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Romance / Re: I Can't Marry A Girl Whose Immediate Family Member is a Yahoo thief by shuwaboy(m): 9:53pm On Jul 12, 2022
Mrshape:
Why is it that if I have feelings for a girl and I find out her brother is a yahoo thief immediately all my feelings for her dies, it has happen to me twice

To yahoo thief and family members are planning to insult me,I know you are many in this forum, keep it coming let me see if una reach 100

It also a turn off for me she has yahoo ex turn off, yahoo brother turn off, yahoo friends turn off

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Romance / Re: I Don't Know If This Married Woman Wants To Fûck Me Or Not...see Wahala by shuwaboy(m): 10:06am On Jun 27, 2022
It’s all in your head
Romance / Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by shuwaboy(m): 1:01pm On Jun 08, 2022
The basic underlying reason a man will not forgive or forgives and not take her serious any longer is cause of paternity fraud.
Technology Market / Re: Alienware 34 Inch Curved Gaming Monitor @400K by shuwaboy(m): 11:09am On May 01, 2022
TechCapon:
lovely, is it Alienware laptop that's beside it?
The monitor
Romance / Re: Men Attention Here Pls by shuwaboy(m): 11:54pm On Apr 30, 2022
An act of charity why not visit a motherless home near you.

I believe that will be more fulfilling then gifting a female you haven’t meet and not planning to bed.

Cause if it sits well with you, you won’t be seeking validation here.
Technology Market / Re: Alienware 34 Inch Curved Gaming Monitor @400K by shuwaboy(m): 11:27pm On Apr 30, 2022
Is this item still available
Programming / Re: .net C# Software Developer (junior And Experienced Level) by shuwaboy(m): 2:06pm On Apr 16, 2022
Hello,

I have sent you a copy of my cv,look forward to hearing from you.
Programming / Re: Are You A Programmer Or App Developer Who Wish To Work Remotely For A US Company by shuwaboy(m): 1:51pm On Apr 16, 2022
Hello I do have 5years experience in .dot net
abdulraman.mohammed@outlook.com
Programming / Re: Professional Blockchain Developer Needed! by shuwaboy(m): 3:49pm On Nov 15, 2021
Most it be physically,am a block chain developer both i am available for remote work
Programming / Re: Opportunity To Earn Little Pay Working On Python Assignment. by shuwaboy(m): 3:45pm On Nov 15, 2021
Am good with c#,python and JavaScript
WhatsApp details :07038129683
Email:abdulraman.mohammed@outlook.com
Romance / Re: Ladies, Can You Date A Uber Driver? by shuwaboy(m): 10:38am On Jul 30, 2021
Pumpumking:
Seriously?? Anyways although I drive a 2019 range rover with Stiterio alloys weels & I leave in expensive area & I eat expensive foods & I were nice design er cloth.. money ain't everything (real talk).
So ladies, would u date a Uber driver/ taxi driver... especially when he have the ordersity to toast you? ..Please be honest undecided

OG just say you dey do free ad here.
Romance / Re: Girlfriend Got Pregnant For Another Person by shuwaboy(m): 10:37am On Jul 30, 2021
DanielAlhassan:
How will you feel if you find out the girl you are in love with who also claim to love you back is pregnant for another person
Your opinion is highly welcome
No insult
Asking for a friend who is about to commit suicide
Please advice him
He is reading your comments


Abeg explain to us your logic of reasoning or is it your friend.

You commit abi he commit suicide the girl gives birth to the baby for another man,the child grows up to be like the mother a cheat. But you are dead an gone.
Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by shuwaboy(m): 10:53am On Jul 18, 2021
Nancee4love:
I AM INLOVE WITH A GUY I AM FAR RICHER THAN.
I need a candid, serious and matured advice. I am a lady of 28yrs I stay in Abuja and work here. I am from south south in Nigeria. I recently moved to an area in Abuja and was thinking of a church to go so I went to a church closer to my house and I enjoy the service and I met this cute dark handsome guy in the church. Althrough the service my attention was on him, his personality and dress sense attracted me to him. I like slim guyz and tall guys because I am tall. So after service I went home, thinking about him and looking forward to Sunday morning to go to church to see my crush. I love the fact that this guy true loves God. One thing led to another we had to start talking and I fell even deeper inlove with him, he is a graduate and works in an IT Media firm. It's been 18 months now we have been talking and we are so fond of ourselves and absolutely we are catching feelings for each other but he has not said anything about relationship yet. I am super convinced that he has no relationship, I asked our pastor stylishly and he told me the guy is not in any relationship. This guy is a keeper, has character, treats me with uttermost respect and value. The way he looks into my eyes makes me know he has a thing in his heart for me. Note I have been to his house severally, he stays in a single studio apartment while I stay in a flat and still he is not intemidated at all. He has never asked me for money at all and never pushed for sex, and we have not had sex. We buy things for each other occasionally, like he reciprocates and appreciates my efforts.
Recently we were discussing and he Opened up to me that his salary is 80,000 and he is seriously thinking of how he can settle down with that and that's his major source of Income apart from other stuff he does. He has a registered company that he is working on already. I can see him pushing and making all efforts to improve himself. Me on the other side I make 250,000 monthly though I have not told him. I truly love this guy and I want to settle with him but on 80,000 naira income monthly. I was thinking could it be the reason why he has not asked me out yet after 18 months.
I told my girlfriends about it not relating or referring to him, my girlfriends, they said I should not settle for less I should look for a man who earns higher.
Please people here are my concerns.
1. I love this guy but he has not said anything about relationship yet, how do I make him ask me out
2. Am I settling for less with 80,000 as his salary, will he abandon family responsibility to me in the future.
3. Should I tell him how much I earn , will he not take advantage of me
4. Should I move on its been 18months but truly my heart is peaceful with him, we laugh we smile we encourage each other and we build each other.
5. Should I follow my girlfriends advice to look for someone who earns higher.
6. There is a guy who has been on my neck for 9 months now he works in NNPC, DPR has a car and comfort but I see a toxic red flag in him that's making me scared of him, yet he won't give up he is from south south as well
7. I spoke with my aunt and she said to me if she has her way she will make sure I never have contact with my girlfriends who don't understand life and who are not ready for marriage. My aunt told me that she feels the guy in my church is my God ordained husband. My mom also said the same thing that the guy is ok but she would have preferred someone from south south. My church guy is from middle belt
8. Many things are running through my mind I know I love him.
THIS ARE THE QUALITIES I LIKE IN HIM
1. He loves God and genuinely Born again Christian
2. He is sincerely and honest person
3. He is sacrificial and gives me listening ears.
4. He is very mature he seniors me with 6-7 yrs
5. He just a calm person and very organized and visionary
Please help me make the right decision by airing out your opinion.
Right now he is the only not too rich guy in my life who I expect him to ask me out and he has not. Other toaster's are super rich and they are on my neck trust me I am pretty beautiful light skin girl.

Follow your heart and also stop having and imaginary future with someone you have not yet dated.

Start dating first and see how it goes.
Romance / Re: I Need A Relationship Advice by shuwaboy(m): 5:33pm On Jul 17, 2021
zuby4real10:
Hello guys, I have this small issue bodering me about ladies these days. So please anybody that can advice me weather male or female can help. May be there is something I am not doing right.
I am a single guy in my early 30s looking for a serious and matured lady to start a relationship that will lead to marriage cos I am ready to settle down. The problem I am currently facing is that any time i try to toast a lady she will never tell me yes she have accepted or she love me too, the next thing that will happen is that she will start billing me with unnecessary demands which I will bluntly reject cos I did not even know my stand yet. This happens to me. This is the 5th attempt with in 6 months almost all from desame similar issues. The last one happened this morning from a lady I am disturbing all these while with serious romantic texts and calls full of i love u and other sweet words. The lady have never for once retaliate such gesture to me. Infact anytime I am chatting with her I try to bring love topic she will do as if as she did not see it. All of sudden this morning she sent me her account number that she need money to fix her hair and other stuffs to look beautiful for me on sallah day. This is a girl that I don't even know if we are dating or not.
My confusion now is that, these frequents demands are they a way saying yes that they have agreed or not or they are just testing us to know how serious we are with the love that we pronounced to them.? How can a lady that is feeling shy to even tell you that she loves you back will be comfortable asking you for money. I am very confused right. Is there anybody that can advice on what to do next time. My problem is not that I can't spend and care for woman that I know we are dating,but these girls did not even agree to date me.

You come off too needy, for you to successfully seduce it most be indirect.

Start off as friends and stop that text shit,you only send romantic text to a girl you are in a relationship with.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Hookup Over The Sallah Break by shuwaboy(m): 5:05pm On Jul 17, 2021
Hello in need of a clean lady for hookup on the island over the sallah break.

Interested send a DM or better still chat me up on 07038129683
Romance / Re: When She Is On Her Way To Your House by shuwaboy(m): 8:15pm On Jul 11, 2021
lazkizz:
Re-Brush your teeth, put the condom under the pillow.. where hand go quick reach and make sure the Drinks are sweaty Cold grin

Separate her transport money 4rm the rest money, if not you will End up giving her Grant instead of Transport fare


Sharp guy haha
Romance / Re: Worst Way A Guy Ever Tried To Chat You Up? by shuwaboy(m): 12:00am On May 27, 2021
Go easy on the fellas it ain't coming up with lines that will interest a strabger.

Why don't u ladies try it for change let's see if you can get numbers.
Romance / Re: Worst Way A Guy Ever Tried To Chat You Up? by shuwaboy(m): 11:58pm On May 26, 2021
anet:
a guy actually doing that make him a geek


do u feel me tongue grin
The overflow give him up lol. I take you are a geek too
Romance / Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by shuwaboy(m): 11:32pm On Apr 26, 2021
Don't go checking if you have instinct about anything regarding a girl you with then its most times accurate,the last one was with my instincts was just firing alarm and went snooping to my surprise àl she was way pass my suspicion.

Since then I don view females the same,I don't do relationships anymore nah make run deal every body haooy and move on.

Still regret going that.

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Romance / Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by shuwaboy(m): 9:52pm On Apr 13, 2021
Ugaboy:
I met a girl recently, though the state in which I met her wasn't pleasing at all.

I was passing by with friends, when we saw a girl sitting alone crying profusely.
I had to tell others to leave us.

that was the first time I saw Premium tears, as in it was pouring like spring from her eyes, she finally told me the challenges she is going through.

as a young man, I can't start making promises, I had to encouraged her to fix her pieces and not with tears.

fast forward, we starts meeting at same spot, just to always check on her and her progress.

I don't have any intention towards her, just want to see her always happy.

but I'm having issues that is making me unconformable around her.

Her body odor is so strong, that I'm always tempted to tell her.
though our friendship is still weak, cus it not up to a month we met.

I don't know if it's right time or right, if I open up to her?

How can I tell her without making her feel embarrassing?
and some self medication to help out.

Buy her deodorant she will understand

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Romance / Re: Help: My Fiancee Got Pregnant For Another Man by shuwaboy(m): 9:47pm On Apr 13, 2021
assamu1122:
Please post for me ASAP

My girlfriend of two years just informed me that she got pregnant with another man. That she has just done a test and it's positive. This is a woman I have gone to her family with my people and have collected and argued list. I have started buying marriage stuff on this list and now, this happened. I am confused.


What should I do please?

Why are you confused you should be greatful it happened now that u can still back down.

If u so confused abi u want father another man child then may be you second will also be from another, instead make u go do thanks giving u dey confuse

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Romance / Re: If Today Is The World Ex Day What Message Would You Drop For Your Ex? by shuwaboy(m): 8:04pm On Apr 13, 2021
cheesy
Draslo:

From secondary school till now, there are at least 8 (not counting those that thought we were dating cause of the causal sex)

I'll only leave a message for Naya; Even though I knew you were a prostitute, I fell in love with you. I tried to change you and put your life in order but I guess you can never change a hoe. You were my best mistake.
cheesy
Nairaland / General / Re: What Have You Lost Interest In? by shuwaboy(m): 5:54pm On Jan 13, 2021
passionberry:

I'm In a good relationship ,but I'm not feeling the vibes anymore due to fail relationhips in the past so just tiring ..my man is everything I want in a man. But relationships these days s overrated

Probably u need to rediscover yourself first.
Nairaland / General / Re: What Have You Lost Interest In? by shuwaboy(m): 5:17pm On Dec 22, 2020
passionberry:
same here lost interest in relationships,friendship.partying,going to church ,

Surround yourself with family and kids you feel much better in no time.
Nairaland / General / Re: What Have You Lost Interest In? by shuwaboy(m): 5:14pm On Dec 22, 2020
golddust6000:
you need a counsellor, you are going the way of depressed people

Thanks am much better was just a phase back doing what I love
Romance / Scared Of The Woman You Got Married by shuwaboy(m): 2:43pm On Dec 15, 2020
This is for the married men in the room. My question is were you scared at some point marrying the woman you got married and how did it turn out.
Romance / Re: Guys Only: Before You Marry Her Make Sure You Check Her Social Media Inboxes by shuwaboy(m): 8:06pm On Dec 04, 2020
Stay away from a girls fone if u still want to use ur head for something good.
Romance / Re: My G.f Vaginal Is Loose, Does It Mean She Is An Ex Olosho? by shuwaboy(m): 10:39am On Nov 12, 2020
From my experience is either she is ex runs girl or still even active.

A girl that won't kiss and still Bleep u is a big red flag indicating either having a lot of sexual partners or she is not yet into u.

Use ur sense.

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