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Health / Re: Doctors In The House, Help [picture] by sexy74(m): 10:38am On Feb 19, 2022
Bergavis:
Wetin be this in my organooo? I used Benzyl Benzoate but didn't work for me. Mycoten cream worked but back again. At first, one corper doctor game me augmenting injections vanished but resurfaced.
Has anyone ever experienced this before?
Use alovera on it.
Rub the slimy liquid of the alovera on it, morning and night .
Romance / Re: Why She Blocked Me On Facebook (pic) by sexy74(m): 12:23pm On Feb 16, 2022
eyescue:
A short story of how she blocked me on facebook because I said no to her request to send her money for body cream. This happened if 15th February 2022, just after she asked I send her money for body cream and I gave her a BLOCK LETTERED "NO". And honesty I haven't seen this girl in person for the first time. Some girls really have lost it!
which kind name be Ify Maryam.
A man chatting as a woman.
Romance / Re: My Wife BBF Is Changing My Life For Better Recently... I'm Starting To Love Her by sexy74(m): 8:08pm On Feb 08, 2022
Joko5560:
Hi Nairalander, before anyone start raining curse or abuse me please try to hear my story and give honest opinion please. I got married some years ago because I'm madly in love with my wife as people do says no one is perfect. I have my own imperfections so is my wife but she is the hot temper type and she does get physical ( assault me even before wedding ) and I was hoping that would change after wedding at some point after wedding she was not conceiving and she started blackmailing me emotionally calling me impotent and other names she even told me about her previous pregnancy just to make things clear that I'm the one having issue.... fortunately nothing was wrong with me. I went for semen analysis she said I con the doctor for giving me a good results...later few weeks she got pregnant and we have our first son and I have been there for her every moment. I prioritize her over everything I established her got her what ever she desires... But she started making my life hell my denying me sex she will be giving different types of excuse just to avoid sex. She always complain about stress from a company she owns while she wasn't even the one cooking at home our maid cook and do majority of the house chores.. she started showing less affection towards me everything is now on her business...then I started seeing girls outside the marriage but it was only temporary fix for me because getting back home and not getting the love I'm giving her back it's hurting and I have no plans on getting another wife. If we had a fight she will be threatening me with moving out of the house or divorcing because she knows I really don't want that because of my son...I endure different types of emotional damage from her and physical assault from her threatening to kill me or herself whenever she is angry...her friend come in to the matter when she started visiting us and will be calming her and advising her to stop all her behaviour then she advised me to speak with her and find out if I did something to her that's making her behave that way towards me.. I did she didn't give me any reasonable reasons for her behaviour that she is stressed from works then as days goes by me and her friend start this friendship which makes everything hurt less for me... We talks about eachother pains then I discovered we even have a lot in common than I realized.... literally we are going through similar dilemma both been unloved by those we choose to love but she already ended her relationship with her partner... certainly most people will think I'm lusting for her but to me she is bringing me joy and happiness by just talking with her alone and I never even though about seeing her naked because she is someone I respected a lot.. we never shakes hands before or hug but whenever she is around I found peace and worry less about every other thing... Since we start talking I stop seeing other girls and she even advice me on been better husband to her friend which I did I started sleeping back in her room still trying to be more romantic and available to her... But to be honest I falling in love with her as days goes by and I have also been emotional and financial supportive of her...but we are still friends as things stand as a matter of fact we are good friends.... and my wife sees me as a possession she owned she can't bare to see me with another person yet she didn't mends her behaviour towards me even people who are close to us are calling her the husband of the house because I'm the type of man that doesn't put anything over my marriage.. family members doesn't like her due to her behaviours... Some already insulted me because of her. In short I have been dealing with all her shenanigans...now I'm getting love from unexpected place but I can't go for it because it's will be like double betrayal to her if anything happens between me and her friend...I love my son and doesn't want to lose custody of him. I love my wife but she is making my life hell and the person making everything better is her bff....now my life is a living hell... I don't know what to do please advise me
If Iay ask you sure say the pickin na your own , this e she dey threaten you.
Family / Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by sexy74(m): 7:54pm On Feb 08, 2022
Babsojimjim:
Dear all, permit me to use this medium to seek for mature and experienced advise...

When a wife out of her own wish without any current justifiable reason seperates from her husband for almost two months and has now decided to return back with the kid out of her own wish without any pressure, should the man accept her back?

Also should there be conditions attached before the man can accept her back? Mature and experienced input is highly appreciated.

Thanks all.
Hmm my brother your questions are deep but answers has to be giving .

In my own opinion for her to leave she should stay where ever she went to as long as it's not your fault for her to be back should be in your terms and conditions.
She is trying how resolute you are if you accept her back without any penalty and stringent conditions she would do it again and again .

Sincerely start your life afresh
Romance / Re: Why Do Southern Guys Dislike Northern Ladies? by sexy74(m): 6:41pm On Jan 23, 2022
HilcomTech:


You are just an ndi mkporu miri cannibal filled with hate and bitterness.

I know you are lying because I was born in the north and had my education from primary school to masters in the north. I speak Hausa fluently and have mingled with them since I was born.
You don't condemn someones words of you don't know we're he is coming from.
Kindly do your research on this, atleast he gave you a lead, follow and get an informed opinion.
Religion / Re: Kumuyi And The Wind Of Change by sexy74(m): 6:25pm On Jan 23, 2022
This kumuyis issue should be a case study.
Sincerely I would ask one question does truth change?
I was a member for years and I hasld issues with doctrines of the church.
My dad has to sell his television because it was seen as evil. You can't be a leader in the church if you had one, I wished my dad was alive now I would have made him read this thing now because it was an issue with him and I ( May God rest his soul).

Just like one person sadi in another thread l, he is re-strategizing not to be left behind.
I ask another question what of those that were mislead with the doctrine how do you correct that?

Until people realise that God poured His spirit on all men and no one should hold you bounded the better it will be.

His members seems to be getting wiser and he does not want to lose them so he has to adapt if not o come would reduce and it would be a problem naturally.
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by sexy74(m): 6:06pm On Jan 23, 2022
Efe42:



No she' doesn't do such else where...
brother talk watin you know you are not there always.
Pets / Re: Please I Need Your Help Am Begging by sexy74(m): 11:17am On Jan 16, 2022
I will advice you don't give it so much food at once , feed it a little always but often.
Another thing is that when dogs change environment adapting is sometime an issue.
Loneliness can make a do lose appetite.
Try to bind with it more and know how it wants to be fed.
Some dogs don't like dried food while some do.
I some dogs you have to as water to the dry food and also in some dogs the prefer home made foods.
You have to study your dog to know what it actually like been fed with.

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Family / Re: How Do I Prepare My Kids For School Resumption? by sexy74(m): 9:34am On Jan 07, 2022
AMumAndMore:
✍� And here we go again!


Wasn't it just yesterday that we were basking in the euphoria of Christmas and The New year?��


And just with the snap of the fingers, here we are, looking school resumption square in the face�‍♀️�‍♀️�‍♀️ Chaiiiii. Adulting is a #scam ohhhh ���
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So one of the many complex things to do as a parent is to prepare the kids for school resumption, especially when you've got 5 of them�� and in different grades too.


The task is daunting!�‍♀️

However, you can catch the hang of it as I did☺️☺️

Is that even possible? You may want to ask



Well yes! �

Take it from this mum of 5�� who wants life to be easy for you as you #Level up
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Oya, look this up������let it not feel like Viv wants to whine to you��


https://amumandmore.com/prepare-kids-for-school-resumption/


I hope this helps you, mamma, as much as it has helped me, as the new school session commences. ��

Have you checked this out? Do you have anything to add?

Let's know in the comment section!

Love, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest.

Stay Fabulous�

©️Viv
Pay school fees first na there preparation dey start from.
Family / Re: This Is The Worst Christmas Of My Life by sexy74(m): 9:00am On Dec 26, 2021
dedons:
I was born into an average family with my parents always doing their best to make us happy during Christmas celebration very year.

Unfortunately, I ventured into business this year but lost everything due to the evil employees I had. They intentionally wrecked the business and disappeared. I've been weeping since October till date and left with nothing.

I woke up this morning but couldn't say a word of prayers, instead I found myself weeping again. I do hope on God for divine provision and restoration.

It is well.
It is only he that is afraid to rise again that does not succeed, lessons are learnt for growth to be achievable.
My sincere advice for you is to do a critical revaluation of everything that transpired this period, know your mistakes, strengths and weaknesses. Also know the opportunities you did not take.
You shall succeed you just have to start anew.
Best wishes
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Thinks There's Nothing Wrong With Her Sleeping Over At Guy's Place by sexy74(m): 2:42pm On Dec 25, 2021
Souzin:
Please help me out.

I have an issue in my relationship and it's getting me really pissed.

So let me say this, I have only dated two persons, one sometime in 2016 and this new relationship that's been at it for 2 years.

My girlfriend seem to think it's cool for her to hangout with guys that are toasting or want to sleep with her.

These are the same ppl she calls friends, not ppl she has known for long oh but ppl she just met and want to sleep with her.

NOTE: my gf has really big ass, big enough it causes stares when we go out.

So you can imagine the number of advances she gets.

I really want to know from people, guys, do you allow your girlfriend hang out with such ppl?

Ladies, you do entertain such invites? why?
Haha na our girlfriend no be your own, my brother let her go and look for another
Education / Re: I Finally Graduated After 9years. by sexy74(m): 7:33pm On Dec 02, 2021
Congrats the most important thing is finishing which you have done

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Family / Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by sexy74(m): 5:56pm On Nov 23, 2021
sexy74:
how do you call a wife to order that insults and threathens you because you refuse to pick the brother that came to abuja without your consent?
Sincerely the young man gave room for all this and he should close the door to them all including his wife.
They want to reap where they never sowed.
If it where them will they tolarate it?

Career / Re: Is ICAN Exam Still Worth It In This 2021 by sexy74(m): 4:51pm On Nov 19, 2021
Kolawole2130:
Hello, pls i need candid advice. I currently work in a church as an accountant for some years now. I have tried applying for jobs outside all to no avail especially when you dont have connections. I studied accounting and graduated year 2012. Now am thinking of writing the ICAN exams but am not sure if its still worth it with this present economy and i dont want to waste money. I need candid advice thanks
The ICAN in you gives you and edge. Your ICAN value increases with years of experience .
No matter the years you have and you are not chartrerd that's an issue .
Family / Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by sexy74(m): 6:33pm On Nov 12, 2021
Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.
You are already starting your marriage on lies what do you think will follow.
You can't eat your cake and have it, that's greed.
Education / Re: How Do I Tell My Dad I Got 2.2? by sexy74(m): 11:19am On Nov 12, 2021
dopedan:
Just saw my cgpa and I landed in 2.2 and my dad already told me not to bring bad result home I guess 2,2 is not so good and my dad is not someone that is understanding so how do i tell him?
Please tell him as you are telling us now.
To me grade depends on the situation you were during school period .

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Romance / Re: She Started Laying Curses On Me Because I Broke Up With Her by sexy74(m): 9:05am On Nov 09, 2021
funkmrflexx:
I was dating this girl for a while actually wanted to marry her . She has some characters I couldn't live with. I gave her time to change but she didn't so I broke up with her.
So she started raining curses on Me telling me dat I'll suffer and beg for food. (this is a girl I trained in school)
Why are nigerian girls with this mentality that a relationship is a do or die
My brother lay your own curse too, no be only one person sabi ccurse
Crime / Re: Suspected Bike Thief Caught In My Area In Ibadan Beaten To Pulp (Pictures) by sexy74(m): 9:01am On Nov 09, 2021
Leebellow96:
A bike thief met his Waterloo today ����. BOYS disfigure the werey face .. IBADAN
If we beat our politicians like this do you thing their would still be mis-rule
Family / Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by sexy74(m): 4:34pm On Nov 03, 2021
LiegeMan:
hello Nairalanders, sorry for the long write-up, it's LiegeMan again.
my name is Mr Omale liegeman and I'm from Kogi State, I thank you all for your kind advice on the other thread regarding my wife's past life and I can assure you all that I decided to put to use some of the advice from here ( yes, I read all the 590+ comments from A-Z) and it's yielding positive result as I've been experiencing happiness as never before in my life, though majority of Nairalanders who contributed in the previous post failed to understand my point of view because I was trying to make the post as snappy as possible. Thank you all once more.

Now, while I was planning ways to work things out with my wife with some of the advice that I gathered here, my Aunty who's married to an Igbo man from Imo state called me that her daughter, who's a student of Imo State University (Imsu) came home during weekend, Saturday precisely, locked herself up in a room and has been crying ever since without food nor water, and has refused to see nor talk to anyone.
I advice them to keep an eye on her so as to prevent her from attempting something stupid, she assured me that they broke into her apartment where she locked up Herself and brought her out.

So on Sunday, being 31 day of October, 2021, I left everything that I was doing in Makurdi and rushed to their village in Imo State, on getting there, I observed that both her hands and legs were tied and when I inquired why, she told me that it was an attempt to prevent her from escaping. I asked them to untie her, she was still crying when I asked her to go dress up that I'll be taking her out, she quickly went inside and dressed up we left the village for Orlu.

When we reached Orlu, we entered into a restaurant, and I started asking her what the problem was, I inquired if it was her boyfriend that broke her heart, she said no, I later succeeded in making her to tell me what the problem was because she's my closest ally.

when she opened up, she told me that she decided to do a little gbaje gbaje, ie do a little runs, she booked an appointment with a man and when she reached the said hotel, she and the Man started romancing and kissing and after awhile, the man started hissing uncontrollably, she inquired from the man what the problem was, he told her that what he wanted to take from her has been taken by someone else, in her confused state, she asked the man what he meant by that, the man looked her into her eyeballs and told her that she's empty, that what he intended taking from her has been taken by another person, he counted the said amount they bargain and handed it over to her and ordered her to get out of the hotel premises. I tried to console her by telling her that the man didn't mean what he said, that maybe his manhood disappointed him, he said those to cover his shame and I also advice her to be very careful because Xmas it at hand, immediately I told her those, she became relieved and stopped crying but I know right inside of me, that what the man said wasn't a joke at all.

when we got home, the news didn't go down well with her mother as tears started rolling down her cheek, she is planning a way to take her daughter to different prayer houses.

Now what exactly is this man talking about, what exactly did he take from her, is it her womb, destiny or what?
please house, any advice for this kid cousin of mine?
or way to find out what has been taken from her and get her liberated.
The .am needed a birhing which she is not and he got oissed off I guess.
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Has Been Sleeping With Her Pastor by sexy74(m): 4:48pm On Oct 30, 2021
qloreal:
Hey guys, I just found out that my girlfriend of a year plus has been sleeping with her pastor for the past 10 years and counting. He was the one who dis-flowered her.

We planned on getting married next year. This is a shocker of my life.

Funny thing is this same pastor is sleeping with at least 3 other church members she is aware of. She has also abort for him twice.

The pastor has a fiancé whom he is planning to marry very soon.


I won’t lie, I am deeply hurt
This lady appears to be very decent I could have sworn for her that she ain’t seeing someone else
You know all this and still want to marry her.
Change church and change girlfriend
Politics / Re: Buhari's Day Of Reckoning Has Come Because He Failed To Listen To Nigerians– OBJ by sexy74(m): 4:44pm On Oct 30, 2021
tyup:
To the best of my knowledge and understanding, you helped Buhari attain that position and tore ur PDP card cuz of the hatred toward Jonathan. tbh the people that are not supposed to suffer under Buhari's regime are the igbos and we in the NE that voted Jonathan again.
Medicine after death , they were all involved .
Celebrities / Re: Sina Rambo Adeleke Weds In Court (Photos) by sexy74(m): 4:35pm On Oct 23, 2021
Newsmic:
Nigerian rapper, Shina Adeleke popularly known as Sina Rambo on Friday, wedded his longtime girlfriend, IgbereTV reports.

The artiste, who is the first son of popular former senator, Ademola Adeleke and a cousin to Nigerian star singer, Davido, wedded his bride in a simple ceremony in Lagos, on Friday.

Sina took his Insta-stories to share videos from his wedding ceremony.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CVVbigKrxyH/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
Na who old pass for the two of dem

Money at work .
Health / Re: Help!! Fungi Is Spoiling My Face And Neck by sexy74(m): 4:15pm On Oct 17, 2021
tycoon3:
Good morning house, I started noticing something on my fore head like eczema I have used creams funbact A and likes still the same, I also used some drugs to flush the system maybe it was dirt in the blood still the same, then I visited the hospital and was told it's a fungi infection that I don't need drugs or injection for it, I was given a tube cream to rub on it morning and night I even bought another one after that got finished still the same, though the doctor said if it's still the same after rubbing the cream that I should visit a dermatologist, I visited a general hospital it was a full day with out result, please doctor in the house help. What do I need to do to get my normal skill back this is irritating.

Doctors in the house help. It's inching and scratching when there is heat
Look for alovera plant and use the liquid rub it in the affected area and let it remain for about 30 minutes before taking your bath morning and night .
Romance / Re: A Photo Taken When I Was Still A Virgin by sexy74(m): 8:00pm On Oct 01, 2021
Adeesther56:
A photo taken when I was still a virgin
Na borehole now?
Just joking
Religion / Re: Before I Go I Will Make Sure I Correct Some Doctrines Of Deeper Life- Pastor Kum by sexy74(m): 6:03pm On Sep 25, 2021
FreedomfromtheT:
You are wrong in both assumptions. First, they are not a doctrine that affects peoples' eternal wellbeing. They are church administrative mechanisms. Secondly, since I fully joined the church and even as a visitor, I never heard him tell anyone to throw away their televisions. Thirdly, he did not say that poverty is a way to heaven. Never. He only teaches against ill-gotten wealth that will damn the immortal soul at death or rapture in accordance with the Bible that says "What shall it profit a man if he should gain the whole world and lose his own sou?" There are lots of rich members and he teaches others to work hard and he for us to be legitimately rich, healthy and happy. Thanks.

Naturally everyone defends his own

Am not telling what I don't know neither am I telling you as someone that did not attend the church at all.
Time will continue to tell as it is telling now .
Religion / Re: Before I Go I Will Make Sure I Correct Some Doctrines Of Deeper Life- Pastor Kum by sexy74(m): 4:40pm On Sep 25, 2021
FreedomfromtheT:
Please what exactly were the members misled into doing?
First of all, he agreed that he would be changing the doctrines , that alone is is enough to tell you he misled th with the doctrines.
Telling them to sell off their Television sets saying that it is devilish, making them believe that poverty is a way to heaven.
Education / Re: Why Do Kids From Wealthy Homes Study Very Unpopular Courses? by sexy74(m): 2:37pm On Sep 24, 2021
CrystalSpark:
This question has always been on my mind and just now I’m reading, again, that Hauwa the daughter of President Buhari went to the UK to study Photography. grin grin

Not just her! There’s a noticeable trend even in Naija; a kid from a very wealthy home may go to a university to study music, or catering, or something that isn’t “popular and mainstream”.

The rest of us from not so rich homes will kill ourselves with mechanical, chemical, petro-chemical, electromagnetic engineering

cc: Fynestboi
My brother all they need is paper , they don't need the qualification to survive .

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Religion / Re: Before I Go I Will Make Sure I Correct Some Doctrines Of Deeper Life- Pastor Kum by sexy74(m): 10:46am On Sep 24, 2021
FreedomfromtheT:
He has not misled us. He is not talking about changing the Bible doctrines that the church stands on. He is talking about church traditions, procedures and administration that some might be mishandling. Thanks.
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My brother with all this you mentioned you where mislead. He is changing because he found out that they are not more biblical or what?
A lot of members where misled because of ignorance.
I know what am talking about am not just saying it.
Religion / Re: Before I Go I Will Make Sure I Correct Some Doctrines Of Deeper Life- Pastor Kum by sexy74(m): 7:23am On Sep 24, 2021
After misleading them abi.
Do you now agree most of their doctrines are man made and self edification

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Health / Re: Nlanders In Field Of Health I Need Help Urgently by sexy74(m): 1:38pm On Sep 22, 2021
Stanweezy:
My sister sent the attached picture below for me, according to her she said the chemist she went said its bkus of the water she bath with.

Please I need answers on what could be the cause of this boils.

Thank you
Tell her to use alovera, the plant alovera ooh.
she should apply the slimy part to her face thirty minutes to One hour before she takes her bath morning and evening.
She should wash her face with worm water before application.

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