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PoliticsRe: Buhari Rejects Move To Replace His Security Details by ShaddyTerese(m): 8:13pm On Apr 26, 2015
He did well. I love this Man's methods. #29th May loading#
PoliticsRe: Can Osinbajo Be A Good President? by ShaddyTerese(m): 7:50pm On Apr 26, 2015
Why can't we focus and pray that things go well instead of insinuating a lot of "deaths". Yes he is advanced in age but he can and will live longer...
PoliticsRe: Can Osinbajo Be A Good President? by ShaddyTerese(m): 7:41pm On Apr 26, 2015
Why can't we focus and pray that things go well instead of insinuating a lot of "deaths". Yes he is advanced in age but he can and will live longer.
PoliticsRe: ABSURD: Former Ekiti State Governor,kayode Fayemi Turns Messenger/bag Carrier by ShaddyTerese(m): 7:39pm On Apr 26, 2015
stanech:
ABSURD:
Former Ekiti state governor,Kayode fayemi turns
messenger/bag carrier to emir of kano,Sanusi
lamido all for the sake of government appointment.
Well, in my opinion he is just showing respect. I wouldn't watch Tinubu carry his own bag if I was beside him too.
PoliticsRe: Video:exclusive Interview With Gen. Muhammadu Buhari by ShaddyTerese(m): 11:58pm On Apr 22, 2015
My Hero...
PoliticsRe: Jonathan To Hand Over Power On May 29th, Not May 28th - FG by ShaddyTerese(m): 9:05pm On Apr 22, 2015
Can't wait fa!
PoliticsRe: Photo; What Can You Say About Naija Craft? by ShaddyTerese(m): 9:00pm On Apr 22, 2015
Well...nothing...or maybe its kinda odd
PoliticsRe: Nairaland Hacked On Opera Mini by ShaddyTerese(m): 8:58pm On Apr 22, 2015
What could be d motive?
PoliticsRe: Anambra Monarch Writes Gov, CP Over Establishment Of Brothel Around His Area by ShaddyTerese(m): 8:57pm On Apr 22, 2015
That's disrespectful fa!
PoliticsRe: Gunmen Storm President's Lga,kidnap LGA Chairman by ShaddyTerese(m): 8:55pm On Apr 22, 2015
E neva do?
PoliticsRe: “the World's Oldest Flying Aircraft, A Bleriot ” by ShaddyTerese(m): 8:52pm On Apr 22, 2015
The world has indeed advanced. Good history.
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Men Know How To Take Care Of Women – Makashule Gana (south Africa) by ShaddyTerese(m): 8:49pm On Apr 22, 2015
Well...I have always believed that shaa
PoliticsRe: APC Shuts Its Doors Against PDP Defectors by ShaddyTerese(m): 8:48pm On Apr 22, 2015
That's very reasonable and sensible too. They should stay back and "choke" on their new role. #the game just got better#
PoliticsRe: Okupe Makes ‘uturn’, Says I Have Respect For Buhari’s Mandate by ShaddyTerese(m): 8:46pm On Apr 22, 2015
A gang of "double standards"...
PhonesRe: Check Out The Android App I Wrote And Published To Playstore by ShaddyTerese(m): 12:02pm On Apr 22, 2015
Great job bro. I wish U brighter days
PoliticsRe: 2015 Presidential Election, The Most Colourful In The History Of Nigeria by ShaddyTerese(m): 4:36pm On Apr 21, 2015
For my 24years on Earth, I agree that its d best I have seen.
InvestmentRe: If You Have Genuine And Reasonable Investment Idea - Post It Here by ShaddyTerese(m): 12:20pm On Apr 20, 2015
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Naijaorbiter Offer For WRITERS by ShaddyTerese(m): 9:08pm On Apr 18, 2015
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RomanceRe: The 4 Possible Outcome Of Every Relationship (the “relationship Pathway”). by ShaddyTerese(op): 8:41am On Apr 07, 2015
Welrez:
Sometimes I wonder if my parents read articles on relationship to have had an excellent marriage. Too much of anything is bad.
My brother, one thing I can say about marriages then is that both the man and woman held their values in high esteem, no one was willing to risk a divorce so both practically grew in love. But now, our young men and woman claim "things have changed".
RomanceRe: The 4 Possible Outcome Of Every Relationship (the “relationship Pathway”). by ShaddyTerese(op): 11:07pm On Apr 06, 2015
FLAWLES:
Too Lazy
To read it?
RomanceThe 4 Possible Outcome Of Every Relationship (the “relationship Pathway”). by ShaddyTerese(op): 10:04pm On Apr 06, 2015
The 4 possible outcome of every Relationship (the “relationship pathway”).
The need for intimacy is one that has been associated with every living creature ranging from animals to human race. Pups bound with their dam through suckling and even cuddling. It’s even extreme in rabbits in that they will reject any kit that has been touched by another “person”. How about humans? Babies suckle for longer times are assumed to be more bonded to their mothers than those that don’t. Life itself is a never ending cycle: people are born, they grow old and die and the cycle continues.
Now back to the matter…
There is one peculiar feeling lovers have in common; real lovers I mean: the tingles. The feeling that makes you both think nothing else matters but you, when you can barely look elsewhere when you are together, how you can’t keep your hands off each other and if anyone at that time were to tell you both that this feeling won’t last, you wouldn’t believe him. To you both, at that time, you are both living a Cinderella story with the ever happily after endings.
The sweet romance goes on until suddenly someone stops doing “something”, love becomes a tradition and the relationship goes “official” and eventually goes boring. It is at that point that the girl wonders what happened to his prince charming and the guy wonders if he didn’t make a mistake about her. This is the stage of the relationship I regard as “hitting the rocks”. To emphasize that, I agree totally with the man that said “love is not meant to be easy but worth it”. And since it is a decision, the parties involved must be ready and willing.
So these are my four deductions:
So now that the “love ship” has hit the rocks, both parties begin to listen to the third party ( friends, toasters, admirers etc).
1. The girl starts listening to what the toasters are saying. She “suddenly” starts realizing that the boy friend is not doing enough of the complimenting and buying of gifts as anymore, he even “nags” about everything and instead of talking things out with him, she gives the third party a chance and boom! She realizes after the “party” is over that all the dancers have left and the music has long stopped only to realize again the guy had come just for the “cookie box” and since the meal has been served he had to leave. She now feels terrible, the damage is done and things fall apart.
2. The guy lets the show of attention and care the girl friend is showing and her resilience in making sure things work out to get to his head and he interprets it as desperation on her end and sees reason to survey the “open market”. He wrongly applies the 80/20 rule and replaces a diamond with gravel. The cost of running the trash suddenly overwhelms him and suddenly he realizes that he had given up glory for penury but at time, it’s too late to fix it.
3. Both love it each other but taking responsibility seems to be the problem. They are both aware that something is wrong but no one wants to talk about it. Rather they walk around engaging in artificial conversations that don’t get to the heart. Slowing the “vultures” smell dead meat and external calls/texts keep coming in and yet they are “just friends” and when the other starts complaining or demanding for explanations, the quarrels set in and they feel the best thing to do is to end it.
4.Both are passionate lovers who are proud of what they have found. They see each other as a gift they need to guard with all they have got. They take nothing for granted; especially themselves. They are the category that defined every relationship with the opposite sex to avoid the temptation of “going back to Egypt”.
Discussions are open, to them it’s okay to read each other’s messages and even take their calls, use each other’s pictures as DPs, hold hands while strolling in the park, and so on. For this category, disagreements/quarrels are probable and when they happen, they are willing to talk it out. This is the category I regard as been friends first and lovers second. They belong to the category that happily ever after lies within their reach.
The four illustrations might not have being exhaustive but it’s basically reflects what is obtainable in our society. In any relationship, the value of communication can never be overemphasized. It is when both parties talk about the things bothering them that solutions can be coined out. No one should assume that the other person should understand when nothing has been said. Romance is a beautiful thing. It is good to find someone who you won’t be scared of committing to entirely there by defiling the trend of trust issues and infidelity. Most promising relationships ended because avoidable mistakes were not sorted out, because discussions were not open, and most times when the beans has been spilled, regret sets in but its all lost already. Love is basically a combination and trust and commitment and if these two things are present in any relationship then the people involved will always stay happy no matter the situation.
If you are in relationship and you dream tomorrow together, now is the time to make the necessarily adjustments to keep your love alive. It is a give and take affair so no one should be only on the receiving end. We read a lot of love stories with happy ending. We can make our relationships memorable too if you we care enough. Keep your love alive.
PoliticsBuhari Wins 100% In His Polling Unit. by ShaddyTerese(op): 9:06am On Mar 29, 2015
...The presidential Candidate of All Progressives
Congress, APC, General Mohammadu Buhari has
trounced President Goodluck Jonathan of the
People’s Democratic Party, PDP in his polling unit in
Sakin Yara “A”, Kofar Baru 3 in Daura local
government of Katsina State.
Out of 501 votes cast in the presidential polls, APC
got 499, PDP got nothing while 3 votes were voided.
Similarly, in the National Assembly elections, APC
polled 478 for senate, PDP 18, the People’s
Democratic Movement, PDM got 3 votes while 3
votes were invalidated.
APC also took the day in the House of
Representatives contest as it scored 500 votes while
PDP and APGA polled 1 vote each.
APC was eventually declared the winner of the
elections.
Source:Vanguard news.
PoliticsRe: Nigerians Can Get Fined For Fixing Federal/state Roads For Their Benefit? by ShaddyTerese(m): 9:44pm On Mar 25, 2015
A picture would have further empahsised his claim shaa...not fair though.
PoliticsRe: Photo: Why PDP Is Ready To Make Nigerians Wallow In Poverty by ShaddyTerese(m): 9:40pm On Mar 25, 2015
Let's all be part of the move that "changed" our fortunes for good. Sai Buhari
PoliticsAn Open Letter To Fellow Com-patriots. by ShaddyTerese(op): 8:11pm On Mar 16, 2015
AN OPEN LETTER TO FELLOW COM-PATRIOTS.
Dear country men,
In addressing this letter, I was contemplating on using “Nigerians” in place of “compatriots” but my moral conviction insisted on compatriots on the singular reason that on the basis of potency compatriot seems to send a deeper meaning that the former.
Patriot from which the word Compatriot was coined refers to a passionate lover of his country who is willing to defend it at any cost.
I may not have been privileged to travel to other countries of the world (just yet) but the information I have graciously gathered around coupled with the testimonies of many that have been to other lands admit to the fact that my beloved country happens to be one of the most endowed countries in the world.
How could I have argued such information when it is evident in our natural and human endowments?
Yet, my worry and pain lies not in the fact that my country has tremendous opportunities to thrive on but my pain lingers daily on the fact that in the midst of all these, only a few “privileged” are benefiting from our wealth why the “helpless masses” languish under the grip of poverty of the mind and body.
It doesn’t just end there. The trend has been made worse due to the fact that from the beginning of time, we have sectionalized each other and sacrificed our unity on the altar of ethnicity and religion. A country that should be one indivisible entity has been severed invisibly by ethnic and religious beliefs that should have rather united us.
My fellow countrymen, we didn’t start this Nation. No. our generation was still in the loins of our father’s fathers when Nigeria came to being. The history of Nigeria has been written up on till today and anything that has made the list cannot be undone but will be remembered for all eternity that this or that happened at one time or the other. For instance, I wasn’t born when the Civil War broke out yet I came to read the history and even watched the horrible clips of how brothers slaughtered each with the help of assault rifles and weapons of war on matters that would have been resolved at a round table.
We must realize that we cannot rewrite our history but the lessons therein can be leant and corrections made at the points we failed ourselves. We can choice to right the wrongs of our ancestors rather than fighting over things we do not clearly understand. We can decide to take a common front to defend this supreme entity called Nigeria. Instead of fighting over the wrongs of yesterday, let’s sheath our swords and turn our attention to the things that will rather unite us.
I have never wished to belong to another country and even if I did, I cannot walk even for a single mile in a white man’s skin. No! Am a black man and I am proud of who I am.
I have witnessed the damage of religious and ethnic intolerance. How it neutralizes trust and replaces it with discord and suspicion.
Why must our senses be reduced to that of an animal of survival with only “predatory instincts”?
Why can’t we set aside our differences and forge together a prosperous future?
Is it too much to ask that a Nigerian man or woman should have good roads to drive on, safe water to drink, constant power supply to run his business and live a good and decent life, reliable security for lives and property and good health facilities to cater for their health needs?
Why must we regard those opposing or criticizing us as enemies rather than evaluating the content of their criticism?
We have tarried too long and wallowed aimlessly in our mistakes while ignoring the lessons that our history teaches us.
I long for a free country. Not the kind of freedom that is explainable by not been behind bars but that which will set me free from the shackles of religion and ethnicity.
I want to be able to joyfully converse with my fellow brothers and sisters from other religions without fear of been attacked.
I don’t want to be regarded as been Tiv, Hausa, Igbo or Yoruba; I just want to be called a Nigerian.
I want a country where if I lost at a job interview then it should be because the next person was better than me, that way, I will happily yield.
I want a country that will encourage and sustain my dreams, where the elderly will assist the young to grow rather than retarding their progress.
What country would you rather have my dear countrymen? Whatever your response might be, I want us all to be conscious of the fact that the success or failure of our dear Nation will be best portrayed by how we live our lives and how others see us.
In conclusion, I wish to point to us a trend where people ignore the lessons of yesterday’s mistakes thinking that it will not happen again only to end up repeating the same mistakes.
Think deeply about the heights we would have scaled, the successes we would have celebrated, the joy that would have been evident in our lives if for once we deliberately discarded the shackles of ethnicity and religion and despite our political differences would have united under one platform: “the party of the Federal Republic of Nigeria”.
I seek true freedom in my mother land. The one that transcends beyond been free from iron chains but the one that truly exposes me to my best.
God bless Nigeria. By Shadrach Akpem
PetsRe: Can This Test Work On Female Dogs by ShaddyTerese(m): 5:24pm On Mar 07, 2015
alomeda600:
No
Why not Sir?
ComputersDell Laptop. by ShaddyTerese(op): 11:42am On Mar 05, 2015
Hello Everyone.
I need specifications for a dell laptop:
#6-8G ram
#500G and above Memory Size.
#A good processor speed.
Dell is my product choice(plus model pls). And if the cost can be attached, I will appreciate it. Thanks.
RomanceRe: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by ShaddyTerese(m): 8:59am On Mar 05, 2015
"He also said that even if I leave him and my bf
should later find out what I did with him , that my bf
will dump me , if not now but later and I will loose
the opportunity of everlasting happiness with him
( the other guy)"
I can smell blackmail from a thousand miles. Ask Ur self this question: wouldn't your bf do all the things this other guy is doing if he was disposed? #besides you said you understand his tight schdule#
HealthBullet Wounds And Police Reports... by ShaddyTerese(op): 12:36am On Feb 03, 2015
I have been thinking about this lately. Not all bullet injuries mean the victim is an armed robber. Sometimes he or she might have been attacked or been hit sporadically. But what I hear all the time is if you have a bullet wound without a police report, you won't be treated and I know a lot of people have died due to this "policy". So can some please elighten me on this 'cos in my opinion, I feel the victim should be stabilised before other paper work can be done.
PoliticsKill PDP Before It Kills All Of Us, Buhari Charges Nigerians by ShaddyTerese(op): 4:39am On Jan 30, 2015
[b][/b]Kill PDP before it kills all of us, Buhari
charges Nigerians
on january 30, 2015 at 1:07 am in elections 2015
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Simon Ebegbulem, Levinus Nwabughiogu & Gabriel
Enogholase
BENIN-CITY — PRESIDENTIAL candidate of the All
Progressives Congress, APC, General Muhammadu
Buhari (ret), in Benin City, yesterday, charged
Nigerians to constitutionally kill the Peoples
Democratic Party, PDP, through their votes before it
kills Nigerians.
His declaration came as Governors Rotimi Amaechi
and Adams Oshiomhole of Rivers and Edo states
faulted President Goodluck Jonathan for failing the
people of the region.
They spoke at the Benin City presidential rally of the
APC which held at the Samuel Ogbemudia Stadium.
Some of the dignitaries at the well attended rally
were the Vice Presidential Candidate of the party,
Professor Yemi Osinbajo; Asiwaju Ahmed Tinubu,
former Governor of Ekiti State, Kayode Fayemi;
Deputy Governor of Edo State, Dr. Pius Odubu;
former Minister of State for Works, Engr. Chris
Ogienwonyi, and all APC candidates in the state.
Governor Amaechi said the admission of the
President in Port-Harcourt, Wednesday that he had
not done anything for the region was an admission of
failure that should not be rewarded with another four
years.
Governor Oshiomhole on his part, blamed the
President for failing to tackle corruption, saying the
President kept a blind eye to the death of several
graduates who were scammed during the
Immigration recruitment interviews last year.
General Buhari, who lamented that every household
in Nigeria suffered alleged PDP misrule in the past 16
years, said Nigerians must ensure that they vote out
the PDP on February 14, and defend their votes,
asserting that an APC government will find lasting
solution to corruption, unemployment, insurgency
and poverty, which according to him, were inflicted
on Nigerians by the PDP.
Amaechi in responding to the claims by the President
in PortHarcourt that he had not done anything for the
region said: “The President admitted that he has
done nothing in South-South in six years. When he
could not do anything in six years how will he do
anything in four years. I have told Rivers people,
Eleme Petro chemical in Rivers State, NAFCON, were
done by Hausa-Fulani men. Our president who is our
son has spent six years but he did not do anything.
“All he has done is to enrich himself and other
people and our responsibility is to get a good
president who will do something for us and for
Nigeria. And we thank God that the President himself
has admitted to failure. I call him “I will do
President.” We will vote out this “I will do President.”
Once trust is betrayed you can never repair it.”
[b]Kill PDP before it kills all of us, Buhari
charges Nigerians
on january 30, 2015 at 1:07 am in elections 2015
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Simon Ebegbulem, Levinus Nwabughiogu & Gabriel
Enogholase
BENIN-CITY — PRESIDENTIAL candidate of the All
Progressives Congress, APC, General Muhammadu
Buhari (ret), in Benin City, yesterday, charged
Nigerians to constitutionally kill the Peoples
Democratic Party, PDP, through their votes before it
kills Nigerians.
His declaration came as Governors Rotimi Amaechi
and Adams Oshiomhole of Rivers and Edo states
faulted President Goodluck Jonathan for failing the
people of the region.
They spoke at the Benin City presidential rally of the
APC which held at the Samuel Ogbemudia Stadium.
Some of the dignitaries at the well attended rally
were the Vice Presidential Candidate of the party,
Professor Yemi Osinbajo; Asiwaju Ahmed Tinubu,
former Governor of Ekiti State, Kayode Fayemi;
Deputy Governor of Edo State, Dr. Pius Odubu;
former Minister of State for Works, Engr. Chris
Ogienwonyi, and all APC candidates in the state.
Governor Amaechi said the admission of the
President in Port-Harcourt, Wednesday that he had
not done anything for the region was an admission of
failure that should not be rewarded with another four
years.
Governor Oshiomhole on his part, blamed the
President for failing to tackle corruption, saying the
President kept a blind eye to the death of several
graduates who were scammed during the
Immigration recruitment interviews last year.
General Buhari, who lamented that every household
in Nigeria suffered alleged PDP misrule in the past 16
years, said Nigerians must ensure that they vote out
the PDP on February 14, and defend their votes,
asserting that an APC government will find lasting
solution to corruption, unemployment, insurgency
and poverty, which according to him, were inflicted
on Nigerians by the PDP.
Amaechi in responding to the claims by the President
in PortHarcourt that he had not done anything for the
region said: “The President admitted that he has
done nothing in South-South in six years. When he
could not do anything in six years how will he do
anything in four years. I have told Rivers people,
Eleme Petro chemical in Rivers State, NAFCON, were
done by Hausa-Fulani men. Our president who is our
son has spent six years but he did not do anything.
“All he has done is to enrich himself and other
people and our responsibility is to get a good
president who will do something for us and for
Nigeria. And we thank God that the President himself
has admitted to failure. I call him “I will do
President.” We will vote out this “I will do President.”
Once trust is betrayed you can never repair it.”
[/b]Kill PDP before it kills all of us, Buhari
charges Nigerians
on january 30, 2015 at 1:07 am in elections 2015
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Simon Ebegbulem, Levinus Nwabughiogu & Gabriel
Enogholase
BENIN-CITY — PRESIDENTIAL candidate of the All
Progressives Congress, APC, General Muhammadu
Buhari (ret), in Benin City, yesterday, charged
Nigerians to constitutionally kill the Peoples
Democratic Party, PDP, through their votes before it
kills Nigerians.
His declaration came as Governors Rotimi Amaechi
and Adams Oshiomhole of Rivers and Edo states
faulted President Goodluck Jonathan for failing the
people of the region.
They spoke at the Benin City presidential rally of the
APC which held at the Samuel Ogbemudia Stadium.
Some of the dignitaries at the well attended rally
were the Vice Presidential Candidate of the party,
Professor Yemi Osinbajo; Asiwaju Ahmed Tinubu,
former Governor of Ekiti State, Kayode Fayemi;
Deputy Governor of Edo State, Dr. Pius Odubu;
former Minister of State for Works, Engr. Chris
Ogienwonyi, and all APC candidates in the state.
Governor Amaechi said the admission of the
President in Port-Harcourt, Wednesday that he had
not done anything for the region was an admission of
failure that should not be rewarded with another four
years.
Governor Oshiomhole on his part, blamed the
President for failing to tackle corruption, saying the
President kept a blind eye to the death of several
graduates who were scammed during the
Immigration recruitment interviews last year.
General Buhari, who lamented that every household
in Nigeria suffered alleged PDP misrule in the past 16
years, said Nigerians must ensure that they vote out
the PDP on February 14, and defend their votes,
asserting that an APC government will find lasting
solution to corruption, unemployment, insurgency
and poverty, which according to him, were inflicted
on Nigerians by the PDP.
Amaechi in responding to the claims by the President
in PortHarcourt that he had not done anything for the
region said: “The President admitted that he has
done nothing in South-South in six years. When he
could not do anything in six years how will he do
anything in four years. I have told Rivers people,
Eleme Petro chemical in Rivers State, NAFCON, were
done by Hausa-Fulani men. Our president who is our
son has spent six years but he did not do anything.
“All he has done is to enrich himself and other
people and our responsibility is to get a good
president who will do something for us and for
Nigeria. And we thank God that the President himself
has admitted to failure. I call him “I will do
President.” We will vote out this “I will do President.”
Once trust is betrayed you can never repair it.”
TravelRe: Makurdi-port Harcourt Rail Line Opens For Commuters - Channelstv by ShaddyTerese(m): 2:42am On Jan 30, 2015
Wonders shall never end! The day Sambo was coming to Makurdi was the day trucks loaded with gravel went and were spreading gravel on the rail tracks. Besides if you know Makurdi well then you would know that those pics were not taken from there. This Guys are scaming Us fa!

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