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TravelPhilippines Student Visa...Affidavit of Sponsor....finances? by shndy(op):
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TravelRe: Main Reasons Many Are Refused Visas by shndy: 4:21pm On May 01, 2016
Hi all,
Am a nurse in d UK, My sister in law (in Nigeria) is going to d phillipines to study. Can I be her sponsor her, can she use my bank statement as evidence of finance?
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 4:32pm On Dec 16, 2015
modath:
Story of my life, cheesy

I've made up my mind to do a tummy tuck to repair mine, pushups & weighted squats & lunges can bring about major improvements but it won't close the gap...


In 2009 , I even contacted a PS in India & got a quote of $4k (chickened out cos I felt baby still fit show to scatter the investment) & it is something I have every future plan of going through... if not for vanity sake alone, I don't intend to live my life with intense back pain.. No bueno

& as for not doing no 2 regularly, you need to eat bulky veggies (not vegetable stew) like cucumber, garden egg & drink wattteeerr!

Also take up a fitness regime, no two ways about it, you have a sluggish system that needs help & maintaining a high BMR is what can help you, E Hug my sis, this is one situation I can honestly claim to know how you feel..


Aye88

No mind my tecnical speak, cheesy grin diastasis recti is seperation of the rectus abdominus; the muscles that run from under the b.reast to the pubic area.. the function is to act as a kind of girdle to hold the internal organs from flopping around & also protect them

Waist trainers can't do much for such people.
I have DR too tho it's mild, 2cm. By binding d tummy and doing SOME exercises (some actually worsens d condition) I can close d gap. A friend successfully closed her 3cm gap by binding immediately after delivery. I wasn't able to cos I had CS, tho it's more of an ignorant thing I recently found out another friend who also had CS used BELLEFIT to close hers immediately after delivery.
If all else fails I plan to do a tuck too when I finish birthing.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 4:18pm On Dec 16, 2015
My baby took measles vaccine on Wednesday, on Friday I noticed a large pus-filled rash on his chin, by evening it has bursted and gradually became a wound. On Monday I noticed same rash at d back of his head,it bursted n dried up. Today he's got another rash on his hand n one on his bum. Someone said it's alefo, av neva seen one Ds big.
Another said it's measles that it's cos of d immunisation. Dunno which to believe Pls. Does anyone experienced such after measles immunisation? I rubbed powder on his chin but it's not drying. What can I apply pls.
Tx mamas
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 9:28am On Dec 04, 2015
Nita2013:
I guess it depends on d kind of diaper. My son uses pampers swaddlers size 4 with 144 in a carton. He uses maximum of 3 a day that's only if he poops during d day or over drinks water. Otherwise he uses 2 daily because it's 12hours protection. D diaper absorbs d urine so well that one would wonder how many times he actually urinated.

Goin by my calculations he uses one carton in 6-8weeks. He has never had diaper rash. I use blue seal vaseline as d protective cream on his butt.
Wow, mothers where u buying ur swaddlers? I stopped using it wen my baby moved to size3, couldn't get it.
I love loved it, it's d best av used so far, followed by d pampers newbaby (UK n Germany). My baby uses it overnight and it was never soggy, absorbed pretty well. No rashes and it never left a mark on him even on days wen I dint rub vaseline on d bum.
Someone told me Asda little Angel is good too, any idea?
FashionRe: Reviews Of The Best Skin Lightening Products You Have Ever Used. by shndy: 4:23pm On Nov 26, 2015
Buttergrey:
New stock alert!
Ur website not working, how do I order for a product?
FamilyRe: This Is What My House Help Did To Me by shndy: 1:51pm On Nov 24, 2015
vascey:
People asking her not to go may be right.

But the girl threatened her son for goodness sake.

What kind of mother allows that to just slide.

If Na me, I will even involve police self.

Those capable of evil acts do not understand the language of "letting things slide".

She needs to be aware that if anything happens to Op son or family, she, her mother and rest of the family will be thrown in jail and the keys thrown away.

You don't back away from some kind of people o. You fight back. Who says she can't perpetuate her evil acts from the village.

She needs to write an undertaking self. Don't let this go. That girl may have some demonic forces working in her and you don't back down for those.
Oga it's better she doesn't involve d police o, she can never win such case , she'll instead be charged wt child labour and will spend loads of money if she doesn't want to end up in jail.
FamilyRe: This Is What My House Help Did To Me by shndy: 1:39pm On Nov 24, 2015
iriskiki:
Please calculate and show us how to plan a home or do family planning where you can have kids and work without help from somewhere or someone?
To each his own, I don't see what gabinogem wrote that is so out of d ordinary. That's his own view which u don't have to accept.
When we were about marrying, my hubby told me he doesn't want a maid in our home, I couldn't agree less cos I don't want one too.
Am a working mom, my husband works and we've bn coping pretty well. I know loads of working couples who don't have a maid and they are surviving. It's all in planning u see!
Having/Not having a maid is strictly ur choice.
FamilyRe: This Is What My House Help Did To Me by shndy: 9:12pm On Nov 23, 2015
Nigerians! Do u know employing d services of an underage maid is a criminal offence? No matter how u look at it.
FamilyRe: Ladiea, Does This Action Hurt You Or Eat You Up? by shndy: 6:03pm On Nov 22, 2015
Hahaha, Trust my hubby. No matter how angry he is he will eat, my punishment is he'll serve himself!(which really isn't a punishment but an assistance grin)
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 11:42am On Nov 21, 2015
Onegai:
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Base is beeswax (it acts as a barrier so keeps moisture out). Then add coconut oil, Shea butter, Olive oil and then add whatever ingredients you like. Some people like a few drops of lavender essential oil or other healing oil. I'll post pics in a bit
OK sis, Tx. Where r u getting ur beeswax
FamilyRe: A Married Man. A Single Lady. The Infidelity Trend... by shndy: 12:18pm On Nov 15, 2015
Overheard a bunch of ladies encouraging one of them to date a married man, "u better no slack urself, when u marry ur husband will also cheat on u, y not date a married man now so it'll be less painful when ur own husband eventually cheats". Just imagine dt, naija marriage is a joke, just an avenue for asoebi n jollof rice grin
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 11:36am On Nov 15, 2015
Onegai:
Please that Sebamed shampoo is not for babies o. That is for adults. Let me post mine, bought at Healthplus Pharma. This is the only Sebamed product I have, I prefer using olive and coconut oil and mixing my own diaper cream because of this wahala (though I use The Honest Company Healing ointment as diaper cream and I love it, it can be mixed easily).
How do u diy diaper cream pls
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 3:25pm On Nov 10, 2015
hajarahbadmus:
watch ur diet to b sure is isnt reacting to what u r eating..
it is well
Exactly! Most of those rashes are actually a result of an allergy. My baby had on/off rashes ,peeps told me it's eela until I discovered he has corn allergy, removed it from my diet and switched him to rice cereal and that was d end of his rashes.
FamilyRe: Will She Ever Regain Her Husband's Confidence, Trust And Respect? by shndy(op): 3:00pm On Nov 10, 2015
5minsmadness:
Shndy follow the two advices above except for the striken out part (sorry kimoni). He DOES NOT want to hear anything concerning the baby or your pregnancy now. Mentioning it to make him feel guilty or whatever will backfire very very badly.
Take this from a man's perspective pls. Thanks.
OK sir, thank u
FamilyRe: Will She Ever Regain Her Husband's Confidence, Trust And Respect? by shndy(op): 2:50pm On Nov 10, 2015
Hmm, thanks so much for all the contributions. Cancerlib, bless u for sharing ur experience, a live one will sure help her.
Kimoni, onegai, my peeps from Newborn Thread cool bless u kiss
FamilyRe: Clear Out The Stretch Marks For Good by shndy: 8:30am On Nov 09, 2015
5minsmadness:
It may surprise you to know that some of us actually find stretch marks sexy tongue
grin
FamilyWill She Ever Regain Her Husband's Confidence, Trust And Respect? by shndy(op): 11:40am On Nov 08, 2015
They are both very good friends of mine, their trouble started few months after their wedding.
When they got married they both had plans to wait like a year before raising kids. Then d wife made d mistake of telling her MIL about d plan and we know how naija mamas are, immediately after wedding they want to c u preggy.
So d mother with d husband's sister instigated d wife and schemed with her to get pregnant without telling him.
She got pregnant and didnt tell her husband till 2months later, when she told him he first thought it was a mistake so he begged her to abort but she insistently told him she's keeping it. D husband kneeled n begged countless times, this isn't d kind of life he planned for his family especially his kids, he just wants to be more balanced but d wife with d backing of d husband's family insisted it's for keep. They all blamed him he should have used a condom if he's not ready, this hurt him more cos he believed d wife was on d pills.
This issue caused a lot of ruckus and later d husband had no choice but to accept as he still love d wife.
Little did we know something has snapped in him that'll torture d wife for months to come.
He started philandering and on two occasions has even slept outside.
D wife has apologised countless times, they'll settle it,move on, only for him to go cheat again.
He told her he can never trust her again, and he's even doubting her love for him, she don't care all she wants is a baby.
D wife has since regretted her action but d husband see her differently now.
Will he ever forgive her totally? Is there some advices u can give d wife pls
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 8:48am On Nov 06, 2015
cancerlib:
Pls mamas, my baby use aptamil for his pap but I want to switch to a cheaper formula. Which can I try between thrive and peak(0-12)
The two ain't bad, have people using either for their lo and they are thriving. So d choice is urs
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 6:20am On Nov 03, 2015
Pls house, my baby will be 8m in 2days. He started having green poop on Saturday , initially Tot it's d iron in his cereal. But later I noticed he poops during / immediately after breastfeedn.
Nothing has changed in my diet. Could it be my sugar is too much?
How soon can baby zinc tabs be repeated after initial course?
He used in aug?
Tx
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 11:28am On Oct 24, 2015
missmalachi:
I bought my tummy belt 12500 during there promo but am told its 15000
Was it d pull up u bought? Dats d cheapest on their site. Others r over 20k. How much was d shipping fee pls.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 9:44pm On Oct 22, 2015
Beryl15:
You can only buy online at www.bellefit.com or from Amazon/eBay. It's best you buy from their website.
Your can wear 24/7 depending on your comfort level but I wore mine for 8hours or more everyday
Pls follow the sizing guide very well o!
Thank u
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 9:43pm On Oct 22, 2015
vivigurl:
. It's written on the body that's it made in Brazil, but distributed by FOUANI LTD in Nigeria
OK thanks. Is it a nice cereal pls
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 10:23am On Oct 22, 2015
Mothers Pls is nutrilac cereal made in naija?
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 10:21am On Oct 22, 2015
Beryl15:
Able mamas has anyone here used BELLEFIT postpartum girdle?
I used it & my belly is back to its pre pregnancy state ( I can't post pictures o!, but wish I could) just thought I should share.
They have girdles For both CS and Vag delivery mamas.
It's a bit pricy but worth every cent I spent.
Tying the belly is a must for every mom and I wish I did after my first but glad I did this time...
I don't work for BELLEFIT oooo!!! grin
I'm just been nice wink
Oh really, how much and where did u get it?
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 11:49am On Oct 21, 2015
Pls can I use ready-made groundnut to Mk tombrown in place of fresh one?
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 11:44am On Oct 21, 2015
MiracleMum:
continous vomiting, loss of appetite, weight loss and running of temperature. sorry am just seeing this.
Thanks dear
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 11:37am On Oct 21, 2015
RedCapChief:
My 2 cents. Pregnant women with diastasis recti are not treated until after delivery and not every woman has complete resolution. Any major intervention done now may fail because the growing uterus will always exert pressure on your lax abdomen. Postpartum you may need to see a physiotherapist for abdominal reconditioning. Don't just do any form of exercise you see on the internet because they can increase the tension on your abdomen and worsen the condition.
Surgery is also an option, but it is also done post-partum.
Av got that condition too. If I do d surgery now, will it stay closed wt subsequent pregnancies?
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 7:32pm On Oct 18, 2015
Miraclemum, Pls Wat were d symptoms u noticed wen ur baby had malaria?
Cc:: other sabi mamas pls
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 6:46pm On Oct 11, 2015
Hello mamas, Pls d toothbrush in d tomme tippee pack is it soft enough for a 7mnth old.
Tx
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 6:35pm On Oct 11, 2015
Kimoni:
My baby is 6 month and 3 weeks with no tooth, should I be worried?

Of course not! Relax, the teeth just want to come out en-masse smiley
Na real en-masse my sister, got 4 already! How's ur lo,has he sprouted yet
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by shndy: 6:28pm On Oct 11, 2015
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