Everytime and I really do not know why. In public, she doesn't even want any form of physical contact or touch and I dunno what the issue is. Is it that I'm overreacting or?
My brother go patent am so the world go know. As you dey like this , na free to air w be.
VersatileVee: It took me alot of courage to open about this online after so many years. Please help me find a solution.
I wish there is any permanent solution to this skin infection. I've been suffering from this for more than 7years. It's itchy and worsens Whenever I sweat, especially after doing some work under the sun, the infection becomes swollen a bit and I feel pains all over my body because the salt inside the sweat touches the infection. It is very painful like when someone adds salt to a fresh injury!
I recently did a skin endoscopy test and have taken the medication prescribed by the doctor twice but all to no avail. In the past I took so many drugs and rubbed so many antibacterial cream including funbact A but the infection persisted, right now I am feeling heat and can't sleep because of the itch. I wish I can express my pain in voice, I can't even go shirtless in public or do any activity that will result to me sweating, some days I bath four times to avoid it getting worse. I wash my clothes every day and don't wear any one twice before wash but all this has resulted to it getting more worse. I wonder the final solution, please help out!!! I am tired.
I pray God blesses you as you help me out.
My brother try alo vera it works wonders . Use the slimy liquid from the alo vera and rub it on the affected areas leave it for about and hour morning and night before you take your bath. Thank me later.
GeneralKoko: Although I have always been suspicious but I didn't have evidence on my hand because she cleaned and cleared all evidence sha.
But I later got the confirmation I needed about my girlfriend cheating. The thing is she's saying she's been distancing herself from the person. When I caught her,she crode and begged and but I refused. Although I have told her that I forgive her and want to give her another chance.
Can a girl that cheated once change?
bros advice let her go, if she sabi do keep am for that wgile you begin your search for a new one. Dem no dey learn left hand for old age.
Hmm that's funny, if you follow the market trend of tomatoes it goes high this period, Moreover every Nigerian wan hammer the economic situation is not funny.
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Wizzy13: my girlfriend have been telling me how men gives her money and gift and want me to accept it is normal. Someone i have been spending my money on.
My brother what it means is either you are not giving her enough or she be long throat.
My people say commot monkey hand for pot because e resemble human being own.
All the gift she is collecting from other men na greek gift, she willa Nd might have been paying back in kind.
PrayWills: Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.
I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.
As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?
PS: she was raised by a single mom
First of all are the two kids yours, if yes let her go with the kids but be monitoring them. A Lise woman is a lawyer a lose woman. She was not properly brought up she must have grown up seeing and hearing all sorts of lies about independence from her mum and she feels she can be independent by being unfaithful.
My brother thank God for revealing and helping you out in time.
Valoromega: I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave. she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.
She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.
I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues
My brother it is too early for you to be going through this. If what you are saying is truth any time she packs her bag that she is going, give her transport fare and tell her never to come back.
She is young make she enter street, she go know say the street are not smiling.
EreluRoz: I will never understand how this rape thing works because how can a man be having erection inside violence?
How will the penis gain erection during struggle and force needed to carry out rape.
Lastly I don't think I can be raped kos there'll never be that moment I'll open my legs, I will just be shouting, fighting, biting, rolling and turning everywhere so how will he now enter?
Hmm pray it does not get to you, it is very terrible experience no one should have. no matter how strong you are, when you are out numbered and over powered, the story is never the same again.
If they are serious why not go to the local markets to enforce prices. They can increase prices but people doing genuine business cannot. Policies affect a lot of things in an economy. The policies they make should be human friendly and not too Draconian.
DarkCaesar: I want to be as brief as I can with this, so there would be enough contributions on what’s bothering me. My Father in law wants me have my marriage ceremony in his compound but I prefer a hall or an event center. The road to his compound is not very good which would deter a lot of people from coming to grace the occasion. It’s their right to choose the venue according to tradition but I just feel an event center would really have been more gracious than an open settings in his compound, I just felt like he’s trying to show off his new Mansion to the world as he’s a big man in his town and he told me that has been his tradition with his previous daughter. I’m really confused because this development would not allow a lot of the invitees to be there as it’s a bit far from my state and the road is really bad. What can I do about this?
Brother sincerely the man is right, even if his house is in a pit, anyone that want to honour your invitation will grace it there.
You might not understand now until it gets to your turn to give your daughter our in marriage
It is always a thing of honour for a daughters wedding to be done in the father's house.
Please kindly oblige the man and tell your guest about the venue.
I just violated one of my biggest rules in life and I have been sober ever since.
I got into Abuja on an official assignment, A bit bored, I asked my ex to come over just to have a harmless talk. The first day she came to the officer with her daughter and it was purely just reminiscing and having a harmless laugh. We had lunch and she left.
Two days later, I invited her to my hotel and she came and the unimaginable happened.
I have been filled with guilt, my head is so full with regrets. Another man's wife.
I need help to get over this, who can I talk to please. It appears I am depressed. Can someone please make me feel better. Please!
My guy you are.not depressed you are just a bad person,why do you have to invite her to your hotel room at first, you wanted to try you luck and as usual she being an unfaithful and greedy woman fell for it.
[quote author=beejay18 post=128961595][/quote]Things have changed and a lot of things have evolved. How will you feel when teachers send you kids to their farm to farm for them, after all according to you they do it befores.
NairaOcean: In the midst of an intense heatwave, a group of apprentices at a local sewing workshop have found themselves a task to keep their madam cool. She has instructed her apprentices to take up the unconventional task of fanning her with hand fans while she sews.
Does the seamstress have the right to order her apprentices to fan her in the workshop?
Ade49: There’s a certain man(Alfa) in our street that keep convincing me that Teacher or farmer is the only work that I can succeed in in my life. I’m really tired of the matter and it’s draining me mentally day by day.
Imagine graduating from university in this hard economy and chose to become a teacher, just imagine, and also I don’t even like any work among those two I swear. I keep wondering how can God give you what you don’t like.
Please do you also believe in this statement? I really need your advice…. Thanks in advance
Further your education and become a lecturer. He might not be wrong.
ObamaMessi: Recently I'm drawn to one of my mom's friend. The woman is fair in complexion, chubby, get back and front. Her name is Titi and we have engaged in a serious romance several times and have ridden her twice this year. She's a widow with two kids... with the first being older than me. I want to stop because it's causing problem between my mom and I. How do I do?
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