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[quote author=mimiy05]lol...thtz if dey see me to toast na

see u, dn't u go out at all ni? if a dude like u, forget it. even if u have bodyguards, he will still find a way to get across to you.

i personally read all dis stuff for knowledge and knowing sake, so i can knw wats going on around me and in the world.
as to weather they are lies or the truth, we would really never know....dats a FACT. in the end, people will choose to believe what they wanna believe. such is the power of the MIND.

lemme end on a lighter note, does eating beans really make one tall dats a conspiracy theory dat as gone for long in naija

well, op.....it is wat it is, u are not alone, i am an inntrovert. i talk onli when necessary, i so dislike lousy peeps. as an introvert, u suffer much when you are nt imaginative and intelligent.
for a lady, its undastandable....but for guys, who go toast for u . d koko is just to embrace d person we are and learn to develop our strength.

introverts are usually good with numbers because of d analytical mind they possess and are usually intelligent.

sailormoon: I have more conversations in my head than I do in real life

i can readily relate to this........i have been putting the conversations down sha
i seriously hope to publish a book someday.....i feel i have a lot to talk about and being introverted shldn't deprieve me of that.. sometimes i wish i am nt an introvert but i have found that most of my strength comes from being the way i am so i have simply learnt to be happy, develop my strengths even more and work on my perceived weakness.
I AM AN INTROVERT.

MZdamola: So so unfortunate and unfair
Na we dey suffer pass

so sad........
but unfortunately, we just chose to suffer because of our leaders, it's a shame.

delishpot: You right too. If you noticed I sugested he should call her and talk to her too.
Youre right the problem will not resopve itself and if she isnt ready to leave him she shouldnt stir shi.t.
Yes, they both need to sitdown and talk. I only judged by the womans action a woman in love will not say no to sex from a husband she loves. Just my opinion o.

But, if their sex. life was good before and sudenly she changed, it must have been due to some things he has been doing and she had been complaining and then he says sorry and then he does it again. I know cos I have withnessed a guy like that. Its always a cycle with his attitude. Mistake, sorry, that same mistake again, feeling sorry and then the mistake again and then feel sorry again until the wife gave up complaining even though she is pissed to her bones with what he does.
Marriage is not easy sha, as in two people living as one body.
Make dem try resolve their problem with a trusted counselor/ Adult to advice and guide them through this difficult monent.
Like I said, he should look at their se.x chart again if it was 20 times a day before and sudenly it becones 2 a month he will notice when the wahala first started.

ur still makng a wrong assumption which is nt healthy.....that dere sex life dwindled doesn't mean d guy must have bn doin something wrong, dat is nt correct. she mite have her own personal issues and nt realise it is affecting her libido.....bt we wil neva knw. all am saying in essence is u can't safely conclude dat her actions stem from her hubby nt doin some tins right.

delishpot: Bottom line, the woman is not se.xualy attracted to the man. I do not know what he does that makes her not feel the urge to get laid by him but those married or in seriouse relationships will know what I am talking about.
Some times a spouse can just irritate you to the extent that though you aint cheating on then, you are disgusted when they even kiss you. You just have sax for the sake of pleasing ones self not cos its intemate passion between two lovers.
So, he should talk things over with her. Maybe he doesnt take regular baths, careless with hygine? Too loud, too rude etc. Witg what he did, I believe he is the kind that keeps record to show and prove a point, he seems like someone that doesnt like to lose an arguement which is not a good thing if one is in a marriage situation.
So, his madam has given up on him. Can he show us thier sex chat just after marriage( and before marriage if they had sex) ? If he kept a monthly chart he will see when the problem started.
He did not tell the whole story with that chart.

nice summation bt nt totally nice and i wil point out y
if u read d story, d wife admitted dat "this is a part of him i have never seen...immature, bitter and full of hatred." to some extent, that statement meant d man is obviously a good guy, one who doesn't like trouble and confrontation.
for all d vices u listed that d man might have, for argument sake, lets assume d man has dose vices......is the wife not suppose to sit him down and tell him or how does she expect him to figure out?
lets take it further as u stated that his madam has given up on him.....the question is why stay married to someone u are tired of? remember they are not nigerians that stay married for there children even when everything is nt working.
i just feel the woman in this story is wrong......for all the nights she was giving all dis flimsy excuses, she culd have had a conversation about whatever is wrong and iron it out, dn't u think so too?
and lastly, if the man were to file for divorce or got a side chick outside, what would u say to dat?
good morning to u.

homobee: I rep july 18

it has passed joo...bt hope u enjoyed d day sha?

bamite: dis guy..u're either very daft or had a very poor education
learn to assimilate nd tk corrections as at when due

bros, free dat punk, didn't u noticed dat i purposely ignored him....so he doesn't drag me down to his level. he was quick to call someone ode without realising his own folly.

uglyogre: All men are big fools! All they know is sex, idiotas

hi uglyogre....
quick one, we are well aware dat d country hard and is frustrating......dn't take it out on d men
we are all hoping it gets beta....i will put u in my prayers, cheers

sinceden2: Meeen but why do our women behave in such manner, I also thought am in this alone too, my wife..... Always saying she doesn't like to be touch, that it iritates her, she doesn't like kissing and she is not the sex type. Pls tell me what is remaining. I travelled some time ago for like 3weeks upon return I made all arrangement to make our meeting sexy and romantic, for me to go into the bathroom and be back I met her already snoring away. And wen I confronted her the next she told me she really meant to make me happy but was surprised she slept off too.

After this sad scenerio she was checking through my chat and saw my chat with another babe , sincerely nothing even really freaky about the chat ooo but she sensed the babe like me. Meeeeen see protest, see talk, see revolt.


I now said what the revolt for? This is the man u don't like his touch, his kiss and sex, why not allow him. Honestly am loosing it. I feel I can't continue to be faithful.I keep asking myself can I go on like dis without sex, dis is just 3 year into the marriage.

Diaris God ooo

it is well bro......
have u tried to have a heart to heart talk wit ur wife to express hw u feel.........one thing i have come to realise is dat we complain to all oda people other than d person concerned about our issues and dat doesn't solves anyting. if anyting, dat will leave u more pissed.
remeber, d grass always seem greener on d oda side until u rili get close.......be strong bro.

rozzay: . No o I no hoard again. As soon as I read dis story I call am sharply we've rescheduled asap. I don't want to b d guilty party o

good for u

Originakalokalo: 1...fairness to all..she doesnt want it...u leave her.

2...every human has d tendency to exploit anoda person's weakness...hence if ladies are angry or offended, they use sex as a tool...to punish the ofender.
3....when d man now undastands dat d lady is usin sex as a tool against him, he gets bitter..

4...fairness to all....if point 3 above hapens, he has d right to be angry...in fairness to him....

How do we solve d problm of ''am not in the mood''? How do we know if she isnt in the mood? Or she is usin it as a tool

i love ur submissions bro bt in d end, d woman stil get d blame......she culd have been forthrightly plain and honest and told d husband what d issue was instead of dose lame excuses. i hope they resolve deir differnces anyway.

rozzay: Eeeya poor man nd am guilty of dis o, denied my baby after his two weeks trip cos he didn't call me one nyte out f 14. Hmmmm make I run call am b4 e go do spreadsheet abi na powerpoint presentation.

chai.....one nite out of 14?
dis sex u ladies are hoarding......dere is God o

mahleeq: noted

person no fit follow una play again

na wa o
u no fit follow ur guy play again ni
oya wetn u tink abt story nw?

mahleeq: abah, so for a whole month the woman was never on her period, the table is questionable, op abi nah you design help yourself

bros.....check d dates more closely and u wil ansa ursef.

Oahray: and how do you know he didn't try those 'better ways' before resorting to this out of frustration? Stop being so presumptuous. You don't have all the details.

Does a woman who makes up all those whack excuses sound like someone that can be reasoned with?

bros i tire oooo
she shld hav suspected dat d husband was up to somtin sef..... i dn't knw any sane man dat u will give d excuses above and will just swallow it.

there is clearly a lack of communication between the couple, dats obvious.
see silly excuses ;Dchineke!!!
d wife don rily show d guy pepper for him to go dis route........odikwa egwu.

4lorunsho: ode what are u saying ; are u sure he didn't tell his friend and he had to put it up here

sori bro, u are d real didinrin here.........from d story it shld be obvious it was d wife that gave d story to d media and nt d man as insinuated by u.....peace man.

owk nw.....enjoy ursef

lol.....u de fear ni?
u no even get mind

[quote author=Heebucun][/quote]are we nt in a war situation already? is it until it gets to us?

Dawumi: But i no see jare

husbands full sambisa nw, go deir

Heebucun: I tried to sheild away from boko haram happenings but I was unfortunate to too see his recent video on tv
And that made me realise a lot of things
1)I have been in denial all this while I refuse to accept that some one is killing people near me
2)Subconsiously i don't see the Nigerian police#armies or whatever catching them soon because sincerly nobody is ready to die for anybody#no patriots again
3)Because most of us have not experienced shekau's bomb we choose to IGNORE
4)AM TERRIBLY afraid!
I can go on and on but am I the only one feeling such?pls comment ur feelings on them.

we are in a banana repubic
nigeria is a jungle and its onli dose with animal insticnts dat is benefiting. d struggle for existence can onli lead to d survival of d fittest.
read btween d lines........

......rush of blood.
body no be firewood.

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