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Family › Re: Toxic Parenting: Does My Mom Deserve To Be Taken Care Of After All This? by Sheistoopretty(f): 8:24am On Jan 24, 2023 |
funkmrflexx: One thing we don't talk about in nigeria is toxic Parenting, and my family has experienced It from my mom.
So my mom had 7 kids for 4 men, Out of the 7 kids only 5 of our were of 2 fathers( the 2 eldest ones had one father, and the 3 youngest one which is where I belong had one father also)
So after giving birth to 7 of us, the men obviously remarried (my own father had 9 wives) so it was now the responsibility of my mom to look after her kids but she didn't.
None of us went to the university because my mom said she can't send any of her child to the university( I know some people will say why didn't our fathers take responsibility) out of the 4 men, 2 died when I was very young ( my own father died when I was 10 and the guy had like 30 kids so the responsibility fell on my mom)
I'll tell the story child by child of what they went through at the hands of my mom
My elder brother lost his father when he was young and had to live with his step mom, after secondary school, he really wanted to go to the university so went to my aunt and my aunt to him to my mom to take half the school fees but my mom chased them out of her house saying that she doesn't have money to send any child to school that If my aunt wants to train him that's her own problem, that she doesn't have a child that will go to school. So that aunt of mine assisted my brother, and he was also doing menial jobs until he was able to graduate. Today now he's abroad and my mom always call him to send money to her
My elder sister gave birth when she was young, my mom refused to help her with the child to the extent that she had to take the child to someone else so she could hawk and feed the child while my mom was still alive. (there are more of her own story she didn't tell me, I didn't know cus I was just a baby)
Then my immediate elder sister was frustrated by mom, she didn't pay her school fees when she was in secondary school, always chased her out of the house, sometimes she would sleep at her friend's place unfortunately because of the she got pregnant, when she gave birth, my mom threw her out of the house with the baby (she basically threw the baby, my sister was fast enough to catch the baby. That's how my sister left)
Then me. I think I was the lucky one because when I was about 7 years a friend of my mom's took me and I lived with her for the next 15 years. After secondary school I wanted to go to school but the lady said she had tried and couldn't train me. (I understood because she had really tried for me. I won't be where I am today without her) so I went to meet my mom, and she told me she doesn't have money to train any child to school that if I want to go to school I should train myself, that she doesn't have a hand in any school. So I left her and started hustling on my own. ( I got admission 3 times, but there was no one to sponsor me) I started doing laundry to make ends. I had nowhere to stay because my mom won't accept me. So I started sleeping outside. I literally slept outside for almost 2 years, I would bath outside at night, then look for one corner to sleep at night. That's how it went on. Today now I'm married and doing well for myself, my brother and I are the ones taking care of my mom today, we relocated her from the village and now she stays in the city.
Our last born is a girl, my mom would chase her out at every opportunity, burn her clothes. She would sleep outside until she was raped. My also refused to support her education for the same reasons as before. She also frustrated her until she left the house. Fast forward today my mom calls her for money all the time
Sometimes I use to wonder if my mom was really my mom, now she's in her 70's and we are the one taking care of her. My brother called me the other day and told me he was about to cut her off because she hasn't changed. And honestly I plan to do the same because she doesn't care about the well being of her children. As long as you are giving her money she doesn't care.
So does a mother like that deserve to be taken care of after all she did? I didn't bother to read all dis, I don't have such time but ur mother deserves to be taken care of no matter what had happened in the past  Although some mothers are something else but nothing can ever be compared to a mother's love... Bye |
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