₦airaland Forum

I think there is more to life than marriage. Whatever drove her to this point with her choice of husband is not likely to stop.

She has a good career, she is quite good at it, and she is just 24. There are so many other things she could do with her life. She will be fine.

Fiscus105:
I doubt if you want them to reconcile, because this is not what you, as her mother, should be saying at this critical moment.

A lady who is already had 2 kids for a man, where did she want to go after 2 kids?

The only thing remaining is to be rocking big men/boys rods till her body expires within, I think, it's still better, if they reconcile and go back to stay with father of her young kids.

Well done bro. A great Nigerian and proof that you don't have to get involved in illicit trades or carry drugs to India, Malaysia or Indonesia to make it in life.

Freedom of trolling is guaranteed not freedom after trolling. No life is better than a life devoid of chochocho

MT:
When abroad happens to you , it is worse than when a Nigeria happens to you. You will be freezing in the cold, homeless, without anyone showing you mercy.

When abroad happens to you, Nigeria will immediately become your new paradise.

At least you have a second option, you move back to Nigeria if you are stupid enough not to leverage all the free information to find loads of available shelters in such situation

Hhh4444:
Even if I'm saving 2million monthly,I will still travel. When Nigeria happens to you,that money will not be able to save you.

Some people are too slow to understand that our Naija land na master of film-trick. When it favours you, you fit make attempt to slap American ambassador with full arrogance but if Naija shows you the other side, you go humble pass church gate man

Mindlog:
If I am to practice in Nigeria as a Child and Adolescent Mental Health Specialist, over 85% of Nigerian parents who would need my services for their children cannot afford my bill and working in a Nigerian public health facility which should make it cheaper for the parents, will be premium shege for me, with the peanuts paid to healthcare professionals in Nigeria.

I am where my skills are appreciated and rewarded, while I offer pro bono services to some, back in Nigeria.

Let our people keep fooling themselves with feel good fakery as if it's not our own dear Nigeria that we know too well

TheGift:
I am in Lagos, i have structured myself and my life to ensure. I have peace of mind. If I was in the US and my kids were going to schools there, I will not have peace of mind, due to gun violence in schools and racism in society. To each is own

If you choose an area prone to violence in Nigeria or USA then you won't have peace of mind. USA is not your typical country, Texas alone is almost the size of Nigeria and most parts are as safe as the safest places anywhere in the world. That is just one of 50 states.

marvelos1:
Life abroad is depression

Depression for who? And which abroad specifically? Libya, Australia, Togo, USA, Afghanistan, India, Canada, Iraq, Egypt, Russia, South Africa? Let's be specific and where is the data supporting that assertion?

Also, is Nigeria depression-free?

deanoffaculty:
Nope!
No house rent...
You own a car...
3 hours/day work.....
Peace of mind.....
500k savings every month after all expenses....


What else am I looking for outside the country?
I'm typically fine and okay!

Don't let me use my hand to get visa that will axe peace away from my life. No be all countries outside dey peaceable.

This comment showed that you have a specific definition of abroad. You have limited it to a place that is not peaceful.

Just as we have trouble spots that you avoid in Nigeria, there are abroad that you can choose to avoid.

You need to understand that some people are way more at peace abroad than in Nigeria. So this is purely a matter of personal preference.

2-1 Shekpe

When some of us say "this era shall favour me" so our destiny for grace is established regardless of who is in political power, kids on Nairaland do not understand the deep implication. Instead of that simple affirmation, they turned it to mockery. Wisdom is grace in itself, Solomon prayed for it.

May Sommie's beautiful soul seek justice and rest in peace.

Harddiskng:
Brother it’s sad, that young people are dying. Anyways I align with you on this.

Job said “what i fear the most has happened to me”.

Just as Bishop Oyedepo usually say (paraphrased) - No matter the condition of Nigeria, where must stew for me..

May her soul rest in peace.

ZombieDredd:
una go just dey bobo anyhow?

stop lying just to make your points. IMF never did such.

That's a fact. What do you mean by IMF never did such? Support for that proposal, among other clauses, almost led to the lynching of Prof Caleb Osuntogun, VC of OAU Ife at that time.

PUNANI01:
Apc was brought in 2015 with the help of Sahara reporters and today Sahara reporters are fighting them again. Karma na you!

Are we conveniently forgetting that
- Sahara Reporters fought Obasanjo,
- Sahara Reporters helped expose lies on Yaradua's health issues.
- Sahara Reporters helped expose Turai Yaradua and the kitchen cabinet in Aso Rock that rendered VP Goodluck Jonathan useless.
- Sahara Reporters helped enforce GEJ officially as acting president and later won 2011 election.
- Sahara Reporters turned against Buhari within a matter of months!!

Why are we so mischievous with facts?

As a young man, he left the comfort of his hostel rooms to become regular victim of military and police brutality. Yes, na so he take love Nigeria and many of us are simply incapable of understanding that. Ordinary street oppression, most of our people will never stand up to say NO. Yet we sit behind our comfortable sofa typing on our phones as know-it-all smart analysts.

faoogoke:
This man leaves his wife and children in the United States, comes and fight for Justice in Nigeria. I wonder!

Could he have practised his activism in the U.S.?

Na so Sowore take love Nigeria.

I really wonder about his wife and children. He barely spends time with them.

Thank you. Our people are simply unbelievable. Their capacity for mischief is simply insane. They can use their wild imaginations to concoct any possible scenario and drive it home as fact just to stick to a baseless position. What a people.

ayoncox:
that is a very big lie, you seem not to know Omoyele. the same one fighting evil people since he was 20 years old, When IBB was about to implement the crazy idea recommended by IMF that is the reduction of universities in Nigeria to about 5 there about, he was one of the chief proponent that protested until the government backed down. What you are misrepresenting are those whom he considered to be allies who are now instead corrupted individuals benefiting from the government pause

Racoon:
Omoyele Sowore was made by the evil establishment. Now he is destabilizing the same evil establishment. This is the law of karma and natural justice.

I appreciate the contributions of those in support of Sowore activism. However it is a well known fact the he was part of those who gave the plague Nigeria has in place today in 2015. Sahara Reporters is the propaganda mouthpiece of the APC back then.

This is gross misrepresentation of fact. Are you being deliberately mischievous as a result of GEJ's self-inflicted defeat in 2015 or you are genuinely ignorant of the history of Omoyele Sowore long before 2015? Or maybe you only assumed political consciousness within the past 15 years?

SarkinYarki:
Jonathan built more power plants than any govt , he fixed more roads than Buhari amd attracted more FDI than any govt in our history...He was not spectacular but if you compare him to 13 years of APC then your will say he is a genius

Yes, on paper GEJ did all the aforementioned but in reality there was no money to even pay federal workers by November 2014. Fact.

That girl is well known for her craze. It's just to trend for internet traffic as usual. Na real werey girl

RollinTNDA:
You are enjoying a system in UK

Ask yourself
What sacrifice did the fore fathers of UK fought. The countless wars they fought, the blood they shed fighting against evil kings. ...

And removing evil kings inorder for their young future generation to have good society.
These same white people suffered bad government with corruption and injustice.

Instead of them to Japa.
They stood together and fought and changed their country for good.

Now you Japa your own country to go and chill in another man country. To enjoy the fruits of their ancestors blood and sweat.

There Ancestors are smiling from the grave seeing their sacrifice didn't go in vain for their future generations.

While Nigeria keeps rotting away
Who will save Nigeria??

We have over 200m people in Nigeria. The number of those that japa is less than 10m. If just 50m people in Nigeria are truly serious about change then there will be change. No one should have to be bugged down by what others are comfortable with.

Donnarumma is a major factor for Man City.

Mistersolar:
sit down...excuse F.C

I join millions of Nigerians across the globe in saying no to this misplaced priority.

Usmanovic95:
Chat jibiti

Brilliant! Chat JIBITI. The tool na real chat jibiti.

No big deal. In the days of birthday cards/christmas cards etc, multiple people often send the same card to the same recipient to get their message across. What is important is the message and the thought behind it. Shikena .

We have been doing that long before they came into the scene. This is 2025, there are several channels that could be leveraged for this purpose without agent ripoff leading to inflated costs that has huge impact on the general economy.

idonhammer:
So how can you find land to buy or house to rent without involving agent Mumu ban

It's okay to be a normal human though it's funny when you see weak and emotional men pretending to be tough.

Mr President me I no dey dia o. Looks like Jagaban na CIA guy for real. A neutral nation dare not poke the Tiger unless absolutely sure nothing is happening

We are gradually getting there. Brain rest towards real development. We need personal decision making that keeps our people productive and not turn them to beggars.

Event services business people won't like this but we need to stop shaming those who do not see your services as sound economic option for their needs. The market is wide enough for everybody

AmazingGenius:
Nigeria’s formal education system follows a 9-3-4 structure (Basic, Secondary, Tertiary), with primary education being mandatory and free with the public schools under the Universal Basic Education (UBE) program

When did it become 9-3-4 structure? I think it was conceived as, and has always been 6-3-3-4 with the numbers representing distinct stages.

Basic is 6, standing for primary schools. 3-3 are done in secondary schools (Junior/Senior).

God's Own Country.

Svoboda:
This is just to stir up rightwing Christian fundamentalists into voting for her, nothing more. She doesn't realize however, that her extremism will drive some of the undecided away from her.

As simple as ABC but some simpleton lack basic wisdom and understanding, so they are easily triggered.

They will leave their daily obligations and challenges and turn to blood thirsty zombies in the name of a god that should be more than capable of defending himself.

That act of calling for killing or actual killing is the real blasphemy. You are labeling your god incapable.

completeskills:
Premier league has been ruined by VAR. Football is now like Tele modo. Everyone waiting for what will the referee next call be.
IMO...that's a soft penalty. Probably because it is man u. Reverse that circumstance and Burnley will not be getting that review.

Soft penalty but why that stupid pull of the attacker's shirt in a dangerous area to deny him scoring opportunity? Let's call a spade a spade and leave our bias out of this.