₦airaland Forum

Going home in a public bus exhausted after a night shift or stressful day could make one rest his sleepy head on a stranger's shoulder. Most times, the shoulder is deliberately adjusted to make you remove your head. An aggressive person on whose shoulder your head rests may even shout on you.
Of note is when a beautiful and tired lady innocently rests her sleepy head on a man's shoulder. Surprisingly, the man who would have probably reacted harshly if the head was a male's would act like the shoulder is carrying no load, might even wish his shoulder would turn to a pillow. Men some times see it as a green light.

Phcn bill for March is out, despite the darkness and heat they supplied, the bill is still as escalated as usual. One wonders if this nation will ever get it right with power supply. The heat is on a different level, the noise pollution is horrible, how can we reduce greenhouse emission when we all depend on our Generating sets?

Stevyne:
So who is at loss now
You or him?

The important thing is to recover my property

Stevyne:
With all due respect you are a weak landlord.
He don see you finish, how will someone be owin you 3 years rent.

Man up
Enter his apartment and carry his things out of the house.
Or better still rent the room out, him go find him way

There is a little history behind the 3 years accumulated rent which isn't necessary here.
Forceful eviction is not that easy , there are dire consequences so I cannot just enter his flat and throw his things out. The tenancy law in Lagos favors tenants.

donbachi:
unroof dat part of him flat..wen rain beat am,no be person go tell am to pack.

I'm seriously thinking along this line

chuksville:
Report him to Boko Haram or Eastern Security Network (ESN)

I live in Lagos

harmargedon:
do you live in the same building with him?

No, but in the same locality

I need practical suggestions on how to drive out a stubborn tenant oweing 3 years rent. Mind you, I want to avoid the court or mediation centres. I'm racking my brain on how to make him voluntarily move out. A. 6 month quit notice was served him, after which a 7 day ultimatum followed. He is still obstinate, telling me to go to court.

chronian:
Lies lies everywhere.

You haven't said anything

[quote author=JidennaJason post=100718877]b]Imagine that!!!! A 26yrs old now a grandmother?

Read again

Men have varying pursuit capacity, some have a short fuse while some have developed thick skin for insults upon insults from women. It has been said many times that women mean yes when they say no at times. How long shall a man continue to read in between the lines of a woman. What are the red lights a man should watch out for?

King Nathaniel Bassey
Queen Tope Alabi

As a guest speaker you need to do a little investigation about your host denomination. Familiarize yourself with their doctrines, idiosyncrasies, methods and proclivities.
Go a bit further to know the current mood in the particular congregation. This will guide you to manage your emotions and predict the reception you are likely to get.
For instance , a church who just had a burial activity can't be expected to respond promptly to your calls.

A guest speaker who decides to swerve from the topic given him into other areas is being rebellious to the host minister. Hence the need to have a note to guide you in your delivery. A guest speaker who is expected to speak on leadership should not speak on divine healing .

Raising funds as a guest speaker without obtaining the permission of your host before the meeting is regarded as an Ecclesiastical illegality. Your host must be in the know of whatever you intend to do with his microphone.
Try as much as possible to stay within the purview of the authority given to you. Attempt to impress your host by raising funds may boomerang.

It is not within your space to correct what you consider a doctrinal error in your host church .
That's why you should have done your homework on the host denomination . If you're not comfortable with their doctrinal stand, kindly turn down the speaking offer rather than making a mess of their doctrines on their platform. It is simply bizzare.

Forget number 4, to break the backbone of poverty, you cannot regiment your sleep. Sleep when you can and wake whenever you need to.

Olunmercy56:
It's depends on the both sides, it's good to go on low key. Not all these proposals lead to yes, some turned to no and fight. So it's better you are disgraced in private

Lol, I will not be disgraced whether public or private o. But you have a point though

Olunmercy56:
It might be on phone, inside the car or dinning while sitting, video call, etc

Ok, thanks. What do you think about a public proposal, say for instance in the church or mall?

Olunmercy56:
No, there are many ways to do that.

Kindly share some of the many ways you will appreciate as a lady

I personally find it awkward especially when the man is way older than the woman.
As an African man, I do not subscribe to that, it's a western invation of our culture.

If you yab me, na you Sabi.

samunaka:
foolish and illogical way of reasoning, when your super model president was there why did he not build ultrasonic space age hospital there

I tire o

Tochi3:
Zombie post.

Senseless as usual. No logic. Just empty

Reading the post can make someone automatically brain dead.

Pls beware of Zombies. They exist

Glad you are brain dead now

favor914:
Common sense comprehension has departed from your soul ages ago? Stop living in the past crying over spilt milk.

Thank you jare

hedonido:
Presidents abroad are treated worse
Every future Nigerian president should be disgraced and dehumanised if possible. if that is what it takes to restore much needed sanity in our political space and national life. What rubbish.

We don't need egotistical idiots who want to be worshipped. We need SELFLESS leaders willing to take the RISK to sacrifice for the country. God punish any bastard going into public office in order to answer 'excellency' and form god. If you're not seeking public office with a servant leadership mindset, then stay in your house and enjoy the respect of your children and dependants. Don't come and enjoy our national resources, and yet expect undue 'respect' from the public.

God go punish Buhari and him entire family, and any future president that is not ready to truly serve.

You could have named Presidents treated with such disgrace abroad

ddippset:
These people don't know that they have set a precedent.

Every Nigerian President will be treated like this henceforth because no matter how good you are, it is practically improbable to satisfy every citizen.

They think it's Buhari they are doing,

Whether North, or South, our Presidents will be receiving this treatment from now.

What majority are acting is bandwagon political reaction or monetised noise

Rareoil:
Also remember to show me your gains from this government

Lagos Ibadan expressway and many other A list Federal roads are better and motorable today.
Agriculture has been boosted across board
The railway sector once again has been revived
Just to mention a few

By this , I do not in the slightest way solidarise with the APC regime, truth be told, it underperformed.
However, we must recognize that the President cannot give what he doesn't have. Rather than blame him for his below average performance especially in security and economic management, blame yourself and 15million Nigerians for voting him to office in 2015.
But can you really blame yourself?

XXXXTENTACION:
The president disgraced himself when he refused to develop the healthcare sector in his own country.
you are supposed to be ashamed.
how many times has queen elizabeth or boris johnson come to get treatment in nigeria

Travelling abroad I believe was a personal choice and perhaps a security advice which may not have been premised on the condition of the healthcare sector. Because i'm sure there are competent doctors in well equipped hospitals in Nigeria.

NaMe4:
Utter RUBBISH!

On the front page of this forum, there are reports of death of Nigerians due to roads which are more of death traps, absent medical care as a result of strikes by frustrated, overworked healthcare givers, kidnap, rape and killing of citizens by killer herdsmen, bandits and terrorists, worsening poverty indices.
With all these facts, it's unbelievable one would be reasoning politics of bitterness when citizens express their dissatisfaction with the government of the day.

You can label my article" utter rubbish" ,but does it change the fact that Southerners like you prefer to stay on Nairaland on election day rather than going out to vote?

AGNESikpuNNU:
Idiot ... And buharii is not running government of extreme wickedness.
Fooool!!!

Besides excusing your gutter language, let me remind you that the Nigerian electorate are the idiots and fools for voting a Buhari

Rareoil:
You should be more concerned why your leaders spend billions on medical tourism instead of building better hospitals in Nigeria.

Please remember to show me your gains after the demonstration

The ongoing media noise by Reno Omokri and his comrades as they stage a vexation show on President Buhari at the Abuja house in London labelled #harassbuharioutoflondon is nothing short of the irritant of a fart.

This cacophony of opprobrium gives a sense of deja vu which is not only wrongly timed but also laced with an overdose of pettiness.

His rhetorical grandstanding this time around doesn't seem to sit well with reason.

Is Buhari the only President in the world over with failed promises?

How many presidents gets this kind of embarrassment from their citizens when in the diaspora?

An Octogenarian on a medical trip doesn't deserve this noise and distraction not to mention the nuisance Remo
Omokri has constituted himself into.

President Buhari is still our Commander in chief and he deserves to be respected. His style of governance may not be the best, but please respect the person of the President.

Must we politicise everything? In less than 2 years from now, a new President- elect will be waiting to be sworn in . Why not channel your energy towards getting a better replacement for the President.

Demonstrations certainly doesn't seem like the panacea at this moment. What we need is a revived political consciousness and a well mobilized army of voters ready to cast their votes come 2023.

Southerners are passionate about demonstrations but too lazy to queue on election day. While the North lines up both qualified and underage voters at the polling booths, the sophisticated and educated South would flood the streets with their boots and jerseys playing soccer.

Reno Omokri should rather channel his energy towards 2023 general elections and stop this fruitless embarrassment of our President.

The beauty of democracy is the time limit on each occupant of Aso Villa.

This isn't about holding brief for the President but simple logic.

Congratulations to Burna boy and Wizkid for winning The Grammy awards.

However, there is a better award we all must strive not to miss. The Bema awards at the Judgement seat of Christ. 2 Cor. 5:10

Believers who labour in the Lord's vineyard with the right motives are the only potential nominees and winners of the Bema awards.

Don't miss it for anything.

Congrats to Burna boy and Wizkid on the Grammy award
However, an award we all must not miss is the Bema awards at the Judgement seat of Christ
This award is reserved for those who labor faithfully in the Lord's vineyard.

Strive not to miss it, whether or not you are recognized or appreciated.

In fact, it should be an easy thing to do now. They only need to apply the benefit of hindsight and remember how God took them from the slum to the palace and they will gladly do it over and over again. The truth is , when God places a demand on your money, He is about to raise your level and these men know this.